No offense but NFW. I like Otis best when he's fat and happy. And in that order.Pull for me, GB. Pull for me.
You seem to have very strong self discipline. How the hell did you ever get to this point?My god you people cheat a lot considering it's a weight loss competition. Hand to a Bible I haven't cheated once in 26 days.
@ProstheticRGK - talk to me about this. I've never heard of this before. I will google but would like your input. Is this something you can make up and then add to veggies or potatoes/rice as desired?Those look great. A quick substitute for me, just eyeballing it, would be to use arrowroot or cornstarch mixed with veggie/mushroom stock instead of butter/oil. Throw a tbsp of thickener into a jar, with all the powdered ingredients, add cold stock, put on the lid and shake the beejeezus out of it. Use that to glaze the potatoes.
Great question - I have a personality that is kind of all in or all out in certain areas. It's great when losing weight - it's horrible if I'm not all in. I chronicled my weight loss in 2015 in the weight loss thread that from that year. I was little more deliberate with my losing but I lost 60 lbs then and in 2016 gained it all back. For me, I'm not a very vain person, being overweight isn't a big deal other than I get a little depressed when I have to wear my fat clothes or I get winded walking the stairs. What has been different lately (now that I'm in my 40's) is that it's not just carrying extra weight - I mentioned before but my A1C levels were pre-diabetic last time I got tested. I've had some mystery abdominal pains the last year - ended up in the hospital one time because they thought it was diverticulitis. My life is great - I've got a wonderful wife, 4 great and healthy kids and the only "bad" part of my life has been these somewhat minor health issues. I want to change that permanently. I want to be here a long time and see their kids grow up - I want to haven energy to keep up with my grand kids. I love life and want to live as long as I can and with as much energy as possible.You seem to have very strong self discipline. How the hell did you ever get to this point?
I've read that many times before. I find it incredible that someone can lose that much weight and slowly or even quickly get back to where they started. Good luck.Great question - I have a personality that is kind of all in or all out in certain areas. It's great when losing weight - it's horrible if I'm not all in. I chronicled my weight loss in 2015 in the weight loss thread that from that year. I was little more deliberate with my losing but I lost 60 lbs then and in 2016 gained it all back. For me, I'm not a very vain person, being overweight isn't a big deal other than I get a little depressed when I have to wear my fat clothes or I get winded walking the stairs. What has been different lately (now that I'm in my 40's) is that it's not just carrying extra weight - I mentioned before but my A1C levels were pre-diabetic last time I got tested. I've had some mystery abdominal pains the last year - ended up in the hospital one time because they thought it was diverticulitis. My life is great - I've got a wonderful wife, 4 great and healthy kids and the only "bad" part of my life has been these somewhat minor health issues. I want to change that permanently. I want to be here a long time and see their kids grow up - I want to haven energy to keep up with my grand kids. I love life and want to live as long as I can and with as much energy as possible.
I have zero doubt I'll lose the weight - I've done it 3 times over in the past - keeping it off is my biggest challenge. I'm hopeful making lifestyle changes (read: not being ON a diet but eating a different diet) will help me once I'm in maintenance mode.
I know - I'm an idiot.I've read that many times before. I find it incredible that someone can lose that much weight and slowly or even quickly get back to where they started. Good luck.
I don't think it's incredible, it's extremely common.I've read that many times before. I find it incredible that someone can lose that much weight and slowly or even quickly get back to where they started. Good luck.
The fact that its common makes it even more incredible for me. To lose 60+ lbs, you're almost like a different person; a person you have to feel a whole lot better about.I don't think it's incredible, it's extremely common.
But that person still craves cheeseburgers and fries and soda and pizza and a bunch of other crap.The fact that its common makes it even more incredible for me. To lose 60+ lbs, you're almost like a different person; a person you have to feel a whole lot better about.
Sure, but to lose that much weight, that's a pretty long stretch where you're suppressing those cravings. Maybe you aren't the right example b/c like you said, you were doing some pretty extreme exercising so you didn't have to be as tight with your diet. But a lot of people that lose that type of weight with mostly diet, you manage to go many months eating very well. You'd think you'd develop some good habits to strike that balance of remaining at a good weight and treating yourself from time to time. I mean soda. Really? You're throwing away all that work b/c of that.But that person still craves cheeseburgers and fries and soda and pizza and a bunch of other crap.
