Is this a football post Joe B?I've reconsidered. I like Kaepernick. If it will keep drummer from jumping off a bridge. Wow. Just wow.
How about this one Mods? Are any of you getting this yet?We all get it, drummer. You're trying to commit board suicide and you want to take me with you. That's why you keep calling out Joe B. And tying my name to your discontent. I'm not exactly sure why you're do hellbent on this 'truth' crusade and thinking that I'm trolling. A lot of other guys agree with my stance on Kaepernick. You try making it a race issue. I suppose you think that will keep anyone from saying anything negative about your QB. My opinion is what it is. Sorry that you disagree. But just because someone doesn't share your opinion, that doesn't make them a troll. This board would be pretty boring if everyone agreed on every topic.
You're calling me out ten times in every post you make. Of course I'm going to respond. If you want to talk football, talk football. I'll be more than happy to reply in kind.How about this one Mods? Are any of you getting this yet?We all get it, drummer. You're trying to commit board suicide and you want to take me with you. That's why you keep calling out Joe B. And tying my name to your discontent. I'm not exactly sure why you're do hellbent on this 'truth' crusade and thinking that I'm trolling. A lot of other guys agree with my stance on Kaepernick. You try making it a race issue. I suppose you think that will keep anyone from saying anything negative about your QB. My opinion is what it is. Sorry that you disagree. But just because someone doesn't share your opinion, that doesn't make them a troll. This board would be pretty boring if everyone agreed on every topic.
ETA: he is using the word suicide here. That's worse than nutty. Is this the level of conversation needed here?
Again FBG staff: how does this apply to your standards? How does this measure as far as tangible value. Is this worth it?You're calling me out ten times in every post you make. Of course I'm going to respond. If you want to talk football, talk football. I'll be more than happy to reply in kind.How about this one Mods? Are any of you getting this yet?We all get it, drummer. You're trying to commit board suicide and you want to take me with you. That's why you keep calling out Joe B. And tying my name to your discontent. I'm not exactly sure why you're do hellbent on this 'truth' crusade and thinking that I'm trolling. A lot of other guys agree with my stance on Kaepernick. You try making it a race issue. I suppose you think that will keep anyone from saying anything negative about your QB. My opinion is what it is. Sorry that you disagree. But just because someone doesn't share your opinion, that doesn't make them a troll. This board would be pretty boring if everyone agreed on every topic.
ETA: he is using the word suicide here. That's worse than nutty. Is this the level of conversation needed here?
I've said what I had to say. I'd appreciate if you listen to it. If you don't, then there is nothing left for me here to value.Last warning - drop it now please.
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I listened to it. And my response is for both of you to drop it and both of you to stop ruining threads.I've said what I had to say. I'd appreciate if you listen to it. If you don't, then there is nothing left for me here to value.Last warning - drop it now please.
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There are only two threads here regarding this false subject of Kaep being a thug, again mostly based on appearance. They should be locked because it's false as of today. If something is false, why still have it open?I listened to it. And my response is for both of you to drop it and both of you to stop ruining threads.I've said what I had to say. I'd appreciate if you listen to it. If you don't, then there is nothing left for me here to value.Last warning - drop it now please.
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So you never brought any drunk chicks back to your apartment in your 20s?This story does nothing to change my mind about Kaepernick. I think he'll eventually get into trouble. More than just hanging around undesirables and bringing skanky ho's back to hang out.I dunno. Which one was the racist?Reading you vs Junior was like watching Andre the Giant vs Hulk Hogan. Will there be a rematch?Once Junior found out that his favorite composer in Burt Bacharach collaborated with Dr. Dre, his whole world collapsed. Ya gotta give him something.I remember that thread. I don't intend to read it again. It was pretty messy and I don't remember any specific post you had that explained it very well. I hoped you could do it here without the scandal. Maybe it's impossible to do because people will react to you. I don't agree with you but I would like to get your point of view. Maybe I'm wrong, who knows?See here. It should jog your mind.I'm interested in how you came to this conclusion. Could you explain it a bit more please? Thanks.I've been saying it forever, if it walks like a duck and talks like a duck.....
