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If your wife cheated on you with a chick (1 Viewer)
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doowain
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Ditkaless Wonders
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Wow - sorry to hear that. Before her comments in the bedroom did you have any indication? Did she go to Melissa Etheridge concerts or watch women's softball?I have mentioned this before, in that I knew she was curious. Like most people, we talked about things in the bedroom that you figure will just stay in the bedroom.Well, not her. She had been repressing thoughts that she was gay since high school and she finally came out. Found a woman on the internet and then told me
It hurt, but it was a lot better than if it was a guy she was cheating on me with. After the initial anger, I realized I didn't have what she was looking for or needed.
My wife is the opposite in that if I even hint or joke about it she says no way. Her reaction to lesbians is what the stereotypical males is - "that's gross or icky". Maybe that's a sign
(HULK)
(Smash)
He apparently wanted to stay together. But my mom wanted to flee the sausage party and live at a clam bake imo.
Patriotsfatboy1
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I have been married long enough that I would be cool with it if I could see some video. The friend is hot, so it is not some bulldyke type of situation.
If she wants to switch teams, I am not going to stop her. I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who does not want to be there.
The conundrum in my situation would be, if I got to participate, then the other woman's husband would want to participate and that is probably a show stopper for me.
If she wants to switch teams, I am not going to stop her. I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who does not want to be there.
The conundrum in my situation would be, if I got to participate, then the other woman's husband would want to participate and that is probably a show stopper for me.
Deranged Hermit
Not cool & Pissed
Happened to a friend of mine and he did the same thing. The two women ended up getting married. :/
playin4beer
Footballguy
My wife LOVES Ellen... which on it's own, is nothing..
But then watching The Voice one night she says..
I REALLY like this girl http://www.nbc.com/sites/nbcunbc/files/files/styles/nbc_contestant_bio/public/images/2014/2/21/KristenMerlin_null_1230x1230_KO.jpg?itok=MDS6uKu0
But then watching The Voice one night she says..
I REALLY like this girl http://www.nbc.com/sites/nbcunbc/files/files/styles/nbc_contestant_bio/public/images/2014/2/21/KristenMerlin_null_1230x1230_KO.jpg?itok=MDS6uKu0
beavers
Footballguy
This is the most common end of the story ... sorry to kill any fantasies in here
Most of the men that I've talked to feel very jealous if their wife is hanging around a lesbian. In fact, some are even more jealous than if she was hanging out with another man. It is annoying for me ... Only because I'm not one to play with the hetero ladies (I prefer more experienced women) ...
Socrates11
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Money, you should be hiding itMy wife LOVES Ellen... which on it's own, is nothing..
But then watching The Voice one night she says..
I REALLY like this girl http://www.nbc.com/sites/nbcunbc/files/files/styles/nbc_contestant_bio/public/images/2014/2/21/KristenMerlin_null_1230x1230_KO.jpg?itok=MDS6uKu0
those that have voted/said they wouldn't care would probably be whistling a different tune if it actually happened....it's easy to come on a message board and say it wouldn't bother you or would be "cool" or whatever.....then others throw in the Penthouse angle of filming it or joining in later when in reality that probably wouldn't happen either....bottom line, your wife got her rocks off with someone else instead of waiting to get home and do it with you....and she liked it.....you weren't invited, she wasn't even thinking about you when the big O hit...and because it was another chick you think it makes a difference.....she cheated on you with someone else, theres nothing really cool about that.....she did very intimate things with someone that wasn't you.....pretty sure I don't want anyone doing that with my wife whether it's a man or woman.... 
