Hi Don Q, sorry I missed this; in case you haven't gone out for your dinner yet...there have been several reasonable suggestions offered already, and here's mine:
https://www.patowmackfarm.com/
Not far from Leesburg, VA, you could get here just over an hour from the heart of DC.
I got to know the Chef, Tarver King, when he was at the Goodstone Inn, and then at the Ashby Inn, which I someone already mentioned. What he's doing here is better than both, IMHO. The dude is seriously talented. In the 'metro area' outside of DC city, proper, I don't think there's a better Chef cooking right now, for a pretty wide radius...
I've been to Trummer's only once, and it was a few years ago, and I enjoyed the drive out...let me say that the area is beautiful, and what they're doing certainly is unique out there, and I think that made it appear to be better than what it was, if it had anything competitive to compare it to in the immediate vicinity. Like a lot of hot, higher end restaurants, especially recently, knowing what I know about food costs, among other expenses, and business plan, and running an establishment efficiently, I came away feeling that it was expensive for what it was, which is a huge pet peeve of mine. So the drive back wasn't as pleasant...however, to be fair, folks who I respect, who have been there more recently, have paid it compliments, and the current Chef, Austin Fausett, was not cooking there when I ate there, and he has a very impressive resume, and it's quite likely it's evolved since my last visit, and I should give it another shot.
Oh, crap. For the sake of it, I just took a look at the current dinner menu, and it's certainly solid, but I will say this: one of the criteria you can reliably use to evaluate the talent of a Chef is his skill at making soup. While I have plenty of room for improvement in many areas, I'd like to think I'm a pretty competent soup maker. It annoys me to see any soup, especially one without a protein component involved, being offered for over $9. Double-digits for a vegetable soup, in most cases, isn't being honest or fair to the diner. Now, if I'm eating in Manhattan at LeBernardin or Jean-Georges among others, that's one thing, but in this case, $12 for Curry Cauliflower Soup,
here, in Clifton, VA, is just price gouging, which is my biggest pet peeve. Cheese is something I'm very proficient with, especially American Farmstead and Artisanal cheeses, and that's a pretty lame selection for $18. There's no excuse for 6 Rappahanock River Oysters for $17, the garnishes don't elevate that to anything more than a $13 app, max - again, based on what they cost, $2/oyster, when served raw on the half-shell, is an absolutely hard ceiling for me when writing a menu. Otherwise, you just aren't being honest and fair. Shaved Artichoke (and at this time of year, those better be sunchokes/Jerusalem Artichokes - which, although delicious, are a cheap root vegetable that's a garden/farm invasive pest that literally take no skill and little cost to grow well) and Arugula Salad oh, wait for it...
with black truffles ... for $18. You'd better get a helluva lot of truffle, and I mean an almost inedible amount, to elevate a salad with no protein component, to $18...in Clifton, VA. Truffles, truffles everywhere...seemingly just to increase prices. Bone Marrow and Sweetbread apps for low-to-mid teens, smoked salmon tartare, not carpaccio, but tartare for $12...'From the Garden' : vegetable dishes in the low $20's...'Sustainable Seafoods' : you know how many littleneck clams you'd have to serve to justify selling that dish for $25, even with octopus included (as a secondary ingredient, mind you, meaning you're getting less of it than littleneck clams)...
...cripes, I'm supposed to be handicapping college basketball games, and I've gone off on a freaking tangent...but prices do that to me, just because I know what I know...all I'm going to say is that if you are willing and able to afford what they're apparently charging at Trummer's, if you shop around, you can find at least a dozen restaurants in the greater DC area where
the value alone is better than what's presented here. You're going to spend as much at Patowmack Farm, and at least a known and tremendously respected, commodity, Tarver King, is cooking your dinner...I gotta get to basketball...
...congrats on the impending delivery! T&P for a safe and healthy wife and child, Dad!