James Daulton
Footballguy
Maybe this is what I'm missing since when my 21 YO son brings his gal pals and their crew around, while they look nice for sure, I'm ready to stick a fork in my ear after 15 minutes or so of being around them.
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***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (3 Viewers)
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If American guys knew what it was like in other countries, they wouldn't put up with the #### they do.
ETA: since this is the iDating thread, there are a few very good international dating sites out there (I prefer the Latin ones, of course). I highly recommend checking them out. The quality and the difference in volume of interest and messages you receive will astound you.
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Captain Cranks
Footballguy
I was going to say the same thing , but more along the lines ask if Zed felt creepy with her.
A friend of mine's wife has an 18 year old niece who's been hanging around a 32 year old friend of her uncle. Every person in the family has labeled the guy as "creepy" for getting involved with an 18 yo. Tack on 9 years to that dude and I can't imagine what they'd call him.
offdee
Footballguy
When I was 37, I had a 21 yr old waitress I met as a fun sex toy for a couple months and even that seemed strange to me. Not strange enough to abstain, of course. Those youngins' are nympho freaks.
James Daulton
Footballguy
Ok, I derailed the thread, my bad. No more talk about age appropriateness and much more talk about actual dates and pics.
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Insoxicated
This.
And again... We're talking about having some fun while single and overseas. These guys in here talking about judgment by family members or long term emotional attachment.... Who the hell is suggesting taking her home to mom and dad?
I'd wager most 18yo's outside the US are maturity peers of early/mid 20-somethings in the states. Not something I'd target exclusively or make a habit out of... but for a few dates/nights? Attaboy zed.
Ok, last thing I'll say about it I guess, unless someone has a question. I didn't (and don't) feel creepy about it at all. I'm sorry but things in this country are very different, for various reasons. In most other places it's not a big deal for younger women to date much older men (yes I'd say I'm pushing that acceptable range, but they usually think I look much younger than my age). It still depends on the particular person though. I posted earlier in the thread that I was dating a 19-20 year old in Bogota for 16 months. She was in law school and quite honestly probably more mature than I am. Any problems we had regarding age had more to do with the different life stages we were in than any emotional maturity level. Her mom wasn't thrilled about the age difference but she accepted it. Her statement was that she liked older men when she was her daughter's age too.
Now that girl from the pics, she wasn't exactly the dating type...
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So I met up with the 26-year old late last night for drinks. She was cool and we had a good time, but didn't close the deal. Made out in the parking lot and I groped her all over, but she stopped it from going any further. No big deal, she was pretty into me and definitely wants it. She commented several times at the bar about trying to figure out if I was very confident in myself or if I was arrogant (based on the messages we had exchanged and also my playful comments during our conversation). The FBG strategy in action.
There was this very attractive blonde across the bar who I caught checking me out several times throughout the night. She seemed like somewhat of a regular who was there all by herself. Ugh!!! If only...
Uruk-Hai
Footballguy
Relax, zed. Just have fun and get your feet wet (may or may not be a euphemism). Someone upthread said you're thinking too much and I agree. I also understand doing that. Enjoy your freedom and don't pressure yourself.
Thanks, GB. Like I said, it was no big deal. I had a good time and was content to leave it there. Chatting with a 33-year old this morning and just got her number.
Hopefully there are some cracks appearing in the dating dam...
Johnny Rock
Footballguy
Well the date went alright. She was nice, but totally not my type. Oh well, it was some more experience and hopefully I can keep some momentum going.zed2283 said:Gotta date tonight!
The 26-year old blew up my phone late last night. She even mentioned that she knows we talked about just being friends and hoped I didn't feel weird about making out the other night. She definitely wants it, so I threw the fwb idea out there. Waiting to see what she says.
Uruk-Hai
Footballguy
Couple of things.....
1. The people you see may not admit it, but we're almost always stepping stones to others. Timing is a #####.
2. It may work with your 26 y.o. but stop trying to define what "us" is so quickly.
Sounds like you're doing great, zed.
Joe T
Footballguy
Have been seeing a girl for a few weeks. Was over at her place sitting on the couch yesterday watching tv when out of the blue she says, "I'm thinking about getting fake boobs." So, I think about it for about 30 seconds... and say, "Okay....".
She says, "Well, I want to know what you think."
Me: "I don't think you need them."
Her: "What? I thought guys liked fake boobs."
