Hooper31
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We golf together. She's only slightly less addicted than I am.What do you guys do when your wife gives you a hard time about playing?
Divorce her?
We golf together. She's only slightly less addicted than I am.What do you guys do when your wife gives you a hard time about playing?
Divorce her?
No shtick. This one of the contributing factors in why my marriage was quick.What do you guys do when your wife gives you a hard time about playing?
Divorce her?
I can't hear my phone ring or buzz when it is in my golf bag on the back of the cart. She needs to leave a message.No shtick. This one of the contributing factors in why my marriage was quick.What do you guys do when your wife gives you a hard time about playing?
Divorce her?
I would get away to golf w friends. After like 6 holes, I'd start to get text messages and phone calls about where I am and how she needs help with the dogs at home and how much longer I'll be.
Nothing pissed me off more. A day on the course should be a day on the course.
I'm trying to teach my wife to golf. It could cause divorce.We golf together. She's only slightly less addicted than I am.What do you guys do when your wife gives you a hard time about playing?
Divorce her?
Neither of us golfed at all five years ago. I was a basketball player and coach. She played soccer. We both played a lot of co-ed softball together with our gang of friends.I'm trying to teach my wife to golf. It could cause divorce.We golf together. She's only slightly less addicted than I am.What do you guys do when your wife gives you a hard time about playing?
Divorce her?![]()
Serious question: Did she know you golfed before you married her?
I think you are in trouble if you get too technical with your swing thoughts. Larger, more broad swing thoughts can actually indirectly correct many of the more detailed items you listed.Curious to know how other guys track their swing thoughts.
I keep a running list in a notepad on my phone. I edit it most often after I play a good round. Things that just felt right and had good results. Right now my list looks something like this:
Anyone else do something similar? I realize this is a long list, but it gives me something to fall back on when shots are all off-kilter.
- Left arm long and straight
- Right elbow in tight
- Flat left wrist
- Don't kill it
- Hit it smooth inside to out
- Keep head on ball
- Left shoulder rotates back, then weight forward and down into ball
Thanks. This is the sort of feedback I was looking for.Larger, more broad swing thoughts can actually indirectly correct many of the more detailed items you listed.
i've got some notes on my phone:Curious to know how other guys track their swing thoughts.
I keep a running list in a notepad on my phone. I edit it most often after I play a good round. Things that just felt right and had good results. Right now my list looks something like this:
Anyone else do something similar? I realize this is a long list, but it gives me something to fall back on when shots are all off-kilter.
- Left arm long and straight
- Right elbow in tight
- Flat left wrist
- Don't kill it
- Hit it smooth inside to out
- Keep head on ball
- Left shoulder rotates back, then weight forward and down into ball
Same for me. I don't look at it unless I'm falling apart and can't figure out what's going on.so these notes are more reference if i start missing
Yes. When I'm playing well I don't really have a swing thought at all. I pick my target and let it rip.Just fire at the target, plan your misses.
Hold the club with the same grip as you hold your putter. Or, if that feels weird, don't interlock your fingers, point your right index finger down the grip (or left if you're a lefty) and put the ball further back in your stance. It'll feel weird, but it should help you stop hitting too far behind the ball and blading it.I've gotten to a point where I can't chip anymore. I know I'm totally in my own head now, but I can't fix it. I'll practice chipping and I'm fine. But as soon as I get out on the course, my chips are
terrible. I either hit it 2 foot or 40 yards. Chunk or blade. I shot a 101 this weekend with 3 pars and a birdie. If I can hit the green, no issues. If I just miss the green, 7's and 8's. I'm like Tiger
Woods out there chipping now.
Here's the thing: About 20 years ago, I was having a real tough time finding a putting grip that felt good. No matter how I tried to grip the putter, I felt like I was all over the place. I began trying very unconventional putting styles, nothing was too crazy. I eventually found one that felt wonderful: Left hand in the normal spot up top, but the right hand down the club, barely touching the grip. My friends called it the Happy Gilmore grip for putting. I look like I'm playing hockey.Hold the club with the same grip as you hold your putter. Or, if that feels weird, don't interlock your fingers, point your right index finger down the grip (or left if you're a lefty) and put the ball further back in your stance. It'll feel weird, but it should help you stop hitting too far behind the ball and blading it.I've gotten to a point where I can't chip anymore. I know I'm totally in my own head now, but I can't fix it. I'll practice chipping and I'm fine. But as soon as I get out on the course, my chips are
terrible. I either hit it 2 foot or 40 yards. Chunk or blade. I shot a 101 this weekend with 3 pars and a birdie. If I can hit the green, no issues. If I just miss the green, 7's and 8's. I'm like Tiger
Woods out there chipping now.
