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How often do you sleep with your wife? (1 Viewer)

From question 1, which line would you define as a healthy sex life?

  • 1

    Votes: 8 3.1%

  • 2

    Votes: 3 1.2%

  • 3

    Votes: 17 6.6%

  • 4

    Votes: 65 25.4%

  • 5

    Votes: 41 16.0%

  • 6

    Votes: 48 18.8%

  • 7

    Votes: 42 16.4%

  • 8

    Votes: 20 7.8%

  • 9

    Votes: 12 4.7%
  • Total voters
    256
I sleep with her every night of the year unless one of us are not home due to business or travel.  Now if you are asking about sex...I can't remember what that is.  So anything above 0 would be healthy I suppose.

 
Been married a little over 25 years and we still average 3 to 4 times a month  and I consider that a healthy Sex life.. :wub:

 
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widower. in our 12 yrs, had sex w my wife far more often than i slept w her. both over six feet tall, both satanic-level thrashers. as childless nurse and gambler/dealer our hours were so weird that we never had a routine and usually found ways to keep different habits. HATE sharing a bed to this day and i swear the major reason for college is to teach people how to sleep two to a single and neither of us attended, so........

fortunately, my Mary was a stone hoochie and used to whack off more'n me so i never had to poke to poke. combine that and my bachelor ways before & after and i can honestly say that i never had "our" nights nor heard causeless "no"s.

 
Yankee23Fan said:
3 or 4 times a week.  I don't consider less than that healthy, though it is far too common.
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I'm very much in the boat of you need sex (physical bond) for a healthy marriage but pushing a number that works for you on others seems a little crazy.  I voted 100-140 but think anybody having sex once a week seems fine 

 
AAABatteries said:
I'm very much in the boat of you need sex (physical bond) for a healthy marriage but pushing a number that works for you on others seems a little crazy.  I voted 100-140 but think anybody having sex once a week seems fine 
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But the poll asked the question.  Ultimately do whatever makes you happy of course.  I was really just answering what was asked.

 
Assuming you mean sex and not sleep, we had sex every single day (excluding a couple days here and there due to travel) for an 18 month stretch. That came to an end last June. After "the streak" ended, our frequency dropped to an unacceptably low level. We are on day 11 of a new daily streak.

 
AAABatteries said:
I'm very much in the boat of you need sex (physical bond) for a healthy marriage but pushing a number that works for you on others seems a little crazy.  
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:goodposting:    Whatever works for you and the wife is all that matters.  Anyone passing judgement on it is an ####### (not saying YF was passing judgement, but I've seen it enough here to know it's coming).

It took a long time for me to get the bond part across to my wife.  It's incredible how distant you can feel if the sex isn't frequent enough.  It took a long time to find my actual satisfaction "levels", but once I did it was pretty eye opening.  1-2x week is perfect for us.

 
2-4 times per week after 4 kids and 28 years together. 

I would say one of the major keys to a long marriage is being highly sexually attracted to each other and having similar sex drives

 
She called and asked if she could skip the gym tonight and be with me...that's married code for I'm coming home to rape you. 

On a side note our marriage got immensely better with the use of 2 bedrooms. We have ours of course but the guest room is used monthly for sure, I just leave her alone unless I'm summoned. 

Anyone saying they have sex daily with the Mrs is a liar. I think less than once a week is dangerous long term. 

 
I tried to spice up our sex life lately by sending dirty texts.  She hasn't really caught on though.  It usually goes like this:

Me:. Wanna ####?

Her: Yeah maybe after I do the dishes and make the kids' lunches.

 
ScottNorwood said:
I tried to spice up our sex life lately by sending dirty texts.  She hasn't really caught on though.  It usually goes like this:

Me:. Wanna ####?

Her: Yeah maybe after I do the dishes and make the kids' lunches.
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I think if you went and did the dishes and made the lunches with her you would have a chance. 

 
I told my wife I want to have sex 365 days this year, I think that could be a world record. I think it's impossible.

BTW, we got this vape pen - even if you aren't a pot smoker, I'd recommend at least trying one of these with your wife... It creates magic.

 
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fantasycurse42 said:
I told my wife I want to have sex 365 days this year, I think that could be a world record. I think it's impossible.

BTW, we got this vape pen - even if you aren't a pot smoker, I'd recommend at least trying one of these with your wife... It creates magic.
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We did it for 18 months straight with a total of about six days missed due to travel. It is possible. A bit of a chore at times, but possible.

 
Every other week when I was married..One of the main reasons I am not still married.  No kids, she didn't work, etc.  Obviously a major problem.  I feel bad for you poor saps that still put up with it.  It is absolutely essential to a healthy marriage.

 
Doesn't matter how much someone else is getting... If you're happy with what you have then that's all that matters...

 
What I know for a fact in my life is when we're doing it often and I'm taking care of business, we're both typically happier.

YMMV

 
I'd say we average once/week during normal times.  But then we try to have a few trips a year where we are like newlyweds.  So we may end up averaging close to 100/year.  

I just know we both like it regularly and we're both happy.  

 
sbonomo said:
Every other week when I was married..One of the main reasons I am not still married.  No kids, she didn't work, etc.  Obviously a major problem.  I feel bad for you poor saps that still put up with it.  It is absolutely essential to a healthy marriage.
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How long ago did you get divorced?  Weren't you one of the guys calling me a caveman a few years back?  

 
I guess about 1.5x per week.  I push for twice a week but can't always make it happen.  Of course, I want it more than that even and she'd probably be happy with 3-4 times per week.  We always have a really good time when we get to it, but there are a lot of hurdles in our life right now draining our time, energy and passion.  We have two kids in elementary school, are both working full time and both have what are essentially part time jobs on top of that (her tutoring, me reffing).  Add in a dash of financial stress and my mother-in-law living in the basement and I'm pretty happy with our weekend sessions.

We spent a weekend in a hotel together last Fall and got it on 4 times in about 36 hours.  Was probably the most concentrated time period of activity we'd had in the last 12 years.

 
Jayrod said:
I guess about 1.5x per week.  I push for twice a week but can't always make it happen.  Of course, I want it more than that even and she'd probably be happy with 3-4 times per week.  We always have a really good time when we get to it, but there are a lot of hurdles in our life right now draining our time, energy and passion.  We have two kids in elementary school, are both working full time and both have what are essentially part time jobs on top of that (her tutoring, me reffing).  Add in a dash of financial stress and my mother-in-law living in the basement and I'm pretty happy with our weekend sessions.

We spent a weekend in a hotel together last Fall and got it on 4 times in about 36 hours.  Was probably the most concentrated time period of activity we'd had in the last 12 years.
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Hang in there. Look forward to your weekends and just shrug off the lack the rest of the week. It will get better. 

 
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