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This country has become soft
That being said if her mental well being could lead to her being injured or even kill her then I understand her position.
(repost from Olympics thread, clearing up some misconceptions about Kerri Strug's vault in the 1996 Olympics)
To protect the next person tempted to bring up Kerri Strug: Strug’s vault in 96 that made her a hero was actually a really selfish act. USA didn’t need Strug’s vault to win gold, and they knew they had enough points to win before she threw her second vault. Karolyi knew the team event was won, but coaxed Strug to vault again for selfish reasons.
At the time, the Optionals portion of the team competition was also the qualifier for the individual all-around and apparatus finals. And at the time, the individual finals were limited to three rep per country. Strug vaulted that second time because if she landed it, she would pass Dominique Moceanu (who was competing with a stress fracture in one leg, and botched her vault) and grab the third USA slot in the all-around a couple days later. That’s why Karolyi coaxed Strug back up to vault again - he knew Moceanu was too hurt to medal in the all-around and wanted Strug to pass Moceanu in the individual scoring.
I didn't want to engage in this thread for very personal reasons and I wasn't sure what I was going to say but I was happy to read your post and I agree with a lot of it. I was disappointed when she did it and wasn't happy with Osaka a couple months ago however, it puts light on several different issues and I am very familiar with the vile and grotesque torture and sexual assault Biles experienced by Nassar who should be executed for the number of lives he forever changed in a negative way. I also blame the entire coaching staff who had to know or be clued in on what was happening, no way those famous US coaches that spanned decades could have not known what was going on under their noses.I'll copy my thoughts from the FFA thread.
I’m by no means an expert but I do have a daughter that does competitive cheer (not gymnastics but a few similar stunts). The look on Biles face of confusion during her vault would freak me out as a parent. She definitely wasn’t there (for whatever reason) - I think her decision to not continue was probably a smart one. She could have injured herself severely and there’s a good chance the US doesn’t even medal if she continued.
I think what the detractors are saying is she quit on the team. I think given what we know and could see that this is offbase but I could see a scenario where that is a fair criticism. But there’s nobody who knows the sport and watched her that would say she was ready to keep competing. How many times does the announcer have to say “I’ve never seen Biles do X” before you say, “maybe she shouldn’t be out there”. And it’s not like she did that on purpose - too dangerous. I think the detractors just don’t really understand the circumstances well enough.
Lacked mental toughness and focus? So coming back from being sexually abused while getting treatment for the sport she dominated in for a decade is easy?Not a big Ben Shapiro guy but that is kinda where I'm at.
- If she was mentally unable to handle the pressure, it's good that she quit before hurting herself.
- It's unfortunate that she discovered she folds under Olympic-caliber pressure AFTER she occupied a spot that could have gone to someone who would have held up.
Bottom Line: She's not a hero for quitting... she's not a coward for quitting. She DID however cement her legacy as an historically talented/gifted gymnast who unfortunately lacked the mental focus and toughness to be historically elite at the highest level.
She has four Olympic golds and 19 world championship titles......Lacked mental toughness and focus? So coming back from being sexually abused while getting treatment for the sport she dominated in for a decade is easy?
And imagine having to deal with a Doctor....a DOCTOR who is given free access to your privates and allowed to insert his fingers and touch you in very unwelcome ways and the abuse goes on and on, this is a person you are supposed to be getting relief from , you are being sent there by your coaching staff because you're suffering real pain from all of the practice and time put in.This is sort of where I'm at. Does this type of stuff start spilling over into our working lives? I run a small business and have 10 employees. I've worked with, trained them and paid them pretty well for multiple years.
If I need one of them has to make a huge presentation and I give them all the proper tools and resources to nail this presentation then they freak out and leave during their introductions...I think I'm going to be kinda pissed. But would I, as the owner, be at fault for putting too much pressure on this employee? It feels like that's where we're headed. Their freak is now my fault.
She just cracked under pressure. Plain and simple. It happens, she shouldn't be overly criticized for that, but quitting on your team and yourself just doesn't seem like a hero move to me.
We're just soft now. Maybe its a better mindset going forward, but quitting in the big moments is something I have to get used too.
Its awesome people are bringing the mental health issues forward. It certainly needs to be addressed, but we need to figure out how to become mentally tougher.
I cannot come close to expressing how much I disagree with this. I think this is the absolute opposite of what we should teaching our kids, especially our athletes. Competition is tough. It's supposed to be tough. The mental health thing can many times be used as a crutch. I'm not saying Biles is. But I look at it like this. If she had competed, and possibly not done as well as she is expected, THEN came out and said she was struggling mentally but wanted to give it all for her team...I would in no way call that selfish. And if she or the team lost? Well guess what, people lose.Yeah, I tried to edit because I realized the original post was pretty vague. I think the ideas of "playing through injuries" or ignoring your mental health because it will let your team down are not positive traits. I don't want to speak specifically about Brady but there are many examples of NFL players getting shot up with painkillers to risk their health just to play in the big game. Or hiding concussion symptoms to play, etc. If we think of athletes as role madels, I think these are bad examples to set. Biles's decision seems to me to be much more illustrative of the lessons we should be imparting to our young athletes.
