About my wife. She's hooked up with guys before but it's rare. In the 15 or so times we've gone to actual swinger parties in 8 years or so she's hooked with only 2 guys early on and let me know that it wasn't her thing. We get invited a lot, we usually don't go. I'm not so picky when we do go though; if we went to a party, I at a minimum would get some

but most likely I would be

while my wife is running her mouth or trying to pick up other women.I remember one party we went to years ago where we got paired up with an older couple. I was in my early 30s, my wife late 20s; the couple was a guy in maybe his late 40s and wife that was late 30s/early 40s. My wife had zero interest in the guy; they spent the night on the deck talking while I slipped the khaki-color mamba to his wife (hooked up with her several times after for "lunch" btw).One time, we got paired up and my wife and chick in ended up hooking up while I drank beer in the kitchen talking sports with the guy.My wife is more comfortable with other women; she likes "girly" women, not the "butch" type at all.HTH