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I learned on Thursday that I’m officially in remission! I thought I needed another Dotatate scan in before I would hear these words but my team said it's not necessary. It's very possible I'm not remembering correctly because I feel a lot like Dory in Finding Nemo most of the time. :lmao:

I’m one lucky person! However, because of the extensive treatment it has really taken a toll on me. Every day is absolutely a precious gift but there’s still a fight that my team said will last another year or two. Hearing I have another 12-24 months of this was unexpected and honestly a kick in the shins, but I quickly remembered how lucky I am to be alive. Too many people in my life weren’t as fortunate. My energy and strength levels fluctuate wildly but I’m always here for you, every day of the week. For example, a few days ago, I slept for 17 hours. No medication involved. My body just shut down because I keep pushing, fighting. No amount of caffeine helps. Believe me, I tried!

Again, if any of you, a loved one, is faced with a cancer diagnosis and need someone to talk to, I'm here. I most likely won't have all the answers but I want to help in any way possible.

Love you folks more than you will ever know. Thanks for putting up with my dumb *** all of these years. ;)
 
kutta said:
So awesome to hear. I’ve never met you and probably never will. But you brought a tear to my eye and made me smile and made my day. I’m really happy for you.
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Thanks for returning the favor you big jerk. ;)

When i found this place back in the ol' Yeller days, I never imagined I would meet anyone here IRL. I've been lucky enough to meet a good 20 or so folks here. Some several times. People like @cosjobs that opened up their home to us. All of you have been one of the best "gifts" in my life. So, you may be right, but you never know. I hope we can tilt a few one day my friend.
 
St. Louis Bob said:
kutta said:
So awesome to hear. I’ve never met you and probably never will. But you brought a tear to my eye and made me smile and made my day. I’m really happy for you.
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Thanks for returning the favor you big jerk. ;)

When i found this place back in the ol' Yeller days, I never imagined I would meet anyone here IRL. I've been lucky enough to meet a good 20 or so folks here. Some several times. People like @cosjobs that opened up their home to us. All of you have been one of the best "gifts" in my life. So, you may be right, but you never know. I hope we can tilt a few one day my friend.
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I’d love that. We’ll make it happen some day 🥃
 
Awesome news, Bob. Sorry you won't get back to fully normal for a while, but here's thoughts and prayers going out to a full recovery as soon as humanly possible.
 
St. Louis Bob said:
kutta said:
So awesome to hear. I’ve never met you and probably never will. But you brought a tear to my eye and made me smile and made my day. I’m really happy for you.
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Thanks for returning the favor you big jerk. ;)

When i found this place back in the ol' Yeller days, I never imagined I would meet anyone here IRL. I've been lucky enough to meet a good 20 or so folks here. Some several times. People like @cosjobs that opened up their home to us. All of you have been one of the best "gifts" in my life. So, you may be right, but you never know. I hope we can tilt a few one day my friend.
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Fantastic news Bob! ♥️
 
Yo, my brothers and sisters!

I had a scan recently and good news, looks the same as the previous one in December of last year. Cool man, cool! It was moved up a month because I had a lot more "bad" days August-October than "good". I thought things may have gone off the rails, the cancer was spreading. Speaking with others in remission, this is a common thought.

I had an appointment with my Primary in October prior. He's my age, and my doc for 25 years. He's always serious and straightforward which I appreciate and respect. He told me that with the amount of treatment I received, most likely, I'll never be physically and mentally the way I was prior. It sucked to hear that but also a good thing. The oncologist agreed with his assessment. I've been striving for an unrealistic expectation. This helps tremendously as I no longer worry about all of these crazy aches and pains where the main tumor was and especially in unusual places. Sadly my groin area isn't used enough to feel as strained as it is. ;)

I do have a couple of favors to ask as this has been an enlightening experience to say the least.

If you know someone that has gone through treatment, please understand how much that person has changed. Just because they seem fine when you are with them, doesn't mean they will feel well the next day. I keep thinking of friends to me at the time, seemed just fine. It hasn't been until I walked a mile in their shoes that I realized they were just being strong, fighting. Please remember that. I think most of you know me well enough, this isn't for me looking for sympathy. Screw that noise.

Secondly, treatment is crazy expensive even with decent insurance. If you see a friend having a fund raiser, please give them something, anything, if you can afford it. Again, not for me, we're good. If you're somehow fortunate enough that you don't know anyone battling, there's always Chance for Hope.

