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I feel like I have to do homework trying to remember these girls names and info...the two girls that are closest to meeting have very similar sounding names. I know I'm going to mess this up. :unsure:
Jesus Christ.
blah blah blah. So, I'm getting mixed messages here. DO I CALL OR TEXT THE GIRL IM TRYING TAKE TO DRINKS TONIGHT!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?
- Do not call any women during the day on your lunch hour. You're a busy man during the day...no time for that nonsense.- When in doubt, stick to texting.- In regards to texting you should rarely feel the need to reply instantly. Let it linger for a little bit and let the girl anticipate a response a little bit...shows you have a lot going on in your life and makes it exciting for the girl. Women like the chase and a little challenge. If you make it too easy for her the interest will fade quickly.
Thank you. I'll shoot her a text. "Hey ####. It's Bucky. Want to grab that drink tonight?" Is that good, or should I converse a little bit?
I edited my post...- When in doubt, stick to texting. (this you can do during the day. "Found a quick break between meetings. Busy day and looking forward to a drink tonight. You should join me"
 
I feel like I have to do homework trying to remember these girls names and info...the two girls that are closest to meeting have very similar sounding names. I know I'm going to mess this up. :unsure:
Jesus Christ.
blah blah blah. So, I'm getting mixed messages here. DO I CALL OR TEXT THE GIRL IM TRYING TAKE TO DRINKS TONIGHT!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?
- Do not call any women during the day on your lunch hour. You're a busy man during the day...no time for that nonsense.- When in doubt, stick to texting.

- In regards to texting you should rarely feel the need to reply instantly. Let it linger for a little bit and let the girl anticipate a response a little bit...shows you have a lot going on in your life and makes it exciting for the girl. Women like the chase and a little challenge. If you make it too easy for her the interest will fade quickly.
Yes to all this. The other benefit to the delayed reply is it sets a precedent. At some point she will text you while you're on a date with another girl. With the precedent set, she won't think anything of it when she doesn't hear back from you right away.

And if you can't keep 2 girls straight (TWO!!!11) you're not ready for this.
Bucky isn't if he has to ask here about every single decision. Even the very simple ones.OY

 
Good lord, Bucky are you something like 13 years old or something?

This has to be shtick. No grown man is this inept at social interaction.... it's unpossible. This feels like safariplanet and Cranbrulet had an autistic lovechild that developed aspbergers and suddenly decided to enter the dating market.

 
I for one will be more patient with our GB Bucky once we start seeing some pictures of the young lasses we're helping him woo. :thumbup:

 
There are probably some horror stories posted in here along the way, but I'd be curious to hear some of your tales of how things didn't quite go how you expected
This one is still my favorite:
one chick sent me a pic that obviously wasn't her and then admitted (on the first date no less) that she slept with over 36 dudes (she was 22 years old) AND was :confused: by a pair of brothers. To this day, I don't know if she meant actual brothers or black guys.
And I'm too lazy to find it, but I believe it was Strykerpks that went on a date and the girl brought her kids with her on the date. Loved that one.
 
I cant decide is i wish i was dating during this periodof time with technology the way it is OR glad that I'm not

 
You guys suck.
You've been given a ####load of really good advice so far. You're asking questions about the most mundane aspects of conversation though.. It's not that hard to simply ask a girl out for drinks. If you've already been chatting with these girls there is a pretty good chance they're interested. Just be yourself.
 
You guys suck.
You've been given a ####load of really good advice so far. You're asking questions about the most mundane aspects of conversation though.. It's not that hard to simply ask a girl out for drinks. If you've already been chatting with these girls there is a pretty good chance they're interested. Just be yourself.
OrHe could just hire someone to ask them out for drinks, then go meet them, then....
 
