Joe Summer
Footballguy
The nerve!
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sbonomo
Footballguy
He will never learn
....I guess i really didn't have that much game when i was younger either....good luck.
No. 16
Footballguy
What's there the bang your head about? I really wish I didn't have to call a code and then have another pt pull out their IV lines. I guess I should have ignored them and sought out the cute nurse.Really didn't want to go the Facebook route, because you all know my text game is awesome.He will never learn
Dr. Awesome
Footballguy
Send her a fb message tonight. Apologize for not asking her today but things came up. Keep it simple and casual.
urbanhack
Fight The Power!
um, yes it would. in fact it'd be funner. just don't show that chewy guySomethings better left to the imagination. Wouldn't be as fun is she were revealed.
boots11234
Footballguy
Sooner the better. Out of site out a mind. Lots of Asians in SF, she'll probably forget what you look like if you don't contact ASAP.
Oh she definitly "physically cheated" on you. She was banged very hard and quite frequently by the Personal Trainer. Also about her cousin/sister that you stay in contact with, they knew and didn't tell you. They aren't your friends they aren't your family, they are hers stop talking to them.
No. 16
Footballguy
No matter. She's done to me.
The Future Champs
Footballguy
not the strongest step forward, but it's a start
Dr. Awesome
Footballguy
Good. Now you need to fill your pipeline - don't let her be your only option right now. It will lead to you coming across as desperate.
boots11234
Footballguy
Fail
IvanKaramazov
Footballguy
Keep in mind that there are a lot of Old Married Guys in the audience who need it explained to them why this is a fail. It's hard for us to follow along otherwise.
Maude
Footballguy
It's a fail because he is putting it on her to make arrangements. It's a chicken #### move. He's already showing that he is insecure and lacks confidence.
johnnycakes
Footballguy
So, it's on her to call him. It'll be on her to do the driving. Who's paying for drinks?
Raiderfan32904
Footballguy
16, you need to man up.
Maude
Footballguy
This is telling her that #1 - you are a big ##### (female anatomy), #2 - you cannot effectively manage your work, and #3 - you make lame excuses for not being able to talk to her.
This again is telling her that you are indecisive and a big ##### because you are unable to call her, you cannot just come out and ask her if she would like to go out sometime, and "hang out" lacks any creativity, initiative, or excitement.You really need to work on your skills son. You are really not giving women a whole lot to look forward to if this is all you got. You need to ask her if she would like to go out, have a specific date and time, and have a specific plan. If she says "yes", great! If she says "no", then say "thanks" and move on.
bushdocda
Footballguy
Just send a link to this thread and she'll prep to deep throat stat.
Dr. Awesome
Footballguy
He should have come across stronger but it's hardly a fail. If she likes him she'll respond in some manner. Then he can easily recover. Remember #16, line up more women. From online, the bars, etc. Wherever it is, it will boost your ego if nothing else - and that is going to start coming across in your texts. You're still really rusty and hurting from the ex (there's nothing wrong with that - it's perfectly normal) but we've got to get you on your training wheels. Even having a fat chick hit on you is a nice little ego boost, even if you'd never sleep with her. I know you were working on an online profile so I hope that's up and running. It's a faster way to reel 'em in that just trolling the bars.More women in the queue.
No. 16
Footballguy
Doh!I admit I wrote it in a hurry as I was going to friends house to drink. Definitely see how it is a fail now. Even the other terrible texts I wrote had a timeframe and and event. Hopefully, my in person charisma will pull it through.As for being busy at work... It's the nature of the beast. #### happens in a hospital. She's a student nurse so she should understand.
Rick James
Footballguy
I agree with you here. My fiancee is a nurse; she goes some days without eating lunch. your day can easily get away from you in a hospital
jomar
Footballguy
at least you're getting that under control.....let me guess, you didn't drive home though
I'm no dating guru, but anyone who says he "failed" because of that message is way over analyzing the situation. If she likes him, she'll contact him. I don't see anything in that message that would make a girl think "wow, I really thought No. 16 was interesting but this message just isn't straight forward enough."
Uncle Klompit
Footballguy
No. 16
Footballguy
No hard liquor, despite their pressure. Just baby sat a couple of beers and hung out. My brother drove home.
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valhallan
Footballguy
Today's attractive woman will absolutely think that way. The text message game is very difficult. In fact, it should be avoided altogether but many women won't converse any other way.
DA RAIDERS
Footballguy
If she's interested in our hero, she'll call him. But it was weak.
You still need a slump buster my friend.
You still need a slump buster my friend.
No. 16
Footballguy
Also I cannot call her because I don't have her number. I had to stalk her and send her a message through Facebook. It is still a weak message, but just pointing out some inconsistencies in your thought process.
No. 16
Footballguy
Are you a personal trainer?
Keerock
Footballguy
Well played!
DA RAIDERS
Footballguy
Seriously. Must a been a wildebeest.So when are we getting?????
bonesman
Footballguy
I think it's a fail so far. Dude messed up by doing the asking out in the initial contact... now there's pressure on her and he might come off as a little creepy. You throw that first contact out there just saying Hi to make the connection and then when she excitedly responds THEN you tell her you want to meet up this weekend.
sbonomo
Footballguy
I just want you to succeed with this chick....Get those digits!What's there the bang your head about? I really wish I didn't have to call a code and then have another pt pull out their IV lines. I guess I should have ignored them and sought out the cute nurse.Really didn't want to go the Facebook route, because you all know my text game is awesome.He will never learn
sbonomo
Footballguy
That's the spirit. Way to dust yourself off and start looking forward
Evilgrin 72
Distributor of Pain
I think there's really only one way to "win" this whole situation.
Bang the personal trainer.
Bang the personal trainer.
Rick James
Footballguy
banging ex-GF's sister down?