The guy is a thug. Plain and simple. If this turns out to be nothing, there will be something else. You can just see he's bad news.
http://forums.footballguys.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=702936
You posted in it, as I recall. Most of the 'conclusions' we draw in life are based on info and clues we gather along the way.![]()
I wonder if Junior is going to walk back the smugness now that we all know that there was no wrongdoing by Kaep here. Some chick passed out on a bed, they booted her out by using the police. Story over.
I don't think anyone has argued that he has cultivated a professional appearance.I didn't read through the entire post and maybe I will show my age a little bit here but image is important and people are going to make judgements upon others by appearance. I remember about 10 years ago I had stepped into a tattoo and piercing business in Sioux Falls, SD and was talking with a young gal there that was going to school for business. She had several tattoos and piercings that really couldn't be concealed. My thinking was that's great and all but you will not find many opportunities out there no matter what your GPA is. In the business world if you walk into an interview looking like that many businesses will instantly cross you off their list. Well, if you choose to create an image where you look thug like that may very well be many people's impression of you. I always try to explain to my kids that I'm not going to tell them how to dress and such but tattoos, piercings, body altering are pretty permanent things and you really need to thing beyond 10 minutes and two years and understand that people are going to create an impression of you on first sight.
Here in Austin, the person doing the interviewing is just as likely to be the one with the tattoos and piercings as the candidate.I didn't read through the entire post and maybe I will show my age a little bit here but image is important and people are going to make judgements upon others by appearance. I remember about 10 years ago I had stepped into a tattoo and piercing business in Sioux Falls, SD and was talking with a young gal there that was going to school for business. She had several tattoos and piercings that really couldn't be concealed. My thinking was that's great and all but you will not find many opportunities out there no matter what your GPA is. In the business world if you walk into an interview looking like that many businesses will instantly cross you off their list. Well, if you choose to create an image where you look thug like that may very well be many people's impression of you. I always try to explain to my kids that I'm not going to tell them how to dress and such but tattoos, piercings, body altering are pretty permanent things and you really need to thing beyond 10 minutes and two years and understand that people are going to create an impression of you on first sight.
I don't think anyone has argued that he has cultivated a professional appearance.I didn't read through the entire post and maybe I will show my age a little bit here but image is important and people are going to make judgements upon others by appearance. I remember about 10 years ago I had stepped into a tattoo and piercing business in Sioux Falls, SD and was talking with a young gal there that was going to school for business. She had several tattoos and piercings that really couldn't be concealed. My thinking was that's great and all but you will not find many opportunities out there no matter what your GPA is. In the business world if you walk into an interview looking like that many businesses will instantly cross you off their list. Well, if you choose to create an image where you look thug like that may very well be many people's impression of you. I always try to explain to my kids that I'm not going to tell them how to dress and such but tattoos, piercings, body altering are pretty permanent things and you really need to thing beyond 10 minutes and two years and understand that people are going to create an impression of you on first sight.
Now I'm taking this off into FFA territory but this a fascinating topic I think.Here in Austin, the person doing the interviewing is just as likely to be the one with the tattoos and piercings as the candidate.I didn't read through the entire post and maybe I will show my age a little bit here but image is important and people are going to make judgements upon others by appearance. I remember about 10 years ago I had stepped into a tattoo and piercing business in Sioux Falls, SD and was talking with a young gal there that was going to school for business. She had several tattoos and piercings that really couldn't be concealed. My thinking was that's great and all but you will not find many opportunities out there no matter what your GPA is. In the business world if you walk into an interview looking like that many businesses will instantly cross you off their list. Well, if you choose to create an image where you look thug like that may very well be many people's impression of you. I always try to explain to my kids that I'm not going to tell them how to dress and such but tattoos, piercings, body altering are pretty permanent things and you really need to thing beyond 10 minutes and two years and understand that people are going to create an impression of you on first sight.
