To me success is not having to answer to an employer. Having a nice house in the 'burbs, a car in the driveway, and a chicken in the pot is not success if it means being someone's ##### for 40 hours a week. And being in the top 1% of US earners is not success if it means being someone's ##### too.
According to how I define success, I achieved it in 2016 when I quit my $160,000/year IT job and started my own business. I make around $58,000 a year now and am 100 times happier. And it's not because I can afford food on the table and a roof over my head. It's because I wake up every morning and am not someone's ##### anymore.
However, the success I achieved is becoming more and more rare, because it's getting harder and harder for people to start mom & pop businesses. I am frequently approached about expanding through franchising. People commonly ask where our other locations are, and when I tell them this is the only one, they are shocked that we aren't a chain. The point being that mom and pop businesses have to produce goods and services on par with what corporations do in order to achieve success. If I didn't produce that, I probably wouldn't be doing enough revenue to pay the rent. And to produce that I'm paying a lot more for goods than my corporate competitors do, because I don't get the volume discounts they do. So even though customers see me as being as good as they are, it costs me more to produce that than it costs my corporate competitors. So even though I've achieved success, I don't reap the same profits as my corporate competitors. So even when success is defined entirely financially, as a mom and pop business I'm in the hole even though my goods and services are just as good. But again, I don't define success that way. I"m successful because I"m no longer someone's #####. But do I attribute 100% of that to society? Absolutely ####### not, as the society I live in makes it incredibly ####### hard to achieve that success. Year after year it's getting to the point where it will be assumed you are either employed by a stockholder owned company or you don't work at all. In my opinion that's a world with 100% personal failure.