Need a little help from the FFA here. Went out last Saturday and got a Hawaiian spinner's phone number. Our interaction was short as my friends and I were bar hopping and I was pretty drunk.
Here's a summary of our interaction:
We danced. I bought her a drink. Talked and asked for her number at the bar . She gave it to me (number is verified as we both had our cell phones out). We danced again, bought another round of drinks. Danced a little bit more and I left without saying a word after my friends found me. While we were dancing some big black dude kept trying to butt in (Keep in mind I'm 5'6" and weigh about 140 pounds) but I held firm to my crotch positioned on her ###. She danced with me, but it seemed like she knew him though. I know for a fact it's not her boyfriend, since I asked her cousin (who told me he just got out of jail BTW), but who knows. I did see her dance with him as I was leaving.
I finally text her Monday night and this is our conversation:
Here is my initial text: "Hi. This is No. 16 from Loft. Had fun with you Saturday. We should kick it again, but this time without me making some big black dude jealous."
Her about 20 minutes later: "Lol hey! Ya just let me know!"
Me about half an hour later: "I work on call at the hospital so my only guaranteed day off is this Friday. you free?"
Her 2 hours later @ 23:52 Monday: "What time n what u thinkin of?"
My reply the next morning during break @ 0947 am: "Sorry. I sleep early when I have work. So you are free anytime Friday? Anything you want to do since u just arrived here? [she just moved to the Bay Area from Hawaii about 2 weeks or 2 months ago, not sure which.]
Her reply about 30 minutes after: "I want to sky dive!!!!"
After that I get busy at lunch don't feel like texting. And there's no way in hell I'm taking her skydiving. There is an indoor skydiving spot near me. I went to look but there's no times available for Friday. After I work I then have Happy hour with some friends so basically I didn't respond to her after that last text message for a while. I decide that for Friday night, I'd rather take her to dinner and the Warriors game then maybe a bar afterwards if everything is going well.
So last night I called her at about 930 PM. She didn't answer so I left a voice mail stating that I just wanted to talk to her about getting together Friday night.
It's now 230 pm and still no call back or text. So what's the shark move? Do I wait her out? Do I send her a text? Do I call again?
Need your help FFA.
I wouldn't sweat it, if it doesn't work out for this weekend, there's always next weekend. Just hit a different club Fri with your friends if you she doesn't get back to you. Might work out great if you can work the indoor skydiving in next week anyway.Also I wouldn't do the full red carpet thing for the 1st date. Warrior game OR dinner followed by drinks, not both, at most.
Remember, the goal right now is to make them know you're interested, but they're not the only thing you've got going. Keep it loose, flexible and light.