What he does off the field absolutely matters to the team, to the NFL and lastly to us, FF nuts.What's pertinent here is how he performs as a NFL QB
The key word here is "story". I mean, you just lumped a player in with no charges or any controversy attached, only again basing everything upon appearance. I mean nobody though Birdman Anderson had the potential of being a pedophile because of his tattoos, although once accused of being one which was proved false. You could say he was a thug for violating the NBA substance abuse policy, but he also beat that.What he does off the field absolutely matters to the team, to the NFL and lastly to us, FF nuts.What's pertinent here is how he performs as a NFL QB
When Favre was a drunk it mattered, when Big Ben was "allegedly" taking advantage of drunk college chicks and driving a Harley ... it mattered. The Ray Lewis fiasco, the Aaron Hernandez murder (s) ....... what happens outside their NFL lives directly impacts their NFL lives
Can't separate them as a pro athlete. Is Kap going down a bad road? Time will tell ........ this isn't a good story to have your second year as a starter though
Sorry to nit pick, but if that was true, it would just be anecdotal since there aren't many cities like Austin. Second, I know Austin is a bit wonky, but it's not that wonky. There are definitely a few business owners/HR managers with tats, but still not that many.Here in Austin, the person doing the interviewing is just as likely to be the one with the tattoos and piercings as the candidate.I didn't read through the entire post and maybe I will show my age a little bit here but image is important and people are going to make judgements upon others by appearance. I remember about 10 years ago I had stepped into a tattoo and piercing business in Sioux Falls, SD and was talking with a young gal there that was going to school for business. She had several tattoos and piercings that really couldn't be concealed. My thinking was that's great and all but you will not find many opportunities out there no matter what your GPA is. In the business world if you walk into an interview looking like that many businesses will instantly cross you off their list. Well, if you choose to create an image where you look thug like that may very well be many people's impression of you. I always try to explain to my kids that I'm not going to tell them how to dress and such but tattoos, piercings, body altering are pretty permanent things and you really need to thing beyond 10 minutes and two years and understand that people are going to create an impression of you on first sight.
I don't see anything reported that says he did anything wrong in this story. Unless one gives credence to the sensationalistic, mostly-incorrect initial report from TMZ, or to the nod/nod wink/wink "see, he's a thug" talk. If anyone's saying that the woman who was (reportedly) argumentative, drunk, refusing to leave, causing concern for her state of mind, and blacked out in a hospital with no memory is the reliable reporter here I'd like to hear that. I'd like to hear why she's reliable, and Kaepernick who left the situation was the bad actor.What he does off the field absolutely matters to the team, to the NFL and lastly to us, FF nuts.What's pertinent here is how he performs as a NFL QB
When Favre was a drunk it mattered, when Big Ben was "allegedly" taking advantage of drunk college chicks and driving a Harley ... it mattered. The Ray Lewis fiasco, the Aaron Hernandez murder (s) ....... what happens outside their NFL lives directly impacts their NFL lives
Can't separate them as a pro athlete. Is Kap going down a bad road? Time will tell ........ this isn't a good story to have your second year as a starter though
Birdman is a great example.The key word here is "story". I mean, you just lumped a player in with no charges or any controversy attached, only again basing everything upon appearance. I mean nobody though Birdman Anderson had the potential of being a pedophile because of his tattoos, although once accused of being one which was proved false. You could say he was a thug for violating the NBA substance abuse policy, but he also beat that.What he does off the field absolutely matters to the team, to the NFL and lastly to us, FF nuts.What's pertinent here is how he performs as a NFL QB
When Favre was a drunk it mattered, when Big Ben was "allegedly" taking advantage of drunk college chicks and driving a Harley ... it mattered. The Ray Lewis fiasco, the Aaron Hernandez murder (s) ....... what happens outside their NFL lives directly impacts their NFL lives
Can't separate them as a pro athlete. Is Kap going down a bad road? Time will tell ........ this isn't a good story to have your second year as a starter though
Very intelligent post.Sorry to nit pick, but if that was true, it would just be anecdotal since there aren't many cities like Austin. Second, I know Austin is a bit wonky, but it's not that wonky. There are definitely a few business owners/HR managers with tats, but still not that many.Here in Austin, the person doing the interviewing is just as likely to be the one with the tattoos and piercings as the candidate.I didn't read through the entire post and maybe I will show my age a little bit here but image is important and people are going to make judgements upon others by appearance. I remember about 10 years ago I had stepped into a tattoo and piercing business in Sioux Falls, SD and was talking with a young gal there that was going to school for business. She had several tattoos and piercings that really couldn't be concealed. My thinking was that's great and all but you will not find many opportunities out there no matter what your GPA is. In the business world if you walk into an interview looking like that many businesses will instantly cross you off their list. Well, if you choose to create an image where you look thug like that may very well be many people's impression of you. I always try to explain to my kids that I'm not going to tell them how to dress and such but tattoos, piercings, body altering are pretty permanent things and you really need to thing beyond 10 minutes and two years and understand that people are going to create an impression of you on first sight.
