I know the family wants her to get the DP. They've made that quite clear. I'm going to make the logical leap that some day if she were to be freed to walk the streets, they may be a little bit upset. Did you watch their VISs yesterday? Have you seen them give up everything in their lives to be in Arizona every single day for four months to sit in a courtroom 1000 miles away to support their dead brother? I'm sure they don't even know, but I can't imagine their would be a point in their lives they would be OK with Jodi Arias walking the streets a free woman.
I did not watch the victim statements. To be honest, I don't think they are relevant.
Having said that, my whole point is the victims may change their mind 50 years from now. Just because they support life in prison now, doesn't mean they will in 50 years. 50 years is a long damn time. People change.
>I actually read a VIS by someone who is a court watcher in the Jodi case, and whose own sister was brutally murdered 20 years ago. One of the men who murdered her sister was being re-sentenced after 20 years and was somehow deemed mentally ######ed so was ineligible for the death penalty and in the re-sentencing there was a possibility that he could be up for parole. Her words really hit me and made it clear that as long as the murderer is in jail, has appeals, has parole hearings, it's never really over for the family of the VICTIM. And one thing she talked about, which really struck me because I fall into the same pattern a lot, that after a while the convicted murderer actually becomes perceived as the victim, not the person(s) they killed. We become sympathetic to people on death row or those who have served a long time in jail. And we shouldn't forget the reason they are there. If you want to read it,
http://blogs.phoenixnewtimes.com/valleyfever/2009/07/######ed_german_killer_rudi_ap.php
I appreciate the post - and will read it. But I'm not convinced that victim statements are relevant (or, rather, should be relevant) to sentencing/how we treat criminals.
And the reason murderers become sympathetic is because a) the death penalty is wrong; and b) a life sentence may be a really long damn time. And we recognize - even on a subconscious level - that people can change. And maybe after spending 50 years in prison, enough is enough.
And sympathy isn't mutually exclusive. I can have sympathy for the prisoner and the victims of the crime.
Parole is not about "forgiveness" anyway. It's about whether or not the convict is a danger to society any longer and whether or not they have been rehabilitated. From watching her and from psych testimony, it is pretty clear to me that Jodi has a spectrum of personality disorders and a touch of psychopathy (I think she is what we used to call a sociopath that has now been split up into different categories). That made her capable of committing such a brutal murder without any remorse and believing she was going to get away with it. That is not going to magically go away. She will always be capable of murdering again. The purpose of keeping people in jail has nothing to do with a lack of forgiveness, it has to do with keeping the citizens of our country safe.
The "forgiveness" I was referring to was whether the victims will forgive the criminal. Obviously I don't think its relevant - I've already said as much above. I didn't, though, realize that you agree that how the victims feel is irrelevant.
And I'm not sure where you get your proclamations on parole. Why do you think that is what parole is about? How are you so certain?