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What if she has a big O with an inanimate object? Should that offend me as well? Should she be offended if I get off on porn?those that have voted/said they wouldn't care would probably be whistling a different tune if it actually happened....it's easy to come on a message board and say it wouldn't bother you or would be "cool" or whatever.....then others throw in the Penthouse angle of filming it or joining in later when in reality that probably wouldn't happen either....bottom line, your wife got her rocks off with someone else instead of waiting to get home and do it with you....and she liked it.....you weren't invited, she wasn't even thinking about you when the big O hit...and because it was another chick you think it makes a difference.....she cheated on you with someone else, theres nothing really cool about that.....she did very intimate things with someone that wasn't you.....pretty sure I don't want anyone doing that with my wife whether it's a man or woman....
last time I checked......pretty big difference between pleasuring yourself and having someone else pleasure youWhat if she has a big O with an inanimate object? Should that offend me as well? Should she be offended if I get off on porn?those that have voted/said they wouldn't care would probably be whistling a different tune if it actually happened....it's easy to come on a message board and say it wouldn't bother you or would be "cool" or whatever.....then others throw in the Penthouse angle of filming it or joining in later when in reality that probably wouldn't happen either....bottom line, your wife got her rocks off with someone else instead of waiting to get home and do it with you....and she liked it.....you weren't invited, she wasn't even thinking about you when the big O hit...and because it was another chick you think it makes a difference.....she cheated on you with someone else, theres nothing really cool about that.....she did very intimate things with someone that wasn't you.....pretty sure I don't want anyone doing that with my wife whether it's a man or woman....
To you. Different people have different views on sexuality. Some people, believe it or not, even SHARE their loved ones with other voluntarily. Shocking, I know, but it's true.last time I checked......pretty big difference between pleasuring yourself and having someone else pleasure youWhat if she has a big O with an inanimate object? Should that offend me as well? Should she be offended if I get off on porn?those that have voted/said they wouldn't care would probably be whistling a different tune if it actually happened....it's easy to come on a message board and say it wouldn't bother you or would be "cool" or whatever.....then others throw in the Penthouse angle of filming it or joining in later when in reality that probably wouldn't happen either....bottom line, your wife got her rocks off with someone else instead of waiting to get home and do it with you....and she liked it.....you weren't invited, she wasn't even thinking about you when the big O hit...and because it was another chick you think it makes a difference.....she cheated on you with someone else, theres nothing really cool about that.....she did very intimate things with someone that wasn't you.....pretty sure I don't want anyone doing that with my wife whether it's a man or woman....
to me....?...how is there not a difference to anybody between pleasuring yourself and someone else doing it.....?...please explainTo you. Different people have different views on sexuality. Some people, believe it or not, even SHARE their loved ones with other voluntarily. Shocking, I know, but it's true.last time I checked......pretty big difference between pleasuring yourself and having someone else pleasure youWhat if she has a big O with an inanimate object? Should that offend me as well? Should she be offended if I get off on porn?those that have voted/said they wouldn't care would probably be whistling a different tune if it actually happened....it's easy to come on a message board and say it wouldn't bother you or would be "cool" or whatever.....then others throw in the Penthouse angle of filming it or joining in later when in reality that probably wouldn't happen either....bottom line, your wife got her rocks off with someone else instead of waiting to get home and do it with you....and she liked it.....you weren't invited, she wasn't even thinking about you when the big O hit...and because it was another chick you think it makes a difference.....she cheated on you with someone else, theres nothing really cool about that.....she did very intimate things with someone that wasn't you.....pretty sure I don't want anyone doing that with my wife whether it's a man or woman....
no one is arguing that people have different views on sexuality......
the scenario in the OP wasn't really looking for a response from people that are already swingers or that share their wife....
I'm simply saying that I imagine many of the people (non swingers) above who have voted "I wouldn't care" or "would awesomely care (like it would be cool)" ....would probably change their vote after the fact if it actually happened....