While I'm already here, I'll throw out my take on CK. I'm prone to judge people. I try not to, but it happens. My initial take on this guy is that he isn't even close to being a thug. He likes to pretend with his tats and his full embodiment of the thug chic attire, but he seems like a relatively good guy who is just trying too hard and thus ends up being a poser/DB. The flat brim caps, the constant focus on fashion, the overpriced yet mediocre beats by dre headphones worn purely for aesthetic purposes... it's all too d-bag to be thug-like. He's just trying to fit in where he wants and overcompensating in the process. Hopefully he figures this out as he gets older and just focuses on football.
A guy who spends more time adjusting the angle of his flat brim in the mirror and picking out which flamboyant colored vest he's going to wear (to show off the tats of course) than a girl spends to get ready is simply not a thug. He's just a young guy struggling to balance fame, ego, and career. It can't be easy to deal with so much in your formative years. I mean, if it happened to me, I'd have my own set of PR problems. I'm sure I'd have gotten pulled over with a few joints in my vintage Lamborghini Countach and pictures would've surfaced of me doing keg stands with young, fit ladies. Very few people could handle fame and fortune well in their early 20s. It'll be interesting to see how he's changed in 10 years.
I agree with most of this. I think perhaps a more concise way to put it is to say that Kaepernick simply isn't very mature at this point. Intelligence and maturity aren't the same thing, and I'd like to think that because he has the former, he'll develop the latter as he becomes more experienced and comfortable with his status as an NFL star.Sorry to nit pick, but if that was true, it would just be anecdotal since there aren't many cities like Austin. Second, I know Austin is a bit wonky, but it's not that wonky. There are definitely a few business owners/HR managers with tats, but still not that many.Here in Austin, the person doing the interviewing is just as likely to be the one with the tattoos and piercings as the candidate.I didn't read through the entire post and maybe I will show my age a little bit here but image is important and people are going to make judgements upon others by appearance. I remember about 10 years ago I had stepped into a tattoo and piercing business in Sioux Falls, SD and was talking with a young gal there that was going to school for business. She had several tattoos and piercings that really couldn't be concealed. My thinking was that's great and all but you will not find many opportunities out there no matter what your GPA is. In the business world if you walk into an interview looking like that many businesses will instantly cross you off their list. Well, if you choose to create an image where you look thug like that may very well be many people's impression of you. I always try to explain to my kids that I'm not going to tell them how to dress and such but tattoos, piercings, body altering are pretty permanent things and you really need to thing beyond 10 minutes and two years and understand that people are going to create an impression of you on first sight.
While I'm already here, I'll throw out my take on CK. I'm prone to judge people. I try not to, but it happens. My initial take on this guy is that he isn't even close to being a thug. He likes to pretend with his tats and his full embodiment of the thug chic attire, but he seems like a relatively good guy who is just trying too hard and thus ends up being a poser/DB. The flat brim caps, the constant focus on fashion, the overpriced yet mediocre beats by dre headphones worn purely for aesthetic purposes... it's all too d-bag to be thug-like. He's just trying to fit in where he wants and overcompensating in the process. Hopefully he figures this out as he gets older and just focuses on football.
A guy who spends more time adjusting the angle of his flat brim in the mirror and picking out which flamboyant colored vest he's going to wear (to show off the tats of course) than a girl spends to get ready is simply not a thug. He's just a young guy struggling to balance fame, ego, and career. It can't be easy to deal with so much in your formative years. I mean, if it happened to me, I'd have my own set of PR problems. I'm sure I'd have gotten pulled over with a few joints in my vintage Lamborghini Countach and pictures would've surfaced of me doing keg stands with young, fit ladies. Very few people could handle fame and fortune well in their early 20s. It'll be interesting to see how he's changed in 10 years.