In that vein, the last couple of Christmas's, I spoke to our boys, and told them that times were lean with all of the medical bills. I've always taught them to be fiscally responsible. We could still get them a bunch of presents however then we wouldn't be able to help the less fortunate the way we normally do. They instacalled to give assistance to those that needed things much more than them.

The ship has been righted since. I asked them both in November, three separate times, what they wanted this year. Our oldest requested some new sheets for his bed and a couple of pairs of jeans. The youngest, a new pair of shoes. That's it. Both were emphatic that we continue the tradition of helping others with the balance. What a freaking wonderful Christmas present to me. :heart:

Love you all and wishing you a wonderful Holiday!
 
Great news Bob! And I hear you on the medical bills stacking up. I’d love to help get the boys some other presents and I’m sure others would too. It would be our way of giving back just like you have done.
 
DA RAIDERS said:
Would you like some Mexican coke? ;)

great to hear gb
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We had about half my enormous family and a few friends over Saturday for Christmas. We've always gotten together since I was a kid but my last was 2019. That was pretty great.

Anyhow, later into the afternoon my youngest says to me "Dad, Uncle Jason wants to know if you have any coke.....I think he means Coca Cola but I guess I'm not positive". He's a funny guy.
 
Judge Smails said:
Great news Bob! And I hear you on the medical bills stacking up. I’d love to help get the boys some other presents and I’m sure others would too. It would be our way of giving back just like you have done.
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You're way too kind. Trying to write this without sounding like a total jackhole, but we're comfortable. We always earmarked "X" for gifts every year and usually go over. This year, and the last two, we got them a few things they need. (I got them both one of these with our pup's pic and face on it. They are going to lose their minds.) Plus, they really don't want any other material things. I tried. Maybe an awesome car. This whole series of events has lead to a tradition of a grand finale Christmas morning of reading all of the things WE AS A FAMILY donated and to who. That's been followed by a big family hug. It means a lot to us. It sounds like a churchy thing to do, NTTAWT, but it isn't. We don't attend anything like that which I remind my boys, 19 & 16, they owe me big time for that. lol Instead I've passed on the wisdom of my parents. If there's somebody that needs help, and you can help them, you do so. Like you offered to do for them. I'm touched beyond belief.

My people have had good things to say about you Smails. I hope one day we can tip a few. :)

Love you brother
 
Mrs. Rannous said:
You have awesome kids! Wonderful update.

Merry Christmas.
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We really do. So thankful for that.

Since they were old enough to understand, we have had hundreds of, incredible, hours talking without distractions of TV, phones, etc. I've always stated I'll be 100% honest with them and anything they say to me should be the same. However, it stays between us. It has gotten uncomfortable at times. For example, when my oldest was 14-15, we were sitting on the patio and he asked if I ever smoked pot. I looked at him, smiled, and replied "Yes. Heck I'm kind of stoned right now!" He :lmao: says "Least. Surprising, Thing. Ever. :lmao: "
 
St. Louis Bob said:
Judge Smails said:
Great news Bob! And I hear you on the medical bills stacking up. I’d love to help get the boys some other presents and I’m sure others would too. It would be our way of giving back just like you have done.
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You're way too kind. Trying to write this without sounding like a total jackhole, but we're comfortable. We always earmarked "X" for gifts every year and usually go over. This year, and the last two, we got them a few things they need. (I got them both one of these with our pup's pic and face on it. They are going to lose their minds.) Plus, they really don't want any other material things. I tried. Maybe an awesome car. This whole series of events has lead to a tradition of a grand finale Christmas morning of reading all of the things WE AS A FAMILY donated and to who. That's been followed by a big family hug. It means a lot to us. It sounds like a churchy thing to do, NTTAWT, but it isn't. We don't attend anything like that which I remind my boys, 19 & 16, they owe me big time for that. lol Instead I've passed on the wisdom of my parents. If there's somebody that needs help, and you can help them, you do so. Like you offered to do for them. I'm touched beyond belief.

My people have had good things to say about you Smails. I hope one day we can tip a few. :)

Love you brother
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Love you too amigo. Let’s make that beer happen!
 
Another reason why I love this place … you have a rough day and then realize there is so much more going on with others. My day is suddenly one that I am thankful for! You are an inspiration my man. All the best to you and your incredible family this season.
 
Love seeing good news! I don’t know you like many other posters but I do remember you being a great poster. It seems you are also a great guy. I’m really happy for you. Enjoy the hell out of Xmas with the family.
 
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