I get a similarly weird feeling whenever I am
watching The First 48 and they are heading out to do a family notification. They almost always knock on the door and say something to the effect of:
"Hello, how are you?"
They aren't going to be doing the obligatory
"good" in about 30 seconds after you drop the bomb on them.
I did the same thing by accident a few weeks ago. I was working on a proposed transaction, and the
other party's lawyer was out of the office for a few days because his dad had just died. The first time I spoke to him, I reflexively asked, "Hey, how's it going?" He paused and said "good," and I felt like
a complete idiot.