Well, if you look at a lot of NBA players who aren't white who have tattoos that don't show up as well due to skin color, but wear braids and such that are just as different as Birdman's mohawk....Birdman is a great example.The key word here is "story". I mean, you just lumped a player in with no charges or any controversy attached, only again basing everything upon appearance. I mean nobody though Birdman Anderson had the potential of being a pedophile because of his tattoos, although once accused of being one which was proved false. You could say he was a thug for violating the NBA substance abuse policy, but he also beat that.What he does off the field absolutely matters to the team, to the NFL and lastly to us, FF nuts.What's pertinent here is how he performs as a NFL QB
When Favre was a drunk it mattered, when Big Ben was "allegedly" taking advantage of drunk college chicks and driving a Harley ... it mattered. The Ray Lewis fiasco, the Aaron Hernandez murder (s) ....... what happens outside their NFL lives directly impacts their NFL lives
Can't separate them as a pro athlete. Is Kap going down a bad road? Time will tell ........ this isn't a good story to have your second year as a starter though
Question for you: When it comes to public perception of Birdman and specifically how much leeway or benefit of the doubt he's given on issues like questionable conduct or a drug test, do his tattoos have any effect on the public's opinion? Not should they. But do they?
Follow up question - Do you think Birdman's appearance is something he actively cultivates?
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Again, I think this is all about perspective.Sorry to nit pick, but if that was true, it would just be anecdotal since there aren't many cities like Austin. Second, I know Austin is a bit wonky, but it's not that wonky. There are definitely a few business owners/HR managers with tats, but still not that many.Here in Austin, the person doing the interviewing is just as likely to be the one with the tattoos and piercings as the candidate.I didn't read through the entire post and maybe I will show my age a little bit here but image is important and people are going to make judgements upon others by appearance. I remember about 10 years ago I had stepped into a tattoo and piercing business in Sioux Falls, SD and was talking with a young gal there that was going to school for business. She had several tattoos and piercings that really couldn't be concealed. My thinking was that's great and all but you will not find many opportunities out there no matter what your GPA is. In the business world if you walk into an interview looking like that many businesses will instantly cross you off their list. Well, if you choose to create an image where you look thug like that may very well be many people's impression of you. I always try to explain to my kids that I'm not going to tell them how to dress and such but tattoos, piercings, body altering are pretty permanent things and you really need to thing beyond 10 minutes and two years and understand that people are going to create an impression of you on first sight.
While I'm already here, I'll throw out my take on CK. I'm prone to judge people. I try not to, but it happens. My initial take on this guy is that he isn't even close to being a thug. He likes to pretend with his tats and his full embodiment of the thug chic attire, but he seems like a relatively good guy who is just trying too hard and thus ends up being a poser/DB. The flat brim caps, the constant focus on fashion, the overpriced yet mediocre beats by dre headphones worn purely for aesthetic purposes... it's all too d-bag to be thug-like. He's just trying to fit in where he wants and overcompensating in the process. Hopefully he figures this out as he gets older and just focuses on football.
A guy who spends more time adjusting the angle of his flat brim in the mirror and picking out which flamboyant colored vest he's going to wear (to show off the tats of course) than a girl spends to get ready is simply not a thug. He's just a young guy struggling to balance fame, ego, and career. It can't be easy to deal with so much in your formative years. I mean, if it happened to me, I'd have my own set of PR problems. I'm sure I'd have gotten pulled over with a few joints in my vintage Lamborghini Countach and pictures would've surfaced of me doing keg stands with young, fit ladies. Very few people could handle fame and fortune well in their early 20s. It'll be interesting to see how he's changed in 10 years.
Question for you: When it comes to public perception of Birdman and specifically how much leeway or benefit of the doubt he's given on issues like questionable conduct or a drug test, do his tattoos have any effect on the public's opinion? Not should they. But do they?Well, if you look at a lot of NBA players who aren't white who have tattoos that don't show up as well due to skin color, but wear braids and such that are just as different as Birdman's mohawk....
I think you would find many a Birdman at a Motorhead concert.
Tattoos are de riguer amongst many a young white college educated young person now. Just go to Coachella this upcoming weekend. Hell, go to the Stagecoach Country fest the following weekend. I think every person employed by Goldenvoice has them, even the owners. Most of the stagehands I know have them who are working the events. Personally? I don't have any, and that makes me a whole lot different than most people I know.
We aren't red balling people with tattoos like a sort of Minority Report. 60 years old adults are getting them. Tattoos are layers of color on one's skin. If you showed up to work one day sleeved, does the rest of the staff want to toss you into rehab?
"Ummmm, there is something different with Joe. I think we should worry"
.Just before the draft, an ESPN researcher gathering info on Kaepernick asked coach Harris about the tattoos. Harris told her, "Look, he's a 4.3-GPA guy, from Wisconsin, with a pet tortoise. If you're looking for a story about a player overcoming the thug life, you've got the wrong guy."