Me: "Yeah. On girls that need them. You don't."
yada yada... conversation went on for a while, but hopefully you guys get the idea.
She says, "Well, I want to know what you think."
Me: "I don't think you need them."
Her: "What? I thought guys liked fake boobs."
Me: "Yeah. On girls that need them. You don't."
yada yada... conversation went on for a while, but hopefully you guys get the idea.
wilked
Footballguy
Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
count me in as also shuked :|
Joe T
Footballguy
Natural is better.
ETA: I guess I'm just disappointed because I actually kind of liked her. The suddenness of her decision to get fake ones is concerning.
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Buttonhook
Footballguy
Doesn't seem like you were that into her, so better to find out now.Natural is better.
ETA: I guess I'm just disappointed because I actually kind of liked her. The suddenness of her decision to get fake ones is concerning.
Should be a new thread on this one, because it definitely goes beyond the actual fake boobies. I swear there is a direct link between getting fake ones and cheating on you husband/boyfriend. And women that want fake ones usually have huge self-esteem issues and/or they really like attention from men, both of which usually comes with lots of crazy. Definitely a red-flag for me (assuming I was still single...
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Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
Bumble option is still messaging occasionally, but she's currently on vacation so back burner there.
Hot neighbor and her 5yo daughter brought me a plate of warm chocolate chip cookies yesterday, though. Neighbor says "she really wanted to bring these over to you." Little girl hands me the cookies and literally turns and runs away.
We've had brief interactions, as I have made approximately 5,372 trips to my trash can and truck, efforting to catch her outside again. She seems interested, I think. Let me see if I can not screw this up.
CurlyNight
Footballguy
If you're doing it for guy(s) then that could be a problem, though not necessarily. If you're getting them for you then nothing wrong with that. Hard to tell motive without knowing the girl well. Unless you are looking to get married soon then I wouldn't freak and think that cheating is necessarily next. Just go with it if you like this girl, imo. Sometimes guys overthink/analyze things too much.Natural is better.
ETA: I guess I'm just disappointed because I actually kind of liked her. The suddenness of her decision to get fake ones is concerning.
offdee
Footballguy
A girl just doesn't suddenly decide this...she's been thinking about it in her head for a while if she's really being serious about moving forward with it. She just "suddenly" mentioned it to you.Natural is better.
ETA: I guess I'm just disappointed because I actually kind of liked her. The suddenness of her decision to get fake ones is concerning.
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Joe T
Footballguy
Thorn
Footballguy
Five seems a little young. But maybe you are in South America somewhere.Bumble option is still messaging occasionally, but she's currently on vacation so back burner there.
Hot neighbor and her 5yo daughter brought me a plate of warm chocolate chip cookies yesterday, though. Neighbor says "she really wanted to bring these over to you." Little girl hands me the cookies and literally turns and runs away.
We've had brief interactions, as I have made approximately 5,372 trips to my trash can and truck, efforting to catch her outside again. She seems interested, I think. Let me see if I can not screw this up.
I'm in the camp that doesn't like fake boobs and thinks there's something wrong with women who want them. I can understand in certain cases, but for the most part they are completely unnecessary and IMO don't even look that good.
I met a girl on a website who lived long distance. She's 24, in medical school, pretty cute, big cans, everything going for her. She was talking about coming to visit me, and mentioned that she had surgery scheduled for a boob job. Totally killed it for me, we haven't talked since.
I met a girl on a website who lived long distance. She's 24, in medical school, pretty cute, big cans, everything going for her. She was talking about coming to visit me, and mentioned that she had surgery scheduled for a boob job. Totally killed it for me, we haven't talked since.
James Daulton
Footballguy
Haha no. It's just that from what I've seen, she has huge cans already. I would be embarrassed to be seen with her if she intentionally got them bigger. I was so surprised when she told me, she seemed very grounded and pragmatic.Little too old for ya?
Buttonhook
Footballguy
You do realize some women get boob reductions? Could have let a good one slide by jumping to conclusions.
No, she told me she was getting them bigger. I said there's no way, and she said yeah she's wanted one for a long time. We actually argued about it a little bit until she said she didn't want to talk about it anymore. It was a bit disappointing because she's a pretty good catch. She would have been coming to see me this weekend.
