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'beavers said:No 16, As a woman, I can tell you 100% that she's doing this to keep you hopeful for that 1% chance that she would end up wanting you back. Speaking from experience, my partner and I broke up early last year. I was the dumper but kept her confused - I didn't do it to be evil, but did it because it was hard for me to let go, too. I kept thinking about the house, the newborn baby, and the 8 years that we were together. And, I just missed my friend. Before the end of last year, she got into another serious relationship and that made it easier on both of us and haven't communicated much (if at all) since. Well, except for that one time we "overcommunicated" in JanuaryEither way, she was a crappy, horrible partner and I too, sent those sappy messages that sounded very similar to your ex. I missed the friendship. I was a lonely new mom. Do yourself a favor ... gain control of this situation. Change your cell phone number now. Get a new email address. By doing this, you'll eliminate any chance of contact during those weak moments.
nysportsfan
Footballguy
So what you're saying is that I'm doing much better than you did in a similar situation? Notebook says you were pretty harsh on me.'beavers said:No 16, As a woman, I can tell you 100% that she's doing this to keep you hopeful for that 1% chance that she would end up wanting you back. Speaking from experience, my partner and I broke up early last year. I was the dumper but kept her confused - I didn't do it to be evil, but did it because it was hard for me to let go, too. I kept thinking about the house, the newborn baby, and the 8 years that we were together. And, I just missed my friend. Before the end of last year, she got into another serious relationship and that made it easier on both of us and haven't communicated much (if at all) since. Well, except for that one time we "overcommunicated" in January
IvanKaramazov
Footballguy
Yes.
Rick James
Footballguy
I almost want his ex to text back, just so 16 can throw the personal trainer stuff in her face like he should've the first time.
an umprompted "f you for cheating on me" text would probably be a bad idea, but I bet it would feel good
an umprompted "f you for cheating on me" text would probably be a bad idea, but I bet it would feel good
Samuel L Bronkowitz
Footballguy
That text exchange was essentially her taking your johnson and placing them in a glass case - Break in Case of Emergency.
DA RAIDERS
Footballguy
It's called self preservation. You're allowing her to have you as a fall back safety net. Why wouldn't she string you along, you're a good dude. SAFE.
You haven't done anything wrong, but it's time for you to disconnect from this woman. COMPLETELY. No more stupid ####, like the dog. The ####### animal hasn't even really lived with you for any length of time.
As TG and I have said, you need to picture her sucking the PT off and guzzling up his man juice, and then kissing you with that mouth.
You still need a nice little slump buster, that will treat you right. That's an important part of the slump buster, she will love on you, she will boost your self esteem, she will chase you, etc.
You haven't done anything wrong, but it's time for you to disconnect from this woman. COMPLETELY. No more stupid ####, like the dog. The ####### animal hasn't even really lived with you for any length of time.
As TG and I have said, you need to picture her sucking the PT off and guzzling up his man juice, and then kissing you with that mouth.
You still need a nice little slump buster, that will treat you right. That's an important part of the slump buster, she will love on you, she will boost your self esteem, she will chase you, etc.
sbonomo
Footballguy
nysportsfan
Footballguy
I know, I'm actually thankful.'beavers said:I was giving you advice based on my experiences.So what you're saying is that I'm doing much better than you did in a similar situation? Notebook says you were pretty harsh on me.'beavers said:No 16, As a woman, I can tell you 100% that she's doing this to keep you hopeful for that 1% chance that she would end up wanting you back. Speaking from experience, my partner and I broke up early last year. I was the dumper but kept her confused - I didn't do it to be evil, but did it because it was hard for me to let go, too. I kept thinking about the house, the newborn baby, and the 8 years that we were together. And, I just missed my friend. Before the end of last year, she got into another serious relationship and that made it easier on both of us and haven't communicated much (if at all) since. Well, except for that one time we "overcommunicated" in January
Jutz
Footballguy
So now instead of Beavers... You are just... Beaver.'beavers said:No 16, As a woman, I can tell you 100% that she's doing this to keep you hopeful for that 1% chance that she would end up wanting you back. Speaking from experience, my partner and I broke up early last year. I was the dumper but kept her confused - I didn't do it to be evil, but did it because it was hard for me to let go, too. I kept thinking about the house, the newborn baby, and the 8 years that we were together. And, I just missed my friend. Before the end of last year, she got into another serious relationship and that made it easier on both of us and haven't communicated much (if at all) since. Well, except for that one time we "overcommunicated" in January
ShaqAttaq
Morally Ambiguous
liability insurance is the suck though
cstu
Footballguy
Ex: "I'm sorry for being disrespectful to your family. Just upset that you didn't tell me about my dog when it happened and you would have never told me that she had stillborns. That's very rude of you.