.Just before the draft, an ESPN researcher gathering info on Kaepernick asked coach Harris about the tattoos. Harris told her, "Look, he's a 4.3-GPA guy, from Wisconsin, with a pet tortoise. If you're looking for a story about a player overcoming the thug life, you've got the wrong guy."
I'm not. If I perceive Birdman a certain way because of his appearance, then I equally should observe Army Staff Sgt. Ryan G. Williams, a war veteran the same way. I mean, not given the benefit of any back story here, should I predicate any sort judgement based on what malice they might bring due to their respective appearance?Joe Bryant said:You're avoiding the question. But that's ok.I got the question Joe. But I'll answer this again with something worth one thousand words:
http://www.texasobserver.org/wp-content/legacy/archives/zrw_080321/images/ryanw.jpg
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Absolutely. Substitute Ryan Williams for Birdman in the question if that helps.I'm not. If I perceive Birdman a certain way because of his appearance, then I equally should observe Army Staff Sgt. Ryan G. Williams, a war veteran the same way. I mean, not given the benefit of any back story here, should I predicate any sort judgement based on what malice they might bring due to their respective appearance?Joe Bryant said:You're avoiding the question. But that's ok.I got the question Joe. But I'll answer this again with something worth one thousand words:
http://www.texasobserver.org/wp-content/legacy/archives/zrw_080321/images/ryanw.jpg
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Well, he was born in Milwaukee, and adopted by parents there before they moved to Turlock CA when he was 4 years old.I'll add a little bit more about myself since I shared some of my perspective. Not only am I middle aged but I live in a small community of 500 people surrounded by a lot of other small 1000-1500 communities in the Midwest. People are going to judge you based on appearance, it's just the way it is. If CK moved into our little community there would be a lot of talk and a lot of people calling him a thug without knowing anything about him. It's the way it is.
Well if I did that, then I am judging him guilty despite the facts, am I not?Absolutely. Substitute Ryan Williams for Birdman in the question if that helps.I'm not. If I perceive Birdman a certain way because of his appearance, then I equally should observe Army Staff Sgt. Ryan G. Williams, a war veteran the same way. I mean, not given the benefit of any back story here, should I predicate any sort judgement based on what malice they might bring due to their respective appearance?Joe Bryant said:You're avoiding the question. But that's ok.I got the question Joe. But I'll answer this again with something worth one thousand words:
http://www.texasobserver.org/wp-content/legacy/archives/zrw_080321/images/ryanw.jpg
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Sure there will always be people "judging a book by it's cover" - but my guess is that if he did move into that community and people saw him helping old ladies carry their grocerie bags out to the car or help a neighbor dig their car out of the snow, they wouldn't go on continuing to call him a thug behind his back.I'll add a little bit more about myself since I shared some of my perspective. Not only am I middle aged but I live in a small community of 500 people surrounded by a lot of other small 1000-1500 communities in the Midwest. People are going to judge you based on appearance, it's just the way it is. If CK moved into our little community there would be a lot of talk and a lot of people calling him a thug without knowing anything about him. It's the way it is.
I think FF Ninja hit the nail on the head here. It's safe to say that every human being puts effort into their appearance. The guys you mentioned, Wilson, Eli and Rodgers, are doing it in a less flamboyant manor and one that is not harmful to their image or their team's image. It's ok to have tattoos. It's ok to wear a straight brim hat if you like. It's not ok when the effort you put into appearance becomes a detriment to your employer, self or family.Again, I think this is all about perspective.Sorry to nit pick, but if that was true, it would just be anecdotal since there aren't many cities like Austin. Second, I know Austin is a bit wonky, but it's not that wonky. There are definitely a few business owners/HR managers with tats, but still not that many.Here in Austin, the person doing the interviewing is just as likely to be the one with the tattoos and piercings as the candidate.I didn't read through the entire post and maybe I will show my age a little bit here but image is important and people are going to make judgements upon others by appearance. I remember about 10 years ago I had stepped into a tattoo and piercing business in Sioux Falls, SD and was talking with a young gal there that was going to school for business. She had several tattoos and piercings that really couldn't be concealed. My thinking was that's great and all but you will not find many opportunities out there no matter what your GPA is. In the business world if you walk into an interview looking like that many businesses will instantly cross you off their list. Well, if you choose to create an image where you look thug like that may very well be many people's impression of you. I always try to explain to my kids that I'm not going to tell them how to dress and such but tattoos, piercings, body altering are pretty permanent things and you really need to thing beyond 10 minutes and two years and understand that people are going to create an impression of you on first sight.