Yeah, well, that's why you're winning.My god you people cheat a lot considering it's a weight loss competition. Hand to a Bible I haven't cheated once in 26 days.
Old habits die hard. 3 or 6 months of healthy eating pales in comparison to 30 or 40 years of bad habits.Sure, but to lose that much weight, that's a pretty long stretch where you're suppressing those cravings. Maybe you aren't the right example b/c like you said, you were doing some pretty extreme exercising so you didn't have to be as tight with your diet. But a lot of people that lose that type of weight with mostly diet, you manage to go many months eating very well. You'd think you'd develop some good habits to strike that balance of remaining at a good weight and treating yourself from time to time. I mean soda. Really? You're throwing away all that work b/c of that.
What if you had to abstain from sex for months? Once you could screw again, do you think it'd be easy to just keep the screwing to a minimum? In the end, we are all creatures driven by pleasure and eating and drinking is one of the highest forms of pleasure.Sure, but to lose that much weight, that's a pretty long stretch where you're suppressing those cravings. Maybe you aren't the right example b/c like you said, you were doing some pretty extreme exercising so you didn't have to be as tight with your diet. But a lot of people that lose that type of weight with mostly diet, you manage to go many months eating very well. You'd think you'd develop some good habits to strike that balance of remaining at a good weight and treating yourself from time to time. I mean soda. Really? You're throwing away all that work b/c of that.
Yep, this.What if you had to abstain from sex for months? Once you could screw again, do you think it'd be easy to just keep the screwing to a minimum? In the end, we are all creatures driven by pleasure and eating and drinking is one of the highest forms of pleasure.
It's quite easy to understand why weight is so difficult to keep off.
But screwing again in your example doesn't have any cost. The cost of that poor diet is feeling like crap both physically and psychologically once you get back to that point you started at. There's a reason you went through all the work of losing all the weight in the first place. And its a lot of work. Especially for someone that's never had to work like that before. You probably feel even worse then you did in the beginning knowing you worked so hard and you gave it all away.What if you had to abstain from sex for months? Once you could screw again, do you think it'd be easy to just keep the screwing to a minimum? In the end, we are all creatures driven by pleasure and eating and drinking is one of the highest forms of pleasure.
It's quite easy to understand why weight is so difficult to keep off.
How would you know?Otis said:Old habits die hard. 3 or 6 months of healthy eating pales in comparison to 30 or 40 years of bad habits.
I love eating crap food and eating a lot of it. If you don't really care how you look, eating whatever you want as much as want can make you feel fantastic.NutterButter said:But screwing again in your example doesn't have any cost. The cost of that poor diet is feeling like crap both physically and psychologically once you get back to that point you started at. There's a reason you went through all the work of losing all the weight in the first place. And its a lot of work. Especially for someone that's never had to work like that before. You probably feel even worse then you did in the beginning knowing you worked so hard and you gave it all away.
I find it pretty remarkable both the ability to lose that much weight in such a short period of time and the inability to keep oneself from getting back to where it all started. I've been heavier before. Got up to 260 in college and now right around 200, but that transformation has been over many years so I can't relate.
And I can relate to that and the people that are fat and just stay fat. Maybe they're perfectly content being fat. Maybe their only source of pleasure in life is eating. Whatever it may be. That's not the people I"m referring to. Its the people that spend 6+ months losing all that weight just to give it back again. That's a long stretch of time. That's an awful lot of work There must have been a pretty compelling reason to want to go through that in the first place.I love eating crap food and eating a lot of it. If you don't really care how you look, eating whatever you want as much as want can make you feel fantastic.
In redAAABatteries said:I think I have my wife on board with some of these eating changes, which is great news for me. We frequently aren't on the same page when it comes to diet and nutrition. We still aren't completely so I'm hopeful to educate both of us a little more.