No. 16
Footballguy
Married with children. Let's just say she was the youngest of 3 girls and her parents improved each time they popped one out.
Keerock
Footballguy
I'm fine with a pic of the youngest sister in the mean time...
No. 16
Footballguy
The youngest and hottest.She 5'2" and 110 pounds (was 100 when I met her, I wasn't the only one who stopped working out). Also, to blur out her face would be losing her best asset along with her flawless skin. Actually, when Slumdog Millionaire came out lots of people commented how she looked like Freida Pinto. I think that's a more apt comparison face wise than to Eva Longoria. Not really in the mood to look through old pictures of her too. Maybe sometime in the future.
boots11234
Footballguy
Pics or GTFO of here!!
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No. 16
Footballguy
So came up with a slightly different situation last night. Will need your guidance before I mess it up.
First quick little recap of last night.
Went out to a lounge for a friend's birthday in the City. Anyways, randomly saw a lady friend from HS there who is studying to be a lawyer (her last semester actually). She was there with two other hot Asian lawyers to be. One was especially hot, a true spinner, lucky to be 5'0" as she was wearing heels and still way shorter than me. She introduced us and I'm on the little spinner the instant I get her name. She's going nuts on the dance floor, but I'm able to hang. We're having fun dancing. After about 30 minutes, I'm able to pull her away after a bit and we're sitting there talking. She's a pretty cool girl, conversation is easy. She's sitting close to me, I have my hand on the small of her back as we talk... then BAM she tells me she has a boyfriend. Oh well, no biggie. I'm wrapping up the conversation since there's no hope there. I still ask to exchange numbers and she says she can't do that. I tell her well I'm friends with _____ on Facebook so you can always find me. Then I move on.
The next target is where I need some help with. My buddy asked me to wingman for him for a group of 3 girls. Lucky for me the one he liked wasn't the one I liked. So I did what a good wingman does and occupied the 2 girls. Eventually once my buddy settled down with his chick, I shifted focus on mine. She's a Filipina chick. Fashion design student, who is a dancer (I couldn't keep up with her dance moves), and can actually sing (had her sing for me). She's more cute than beautiful or hot, but I'm attracted to her personality. I really dig the creative/artsy types. Anyways we dance, I offer her a drink but she gave it up for Lent. We continue to dance/talk for a bit (2 beers on my timeline). Eventually, I tell her we should exchange numbers so we can hang out again. She agrees and gives me her number. In what is possibly a "FAIL" move I asked her what next week looked like for her and she said she was "busy." It might be legitimate, since she told me she just got out of a long relationship and just now has been getting back into dancing and choir to keep herself busy. It might be more games. We did continue dancing and talking for the rest of the night until the lounge closed.
So what's the play here?
First quick little recap of last night.
Went out to a lounge for a friend's birthday in the City. Anyways, randomly saw a lady friend from HS there who is studying to be a lawyer (her last semester actually). She was there with two other hot Asian lawyers to be. One was especially hot, a true spinner, lucky to be 5'0" as she was wearing heels and still way shorter than me. She introduced us and I'm on the little spinner the instant I get her name. She's going nuts on the dance floor, but I'm able to hang. We're having fun dancing. After about 30 minutes, I'm able to pull her away after a bit and we're sitting there talking. She's a pretty cool girl, conversation is easy. She's sitting close to me, I have my hand on the small of her back as we talk... then BAM she tells me she has a boyfriend. Oh well, no biggie. I'm wrapping up the conversation since there's no hope there. I still ask to exchange numbers and she says she can't do that. I tell her well I'm friends with _____ on Facebook so you can always find me. Then I move on.
The next target is where I need some help with. My buddy asked me to wingman for him for a group of 3 girls. Lucky for me the one he liked wasn't the one I liked. So I did what a good wingman does and occupied the 2 girls. Eventually once my buddy settled down with his chick, I shifted focus on mine. She's a Filipina chick. Fashion design student, who is a dancer (I couldn't keep up with her dance moves), and can actually sing (had her sing for me). She's more cute than beautiful or hot, but I'm attracted to her personality. I really dig the creative/artsy types. Anyways we dance, I offer her a drink but she gave it up for Lent. We continue to dance/talk for a bit (2 beers on my timeline). Eventually, I tell her we should exchange numbers so we can hang out again. She agrees and gives me her number. In what is possibly a "FAIL" move I asked her what next week looked like for her and she said she was "busy." It might be legitimate, since she told me she just got out of a long relationship and just now has been getting back into dancing and choir to keep herself busy. It might be more games. We did continue dancing and talking for the rest of the night until the lounge closed.
So what's the play here?
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bushdocda
Footballguy
Find sluttier dancing girls?
I never got far with the dance club stuff, too loud and too many better dancing meatheads. And I'd get super hammered. Better scene for me was always house party type stuff or laying pre bar drinking groundwork. And then I'd get super hammered and botch it. But not always.
I never got far with the dance club stuff, too loud and too many better dancing meatheads. And I'd get super hammered. Better scene for me was always house party type stuff or laying pre bar drinking groundwork. And then I'd get super hammered and botch it. But not always.
DA RAIDERS
Footballguy
Stop asking girls to "hang out".
And you need to stop ignoring the FFA and man up and take a big girl home THE NIGHT YOU MEET HER. You've got to break this slump. Otherwise, you're the pitiful guy asking girls to hangout.
And you need to stop ignoring the FFA and man up and take a big girl home THE NIGHT YOU MEET HER. You've got to break this slump. Otherwise, you're the pitiful guy asking girls to hangout.
The Z Machine
Footballguy
Agreed. Unfortunately for 16, small asian dudes aren't what get most ladies soaking. No. 16 is gonna have to bring some other skills to the table than being a giant meathead with no rhythm.