While I'm already here, I'll throw out my take on CK. I'm prone to judge people. I try not to, but it happens. My initial take on this guy is that he isn't even close to being a thug. He likes to pretend with his tats and his full embodiment of the thug chic attire, but he seems like a relatively good guy who is just trying too hard and thus ends up being a poser/DB. The flat brim caps, the constant focus on fashion, the overpriced yet mediocre beats by dre headphones worn purely for aesthetic purposes... it's all too d-bag to be thug-like. He's just trying to fit in where he wants and overcompensating in the process. Hopefully he figures this out as he gets older and just focuses on football.
A guy who spends more time adjusting the angle of his flat brim in the mirror and picking out which flamboyant colored vest he's going to wear (to show off the tats of course) than a girl spends to get ready is simply not a thug. He's just a young guy struggling to balance fame, ego, and career. It can't be easy to deal with so much in your formative years. I mean, if it happened to me, I'd have my own set of PR problems. I'm sure I'd have gotten pulled over with a few joints in my vintage Lamborghini Countach and pictures would've surfaced of me doing keg stands with young, fit ladies. Very few people could handle fame and fortune well in their early 20s. It'll be interesting to see how he's changed in 10 years.
I'd argue that Russell Wilson or Eli Manning or Aaron Rodgers all put as much effort into their appearance as Kaepernick does. I wouldn't call it immature. It's just different. And going for a different reaction.
Now maybe these guys are way less thoughtful than I think they are. But I'd be surprised.
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It's really not that difficult of a question. This isn't about you judging. This is asking you how you think society sees him. And whether you think he cultivates that.Well if I did that, then I am judging him guilty despite the facts, am I not?Absolutely. Substitute Ryan Williams for Birdman in the question if that helps.I'm not. If I perceive Birdman a certain way because of his appearance, then I equally should observe Army Staff Sgt. Ryan G. Williams, a war veteran the same way. I mean, not given the benefit of any back story here, should I predicate any sort judgement based on what malice they might bring due to their respective appearance?Joe Bryant said:You're avoiding the question. But that's ok.I got the question Joe. But I'll answer this again with something worth one thousand words:
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It's ok. I take the blame for derailing to a discussion on how the public perceives stuff. And yes, Austin isn't as weird as it used to be. But it's still kinda weird.Sorry. I guess delete that if you want.
I think people with tattoos ultimately don't care about how they are perceived amongst other people. It's a total personal choice, and I think best answered by a person like say, a tattoo artist. The best ones know the subject they are applying their work on, and know it's a choice that will make one unique. Of course one such as Kaep has to defend that choice, even though you hardly see MMA fighters having to defend tattoos on their skin. Again, I know a lot of people that are covered with them, and get new ones almost every year. I would think that how they are viewed by the general public means nothing to them anymore, rather it's what they chose because they have the freewill and money to do it.It's really not that difficult of a question. This isn't about you judging. This is asking you how you think society sees him. And whether you think he cultivates that.Well if I did that, then I am judging him guilty despite the facts, am I not?Absolutely. Substitute Ryan Williams for Birdman in the question if that helps.I'm not. If I perceive Birdman a certain way because of his appearance, then I equally should observe Army Staff Sgt. Ryan G. Williams, a war veteran the same way. I mean, not given the benefit of any back story here, should I predicate any sort judgement based on what malice they might bring due to their respective appearance?Joe Bryant said:You're avoiding the question. But that's ok.I got the question Joe. But I'll answer this again with something worth one thousand words:
http://www.texasobserver.org/wp-content/legacy/archives/zrw_080321/images/ryanw.jpg
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When it comes to public perception of Williams and specifically how much leeway or benefit of the doubt he's given on issues like questionable conduct or a drug test, do his tattoos have any effect on the public's opinion? Not should they. But do they?
Follow up question - Do you think Williams’ appearance is something he actively cultivates?
I'm really interested in your take on this as a 49ers (and I'm assuming Kaepernick) fan.
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