@Mr.Pack Yep, potty training sucks but needs to be done and kept on top of until they get it. One day it just seems to click.
I'd personally recommend you starting over with potty training and acting like it's day 1 again. New approach of positivity over yelling and just commit to taking outside every 30 mins. Here are my potty training notes I referenced when I started, if helpful...
Overall Training
Keys = repetition and positive reinforcement
Repetition can be ruined by other family members if they aren’t consistent with you. Make sure they are aware of the important keys to not confuse the puppy
Say “NO” a lot (catch them in the act and say it immediately)
No feeding human food (don’t let him get the taste of that and start begging all the time)
Potty training
Start at around 8-10 wks (if wait to 12 wks, much harder)
As soon as you see they want/start to go, get them outside
Don’t yell or stick nose in it...stay positive!
If they accidently go inside, then just say No, No, No but then still take to outside grass so he knows that’s where he was supposed to go (no treats!)
First 2 wks, need to be unrelenting and excessive... take them out every 30 mins
Every time they drink water or eat
Every time they wake up from a nap
Keep them enclosed in Kitchen on wood floors for them to visually be able to see outside sliding door where he needs to go
When outside looking to go, be vocally repetitive (say Potty over and over until they go, so they know it’s time to do this when outside)
Once he goes, over the top praise them and give a treat!
Have an outdoor box of treats at the ready so always have them there to praise and give him right away after going.
Make sure they know this was the correct time to go with positive reinforcement
Treats immediately after going outside, not inside (don't ever reward for bad behavior)
Crate training
This is a must as dramatically reduces issues when away (potty in house and chewing on things)
Make the crate your dogs safe den...they find comfort and solitude in there
Primary purpose of crate training is housetraining as they won’t pee where they sleep.
Also as a way to limit their access to the rest of the house while they learn other rules like not chewing on stuff, etc.
Crate dogs until they can be trusted not to destroy house (after that it’s a place they should want to go voluntarily)
Never:
Don’t use crate as a punishment (needs to always be thought of as a happy place)
Don’t leave in crate too long
Crate size should be just large enough for them to stand up and turn around in (don't give them room to go potty and then not have to sleep on it)
Training should be a series of small steps (don’t go too fast)
Step 1) Introduce to crate
Put crate in area that family spends lots of time
Soft blanket and Anxiety dog with heartbeat inside crate
Keep door open and let the dog explore the crate on their own time
If hesitant to use
Take over by crate and talk in happy tone of voice
Encourage dog to enter by treats nearby, just inside door and also all the way inside back of crate (if end up not doing it with treats, toss favorite toy in)
DO NOT force them to enter!
Step 2) Feed dog meals inside crate
After introduction to crate,
If hesitant to go in, put food and water bowl next to crate to create a pleasant association with crate
If still reluctant to go in crate, only put food/water as far inside crate as willing to go. Each time feed them put it a little further back
Once dog inside crate eating meal, close the door behind them
After first meal, open door as soon as they finish meal
With each meal after, leave the door closed a few minutes longer after they have finished, until they’re calmly staying in the crate for 10 mins after eating
If begin to whine to be let out, length of time in may have been increased too quickly...next time do a minute or two less
If they continue to cry don’t let them out until they stop...otherwise they’ll learn that the way to get out of the crate is to whine so they’ll keep doing it.
Step 3) Practice with longer crating periods
After dog eating meals inside crate with no fear or anxiety, confine them for short periods while I’m still at home
Call over to crate and give a treat
Say “Go see Bella!!” (name of Anxiety stuffed dog) and encourage them by pointing to inside of crate with treat in hand
After dog enters, praise them, give treat and close door
Sit QUIETLY near crate for 5-10 mins and then go in a different room for a few mins. Return, sit QUIETLY again for a short time then let them out of the crate
Repeat this process several times a day, gradually increasing the length of time you leave them in crate and also increasing time being out of sight
Goal to complete this step is get them in crate for 30 mins with me out of sight (this may take several days to weeks to complete)
Step 4) Crate dog when leave house
Put them in crate with “Go see Bella!” command, treat and some safe toys for them to be with (Anxiety dog with heartbeat)
Crate them anywhere from 5 mins - 20 mins before leaving...vary the amount of time before leaving to get them not anticipating
Don’t make departures long or emotional..be matter of fact
Praise dog briefly, give them a treat and then leave quietly
When return home don’t be excitable and use a loud voice
Keep arrivals low-key so they learn to stay chill when people come into house
Continue to crate dog for short periods while home so they don’t associate crating with being left alone
Crate dog when not home for first year (through approx. April 2021)
Step 5) Crate dog at night
Initially put crate in bedroom next to bed
To hear when stirring and need to go potty
So they don’t associate crate with social isolation
So they see us and learn that night time is for sleeping
In reach length to smell your hand and you can talk to them to reassure
TIPS:
Remove food and water bowls at 7pm
Put in divider panel for overnight so only room to lay down and sleep (basically close off the space where the food and water bowls were)
Raise crate off bedroom floor so same level as bed and can see us
Put a blanket or towel over top of crate for darkness
For first 3 days (if whining a lot), put a heating pad on low under a blanket to associate warmth sleeping with litter mates
Use Anxiety Dog with beating heart to associate sleeping with litter mates (Always associate the crate with comfort when sleeping or home alone)
Once dog sleeping comfortably through the night, begin to gradually move it to the preferred location in the house
When take out overnight, don’t talk to him or engage at all...just take out to go potty and then right back to bed. Make sure they know overnight is not playtime.
Whining will likely happen...need to determine if it’s whining to be let out or whining to go potty
If whining to be let out, just ignore (or if crate close to bed, can touch them to soothe)
DO NOT yell or tap on crate to stop...always positive!
If whining doesn’t stop after ignoring, use the phrase for going potty..if they respond excitedly take them outside
This potty trip is with a purpose and not playtime or loving
Every time they stir in middle of night, get up and take them out (be matter of fact..out and back in)
If convinced whining is not to go to bathroom, then just need to stay strong in ignoring..don’t give in or dog will learn they will eventually get their way by whining.
Could be up to 3-4 nights of constant whining but stick through it and they will eventually learn.
The suffer is well worth the ultimate payoff once comfortable in crate
Keep dog in crate overnight for first year (through approx. April 2021)