Patriotsfatboy1
Footballguy
Do you care or worry about the guys that your wife dated before you? Do you ask her if the other guys got her off better than you do?to me....?...how is there not a difference to anybody between pleasuring yourself and someone else doing it.....?...please explainTo you. Different people have different views on sexuality. Some people, believe it or not, even SHARE their loved ones with other voluntarily. Shocking, I know, but it's true.last time I checked......pretty big difference between pleasuring yourself and having someone else pleasure youWhat if she has a big O with an inanimate object? Should that offend me as well? Should she be offended if I get off on porn?those that have voted/said they wouldn't care would probably be whistling a different tune if it actually happened....it's easy to come on a message board and say it wouldn't bother you or would be "cool" or whatever.....then others throw in the Penthouse angle of filming it or joining in later when in reality that probably wouldn't happen either....bottom line, your wife got her rocks off with someone else instead of waiting to get home and do it with you....and she liked it.....you weren't invited, she wasn't even thinking about you when the big O hit...and because it was another chick you think it makes a difference.....she cheated on you with someone else, theres nothing really cool about that.....she did very intimate things with someone that wasn't you.....pretty sure I don't want anyone doing that with my wife whether it's a man or woman....
no one is arguing that people have different views on sexuality......
the scenario in the OP wasn't really looking for a response from people that are already swingers or that share their wife....
I'm simply saying that I imagine many of the people (non swingers) above who have voted "I wouldn't care" or "would awesomely care (like it would be cool)" ....would probably change their vote after the fact if it actually happened....
I am not intimidated by some hot chick getting my wife off, I guess. Maybe I don't think that it will ever happen and I am in denial, but if she wanted to switch teams and peanus was no longer on her menu, I would have far less of an issue than if she wanted a different guy. If she wants poontang, I can't help and so it would not be my fault.
Maybe that is why I have a little bit of jealousy over her vibrator.
The point is that people's views on sexuality vary widely, from extremely prude to swinging to doing it with animals. Therefore, just because you're uncomfortable with this scenario doesn't mean that many others aren't. But it's nice of you to speak for so many people you don't even know.
not speaking for anybody.....never said I was....I was just giving my opinion that I feel many of them would feel differently when/if it actually happened.....message board bravado/anonymity 101....."say"/vote you feel one way right now.....but when it actually happens, I bet that changes the price of donuts for some...just IMO
the first part has nothing to do with the OP's question.....totally different ball game......Do you care or worry about the guys that your wife dated before you? Do you ask her if the other guys got her off better than you do?to me....?...how is there not a difference to anybody between pleasuring yourself and someone else doing it.....?...please explainTo you. Different people have different views on sexuality. Some people, believe it or not, even SHARE their loved ones with other voluntarily. Shocking, I know, but it's true.last time I checked......pretty big difference between pleasuring yourself and having someone else pleasure youWhat if she has a big O with an inanimate object? Should that offend me as well? Should she be offended if I get off on porn?those that have voted/said they wouldn't care would probably be whistling a different tune if it actually happened....it's easy to come on a message board and say it wouldn't bother you or would be "cool" or whatever.....then others throw in the Penthouse angle of filming it or joining in later when in reality that probably wouldn't happen either....bottom line, your wife got her rocks off with someone else instead of waiting to get home and do it with you....and she liked it.....you weren't invited, she wasn't even thinking about you when the big O hit...and because it was another chick you think it makes a difference.....she cheated on you with someone else, theres nothing really cool about that.....she did very intimate things with someone that wasn't you.....pretty sure I don't want anyone doing that with my wife whether it's a man or woman....
no one is arguing that people have different views on sexuality......
the scenario in the OP wasn't really looking for a response from people that are already swingers or that share their wife....
I'm simply saying that I imagine many of the people (non swingers) above who have voted "I wouldn't care" or "would awesomely care (like it would be cool)" ....would probably change their vote after the fact if it actually happened....
I am not intimidated by some hot chick getting my wife off, I guess. Maybe I don't think that it will ever happen and I am in denial, but if she wanted to switch teams and peanus was no longer on her menu, I would have far less of an issue than if she wanted a different guy. If she wants poontang, I can't help and so it would not be my fault.
Maybe that is why I have a little bit of jealousy over her vibrator.