This is sort of where I'm at. Does this type of stuff start spilling over into our working lives? I run a small business and have 10 employees. I've worked with, trained them and paid them pretty well for multiple years.
If I need one of them has to make a huge presentation and I give them all the proper tools and resources to nail this presentation then they freak out and leave during their introductions...I think I'm going to be kinda pissed. But would I, as the owner, be at fault for putting too much pressure on this employee? It feels like that's where we're headed. Their freak is now my fault.
She just cracked under pressure. Plain and simple. It happens, she shouldn't be overly criticized for that, but quitting on your team and yourself just doesn't seem like a hero move to me.
We're just soft now. Maybe its a better mindset going forward, but quitting in the big moments is something I have to get used too.
Its awesome people are bringing the mental health issues forward. It certainly needs to be addressed, but we need to figure out how to become mentally tougher.
Not a big Ben Shapiro guy but that is kinda where I'm at.
- If she was mentally unable to handle the pressure, it's good that she quit before hurting herself.
- It's unfortunate that she discovered she folds under Olympic-caliber pressure AFTER she occupied a spot that could have gone to someone who would have held up.
Bottom Line: She's not a hero for quitting... she's not a coward for quitting. She DID however cement her legacy as an historically talented/gifted gymnast who unfortunately lacked the mental focus and toughness to be historically elite at the highest level.
Again.....not being mentally right in Gymnastics can be extremely dangerous to ones physical well being.I cannot come close to expressing how much I disagree with this. I think this is the absolute opposite of what we should teaching our kids, especially our athletes. Competition is tough. It's supposed to be tough. The mental health thing can many times be used as a crutch. I'm not saying Biles is. But I look at it like this. If she had competed, and possibly not done as well as she is expected, THEN came out and said she was struggling mentally but wanted to give it all for her team...I would in no way call that selfish. And if she or the team lost? Well guess what, people lose.
That to me is the message I want our youth and our young athletes getting. Hey, you won't always win. You won't always have good days. A true competitor tries their best always and never quits. And if you fail, that's OK. You will fail in life.
To me her statement was "I can't be the best so I am going to quit and not even try" And I think that's a bad message.
My only thought is that she gets whatever help she needs and return to action when she and her coaches feel it’s right.
People having different opinions about things like this isn't new. It isn't different or unusual and has existed forever. So your difficulty with the taking of sides seems misplaced.i hate that this country has become one where we must take sides, regardless of whether we are entitled to one. none of us know biles and have no idea what is involved. we are all guessing. is it abuse related? yips related? pressure related? mental health has a vague term right now to me. the optics were bad on this one, but what do i know. is it her responsibility to tell us what is going on? if she came out and said i have developed the yips and don’t feel safe competing, it may help. if that is the case, she likely tried to fight through, rather than deferring to a teammate. she’s not a villain or unamerican. she’s going through something. just another reason why the olympics and these overzealous creep coaches and hanger ons associated with them should go away. i mean, they show that aussie swimmer’s coach going berserk and to me it’s like the worst of an overbearing parent.
This is correct.From the people I talk to, it seems most have issue with the praise for quitting.
I think Ben Shapiro has it about right as noted in the other thread.
https://twitter.com/benshapiro/status/1420345951152230407?s=20
Why do people keep comparing physical injuries to mental issues like this? That seems to really be not understanding this.Thinking more, I do think I have an idea on why some are emotionally invested.
There are lots of reasons I'm sure.
I think one of them may be it hits on some of the deeper primal reasons sports are so popular and meaningful to people. And it's not just athletes. It's the same reason great books and movies are meaningful to people. It's because it's about the human struggle. And in particular, overcoming obstacles to succeed in the human struggle.
It's why Kirk Gibson hobbling around the bases after the home run is so legend. It's why Michael Jordan's "flu game" has mythical status.
I'm sure there are people way more capable than me in putting words to it, but I think that overcoming adversity angle is a big part of it. For us. And maybe that's why folks are so interested.
Why do people keep comparing physical injuries to mental issues like this? That seems to really be not understanding this.
But to highlight Kirk Gibson as some sort of comparison clearly suggests (at least to me) that he was great for fighting through a physical injury and therefore criticizing Biles for not doing the same. Maybe that's not what you or others have meant when you've cited examples of people playing through physical injury. But I just don't see how they're relevant at all to this discussion - except to point out that this is completely different.I don't think it's not understanding. I think it's discussing the two. Most people with sports are way more familiar with physical issues. And how physical issues compare and are different from mental issues is something I think that's worth talking about.
yeah, why isn’t bowling a sport? also, why is basketball in the summer olympics and not winter? i mean, curling is a sport. fishing could be a sport too, it is called sport fishing. we need boat racing, yachting. foosball.This is correct.