That's a pretty extreme grip, but I'd say give it a shot. Especially when you have a good lie.Here's the thing: About 20 years ago, I was having a real tough time finding a putting grip that felt good. No matter how I tried to grip the putter, I felt like I was all over the place. I began trying very unconventional putting styles, nothing was too crazy. I eventually found one that felt wonderful: Left hand in the normal spot up top, but the right hand down the club, barely touching the grip. My friends called it the Happy Gilmore grip for putting. I look like I'm playing hockey.Hold the club with the same grip as you hold your putter. Or, if that feels weird, don't interlock your fingers, point your right index finger down the grip (or left if you're a lefty) and put the ball further back in your stance. It'll feel weird, but it should help you stop hitting too far behind the ball and blading it.I've gotten to a point where I can't chip anymore. I know I'm totally in my own head now, but I can't fix it. I'll practice chipping and I'm fine. But as soon as I get out on the course, my chips are
terrible. I either hit it 2 foot or 40 yards. Chunk or blade. I shot a 101 this weekend with 3 pars and a birdie. If I can hit the green, no issues. If I just miss the green, 7's and 8's. I'm like Tiger
Woods out there chipping now.
All that said, when I get to those chips that are 10 to 20 yards off the green, I almost feeling like using that same grip. Hitting it hockey style like a saucer pass. I actually saw a guy on Big Break who did the same thing. I'm really thinking of practicing this, but I don't want to mess up my swing if I'm just going through a Tin Cup moment. I just don't know when the Tin Cup moment actually becomes a Chuck Knoblauch thing.
Do you track fairways, green, putts, sand saves etc? This would be where I'd start. Not knowing any of the above, there are 3 areas I'd look for. 1. Do you have OB/water/penalty strokes? If so routinely, play more conservative on those holes. 2. Wedges. Full, 3/4 and chipping. Spend >50% of your range time from 30-120 yds. Dial those in. 3. Lag putting. Do you three putt when you have a long lag putt?Who has tips for breaking 80? I am right there consistently. 80-83 every time out now.
I had a +1 37 on my front 9 last time out, and was sure I had it. A couple bad breaks on the back 9 and a bogey bogey choke finish for a 44 left me at 81. I think it's a mental hurdle at this point. I knew right where I was and knew I had to par in to shoot the score I wanted.
Just trying to focus on every shot.
don't think about your score for all 18 holes. Just score each hole and move on.I did the break 80 mental hurdle, took me like 8 times shooting 80, then shot 76. My buddy kept score, and I had no idea what I was shooting other than I kept making pars. Its 100% mentalWho has tips for breaking 80? I am right there consistently. 80-83 every time out now.
I had a +1 37 on my front 9 last time out, and was sure I had it. A couple bad breaks on the back 9 and a bogey bogey choke finish for a 44 left me at 81. I think it's a mental hurdle at this point. I knew right where I was and knew I had to par in to shoot the score I wanted.
Just trying to focus on every shot.
1. course management. avoid the penalty shots, know your ball flight so if you miss the green or fairway you aren't penalized. If the flag is on the left side of the green and there is a bunker on the left...aim for the middle-right part of the green.Who has tips for breaking 80? I am right there consistently. 80-83 every time out now.
I had a +1 37 on my front 9 last time out, and was sure I had it. A couple bad breaks on the back 9 and a bogey bogey choke finish for a 44 left me at 81. I think it's a mental hurdle at this point. I knew right where I was and knew I had to par in to shoot the score I wanted.
Just trying to focus on every shot.
I 3-putt way more often than I should. Probably one to two times per round. I'd say this is the biggest flaw in my game. Need to make more of those putts inside 10 feet too.Do you track fairways, green, putts, sand saves etc? This would be where I'd start.Not knowing any of the above, there are 3 areas I'd look for. 1. Do you have OB/water/penalty strokes? If so routinely, play more conservative on those holes. 2. Wedges. Full, 3/4 and chipping. Spend >50% of your range time from 30-120 yds. Dial those in. 3. Lag putting. Do you three putt when you have a long lag putt?Who has tips for breaking 80? I am right there consistently. 80-83 every time out now.
I had a +1 37 on my front 9 last time out, and was sure I had it. A couple bad breaks on the back 9 and a bogey bogey choke finish for a 44 left me at 81. I think it's a mental hurdle at this point. I knew right where I was and knew I had to par in to shoot the score I wanted.
Just trying to focus on every shot.