You guys suck.
You've been given a ####load of really good advice so far. You're asking questions about the most mundane aspects of conversation though.. It's not that hard to simply ask a girl out for drinks. If you've already been chatting with these girls there is a pretty good chance they're interested. Just be yourself.
I'm just unsure, since I have only emailed with this girl, if asking her to drinks on my first text is the right move?
See my last post. Tell her that you're going to stopping somehwere for drinks, and she should join you. It takes some edge off, in that you'll be doing it regardless if she's joining you or not, but her company would be nice.The key here is to word it in a way that you are TELLING her to join you. Not ASKING her to join you. Women like a confident man.
 
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Thank you. I'll shoot her a text. "Hey ####. It's Bucky. Want to grab that drink tonight?" Is that good, or should I converse a little bit?
Have you texted her before? If so, you can leave out the "It's Bucky." Wow, her parents must really hate her if they named her ####. Is the other one named Bunt?
 
You guys suck.
You've been given a ####load of really good advice so far. You're asking questions about the most mundane aspects of conversation though.. It's not that hard to simply ask a girl out for drinks. If you've already been chatting with these girls there is a pretty good chance they're interested. Just be yourself.
I'm just unsure, since I have only emailed with this girl, if asking her to drinks on my first text is the right move?
See my last post. Tell her that you're going to stopping somehwere for drinks, and she should join you. It takes some edge off, in that you'll be doing it regardless if she's joining you or not, but her company would be nice.
Got it. Now I just got to figure out where.
OMGI hope you make the RIGHT choice.
 
This has to be shtick.
This. Although Bucky claims this is his first time he's tried idating he posted the same type of questions last year when he claimed he was using eharmony as his site. Oh well, the shtick keeps the thread bumped for more activity from the real idaters.
 
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You guys suck.
You've been given a ####load of really good advice so far. You're asking questions about the most mundane aspects of conversation though.. It's not that hard to simply ask a girl out for drinks. If you've already been chatting with these girls there is a pretty good chance they're interested. Just be yourself.
:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: I just finished watching Costanza turn down a request to go up for coffee.Bucky = Costanza
 
just e-mailed "3" :link:
Good. Now get more lines in the water.Edit: I figured you'd like that one and hadn't even noticed the "law" thing. She just looked "pure" or some horse####... ;)
definitely my type :thumbup: Krista wanna go read what I sent to them to make sure i didn't #### up?
can you post them here? I'm new to this thread.
I guess. To 3:

Hey Shannon,

My name is Mike and I will be living in the Twin Cities to complete my third year of law school. I see you are a lawyer and while I haven't dated inside our profession yet, dating outside of it hasn't been working out so well either so I figured I'd give it a shot. I too am new to the area and don't want this cold to keep me down as well as the books, so maybe we can find some things to do to keep our mind off work. Let me know if you'd like to have a drink or get together sometime...

Take care,

Mike

To 8:

Hey Katie, my name is Mike and I'll be a third year law student in the Twin Cities so I'm fairly new to the area and thought I'd give this a shot. To be honest, you are perhaps one of the only normal looking people I've seen on here so figured I'd send you a message. Your profile suggests you have a friend who has had some success here and that's also why I'm here because I've heard good things about it, so who knows, we should meet for a drink sometime and see if it works for us too.

Take care,

Mike

To 10:

Hey, my name is Mike and I wanted to say I like your profile. I find it very cool that you're a nurse - it's a great profession where a lot of good is done. Not so much like mine where I on occassion defend pedophiles and other fun people... Anyways, if you'd like to have a drink sometime let me know. Take care,

Mike
Still the best post of the thread - this post, the Capella post and strykerpks' date are the Top 3 moments (of a lot of good ones) in this thread.
 
This has to be shtick.
This. Although Bucky claims this is his first time he's tried idating he posted the same type of questions last year when he claimed he was using eharmony as his site. Oh well, the shtick keeps the thread bumped for more activity from the real idaters.
I was on eHarmony for 2 months. Hated the slow process and not being able to choose who I could contact.
OK. Carry on Bucky, carry on. Good luck with the prospects. Just be confident and go with the flow. The more you analyze things the worse you'll do. And remember, practice makes perfect so if one prospect doesn't work out use that as a learning experience for the next one.
 
