Am I a nihilist because I don't have kids? So confused.
Human beings have two primary biological imperatives.
1) Survive
2) Reproduce
Almost all practical behavioral models are built upon those two core concepts.
All human beings are predisposed to "laziness". Which is basically survival resource management. If you burn 15 thousand calories in total to hunt an animal then prepare it, process it and consume it, but it only gives you 4000 calories, then doing that on a consistent basis means death. Death to you, death to your mate, death to your children, death to your tribe.
Almost all practical hunter / gatherer strategies were built upon efficiency and energy conservation. It's the same in the animal kingdom. The critical issue here is an environment of scarcity.
Nearly everyone here was born into a life of abundance and security. There's a thread talking about shortages in the FFA where people are mocking those who talked functional preparedness. If you've always lived in a society of abundance, you can afford to laugh. If you've always lived in a society of scarcity, you don't have time to laugh. There's a video of The Greek Freak from the NBA Bucks where he was seen with a garbage bag taking about 60 bottle of water from a free area for refreshment for players to take to their hotel rooms. He simply smiled and said "free water" Most people here wouldn't blink twice about free water if they've always had clean water. Did he grow up where clean water access was guaranteed? No, he didn't.
Those here who aren't in the best fitness possible to their practical level ( I am trying to make this relative here, no one needs to be Usain Bolt, but everyone could be doing much better) would see things differently if safety was no longer guaranteed. If survival meant you might need to physically run, then you'd damn sure would be adapting to that necessity.
Do you know what terrifies homeless people? Well one of many things that terrify them? Getting sick. Getting a horrible case of the flu or pneumonia or anything that could stack on you while you are basically living outside and in poor hygienic conditions. Homeless people think more about staying warm, strategies to get warm and how to adapt to certain greater risks.
Many people don't embrace fitness as a lifestyle in this thread because our society has coddled them to the point where they don't need to adapt. People aren't reminded daily that if you falter and die, then everyone you love dies with you. That's how natural selection works. So for those who don't have children, do you have siblings? Parents? Nieces and nephews? Cousins? It's very likely someone depends on you or you are part of their practical "safety net"
Are you guaranteed a life of abundance tomorrow? You are not. You are promised nothing tomorrow. So if that all disappears, you have to put yourself in a position to be practically capable to handle basic survival in an environment of perpetual scarcity. Some of you will say that will never happen. And I'll say did any of you foresee a worldwide pandemic that would bring the world to it's knees five years ago?
I've always taken care of my health. But I am a lot older than nearly all of you and I existed for a long time when I was starting in the business world with no practical health insurance. I had to think about good decisions that would help me survive. I didn't have any safety net. When some bad health hit me from things I couldn't control, that extra training and care I took with nutrition and general health very likely kept me alive. If I died, what would happen to my godson? I was his last safety net.
The more you bleed in training, the less you bleed in war.
But it's more than my godson, I have over 1000 employees. While I'm retired, the reality is you never really retire when you run your own businesses. If I screw up things, how do the kids of those people loyal to me eat?
The thing people in this thread have to understand is - It's not all about you. It's not all about what you feel. It's only going to happen if you realize it's not a choice.
I don't need to teach Otis how to properly deadlift. If I teach Otis how to properly value himself as an authentic person, then his natural pathway will be to do positive things that indicate self love and self care that will propel him to take relentless action where he'll find every resource possible to teach himself how to deadlift. There is a deep rooted insidious emotional and mental component of self sabotage going on with a lot of people in this thread and they just don't know it.
Has anyone noticed I am giving small practical progressive steps? I'm not asking anyone to win a Strongman competition. I'm asking people to do 10 air squats every time they take a break from their home work desk. Small baby steps that add up over time.
Otis doesn't need a pep talk. He needs a calendar and a marker and to write down a training schedule and then stick to it.
Don't be confused. Do what I'm telling you and you'll win. Don't and you will fall. That's it. That's the deal.