I'm sorry for what has happened between us. I really hope you can be happy with your life and everything that goes on with it. I really do feel bad with your situation and I hope things get better for you. I don't hate you and I hope you don't hate me. I just hope we can move on with our lives and if we happen to cross paths in the future we will be civil
with each other. Take care No.16"
Then I reply:
Me: "The only way I want to cross paths with you again if you get run over by a bus and are brought to the hospital I'm working."
I'm sorry for what has happened between us. I really hope you can be happy with your life and everything that goes on with it. I really do feel bad with your situation and I hope things get better for you. I don't hate you and I hope you don't hate me. I just hope we can move on with our lives and if we happen to cross paths in the future we will be civil
with each other. Take care No.16"
Then I reply:
Me: "The only way I want to cross paths with you again if you get run over by a bus and are brought to the hospital I'm working."
Rick James
Footballguy
I hate how she says "I really do feel bad with your situation", like she didn't cheat on him.
johnnycakes
Footballguy
So, is "patheticness" a real word?
Gr00vus
Footballguy
This is still going on?
Hey No.16. Your ex just presented you with a sterling opportunity to end things on your terms. Your next and final response (whether text, phone, in person): "I'm done with you." That's the last thing you say to her. Ever. Delete her number from wherever you have it stored. Do not talk to her ever again. Do this, and I declare you winner of your breakup. Hooray!
Between this and being a Warrior fan, I think you enjoy abusive relationships where people serve you poop and you call it ice cream. Maybe therapy is in order, or kung fu lessons or something.
Anyway, she sucks, literally, figuratively, etc. It's like the Warriors hanging on to Biedrens even when given a chance to amnesty him. Sure, when you started out together, she had some hard to find qualities, things in seemingly short supply. And yeah there were some good times too. But ultimately there was just too much downside to overcome, too many disappointments, lack of effort, lack of commitment, talent going to waste or used inappropriately. Now you think you can keep her at the end of the bench. She'll smile up at you from time to time, and you'll be tempted to put her back in the game. And then you'll be reminded of the sucktitude, and you'll pay for falling prey to her charms yet again. You'll lament the additional time, money and energy you spent giving her second and third chances instead of spending those resources acquiring and developing new and possibly better talent. Don't be like the Warriors No.16, cut ties with your Biedrens once and for all and never look back.
Hey No.16. Your ex just presented you with a sterling opportunity to end things on your terms. Your next and final response (whether text, phone, in person): "I'm done with you." That's the last thing you say to her. Ever. Delete her number from wherever you have it stored. Do not talk to her ever again. Do this, and I declare you winner of your breakup. Hooray!
Between this and being a Warrior fan, I think you enjoy abusive relationships where people serve you poop and you call it ice cream. Maybe therapy is in order, or kung fu lessons or something.
Anyway, she sucks, literally, figuratively, etc. It's like the Warriors hanging on to Biedrens even when given a chance to amnesty him. Sure, when you started out together, she had some hard to find qualities, things in seemingly short supply. And yeah there were some good times too. But ultimately there was just too much downside to overcome, too many disappointments, lack of effort, lack of commitment, talent going to waste or used inappropriately. Now you think you can keep her at the end of the bench. She'll smile up at you from time to time, and you'll be tempted to put her back in the game. And then you'll be reminded of the sucktitude, and you'll pay for falling prey to her charms yet again. You'll lament the additional time, money and energy you spent giving her second and third chances instead of spending those resources acquiring and developing new and possibly better talent. Don't be like the Warriors No.16, cut ties with your Biedrens once and for all and never look back.