You guys suck.
You've been given a ####load of really good advice so far. You're asking questions about the most mundane aspects of conversation though.. It's not that hard to simply ask a girl out for drinks. If you've already been chatting with these girls there is a pretty good chance they're interested. Just be yourself.
:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: I just finished watching Costanza turn down a request to go up for coffee.Bucky = Costanza
Indeed. Bucky, whatever feels natural for you to do/act/say/txt to a woman, do the exact opposite for :pickle:
 
Sent the text. The other chick is texting me as well, but I'm ignoring her right now.ETA: How do you handle the Facebook question? They always seem to ask even before meeting in person?
Just tell them you're never on it. Too busy to keep up.
 
Sent the text. The other chick is texting me as well, but I'm ignoring her right now.ETA: How do you handle the Facebook question? They always seem to ask even before meeting in person?
Just tell them you're never on it. Too busy to keep up.
Just let them add you, what have you got to lose? :shrug: Just make sure to set the option where you have to approve posts to your wall to avoid any crazy girl drama. You can always delete them later if needed.
 
I feel like I have to do homework trying to remember these girls names and info...the two girls that are closest to meeting have very similar sounding names. I know I'm going to mess this up. :unsure:
Pfft, I've been on at least a dozen dates where I cannot remember her name. I'm usually really good with names but for whatever reason sometimes I blank. I think my brain knew they were going to lead anywhere and refused to make space for their names. I gave inappropriate nicknames to them for use in private and with friends, but that makes it harder to remember real names in public. One date really sticks in my memory I kept my phone on silent and open in my lap during the entire date. Every time I needed to remember her name I had to look down into my lap. :lmao: Rest assured you'll screw up at some point. Just laugh it off and be sure to share with us so we can enjoy the story. It's the occasional screw ups that give life flavor.
 
awesome :lmao:
I for one will be more patient with our GB Bucky once we start seeing some pictures of the young lasses we're helping him woo. :thumbup:
This
There are probably some horror stories posted in here along the way, but I'd be curious to hear some of your tales of how things didn't quite go how you expected
This one is still my favorite:
one chick sent me a pic that obviously wasn't her and then admitted (on the first date no less) that she slept with over 36 dudes (she was 22 years old) AND was :confused: by a pair of brothers.

To this day, I don't know if she meant actual brothers or black guys.
And I'm too lazy to find it, but I believe it was Strykerpks that went on a date and the girl brought her kids with her on the date. Loved that one.
:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

 
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Good lord, Bucky are you something like 13 years old or something? This has to be shtick. No grown man is this inept at social interaction.... it's unpossible. This feels like safariplanet and Cranbrulet had an autistic lovechild that developed aspbergers and suddenly decided to enter the dating market.
:lmao:
 
If 2 out of 3 pics a girl is using are 5 years old (I remember this girl from another site 5 years ago) that means she got fat right?

 
Some chick (?) just sent me a message. She looks cute. I checked out her profile and see she has an odd look but is extremely cute. Then I read the following at the bottom of her profile:

I wasn't born or raised as a girl. However, I have always known in my heart that I was supposed to be - and this is who I really am. I'm far from complete mentally, emotionally and physically... but I'm getting better at knowing my strengths/weaknesses.

Once you get to know me you'll realize that I'm just like any other girl, so please don't be too shy to message me - I promise I won't bite.
:unsure: :excited:
my link
 
Holy ####. The girl I'm meeting tomorrow just wants me to come over and hang out. :excited:
I really don't want to pile on here - I appreciate you bringing us along for your journey into dating, but stop putting the ##### on a pedestal. It's just #####. Relax. Take a deep breath. Go make crock pot chicken. You are going to come across as desperate if you get this worked up over every element of communication. You shouldn't be excited about her coming over, you should expect her to want to come overThat said , good luck. I hope it turns out well. I'll be here :popcorn:
 