Uruk-Hai
Footballguy
Poke_4_Life
Footballguy
If that's the one wanting fakes thenot have fun but don't plan on anything beyond that. She just looks like she wants every guy looking at her all the time. Classic attention where look.
wilked
Footballguy
Poke_4_Life
Footballguy
Need to wash that cookie plate and return it. If it was paper then return a paper plates saying you hope she didn't miss it.Bumble option is still messaging occasionally, but she's currently on vacation so back burner there.
Hot neighbor and her 5yo daughter brought me a plate of warm chocolate chip cookies yesterday, though. Neighbor says "she really wanted to bring these over to you." Little girl hands me the cookies and literally turns and runs away.
We've had brief interactions, as I have made approximately 5,372 trips to my trash can and truck, efforting to catch her outside again. She seems interested, I think. Let me see if I can not screw this up.
Major
Footballguy
Nathan R. Jessep
Footballguy
coyote5
Footballguy
Major
Footballguy
Yep. I was hoping I could at least see them. I guess that's where they get thirsty guys paying the monthly fee. I like the prospects thus far….On another note, Tinder has become absolute garbage. Stepped foot in there recently and nothing but bots + fatties.
Captain Cranks
Footballguy
Just signed up for Bumble just to see what's doin'. Good god, there are a lot of hot chicks there. No way I can compete in that arena with basically no opportunity to use charm/personality.
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Rirruto
Footballguy
As of about 6 months ago, you could. There should be a countdown clock that ticks down until your match expires. They've got 24 hours to message you and you can extend one match per day to give her an extra 24 hours.
I've been chatting about a week with a very cute 19-year old college girl who lives about an hour and a half away from me. She's pretty cool, likes older men, and we seem to be getting along great. Have talked several times on the phone and skyped last night, so I know I'm not getting catfished. So here's the kicker... she is a virgin. But I can tell you that she is very curious, her hormones are raging, and she wants me to be the one.
Of course, I know people in this thread would think that would be creepy, so I guess I won't.
Of course, I know people in this thread would think that would be creepy, so I guess I won't.
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Captain Cranks
Footballguy
Something feels off here. Why does a "very cute" 19-year old coed need to use an online dating site and someone who lives 100 miles away to scratch her "curious" itch?I've been chatting about a week with a very cute 19-year old college girl who lives about an hour and a half away from me. She's pretty cool, likes older men, and we seem to be getting along great. Have talked several times on the phone and skyped last night, so I know I'm not getting catfished. So here's the kicker... she is a virgin. But I can tell you that she is very curious, her hormones are raging, and she wants me to be the one.
Of course, I know people in this thread would think that would be creepy, so I guess I won't.
If legit, I do think it's creepy, but realize that's a matter of opinion. I will state that your argument for the foreign girl was that they're more mature than Americans. What's the argument for this 19 year old American virgin?
chet
Footballguy
Just leave a way for your family/friends to trace you. If it sounds too good to be true ...I've been chatting about a week with a very cute 19-year old college girl who lives about an hour and a half away from me. She's pretty cool, likes older men, and we seem to be getting along great. Have talked several times on the phone and skyped last night, so I know I'm not getting catfished. So here's the kicker... she is a virgin. But I can tell you that she is very curious, her hormones are raging, and she wants me to be the one.
Of course, I know people in this thread would think that would be creepy, so I guess I won't.
Well I think in general foreigners that age are much more mature than Americans. But I guess it's still an individual thing in the end. We've talked quite a bit and she's great to talk to and seems pretty mature to me. I think there's understandably some concern as to what would happen if we actually started seeing each other, I became the first, etc. There could suddenly be some crazy/immaturity that comes to the surface. So I don't know. She says she wants to keep talking and get to know each other better before we meet in person, so I think that's a good sign.
She told me that she just has never been in the circumstances for it to happen. The guys she has dated were "losers" who didn't treat her well or she wasn't really attracted enough to them. And the guys that she has been attracted to and interested in more recently have been scared off by her "status." I get the impression that maybe she was a little awkward when she was younger and maybe didn't receive a lot of interest until going off to school.
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ffjunk
Footballguy
I've been chatting about a week with a very cute 19-year old college girl who lives about an hour and a half away from me. She's pretty cool, likes older men, and we seem to be getting along great. Have talked several times on the phone and skyped last night, so I know I'm not getting catfished. So here's the kicker... she is a virgin. But I can tell you that she is very curious, her hormones are raging, and she wants me to be the one.
Of course, I know people in this thread would think that would be creepy, so I guess I won't.
Got news for you. Dateline is not an actual dating site and Chris Hansen will be paying you a visit.