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Patriotsfatboy1
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I am trying to understand where the lines exist, if at all.the first part has nothing to do with the OP's question.....totally different ball game......Do you care or worry about the guys that your wife dated before you? Do you ask her if the other guys got her off better than you do?to me....?...how is there not a difference to anybody between pleasuring yourself and someone else doing it.....?...please explainTo you. Different people have different views on sexuality. Some people, believe it or not, even SHARE their loved ones with other voluntarily. Shocking, I know, but it's true.last time I checked......pretty big difference between pleasuring yourself and having someone else pleasure youWhat if she has a big O with an inanimate object? Should that offend me as well? Should she be offended if I get off on porn?those that have voted/said they wouldn't care would probably be whistling a different tune if it actually happened....it's easy to come on a message board and say it wouldn't bother you or would be "cool" or whatever.....then others throw in the Penthouse angle of filming it or joining in later when in reality that probably wouldn't happen either....bottom line, your wife got her rocks off with someone else instead of waiting to get home and do it with you....and she liked it.....you weren't invited, she wasn't even thinking about you when the big O hit...and because it was another chick you think it makes a difference.....she cheated on you with someone else, theres nothing really cool about that.....she did very intimate things with someone that wasn't you.....pretty sure I don't want anyone doing that with my wife whether it's a man or woman....
no one is arguing that people have different views on sexuality......
the scenario in the OP wasn't really looking for a response from people that are already swingers or that share their wife....
I'm simply saying that I imagine many of the people (non swingers) above who have voted "I wouldn't care" or "would awesomely care (like it would be cool)" ....would probably change their vote after the fact if it actually happened....
I am not intimidated by some hot chick getting my wife off, I guess. Maybe I don't think that it will ever happen and I am in denial, but if she wanted to switch teams and peanus was no longer on her menu, I would have far less of an issue than if she wanted a different guy. If she wants poontang, I can't help and so it would not be my fault.
Maybe that is why I have a little bit of jealousy over her vibrator.
packersfan
Footballguy
Whoa.playin4beer said:My wife LOVES Ellen... which on it's own, is nothing..
But then watching The Voice one night she says..
I REALLY like this girl http://www.nbc.com/sites/nbcunbc/files/files/styles/nbc_contestant_bio/public/images/2014/2/21/KristenMerlin_null_1230x1230_KO.jpg?itok=MDS6uKu0
maybe start with the part where she is your wife.....when she was banging other guys before you she wasn't.....and then go from thereI am trying to understand where the lines exist, if at all.the first part has nothing to do with the OP's question.....totally different ball game......Do you care or worry about the guys that your wife dated before you? Do you ask her if the other guys got her off better than you do?to me....?...how is there not a difference to anybody between pleasuring yourself and someone else doing it.....?...please explainTo you. Different people have different views on sexuality. Some people, believe it or not, even SHARE their loved ones with other voluntarily. Shocking, I know, but it's true.last time I checked......pretty big difference between pleasuring yourself and having someone else pleasure youWhat if she has a big O with an inanimate object? Should that offend me as well? Should she be offended if I get off on porn?those that have voted/said they wouldn't care would probably be whistling a different tune if it actually happened....it's easy to come on a message board and say it wouldn't bother you or would be "cool" or whatever.....then others throw in the Penthouse angle of filming it or joining in later when in reality that probably wouldn't happen either....bottom line, your wife got her rocks off with someone else instead of waiting to get home and do it with you....and she liked it.....you weren't invited, she wasn't even thinking about you when the big O hit...and because it was another chick you think it makes a difference.....she cheated on you with someone else, theres nothing really cool about that.....she did very intimate things with someone that wasn't you.....pretty sure I don't want anyone doing that with my wife whether it's a man or woman....
no one is arguing that people have different views on sexuality......
the scenario in the OP wasn't really looking for a response from people that are already swingers or that share their wife....
