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Graduation present for 17 year old niece (1 Viewer)

Niece is graduating in a month.  What do I know about 17 year old girls and their likes.  I'm willing to go about $250 on the present.  Suggestions welcomed.  She will be off to Steamboat Springs for college, if that helps.

 
Money is the typical graduation gift as kids will often pool that money to cover college costs, buy a nice computer for school, get a car, go on a trip, etc. 

 
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Niece is graduating in a month.  What do I know about 17 year old girls and their likes.  I'm willing to go about $250 on the present.  Suggestions welcomed.  She will be off to Steamboat Springs for college, if that helps.
In the same boat. College of choice was attained (UCLA - can I brag about Henry Ford's alma mater accepting her?) even though others came calling. Want to do something special. Loves Hamilton the play but it's been overdone. I'm working on a fifty buck-hundred budget here. 

 
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So cash is the answer? 
I like the college hoodie idea, but yeah I think cash is the slam dunk move. What would you rather get: $2000 cash or $2000 worth of assorted items from relatives and family friends that only kind of know you?

 
I like the college hoodie idea, but yeah I think cash is the slam dunk move. What would you rather get: $2000 cash or $2000 worth of assorted items from relatives and family friends that only kind of know you?
Word. It's just that my family is weird. They love to see that you've given thought for their gifts. Get huge hugs every time it's a gift; taken aback when it's cash. We're spoiled in our family due to typical FBG considerations. But cash should easily suffice in this particular instance. I think it will be much appreciated and I think you're right, and I'm not just saying that. 

And thanks, DW, for starting the thread.  

 
:lol:

up to $250 and right away you go down to $200

give your niece $250 you cheap sob
:lmao:

Just kidding. That was a funny comment, but 200 for graduation is pretty generous. 

"Oh, who held your hand and took you through the minefield that is suburbia. Let me reward you for the luxury of growing up first world."

 
Word. It's just that my family is weird. They love to see that you've given thought for their gifts. Get huge hugs every time it's a gift; taken aback when it's cash. We're spoiled in our family due to typical FBG considerations. But cash should easily suffice in this particular instance. I think it will be much appreciated and I think you're right, and I'm not just saying that. 

And thanks, DW, for starting the thread.  
Well unique family quirks certainly can alter any gift giving situation. One of mygradnmothers was a degenerate gambler so no holiday can be celebrated without exchanging scratchoff lotto tickets.

 
Well unique family quirks certainly can alter any gift giving situation. One of mygradnmothers was a degenerate gambler so no holiday can be celebrated without exchanging scratchoff lotto tickets.
Ugh. Same here. My father is not a degenerate gambler but has a love of the daily ponies, as it were. Lotto tickets all over the place.  

 
Word. It's just that my family is weird. They love to see that you've given thought for their gifts. Get huge hugs every time it's a gift; taken aback when it's cash. We're spoiled in our family due to typical FBG considerations. But cash should easily suffice in this particular instance. I think it will be much appreciated and I think you're right, and I'm not just saying that. 

And thanks, DW, for starting the thread.  
Gifts are for occasions.  Birthdays, religious holidays and what not.

Cash are for events. Graduations, marriages, etc...

Simple rule imho.  My family also is of the mind that giving cash for a birthday or Christmas is tacky/without thought.

 
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Ugh. Same here. My father is not a degenerate gambler but has a love of the daily ponies, as it were. Lotto tickets all over the place.  
Degenerate might be a bit harsh, but she played the lotto religiously, kept journals with all the numbers that hit, etc. She was a saint though. Every penny she ever won went to her grand kids. 

 
Gifts are for occasions.  Birthdays, religious holidays and what not.

Cash are for events. Graduations, marriages, etc...

Simple rule imho.  My family also is of the mind that giving cash for a birthday or Christmas is tacky/without thought.
That's a great freakin' breakdown. Thanks.  

eta* Though it varies. I have a step niece taking a trip to Europe in a few weeks, her birthday was May and she leaves in June and we all just gave straight cash, so it depends, I think. She was mucho appreciative.  

 
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That's a great freakin' breakdown. Thanks.  

eta* Though it varies. I have a step niece taking a trip to Europe in a few weeks, her birthday was May and she leaves in June and we all just gave straight cash, so it depends, I think. She was mucho appreciative.  
Well, of course there are exceptions.  This past Christmas I asked my sister what to get my niece and nephews and she said, oh, we're going to Disney next year, gift cards would be great.  I gave them cash, because a)EFF gift cards and b)asking for gift cards is tacky as hell and c)I knew the little kids would get a kick out of getting cash.  Of course my sister got pissed because who gives a 6 year old 100 bucks in 5's and 10's.  I do.  Mission accomplished.

 
Well, of course there are exceptions.  This past Christmas I asked my sister what to get my niece and nephews and she said, oh, we're going to Disney next year, gift cards would be great.  I gave them cash, because a)EFF gift cards and b)asking for gift cards is tacky as hell and c)I knew the little kids would get a kick out of getting cash.  Of course my sister got pissed because who gives a 6 year old 100 bucks in 5's and 10's.  I do.  Mission accomplished.
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Nephew/nice, I'm giving $100 cash.  You can mail the difference to me.   I always just give cash.  People like cash.   

 
If you prefer a non cash gift--I can tell you that we are selling 14-karat gold bar necklaces similar to the one in this link like crazy.  They are engraveable, can be worn at two different lengths, and they are made in every color of gold (rose, white or yellow).  We must have sold hundreds of them and we have not had a single one get exchanged or returned at our shop--which is an indication that they are very well received gifts.   These necklaces basically do very well for women between the ages of 15-35+.   

https://www.bluenile.com/name-necklace-bar-personlized-14k-gold_49919?gclid=Cj0KCQjwibDXBRCyARIsAFHp4fpyiNiwBnLXcnTP7oWuFDBIwPL960g9kEOP9vmXXyMmtkyPmx9pSNMaAm1uEALw_wcB&click_id=176550403

 
how about a nice pen, and an amazon gift card?  something to take with her into her professional life and a way to choose some items she likes that she might not otherwise purchase.

 
Looking back, one of the best gifts I got for HS graduation was a really nice rolling travel bag. I didn't have one and wouldn't have even thought about getting one, but I still use that thing to this day. 

 
Get her a copy of a book that made a lasting impression on you, when you were that age. Write a note in the cover, explaining what the book meant to you and wish her luck and happiness in future. Tuck the cash inside the book. 

 

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