I have been texting with 23-yo blonde stalker chick since our date on Sunday. We were supposed to see each other tonight for skydiving, but last night we were both free and decided to meet up for dinner. We spent close to 3 hours at the restaurant talking. She told me she had met one other guy from OKC since moving to town four months ago, but that he didn't have much personality and so they just didn't hit it off. It turns out she was living with a boyfriend up until the move, and that she hasn't spoken to him since she arrived here. It was kind of a new job/moving/breakup/fresh start type thing. She did mention that she went out on a date once with a guy older than me, but that personality wise it wasn't a match. Made me wonder if maybe that could have been my friend. :unsure:

We decided that we would still see each other again tonight. So I walked her to her car afterwards and went in for a kiss. It started at the cheek, then turned into a brief lip lock. When I got home I texted her "Thanks for the kiss" and she replied "You are welcome. I’ll kiss you longer when we aren’t in public." Earlier at the restaurant, we had talked about how you could rent online movies from Amazon (who knew?). And since we also hadn't decided yet what we were going to do tonight, I texted her back "In that case I vote for the Amazon movie tomorrow." She replied that that sounded good.

A little after that she texted me saying that she was sorry if it was weird that she tried to friend me on facebook (I never brought it up). So that opened up a little discussion and she basically said that she started typing my first name into the search and I popped right up because of our mutual friend (which I had thought was the most likely scenario) and that she promises she’s not a stalker. She asked me how I knew the guy and I told her, but I didn’t ask her anything about him and she didn’t volunteer any more info. Just let it drop? I know that's the safe play but I'll probably ask tonight how she knows him.

 
I have been texting with 23-yo blonde stalker chick since our date on Sunday. We were supposed to see each other tonight for skydiving, but last night we were both free and decided to meet up for dinner. We spent close to 3 hours at the restaurant talking. She told me she had met one other guy from OKC since moving to town four months ago, but that he didn't have much personality and so they just didn't hit it off. It turns out she was living with a boyfriend up until the move, and that she hasn't spoken to him since she arrived here. It was kind of a new job/moving/breakup/fresh start type thing. She did mention that she went out on a date once with a guy older than me, but that personality wise it wasn't a match. Made me wonder if maybe that could have been my friend. :unsure: We decided that we would still see each other again tonight. So I walked her to her car afterwards and went in for a kiss. It started at the cheek, then turned into a brief lip lock. When I got home I texted her "Thanks for the kiss" and she replied "You are welcome. I'll kiss you longer when we aren't in public." Earlier at the restaurant, we had talked about how you could rent online movies from Amazon (who knew?). And since we also hadn't decided yet what we were going to do tonight, I texted her back "In that case I vote for the Amazon movie tomorrow." She replied that that sounded good.A little after that she texted me saying that she was sorry if it was weird that she tried to friend me on facebook (I never brought it up). So that opened up a little discussion and she basically said that she started typing my first name into the search and I popped right up because of our mutual friend (which I had thought was the most likely scenario) and that she promises she's not a stalker. She asked me how I knew the guy and I told her, but I didn't ask her anything about him and she didn't volunteer any more info. Just let it drop? I know that's the safe play but I'll probably ask tonight how she knows him.
Sounds like everything went very well.I'd let the friend thing drop. If she brings it up, just listen/answer any questions (just like you have).
 
