***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (2 Viewers)

[Sister Havana]

I will say that sometimes I will read a message someone's sent me but not reply right away. I generally will come back and reply but it may take me a couple days. I've never deleted my profile just because someone's mailed me, no matter what I think of the person. That's just rude.

they didn't delete thier profile...I'm saying the deleting the message without a reply is kinda rude... I understand it, but its kinda rude... lol

Oh, OK. I read "she is no longer on the site" as "she deleted her profile," not as "she logged off for the evening."

 

[larry_boy_44]

I will say that sometimes I will read a message someone's sent me but not reply right away. I generally will come back and reply but it may take me a couple days. I've never deleted my profile just because someone's mailed me, no matter what I think of the person. That's just rude.

they didn't delete thier profile...I'm saying the deleting the message without a reply is kinda rude... I understand it, but its kinda rude... lol

Oh, OK. I read "she is no longer on the site" as "she deleted her profile," not as "she logged off for the evening."

no, she checked her messages and logged off lol... sorry...

 

[larry_boy_44]

oh yeah, the ohter thing on this girl that messaged me... she was online yesterday when I sent the message (according to POF)...

she didn't even read it yesterday morning, then replied to it yesterday evening... so maybe she just doesn't reply to things in the morning 'cuz she only checks it for a very short period of time, then goes back and replies to things in the evening....

 

[JAA]

I will say that sometimes I will read a message someone's sent me but not reply right away. I generally will come back and reply but it may take me a couple days. I've never deleted my profile just because someone's mailed me, no matter what I think of the person. That's just rude.

they didn't delete thier profile...I'm saying the deleting the message without a reply is kinda rude... I understand it, but its kinda rude... lol

this is the exact reason most women join the sites. Its easy for them not to reply to a msg and say no compared to the real word. Women hate confrontation. These sites allow them to completely avoid it through ignoring folks messages. You will need to get past this if you want to move forward.

 

[larry_boy_44]

I will say that sometimes I will read a message someone's sent me but not reply right away. I generally will come back and reply but it may take me a couple days. I've never deleted my profile just because someone's mailed me, no matter what I think of the person. That's just rude.

they didn't delete thier profile...I'm saying the deleting the message without a reply is kinda rude... I understand it, but its kinda rude... lol

this is the exact reason most women join the sites. Its easy for them not to reply to a msg and say no compared to the real word. Women hate confrontation. These sites allow them to completely avoid it through ignoring folks messages. You will need to get past this if you want to move forward.

I'm past it... I was just commenting in passing... lol }=o)(e-harmony does something cool for this by having like 10 "pre-written responses" to people you don't want to talk to so that you don't just completely ignore the messages...)

 

[Tremendous Upside]

I will say that sometimes I will read a message someone's sent me but not reply right away. I generally will come back and reply but it may take me a couple days. I've never deleted my profile just because someone's mailed me, no matter what I think of the person. That's just rude.

they didn't delete thier profile...I'm saying the deleting the message without a reply is kinda rude... I understand it, but its kinda rude... lol

this is the exact reason most women join the sites. Its easy for them not to reply to a msg and say no compared to the real word. Women hate confrontation. These sites allow them to completely avoid it through ignoring folks messages. You will need to get past this if you want to move forward.

I'm past it... I was just commenting in passing... lol }=o)(e-harmony does something cool for this by having like 10 "pre-written responses" to people you don't want to talk to so that you don't just completely ignore the messages...)

I'd rather be ignored than received a prewritten response about how she'd like to ignore me

 

[JAA]

also, stop using lol and emoticons as a first introduction. Lots of people dont know what they mean and mght get apprehensive out them

 

[larry_boy_44]

also, stop using lol and emoticons as a first introduction. Lots of people dont know what they mean and mght get apprehensive out them

yeah, I haven't been...its hard, but I'm editing them out of my introductions...

 

[dotman]

Just stop saying LOL all together. Its like a 14 year old girl is typing.

 

[Keys Myaths]

Just stop saying LOL all together. Its like a 14 year old girl is typing.

Dotman>where's Mike been?

 

[larry_boy_44]

Just stop saying LOL all together. Its like a 14 year old girl is typing.

