One other thing I didn't mention. Last week he had gould in his lineup most of the week. Gould had a bye last week. Kid signs in at around 8pm Sunday to check his score I guess, realizes gould is in his lineup, and he drops him for novak who plays Monday night. So again, he set a legal lineup but is flirting with disaster. This week, he currently hasn't logged on and still has vick and bush in his lineup. So my main question, as a commish is... do I say something before Sunday or do I wait until he actually sets an illegal lineup to mention something
I would personally reach out to him now. Just check in, and you can even mention that you're only reaching out because you noticed how close he came to leaving Gould in last week, and just want to make sure he's all good. I used to be a really active fantasy guy, and now that I have son and other more important responsibilities, I'm much less active, I frequently set my lineups at the last minute, I sometimes don't notice that my starters are on bye until 12:30 on Sunday, etc. I still love playing, still love being part of the league and still do my best to field the most competitive team possible, but it's just not as high a priority for me as it used to be (and I'll proactively mention it's a $200 entry fee, so the peanut gallery can spare me the comments). I wouldn't be offended if my commissioner noticed this pattern and checked in with me. The thing is, though, the commissioner hasn't had to say anything to me because he knows me well, probably understands my shifting priorities, and knows I would never just abandon my team or anything like that, so he knows nothing needs to be said. If it got to the point where my inattention was really impacting the league, I'd expect and welcome it being brought to my attention.So it really comes down to your read on the situation, both your knowledge of this owner personally and the general makeup of your league, etc. We don't have that kind of insight here, only you do. Is this the kind of friend you talk to during the week anyway, or would it be weird for you to call him out of the blue? Those kinds of things might impact your decision. If it was me, I'd bring it up now, very casually, and nip it in the bud before it actually becomes a problem.