Get someone else to keep score. If it is a mental issue then quit putting that distraction in your head so you can fully focus on each shot coming in. I try my best not to think about score and think about swing instead.Grahamburn said:Who has tips for breaking 80? I am right there consistently. 80-83 every time out now.
I had a +1 37 on my front 9 last time out, and was sure I had it. A couple bad breaks on the back 9 and a bogey bogey choke finish for a 44 left me at 81. I think it's a mental hurdle at this point. I knew right where I was and knew I had to par in to shoot the score I wanted.
Just trying to focus on every shot.
Started doing this last year and knocked a few strokes off. When I did not hit the green 90% of the time I was short. Now if I don`t catch it square I am getting to the green or at least the front fringe.urbanhack said:1. course management. avoid the penalty shots, know your ball flight so if you miss the green or fairway you aren't penalized. If the flag is on the left side of the green and there is a bunker on the left...aim for the middle-right part of the green.Grahamburn said:Who has tips for breaking 80? I am right there consistently. 80-83 every time out now.
I had a +1 37 on my front 9 last time out, and was sure I had it. A couple bad breaks on the back 9 and a bogey bogey choke finish for a 44 left me at 81. I think it's a mental hurdle at this point. I knew right where I was and knew I had to par in to shoot the score I wanted.
Just trying to focus on every shot.
2. no three putts
3. when in doubt, take a longer club, choke down and make a shorter swing.
Check out the Deal times at www.teeoff.com.Hooper31 said:What do you do to find cheap deals on greens fees?
Been using GolfNow every now and then, but their fees are so outrageous that its almost the same cost as just showing up and paying the full freight. Also, you have to book a ton of rounds now to earn any special rewards. Their HotDeals can sometimes get you a free cart, but I walk all the time anyway.
Never known anybody selected via the lottery but that is certainly a good sign. I got my rejection this am.Anyone been selected for tickets to Masters? Do you get email or physical letter notifying you? My brother received the rejection email today but I haven't seen anything yet, am I still in running?
That's what it's all about for me at leastShot 82 on Friday with 4 penalty shots. Wedge play was subpar from 50 to 100.
But played with 3 great buddies, got pretty buzzed and had a blast.
As much as I want to play well, I love hanging out, drinking, gambling and hitting clutch shots better than putting up a number.That's what it's all about for me at leastShot 82 on Friday with 4 penalty shots. Wedge play was subpar from 50 to 100.But played with 3 great buddies, got pretty buzzed and had a blast.I gotta actually get some buddies is all.
That's pretty good for 4 penalties.Shot 82 on Friday with 4 penalty shots. Wedge play was subpar from 50 to 100.
But played with 3 great buddies, got pretty buzzed and had a blast.
Is fun. I play with my bro in law. He used to be an 18, now he's a 10. I'm a 5. He beats me when I have a bad day but even then, if I press and pay attention the last 2-3 holes I usually get the money back. I think it bugs him knowing that even on my worst days he can't completely beat me.As much as I want to play well, I love hanging out, drinking, gambling and hitting clutch shots better than putting up a number.That's what it's all about for me at leastShot 82 on Friday with 4 penalty shots. Wedge play was subpar from 50 to 100.But played with 3 great buddies, got pretty buzzed and had a blast.I gotta actually get some buddies is all.
Drop it another 4 pts by spending all your practice time on putting and chippinggot my latest NCGA revision today: 15.6. that's the lowest number i've held in probably 20 years, and down from 17.3 last year at this time. feeling pretty good about my game at this point.
Plus, its boring shooting even par. I had a round with 16 pars, one birdie, one bogey and I thought I'd die of boredomAs much as I want to play well, I love hanging out, drinking, gambling and hitting clutch shots better than putting up a number.That's what it's all about for me at leastShot 82 on Friday with 4 penalty shots. Wedge play was subpar from 50 to 100.But played with 3 great buddies, got pretty buzzed and had a blast.I gotta actually get some buddies is all.
That's what it's all about for me at leastShot 82 on Friday with 4 penalty shots. Wedge play was subpar from 50 to 100.
But played with 3 great buddies, got pretty buzzed and had a blast.I gotta actually get some buddies is all.

Sounds awful.Plus, its boring shooting even par. I had a round with 16 pars, one birdie, one bogey and I thought I'd die of boredomAs much as I want to play well, I love hanging out, drinking, gambling and hitting clutch shots better than putting up a number.That's what it's all about for me at leastShot 82 on Friday with 4 penalty shots. Wedge play was subpar from 50 to 100.But played with 3 great buddies, got pretty buzzed and had a blast.I gotta actually get some buddies is all.