I know we've discussed many of these and I will try and research the threads and bump where appropriate but here are some food items where I'd like some of you knowledgeable folks to chime in:
- artificial sweetners - like Stevia
Hate the taste. Only rEal sugar for me, that means cutting it out.
- butter
Avoid. Sometimes use it for frying sonething nice
- yellow rice (saffron rice)
Nice. For a cheaper version you can use turmeric
- sweet potatoes
Not my favorite. Regular potatoes taste beyter and are better for you
- cheese (this is a big one for my wife - she loves cheese and I do too)
My kryptonite
Other thoughts:
- I've cut out essentially all bread (thnkafully not a big fan anyway) - I'm coming around a little on white potatoes with all the information posted but I think the problem with them is how they get prepared most of the time. The healthy potato recipes are great
- the brown vs. white rice conversation here was interesting - I only like yellow rice so this one is not a problem for me
- personally I'm trying to limit dairy as much as I can but that's more a personal choice - I could go without most dairy but do love cheese
I love milk.
- I know this one is obvious but I'll just reiterate it here - water, water, water. I have had 2 glasses of unsweet tea with meals in the last 4 weeks - outside that I'm water only with meals and then I'm also drinking it all day long.
Sparkling Water and unsweetened iced tea for me all the way
There's a lot of psychology tied up in there. It feels great to eat a large pizza and drink beer or soda - but just in the moment. It also feels great to have someone tell you that you look great once you've lost weight. I can't explain it - I just know that I've been in both those scenarios and both are great in their own way. Two years ago I started in the spring I think and knew I had a trip to Disney planned for September - I had a goal to get to 180 before the trip. I did it - I then went down to Disney and ate and drank everything in sight. It was glorious. I think I need to accept that I'm that person - I need to monitor myself somewhat continuously and while not depriving myself forever I can't let myself get in to those bad habits again or I will one day be doing this again. I don't want that, I really don't - but I also don't want to give up pizza and beer forever. I have to work on finding balance and so far I haven't been great at that.And I can relate to that and the people that are fat and just stay fat. Maybe they're perfectly content being fat. Maybe their only source of pleasure in life is eating. Whatever it may be. That's not the people I"m referring to. Its the people that spend 6+ months losing all that weight just to give it back again. That's a long stretch of time. That's an awful lot of work There must have been a pretty compelling reason to want to go through that in the first place.
Food is an addiction for a lot of people. You can fight it for awhile, but it's very hard to fight it your whole life. My wife is one. She's not horribly overweight or anything, but she struggles with yo-yo weight. She's 5'3" and was down to 116 three months ago. We took a cruise and she ate a lot; we got back home to the holidays and she got lazy. Now she's 133 and all pissed off at herself again. And this goes on and on...And I can relate to that and the people that are fat and just stay fat. Maybe they're perfectly content being fat. Maybe their only source of pleasure in life is eating. Whatever it may be. That's not the people I"m referring to. Its the people that spend 6+ months losing all that weight just to give it back again. That's a long stretch of time. That's an awful lot of work There must have been a pretty compelling reason to want to go through that in the first place.
I listened to that entire podcast with Rogan - I think he makes a pretty compelling case against sugar. Is it the end all be all demon of diets - maybe, maybe not but I'm convinced enough that there's really no reason for me to ever eat the stuff save how good it tastes to my system. I'm trying to find stuff that I find enjoyable - maybe not equally, but enjoyable enough that I don't feel like I'm eating rabbit food and just quit.Back to Taubes, here's a review of his most recent book by the nutritionist I trust most: http://www.stephanguyenet.com/bad-sugar-or-bad-journalism-an-expert-review-of-the-case-against-sugar/
Read that the other day after hearing the podcast, really well done.Back to Taubes, here's a review of his most recent book by the nutritionist I trust most: http://www.stephanguyenet.com/bad-sugar-or-bad-journalism-an-expert-review-of-the-case-against-sugar/
When you make gravy, usually, you use a roux of flour and fat. cook it for awhile, then add the stock and pan drippings. It thickens up as it cooks.AAABatteries said:@ProstheticRGK - talk to me about this. I've never heard of this before. I will google but would like your input. Is this something you can make up and then add to veggies or potatoes/rice as desired?
