bentley
Footballguy
Have a budget. Stick to it. Pretty damn simple.How the hell do you keep their spending in check? I make less than the typical FBG, so I deposit $750/month into her checking account so she has her "own" money. She pays no bills, yet she continually has credit card bills over $1,000 and continues to say she doesn't spend any money and there's no where to cut back. She just bought our son like $500 in bedding from Pottery Barn, she spends like $165 to get her hair done, buys all her jeans from Nordstrom, etc...
How do I control this stuff without being a total d!ck, and with her hardly noticing my effort to curb the spending?
If that doesn't work, there are probably other issues that need to be dealt with that are the root cause of the spending.