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Evilgrin 72
Distributor of Pain
It's not a bad idea. I keep three in the fridge, just in case.
James Daulton
Footballguy
The hospital picks that up if your employed by them (my assumption).
No. 16
Footballguy
I like this!
No. 16
Footballguy
Not sure. Working 3-1130 tonight and then 700-330 tomorrow and Sunday (have to be up by 545 and it's about a 30 minute drive)..There's a house party tonight that I'm missing out on. No plans tomorrow so we'll see.
5Rings
Lurker
16, thanks for the entertainment, and listen to these guys. This is first FFA thread my wife has read with me and she agrees with the collective wisdom here.
During my single days in SF, I used to do the Ocean beach sunset with a fire,sleeping bag, and bottle of wine thing alot.
Hike up above the Cliff House, or down to China beach too. All are Golden Gate Bridge views, cheap, and easy in outs. Explore Golden Gate Park. Listen to the guy who said pier 23 on weekends. 
During my single days in SF, I used to do the Ocean beach sunset with a fire,sleeping bag, and bottle of wine thing alot.
Hike up above the Cliff House, or down to China beach too. All are Golden Gate Bridge views, cheap, and easy in outs. Explore Golden Gate Park. Listen to the guy who said pier 23 on weekends.
No. 16
Footballguy
Your wife has read eveything? Awesome. Thanks for the SF tips! Living in the East Bay, I don't know too much about the City aside from tourist traps we bring visitors too. The ex and I started to explore the City more but that centered around trying as many restaurants as possible. Didn't do much outdoor stuff.16, thanks for the entertainment, and listen to these guys. This is first FFA thread my wife has read with me and she agrees with the collective wisdom here.During my single days in SF, I used to do the Ocean beach sunset with a fire,sleeping bag, and bottle of wine thing alot.
Maude
Footballguy
Isn't this one of the reasons why she dumped you?Your wife has read eveything? Awesome. Thanks for the SF tips! Living in the East Bay, I don't know too much about the City aside from tourist traps we bring visitors too. The ex and I started to explore the City more but that centered around trying as many restaurants as possible. Didn't do much outdoor stuff.16, thanks for the entertainment, and listen to these guys. This is first FFA thread my wife has read with me and she agrees with the collective wisdom here.
During my single days in SF, I used to do the Ocean beach sunset with a fire,sleeping bag, and bottle of wine thing alot.
No. 16
Footballguy
Sure, why not?I've long realized her "reasons" were a bunch of BS trying to put all the blame on me. I'll take my share of the blame if she was unhappy, but at the end of the day she's a lying cheating whore.Isn't this one of the reasons why she dumped you?Your wife has read eveything? Awesome. Thanks for the SF tips! Living in the East Bay, I don't know too much about the City aside from tourist traps we bring visitors too. The ex and I started to explore the City more but that centered around trying as many restaurants as possible. Didn't do much outdoor stuff.16, thanks for the entertainment, and listen to these guys. This is first FFA thread my wife has read with me and she agrees with the collective wisdom here.
During my single days in SF, I used to do the Ocean beach sunset with a fire,sleeping bag, and bottle of wine thing alot.
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No. 16
Footballguy
Met my own PT (physical therapist) last night at a country bar last night. Dirty blonde (hair color) girl from Kansas.. Never dated a mid-western girl before. Any tips? I know she's a big KU fan, she wanted to meet and watch the game today but I'm stuck at work until 330. I don't remember if we drunkenly agreed to go out for dinner tonight. Sent her a text to see if she remembers.
I actually wouldn't mind if he forgot. Super tired, working on 3 hours of sleep, and would rather do something nice and chill like play poker with the guys. We'll see.