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I have been texting with 23-yo blonde stalker chick since our date on Sunday. We were supposed to see each other tonight for skydiving, but last night we were both free and decided to meet up for dinner. We spent close to 3 hours at the restaurant talking. She told me she had met one other guy from OKC since moving to town four months ago, but that he didn't have much personality and so they just didn't hit it off. It turns out she was living with a boyfriend up until the move, and that she hasn't spoken to him since she arrived here. It was kind of a new job/moving/breakup/fresh start type thing. She did mention that she went out on a date once with a guy older than me, but that personality wise it wasn't a match. Made me wonder if maybe that could have been my friend. :unsure: We decided that we would still see each other again tonight. So I walked her to her car afterwards and went in for a kiss. It started at the cheek, then turned into a brief lip lock. When I got home I texted her "Thanks for the kiss" and she replied "You are welcome. I’ll kiss you longer when we aren’t in public." Earlier at the restaurant, we had talked about how you could rent online movies from Amazon (who knew?). And since we also hadn't decided yet what we were going to do tonight, I texted her back "In that case I vote for the Amazon movie tomorrow." She replied that that sounded good.A little after that she texted me saying that she was sorry if it was weird that she tried to friend me on facebook (I never brought it up). So that opened up a little discussion and she basically said that she started typing my first name into the search and I popped right up because of our mutual friend (which I had thought was the most likely scenario) and that she promises she’s not a stalker. She asked me how I knew the guy and I told her, but I didn’t ask her anything about him and she didn’t volunteer any more info. Just let it drop? I know that's the safe play but I'll probably ask tonight how she knows him.
Thanks for the kiss? Don't ever say those words again.
 
I have been texting with 23-yo blonde stalker chick since our date on Sunday. We were supposed to see each other tonight for skydiving, but last night we were both free and decided to meet up for dinner. We spent close to 3 hours at the restaurant talking. She told me she had met one other guy from OKC since moving to town four months ago, but that he didn't have much personality and so they just didn't hit it off. It turns out she was living with a boyfriend up until the move, and that she hasn't spoken to him since she arrived here. It was kind of a new job/moving/breakup/fresh start type thing. She did mention that she went out on a date once with a guy older than me, but that personality wise it wasn't a match. Made me wonder if maybe that could have been my friend. :unsure: We decided that we would still see each other again tonight. So I walked her to her car afterwards and went in for a kiss. It started at the cheek, then turned into a brief lip lock. When I got home I texted her "Thanks for the kiss" and she replied "You are welcome. Ill kiss you longer when we arent in public." Earlier at the restaurant, we had talked about how you could rent online movies from Amazon (who knew?). And since we also hadn't decided yet what we were going to do tonight, I texted her back "In that case I vote for the Amazon movie tomorrow." She replied that that sounded good.A little after that she texted me saying that she was sorry if it was weird that she tried to friend me on facebook (I never brought it up). So that opened up a little discussion and she basically said that she started typing my first name into the search and I popped right up because of our mutual friend (which I had thought was the most likely scenario) and that she promises shes not a stalker. She asked me how I knew the guy and I told her, but I didnt ask her anything about him and she didnt volunteer any more info. Just let it drop? I know that's the safe play but I'll probably ask tonight how she knows him.
Thanks for the kiss? Don't ever say those words again.
It was just a way to get the discussion started, and it worked the way I wanted it to.ETA: Oh, and I forgot the best part. She bought dinner. :thumbup:
 
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'Major said:
'offdee said:
'Bucky86 said:
So, it's not an issue yet, but it could turn into one. I am supposed to call this one girl i've been texting later tonight, but I'm calling this other girl to hopefully set up drinks for tonight. What's the play here?
Being busy and a lot going on in your life is attractive to women. Just tell the one you were supposed to call that an important issue came up at work that you have to deal with tonight and you'll be in touch tomorrow hopefully. Simple and effective.
Unless, they're fat chicks. Then it doesn't matter. I'd advise taking batting practice from scrubs. It's not like you need to take BP from Nolan Ryan. Find the farm animals on Match. You'll have less competition and the women will love you for it....Whenever I see a hot girl and her fat friend, I always smile at the fattie just to make her day.
:lmao: I love this place...
 
