As long as I'm here a couple more random thoughts:
-Agree with Jdogg that Moonrise Kingdom best of what I've seen from 2012. Wes Anderson performances are what they are just like a Mamet script is what it is. I personally find it hilarious on multiple levels.
-I don't get the Killer Joe love. Friedkin's style of over the top "realism" is exaggerated and is basically one big characterture. For the people saying McConaughey was something that they had never seen before, I found it to be very, very, similar to his character in Texas Chainsaw Massacre- The Next Generation, fortunately for everybody there is probably like a dozen people that have ever watched that. If you liked Gershon in this, make sure you have seen Bound.
To each their own. It's fine if you don't care for Killer Joe but I find it rather amusing you complain about unrealistic realism while complimenting Wes Anderson. I haven't seen Moonrise Kingdom but if the characters are anything like his other works, I'd argue they're every bit the caricatures (and probably more so) as seen in Killer Joe.
Comes down to presentation for me. Wes Anderson's leads generally are a colorful puzzle of quirks, but each puzzle is missing one piece and that missing piece overwhelms their life and decision making process. They are always confident and goal-orientated but are generally unassuming. When we are introduced to these characters we usually have no idea if they can back up the game they talk, but they seem to know, or at least think they know, exactly what they want. Just how far was Dignan willing to go in Bottle Rocket? What would have it have taken to derail Max from his goal in Rushmore? How far could the kid in Moonrise Kingdom lead them? These flawwed characters give the actors an unique platform for physical comedy outside the form of slapstick that appeal to multiple levels of human emotion.
Wes Anderson themes seem to generally be about courage, persistency, and focus, all apparently veiled by a bunch of people standing around talking weird to each other.
The mannerisms of these characters usually convey more than the words they are speaking.
Killer Joe attempted to present a gritty realism, but it came across as a sadistic cartoon to me. It had absolutely no redeeming value for me. I would honestly rather watch Texas Chainsaw Massacre: The Next Generation again and that is sitting at a 2.9 rating on imdb.
As you say, to each their own. I appreciate your opinions as well.