:finger:

 

[dancingbones]

Just stop saying LOL all together. Its like a 14 year old girl is typing.

and

 

[larry_boy_44]

Just stop saying LOL all together. Its like a 14 year old girl is typing.

and

 

[krista4]

Just stop saying LOL all together. Its like a 14 year old girl is typing.

and

I politely requested this long ago. Drives me insane, and will likely drive any other woman insane as well.

 

[Capella]

}=o)

 

[Slinger]

Just stop saying LOL all together. Its like a 14 year old girl is typing.

Is haha okay?

 

[Shutterbug]

Can someone direct me to the underground as a harmless married man? I'm good with stays here pics unless they're of Doug. So if you're dating Doug, you probably shouldn't invite me.

Disco Stu is in charge of invites, but he said if you send me some nudie pics of Mrs Ninja, then he'd let you in.

How about teh Girl A n00ds instead?

 

[Tremendous Upside]

}=o)

 

[TLEF316]

ok, got a response from one of the girls i e-mailed last night. Her profile was kinda bizarre, but she was cute and close, so i figured what the hell. Sent out a 3 or 4 sentence intro. Here is the message i get back.......(location, name and email edited out)

Hello,

How are you doing,my name is "name",i am from

city(state),well i just came across your messsage on

this dating site,and i kind of like you,well am not

realy use to this,but i will like to get to know you

well,you can mail me on my id "email address". Hope to hear back from you soon.

What the hell does that mean? Obviously, English is not her first language, but I'm definitely getting the "chick trying to sucker me into signing up for her web cam" vibe. Thoughts? I'll probably just shoot her another e-mail, but I'm pretty sure she just wants my credit card number

 

[krista4]

ok, got a response from one of the girls i e-mailed last night. Her profile was kinda bizarre, but she was cute and close, so i figured what the hell. Sent out a 3 or 4 sentence intro. Here is the message i get back.......(location, name and email edited out)

Hello,

How are you doing,my name is "name",i am from

city(state),well i just came across your messsage on

this dating site,and i kind of like you,well am not

realy use to this,but i will like to get to know you

well,you can mail me on my id "email address". Hope to hear back from you soon.

What the hell does that mean? Obviously, English is not her first language, but I'm definitely getting the "chick trying to sucker me into signing up for her web cam" vibe. Thoughts? I'll probably just shoot her another e-mail, but I'm pretty sure she just wants my credit card number

I think you're right in your suspicions.

 

[Alias]

my turn to entertain...there was this tall (6') brunette I saw which I figured I did not have a shot with, I am only 5'8" but she had a pic of her in her car and she was all dressed up, so I sent her a message saying something like wow you look really sophisticated and the car you are in looks real nice what is it?her reply: Lol, it's a caravan. Yeah I got my foot in the door, and then inserted said foot into mouth - nothing became of it.

Just got a response from her, her notes are short and likes to overuse the comma:

its dodge caravan,,,,lol im in ny 6y,,,

She just sent me her IM, will hit her up tomorrow, never worked a 6-footer before, should be interesting.

Email scammer you guys running into these as well? I think this is the 4th or 5th one that I identified. I got another clue who they are - they only have 1 pic up usually.I actually got a random view by a cute Italian chick (27), we exchanged a few emails. She never came up from a search from what I can remember, maybe because she does not list Caucasian as her ethnicity.I Italians.

 

[Alias]

ok, got a response from one of the girls i e-mailed last night. Her profile was kinda bizarre, but she was cute and close, so i figured what the hell. Sent out a 3 or 4 sentence intro. Here is the message i get back.......(location, name and email edited out)

Hello,

How are you doing,my name is "name",i am from

city(state),well i just came across your messsage on

this dating site,and i kind of like you,well am not

realy use to this,but i will like to get to know you

well,you can mail me on my id "email address". Hope to hear back from you soon.

What the hell does that mean? Obviously, English is not her first language, but I'm definitely getting the "chick trying to sucker me into signing up for her web cam" vibe. Thoughts? I'll probably just shoot her another e-mail, but I'm pretty sure she just wants my credit card number

Any random inquiries that speak Engrish and volunteer their email like that are 95% scammers, ask for another photo of her, that is usually the safest way to weed out the email scammers.also google the left part of her email address, I have had luck identifying them that way, they typically place dozens of ads across states using the same email addy.