I've changed a ton of things the last five years. It's all mind set. The habit doesn't come back because it was there for 40 years, it's because you choose to let it come back.Otis said:Old habits die hard. 3 or 6 months of healthy eating pales in comparison to 30 or 40 years of bad habits.
I feel this way most of the time. I get super hungry, and then I want to eat everything. Thankfully I haven't given in yet.Was hungry this AM so I've had:
1 piece of bacon, 1 bagel, the bottom of a container of Blue Bunny ice cream (call it 1 serving), a power bar, and 3 cookies. Total of roughly 900 calories. Hopefully I'm set until dinner but not off to a great start.
But it was all ####### fantastic!
.Back to Taubes, here's a review of his most recent book by the nutritionist I trust most: http://www.stephanguyenet.com/bad-sugar-or-bad-journalism-an-expert-review-of-the-case-against-sugar/
Artificial anything - no. There are exceptions, but generally speaking we all already consume too much sugar, salt, and other processed crap. We don't need to add more.AAABatteries said:I think I have my wife on board with some of these eating changes, which is great news for me. We frequently aren't on the same page when it comes to diet and nutrition. We still aren't completely so I'm hopeful to educate both of us a little more.
I know we've discussed many of these and I will try and research the threads and bump where appropriate but here are some food items where I'd like some of you knowledgeable folks to chime in:
- artificial sweetners - like Stevia
- butter
- yellow rice (saffron rice)
- sweet potatoes
- cheese (this is a big one for my wife - she loves cheese and I do too)
Other thoughts:
- I've cut out essentially all bread (thnkafully not a big fan anyway) - I'm coming around a little on white potatoes with all the information posted but I think the problem with them is how they get prepared most of the time. The healthy potato recipes are great
- the brown vs. white rice conversation here was interesting - I only like yellow rice so this one is not a problem for me
- personally I'm trying to limit dairy as much as I can but that's more a personal choice - I could go without most dairy but do love cheese
- I know this one is obvious but I'll just reiterate it here - water, water, water. I have had 2 glasses of unsweet tea with meals in the last 4 weeks - outside that I'm water only with meals and then I'm also drinking it all day long.
This is why I trend more towards exercise based approaches. Greater chance of long term success. I'm more open minded about when to implement than I used to be, but it needs to be part of the game if you want to avoid another diet at some point. Likely multiple points.James Daulton said:What if you had to abstain from sex for months? Once you could screw again, do you think it'd be easy to just keep the screwing to a minimum? In the end, we are all creatures driven by pleasure and eating and drinking is one of the highest forms of pleasure.
It's quite easy to understand why weight is so difficult to keep off.
Somewhere @Chaka's head just exploded.This is why I trend more towards exercise based approaches. Greater chance of long term success. I'm more open minded about when to implement than I used to be, but it needs to be part of the game if you want to avoid another diet at some point. Likely multiple points.
If you loathe all forms of exercise then forcing yourself to do it may not be worth it. There are trade offs though. Ones most won't make, myself included. I have a 7 course feast tonight. I also have a fundraiser tomorrow at the local Irish club, all you can eat and all you can drink. Who knows what after each too. I intend for the next 30 hours to be full of gluttony. It's also a reason why I ran 12 miles today and have a two-a-day scheduled Monday. I'd rather go nuts then play catch up than limit myself at either event.Somewhere @Chaka's head just exploded.
182# yesterday. lowest i've been in 15 years at least.195# this morning.
sold out at my local placeholy #### that halo top ice cream is expensive. $6.89 for a pint. This #### better give me a rim job
She still not using this. My wife said she wanted one today. My wife goes to spin 2-3 times a week. Want to know if mrs oats likes it. If not, you selling it.That makes sense. With three little kids I find it nearly impossible to have any kind of routine--everyone is always sick and the house is always chaos. I can't even fathom my wife getting time. Got her a Peloton bike for Xmas that she's used exactly one time...
There are no rulesI'm not cheating. That infers breaking rules. Disney is a no diet zone, so I'm still technically right on track. No scale in the room though...Monday weigh in will be tough.