A Review of the Decade
On October 28th, 2012 I weighed 172 pounds. I was drinking almost every day. My cholesterol was high and my health was heading toward a place of self-destruction. My old man was an alcoholic and died at the age of 41 when I was 17 years old. I was 43 years old and spiraling out of control.
Then one day we were at the neighbor's house for a kids birthday party. Hot neighbor casually mentioned that she was thinking about running a half marathon. She was looking for someone to train and run the race with, so I said: "Sure, why not." I had been thinking about getting into shape, and what the heck - I had someone to train with. So I Immediately signed up for the same half-marathon. So I did a couch to half marathon.

Nothing like jumping in feet first.
My first steps as a runner were taken on October 29th, 2012. I did a 1.54 mile run, with an average pace of 16:32. I then ran about 4 days a week until I started the Hal Higdon Novice 1 plan to get ready for the race.
Your decade of running+ and racing
That decision proved to be a life saver. My first half marathon was this in the spring of 2013:
13.1 Miles. 2:03:16. 9:24 pace. A HUGE accomplishment in my life. My children and wife at the finish line with homemade signs gave me a source of pride I had not felt in a long time. If I recall, my weight on race day was 151 pounds. My alcohol consumption was cut 75%. I cut out all drinking during the week, and then only lightly on weekends. I was literally a new man.
And I caught the running bug. At that point I was still just a guy who ran. But I kept it up. I did another half marathon in October the same year. My stats for that race:
13.1 Miles. 1:52:02. 8:32 pace. I'm hooked. Now I'm a runner!
I can't remember when I joined this thread, and it had to be around this time. For those that have been around here all that time, my ups and downs are well documented. The ups are the build ups to the two marathons I ran in 2015 and 2016. The downs are being diagnosed with the stomach stuff after that second marathon. But that is life. It throws you these curve balls from time to time.
I just wish it wouldn't throw sliders and screwballs and change ups as well, and they seem to be coming more and more frequently. But I have experienced great success at this sport, and it has given me a lot to be proud of.
This spring was arguably the best sporting experience of my life. The back to back marathon and half marathon PR's are something I thought I would EVER do. I've also been blessed to meet a lot of you guys in here, and I consider you guys true friends in everything that word means.
Notable memories of other FBG successes/experiences
There are so many that it would be impossible to name them all. I would say everyone here who posts on a regular basis has provided me with a positive memory somewhere along the line. From
@SteveC702's Olympic chase to
@Hang 10's tough love encouragement to
@Ned's heart rate training wisdom to
@The Iguana's enthusiasm to
@gianmarco's incredible hospitality - there is not enough room here to mention you all.
Watching
@tri-man 47's old nut sack dominate is inspiring.
Following
@bushdocda's progress selfishly because his heart rate is similar to mine, and I gleaned a ton of data following his strava feed for this last marathon.
Seeing the consistency of
@pbm107 - just incredible over and over and over
Being here for
@SFBayDuck for when he finally got into Western States, then the build up, then that race weekend and following along.......wow, man.
My vision of
@BassNBrew is just la-da-ing out of bed on a weekend and deciding: I'm gonna pound some brews and run 100 miles today.
Having
@gruecd come down to KC and tailgate speaks to the friendships cultivated here.
Beers with
@Juxtatarot after that Carmel race may be one of my highlights with the crew here. The conversation and just the feeling of accomplishment that day was great because I got to share it with someone who
understands it all.
And God,
@Brony - I pray for your health. It breaks my heart knowing the talent you have, and then the frustration you must feel. I think we all feel it here. Your character to keep trying and keep pushing, and then to show up in St. Louis to be there and help - I love it man.
I know I am forgetting some, but know I see and absorb and appreciate all your stories.
Life in general during the 2010s
I am a blessed man. I have a wonderful life with a beautiful wife and incredible kids. I have overcome so much in my life, and it would appear I have it all.
But I don't - yet. As I've alluded to, I still have some demons left. Some of them have to remain hidden because I would do more damage talking about them. I want those demons to die with me because I don't want my family to ever see them or be negatively influenced by them.
But the rest I need to work on. I need to work on letting the positive far outweigh the negative. I need to work on just being happy. I need to be a better me: as a father, a husband, a friend, a brother, and a son.
Running has saved me physically early in this decade up to now. Now I need it to complete the job mentally going forward. That is the next step for me.
Anticipations for the 2020s
Be happy and not sad.
Qualify for Boston.
Buy more shovels.