I'm simply saying that I imagine many of the people (non swingers) above who have voted "I wouldn't care" or "would awesomely care (like it would be cool)" ....would probably change their vote after the fact if it actually happened....
I am not intimidated by some hot chick getting my wife off, I guess. Maybe I don't think that it will ever happen and I am in denial, but if she wanted to switch teams and peanus was no longer on her menu, I would have far less of an issue than if she wanted a different guy. If she wants poontang, I can't help and so it would not be my fault.
Maybe that is why I have a little bit of jealousy over her vibrator.
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Henry Ford
Footballguy
My wife tells me that chick sounds like Ellen when she sings. It may just be the one weird obsession.playin4beer said:My wife LOVES Ellen... which on it's own, is nothing..
But then watching The Voice one night she says..
I REALLY like this girl http://www.nbc.com/sites/nbcunbc/files/files/styles/nbc_contestant_bio/public/images/2014/2/21/KristenMerlin_null_1230x1230_KO.jpg?itok=MDS6uKu0
Patriotsfatboy1
Footballguy
At least you are consistent. Nothing happens outside of the marriage at all with a human being.
Can she flirt at all? How about a smooch? I assume it is not the orgasm thing that is the line. Right?
I was just responding to the OP....I didn't bring banging other guys before you, flirting, kissing, etc into the scenario.....those are different discussions....people can decide what is their "deal breaker".....
if people are cool with their wife being initmate with other people that's their decision....I just think some people may say it's not a big deal but then change their mind once it actually happened....
mozzy84 above said honestly he didn't care and that he was only annoyed that she lied.....even though it's not quite the same scenario, he might be a good person to ask......she probably lied because she thought she did something he would care about.....I guess lucky for her he doesn't......
the other part that changes things a little too is something some have referred to.....that it basically became a lifestyle change in that the wife starting preferring to play for the other team across the board.....that changes things as well and not what was in the OP....I took from the OP that the wife was not switching teams for the long haul and was probably wanting to stay married....
playin4beer
Footballguy
When she said it, I asked "You REALLY like Ellen too, right?" she says, "Yeah, why?"... I said, "hmmm nothing, just noticing a pattern here"...My wife tells me that chick sounds like Ellen when she sings. It may just be the one weird obsession.playin4beer said:My wife LOVES Ellen... which on it's own, is nothing..
But then watching The Voice one night she says..
I REALLY like this girl http://www.nbc.com/sites/nbcunbc/files/files/styles/nbc_contestant_bio/public/images/2014/2/21/KristenMerlin_null_1230x1230_KO.jpg?itok=MDS6uKu0
She smacked me...
Patriotsfatboy1
Footballguy
Relax. This is just a group conversation.
For me, once there is another dude in the equation, I am out. Experimentation with a hot chick, I can live with.
I wonder if my wife would feel the same if I experimented with a hot chick. 
Relax. This is just a group conversation.
For me, once there is another dude in the equation, I am out. Experimentation with a hot chick, I can live with.
ok....but not sure what I need to relax about ....?.....Relax. This is just a group conversation.
For me, once there is another dude in the equation, I am out. Experimentation with a hot chick, I can live with.
...just discussingPatriotsfatboy1
Footballguy
Are you hitting on me again?Relax. This is just a group conversation.
For me, once there is another dude in the equation, I am out. Experimentation with a hot chick, I can live with.
gianmarco
Footballguy
There's a thread for you both.Are you hitting on me again?Relax. This is just a group conversation.
For me, once there is another dude in the equation, I am out. Experimentation with a hot chick, I can live with.
St. Louis Bob
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Buckychudd
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St. Louis Bob
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Buckychudd
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Kanil
Footballguy
We could hook up, and then you could buy me a beer!Are you hitting on me again?
cstu
Footballguy
I'm sure he's kicking himself now. It's only a gf and she did two things for him - outed herself as a cheater and presented an opportunity for a threesome.
St. Louis Bob
Footballguy