 

[Disco Stu]

my turn to entertain...there was this tall (6') brunette I saw which I figured I did not have a shot with, I am only 5'8" but she had a pic of her in her car and she was all dressed up, so I sent her a message saying something like wow you look really sophisticated and the car you are in looks real nice what is it?

her reply: Lol, it's a caravan.

Yeah I got my foot in the door, and then inserted said foot into mouth - nothing became of it.

Just got a response from her, her notes are short and likes to overuse the comma:

its dodge caravan,,,,lol im in ny 6y,,,

She just sent me her IM, will hit her up tomorrow, never worked a 6-footer before, should be interesting.

Email scammer you guys running into these as well? I think this is the 4th or 5th one that I identified. I got another clue who they are - they only have 1 pic up usually.

I actually got a random view by a cute Italian chick (27), we exchanged a few emails. She never came up from a search from what I can remember, maybe because she does not list Caucasian as her ethnicity.

I Italians.

Yeah, I should have mentioned that. Having just 1 pic is a good clue.As is you know, being willing to date a guy who is half a foot shorter...

 

[Keys Myaths]

Looks like I'm going to have two dates next week.

Does this mean I'm back?

 

[Alias]

Looks like I'm going to have two dates next week.Does this mean I'm back?

you midwestern guys have all the luck, no competition. I think I am going to go on a nationwide search for the hottest chicks outside of the ny metropolitan area, setup a bunch of dates for a week and explain that I am moving to the area and then take a week's vacation and f' my brains out.

 

[Alias]

another tip off:

looking for a god fearing man

 

[Alias]

my turn to entertain...there was this tall (6') brunette I saw which I figured I did not have a shot with, I am only 5'8" but she had a pic of her in her car and she was all dressed up, so I sent her a message saying something like wow you look really sophisticated and the car you are in looks real nice what is it?

her reply: Lol, it's a caravan.

Yeah I got my foot in the door, and then inserted said foot into mouth - nothing became of it.

Just got a response from her, her notes are short and likes to overuse the comma:

its dodge caravan,,,,lol im in ny 6y,,,

She just sent me her IM, will hit her up tomorrow, never worked a 6-footer before, should be interesting.

Email scammer you guys running into these as well? I think this is the 4th or 5th one that I identified. I got another clue who they are - they only have 1 pic up usually.

I actually got a random view by a cute Italian chick (27), we exchanged a few emails. She never came up from a search from what I can remember, maybe because she does not list Caucasian as her ethnicity.

I Italians.

Yeah, I should have mentioned that. Having just 1 pic is a good clue.As is you know, being willing to date a guy who is half a foot shorter...

I really prefer the petite girls, or spinners as I like to call them. Kinda tough to spin a 6 footer.

 

[Disco Stu]

another tip off:

looking for a god fearing man

The other hint there is the formating issue caused by the obvious cut and paste.

 

[krista4]

another tip off:

looking for a god fearing man

"it takes two to tangle"

 

[parasaurolophus]

another tip off:

looking for a god fearing man

"it takes two to tangle"

"I am waiting for your prompt responsebye for now

Cheers"

Alias?

 

[Homer J Simpson]

another tip off:

looking for a god fearing man

"it takes two to tangle"

That was the first thing I noticed besides the spectacular amount of ///////// <---these guys.

 

[Sister Havana]

Don't forget this:

Well i have noting much to say about your profile but i think its nice,

i was going through profiles on this site ,but yours caught my

attraction,thats why i am sending you this message,i am lina as you can see.

 

[Disco Stu]

Why do people do this? If you're going to post a pic of you with a friend, make sure the friend isn't way the eff hotter than you.

How is that picture supposed to make me want to date the girl in the back? To get to her friend?

 

[Alias]

Why do people do this? If you're going to post a pic of you with a friend, make sure the friend isn't way the eff hotter than you.

How is that picture supposed to make me want to date the girl in the back? To get to her friend?