And to add to it, the vast majority of people in the world don't know the whole story and shouldn't even be voicing their opinion. No one cares. You don't know her. She doesn't know you.
This really shouldn't be the top story on the news. What should be is how skateboarding and fencing is in the Olympics but bowling isn't.
beard removes some of the gooberism, but i already couldn’t understand him speaking and now i can’t even see his lips.Well said by Michael Phelps here. I've enjoyed his perspective in interviews this year, but this clearly takes the cake. He's truly a guy that young inspiring athletes should look up to...... needs to shave that awful beard though.
best part is that in 2 weeks we won’t care anymore for 3 years instead of 4.I figure that most of the people that have tried to turn this into a story about whether she's a hero or a quitter follow gymnastics about as much as I do: a couple days every four years. So far, I haven't seen a single gymnast be critical of her decision, so I'll defer to the people that have some experience and actually know what they're talking about, and not the Ben Shapiros of the world.
I was trying to come up with a response on this topic, and couldn't. You said everything that I thought I might've, but I couldn't have worded it so well.i hate that this country has become one where we must take sides, regardless of whether we are entitled to one. none of us know biles and have no idea what is involved. we are all guessing. is it abuse related? yips related? pressure related? mental health has a vague term right now to me. the optics were bad on this one, but what do i know. is it her responsibility to tell us what is going on? if she came out and said i have developed the yips and don’t feel safe competing, it may help. if that is the case, she likely tried to fight through, rather than deferring to a teammate. she’s not a villain or unamerican. she’s going through something. just another reason why the olympics and these overzealous creep coaches and hanger ons associated with them should go away. i mean, they show that aussie swimmer’s coach going berserk and to me it’s like the worst of an overbearing parent.
But to highlight Kirk Gibson as some sort of comparison clearly suggests (at least to me) that he was great for fighting through a physical injury and therefore criticizing Biles for not doing the same. Maybe that's not what you or others have meant when you've cited examples of people playing through physical injury. But I just don't see how they're relevant at all to this discussion - except to point out that this is completely different.
It’s just a shame all around. Someone else would have given anything for her spot and unfortunately this is going to stick with her forever and be what she is remembered for instead of just being an outstanding gymnast. It’s too bad.
Fair enoughNot at all. I'm saying Gibson was an example of a physical injury. As was Jordan with the flu. I didn't criticize Biles. How that compares to a mental issue and how people see them both in how they're similar and how they're different is helpful for discussion. At least they were to me.
(repost from Olympics thread, clearing up some misconceptions about Kerri Strug's vault in the 1996 Olympics)
To protect the next person tempted to bring up Kerri Strug: Strug’s vault in 96 that made her a hero was actually a really selfish act. USA didn’t need Strug’s vault to win gold, and they knew they had enough points to win before she threw her second vault. Karolyi knew the team event was won, but coaxed Strug to vault again for selfish reasons.
At the time, the Optionals portion of the team competition was also the qualifier for the individual all-around and apparatus finals. And at the time, the individual finals were limited to three rep per country. Strug vaulted that second time because if she landed it, she would pass Dominique Moceanu (who was competing with a stress fracture in one leg, and botched her vault) and grab the third USA slot in the all-around a couple days later. That’s why Karolyi coaxed Strug back up to vault again - he knew Moceanu was too hurt to medal in the all-around and wanted Strug to pass Moceanu in the individual scoring.
so I'll defer to the people that have some experience and actually know what they're talking about, and not the Ben Shapiros of the world.
"Simone Biles isn't a cowardly villain for pulling out of the Olympics. She isn't a brave heroine for pulling out of the Olympics. We live in such an insanely polarized society that we can't just let people be people."
I assumed he was referring to KarolyiSelfish doesn't seem like the right word here. Maybe not needed for the team in that specific event, but strug was no more selfish here than any other athlete in individual events.
I think it's actually more than that. How impressive is it that after she pulled out, she didn't sit in the locker room and watch the rest of the competition on CCTV, she didn't sit on the bench with her head bowed and covered by a towel. She visibly and actively cheered on her teammates just as she would have been had she been the fifth member of the team still competing. That took grit and yes courage rarely seen in a championship caliber athlete.Yes the praise comes from being honest about what is going on here.
Thanks Covid!best part is that in 2 weeks we won’t care anymore for 3 years instead of 4.
To me, her statement is closer to “I’m blanking out mid-air and I might end up paralyzing myself.”To me her statement was "I can't be the best so I am going to quit and not even try" And I think that's a bad message.