I actually wouldn't mind if he forgot. Super tired, working on 3 hours of sleep, and would rather do something nice and chill like play poker with the guys. We'll see.
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gianmarco
Footballguy
jomar
Footballguy
Must have been some night
boots11234
Footballguy
IvanKaramazov
Footballguy
I could see that 16 was taking his breakup pretty hard, but that's no reason to switch teams altogether.Well, well, well.Must have been some night
johnnycakes
Footballguy
Is that personal trainer riding' dirty on 16 now? 
ditka...mike ditka
Footballguy
Please tell me you didn't text and ask if you guys made plans while you were drunk because you forgot...
Otis
Footballguy
anybody else get a stiffy after reading that?no one?The next time you think about wanting to share some news with her, because she was your best friend and rainbows and skittles, think about how sweaty that personal trainers balls were when he was bending her over like a dog and trying to destroy her uterus. Think about her laying there chewing on a pillow with her ### in the air getting drilled, and loving every minute of it, and yelling "YES YES YES", because let's face it, dude is in great shape and was probably wearing that thing out like it hadn't been worn out in a long time. And think about how much she liked it. And then how she probably licked the sweat off of his balls while he was trying to finish on her dome. This tramp isn't worth your time 16. It's painful to see you falling into the same thing thousands and thousands of other suckers have fallen for in the past.
gianmarco
Footballguy
"Hi, this is No. 16. Did we make plans to go out for dinner this week? I was too drunk to remember as I'm just trying to get over a relationship I had with this other girl for 5 years. Don't worry, I'm way over her and getting on with my life so she's not in the picture. At least she won't be after I let her see our dog, but that's another long story that I may or may not have already told you about, but don't worry about it. Hey, by the way, if we do go out to dinner, can we meet up somewhere near public transit? That's a whole different story that I don't want to get into and hope I didn't tell you about the other night. Ok, sorry for the long text, I'm gonna go now. Text me back if we agreed to hang out. If not, do you want to hang out sometime? Ok, I'm really going now. Bye"
No. 16
Footballguy
Sad, that you actually thought I could be so stupid. However, I don't blame you.Here's our text exchange during my break.
ME: "Almost game time (KU game). Are you watching the game at home?"
HER: "Yes! I fell asleep. Just woke up in time for the game!"
ME: "Jealous. You might miss the end of the game if we meet somewhere after work. Pick you up for dinner at 700?
Then I went back to work. Read this after I got off.
HER: "Can't miss that!! Not feeling so hot after last night!! (your fault from the shots).
Called her afterwards b/c the last text is a bit ambiguous (most likely a no). Didn't pick up. Looks like poker night it is!
No. 16
Footballguy
LMFAO!
cstu
Footballguy
Don't do this. You aren't jealous that she's getting to watch the KU game and it comes across as you're trying too hard.
No. 16
Footballguy
No I was jealous she got to sleep.
ditka...mike ditka
Footballguy
This wasn't bad. I think you are improving...
boots11234
Footballguy
This. Just be sure to suit up just in case HI gave you something. Report back.
Dr. Awesome
Footballguy
Don't feed it.
Evilgrin 72
Distributor of Pain
No. 16, you finally took my advice and rear-ended the personal trainer ?!?!? THAT'LL SHOW HER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ned
Footballguy
No. 16, you finally took my advice and rear-ended the personal trainer ?!?!? THAT'LL SHOW HER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No. 16
Footballguy
Yep. Longest I've been without sex in 7 years. Sucks. Definitely open now to banging a slumpbuster but the logistics of my pending drivers license suspension will make that difficult. Even had a dream this morning of the ex and I #######. Thinking long and hard about going Otis Nixon.
B-Deep
Footballguy
she still loves you, deep insidei'll bet if you call her and tell you you still love her she'll have sex with you
Evilgrin 72
Distributor of Pain
Longest I've been without sex in 7 years. Sucks. Definitely open now to banging a slumpbuster but the logistics of my pending drivers license suspension will make that difficult. Even had a dream this morning of the ex and I #######. Thinking long and hard about going Otis Nixon.