I have been texting with 23-yo blonde stalker chick since our date on Sunday. We were supposed to see each other tonight for skydiving, but last night we were both free and decided to meet up for dinner. We spent close to 3 hours at the restaurant talking. She told me she had met one other guy from OKC since moving to town four months ago, but that he didn't have much personality and so they just didn't hit it off. It turns out she was living with a boyfriend up until the move, and that she hasn't spoken to him since she arrived here. It was kind of a new job/moving/breakup/fresh start type thing. She did mention that she went out on a date once with a guy older than me, but that personality wise it wasn't a match. Made me wonder if maybe that could have been my friend. :unsure: We decided that we would still see each other again tonight. So I walked her to her car afterwards and went in for a kiss. It started at the cheek, then turned into a brief lip lock. When I got home I texted her "Thanks for the kiss" and she replied "You are welcome. I’ll kiss you longer when we aren’t in public." Earlier at the restaurant, we had talked about how you could rent online movies from Amazon (who knew?). And since we also hadn't decided yet what we were going to do tonight, I texted her back "In that case I vote for the Amazon movie tomorrow." She replied that that sounded good.A little after that she texted me saying that she was sorry if it was weird that she tried to friend me on facebook (I never brought it up). So that opened up a little discussion and she basically said that she started typing my first name into the search and I popped right up because of our mutual friend (which I had thought was the most likely scenario) and that she promises she’s not a stalker. She asked me how I knew the guy and I told her, but I didn’t ask her anything about him and she didn’t volunteer any more info. Just let it drop? I know that's the safe play but I'll probably ask tonight how she knows him.
Thanks for the kiss? Don't ever say those words again.
It was just a way to get the discussion started, and it worked the way I wanted it to.ETA: Oh, and I forgot the best part. She bought dinner. :thumbup:
It's not about "working" its about setting you up properly in the future. Constantly complimenting eventually makes you look like an unconfident chump.A better text wouldve been. "that kiss was nice. Looking forward to more of them soon."Shows confidence and gets her engine revving a bit, along with continuing a conversation which now can go down a little more of sexual tension filled path.
 
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I have been texting with 23-yo blonde stalker chick since our date on Sunday. We were supposed to see each other tonight for skydiving, but last night we were both free and decided to meet up for dinner. We spent close to 3 hours at the restaurant talking. She told me she had met one other guy from OKC since moving to town four months ago, but that he didn't have much personality and so they just didn't hit it off. It turns out she was living with a boyfriend up until the move, and that she hasn't spoken to him since she arrived here. It was kind of a new job/moving/breakup/fresh start type thing. She did mention that she went out on a date once with a guy older than me, but that personality wise it wasn't a match. Made me wonder if maybe that could have been my friend. :unsure: We decided that we would still see each other again tonight. So I walked her to her car afterwards and went in for a kiss. It started at the cheek, then turned into a brief lip lock. When I got home I texted her "Thanks for the kiss" and she replied "You are welcome. I’ll kiss you longer when we aren’t in public." Earlier at the restaurant, we had talked about how you could rent online movies from Amazon (who knew?). And since we also hadn't decided yet what we were going to do tonight, I texted her back "In that case I vote for the Amazon movie tomorrow." She replied that that sounded good.A little after that she texted me saying that she was sorry if it was weird that she tried to friend me on facebook (I never brought it up). So that opened up a little discussion and she basically said that she started typing my first name into the search and I popped right up because of our mutual friend (which I had thought was the most likely scenario) and that she promises she’s not a stalker. She asked me how I knew the guy and I told her, but I didn’t ask her anything about him and she didn’t volunteer any more info. Just let it drop? I know that's the safe play but I'll probably ask tonight how she knows him.
Thanks for the kiss? Don't ever say those words again.
It was just a way to get the discussion started, and it worked the way I wanted it to.ETA: Oh, and I forgot the best part. She bought dinner. :thumbup:
It's not about "working" its about setting you up properly in the future. Constantly complimenting eventually makes you look like an unconfident chump.A better text wouldve been. "that kiss was nice. Looking forward to more of them soon."Shows confidence and gets her engine revving a bit, along with continuing a conversation which now can go down a little more of sexual tension filled path.
Ok, I can see that. Yeah, I like your text better.
 

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