I see that all the time, sometimes I see a pic with 3 chicks in it, and the one doing the profile is the ugliest of the 3

 

[boltjeff]

 

[Sister Havana]

What I don't get is people who post pictures of themselves with someone who looks like a date or a girlfriend/boyfriend. I've seen some guys' profiles where all the pictures are of them with different women. What is that supposed to tell me? "Look, other women will be seen with me, I'm not that bad!" And if there's more than one picture of a guy with the same woman, I'm thinking either he's still hung up on that person or he's not single at all.

 

[larry_boy_44]

What I don't get is people who post pictures of themselves with someone who looks like a date or a girlfriend/boyfriend. I've seen some guys' profiles where all the pictures are of them with different women. What is that supposed to tell me? "Look, other women will be seen with me, I'm not that bad!" And if there's more than one picture of a guy with the same woman, I'm thinking either he's still hung up on that person or he's not single at all.

I don't understand the pics of girls looking for "real relationships with guys" with them kissing other chicks, either...like... that's hot, sure, but only when you just wanna bang the cihck, not when you wanna like, date seriously or marry the girl...

 

[Alias]

Well hello there.

 

[Sister Havana]

Some guy just sent me a message asking me if I wanted to make $200-300 cash.

ETA: By modeling my underwear for him.

I passed on the offer.

 

[Disco Stu]

Some guy just sent me a message asking me if I wanted to make $200-300 cash. ETA: By modeling my underwear for him. I passed on the offer.

Dude is stealing my shtick.

 

[parasaurolophus]

Some guy just sent me a message asking me if I wanted to make $200-300 cash. ETA: By modeling my underwear for him. I passed on the offer.

can you send him my infoI could use 300 bucks

 

[Sister Havana]

I can link his profile in the underground if you want.

 

[Sister Havana]

Crazy guy linked on the underground.

I just got a message from another guy though. (A normal message!) And he is HOT. :X

 

[Kraft...]

Why do people do this? If you're going to post a pic of you with a friend, make sure the friend isn't way the eff hotter than you.

How is that picture supposed to make me want to date the girl in the back? To get to her friend?

OUCH! that is one extreme case right there, talk about opposite ends of the hotness spectrum

 

[Drifter]

My wife put us up on the Match.com success stories.

 

[larry_boy_44]

you know what I'm tired of reading in girl's profiles???

"DON'T CONTACT ME IF YOU WANNA PLAY GAMES!!" followed by her saying she isn't actually single at the moment but could be if you were cute enough...

WTMF girl?!! YOU CAN'T PLAY GAMES IF YOU DON'T WANT ME TO PLAY GAMES YOU STUPID GIRL!!

 

[strykerpks]

What I don't get is people who post pictures of themselves with someone who looks like a date or a girlfriend/boyfriend. I've seen some guys' profiles where all the pictures are of them with different women. What is that supposed to tell me? "Look, other women will be seen with me, I'm not that bad!" And if there's more than one picture of a guy with the same woman, I'm thinking either he's still hung up on that person or he's not single at all.

I have a pic of me with my ex. I blocked out her face but it is one of the best pics of me and I dont have a digicam so I cant exactly throw better ones up.Never thought it was a bad thing.....

 

[Keys Myaths]

My wife put us up on the Match.com success stories.

This is awesome, dude.

 

[Sister Havana]

What I don't get is people who post pictures of themselves with someone who looks like a date or a girlfriend/boyfriend. I've seen some guys' profiles where all the pictures are of them with different women. What is that supposed to tell me? "Look, other women will be seen with me, I'm not that bad!" And if there's more than one picture of a guy with the same woman, I'm thinking either he's still hung up on that person or he's not single at all.

I have a pic of me with my ex. I blocked out her face but it is one of the best pics of me and I dont have a digicam so I cant exactly throw better ones up.Never thought it was a bad thing.....

See, you blocked out her face though - if the face is blocked out or it's obvious that someone is cropped out of the picture, then I'd think that the person liked the pic of himself and wasn't trying to show me that he had a girlfriend. Update on hot guy who messaged me last night - we ended up chatting for quite a while.

 

[Woz]

What I don't get is people who post pictures of themselves with someone who looks like a date or a girlfriend/boyfriend. I've seen some guys' profiles where all the pictures are of them with different women. What is that supposed to tell me? "Look, other women will be seen with me, I'm not that bad!" And if there's more than one picture of a guy with the same woman, I'm thinking either he's still hung up on that person or he's not single at all.