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Last saturday I separated dislocated my shoulder in a mishap. Felt it pop out and back in. Needless to say it hurt like hell when it happened.
Monday I went to the orthopedic walk in clinic at a large practice here in the area. My wife had her shoulder surgery there just over a year ago. Doc does an x-ray and is like "Damn... You broke your socket." You need to see a shoulder specialist. They scheduled me for a CT scan and made an appointment with one of the docs there, but not the one who did my wife's shoulder. The doc I ended up with a much younger doc than my wife's doc. My wife's surgeon is one of the main guys in the practice with a lot more experience.
Wednesday I see my doc and he says "you need surgery to fix the socket or you will always have shoulder instability. But regardless, that shoulder will probably never be the same again." So we schedule a MRI for Thursday and surgery for next week 3/16 so we are on the books pending the MRI verifying everything. After fitting for the post-op brace I asked the doc how many of these surgeries he's done. He assures me he has done a bunch of them. He has been a surgeon for 6 years in this field but if I want a 2nd opinion he totally understands. I tell him that the other doc is my wife's surgeon and I just want to double check with him and see what his thoughts are. "No problem" says my doc. Tells the receptionist to get me an appointment and she gets me in for 9:45 Friday (TODAY)
Today I see my wife's surgeon. He says "My advice is to NOT do the surgery". He recommends to let it heal up on it's own, scar up and see what happens. That I will have some instability in that shoulder but the benefits of the surgery do NOT outweigh the risks. He says there is about an 80% chance that letting it heal up on it's own will result in me being pretty good. Because of my age (49), there is about a 50% chance they do the surgery and I end up with permanent stiffness in the shoulder. I ask him about the prospects of the instability. He says yes, I will be more likely to dislocate my shoulder in the future but at least I won't get stuck not being able to lift my arm over my head again. Also says that if I went and saw 10 orthopedics I'd probably get 5 who say do the surgery and 5 that say don't. I asked him what happens if I'm one of the edge cases and letting it heal and PT don't fix it? Surgery is still an option down the road he said. It's harder on the surgeon doing it because of the scar tissue but the recovery for me whether we do it now or 6 months from now is similar.
I'm probably 75 / 25 leaning towards not doing the surgery but I'm torn. Anybody ever go through a similar thing? Basically when the shoulderseparated dislocated the ball sheared off a piece of the bone of the "socket".
Monday I went to the orthopedic walk in clinic at a large practice here in the area. My wife had her shoulder surgery there just over a year ago. Doc does an x-ray and is like "Damn... You broke your socket." You need to see a shoulder specialist. They scheduled me for a CT scan and made an appointment with one of the docs there, but not the one who did my wife's shoulder. The doc I ended up with a much younger doc than my wife's doc. My wife's surgeon is one of the main guys in the practice with a lot more experience.
Wednesday I see my doc and he says "you need surgery to fix the socket or you will always have shoulder instability. But regardless, that shoulder will probably never be the same again." So we schedule a MRI for Thursday and surgery for next week 3/16 so we are on the books pending the MRI verifying everything. After fitting for the post-op brace I asked the doc how many of these surgeries he's done. He assures me he has done a bunch of them. He has been a surgeon for 6 years in this field but if I want a 2nd opinion he totally understands. I tell him that the other doc is my wife's surgeon and I just want to double check with him and see what his thoughts are. "No problem" says my doc. Tells the receptionist to get me an appointment and she gets me in for 9:45 Friday (TODAY)
Today I see my wife's surgeon. He says "My advice is to NOT do the surgery". He recommends to let it heal up on it's own, scar up and see what happens. That I will have some instability in that shoulder but the benefits of the surgery do NOT outweigh the risks. He says there is about an 80% chance that letting it heal up on it's own will result in me being pretty good. Because of my age (49), there is about a 50% chance they do the surgery and I end up with permanent stiffness in the shoulder. I ask him about the prospects of the instability. He says yes, I will be more likely to dislocate my shoulder in the future but at least I won't get stuck not being able to lift my arm over my head again. Also says that if I went and saw 10 orthopedics I'd probably get 5 who say do the surgery and 5 that say don't. I asked him what happens if I'm one of the edge cases and letting it heal and PT don't fix it? Surgery is still an option down the road he said. It's harder on the surgeon doing it because of the scar tissue but the recovery for me whether we do it now or 6 months from now is similar.
I'm probably 75 / 25 leaning towards not doing the surgery but I'm torn. Anybody ever go through a similar thing? Basically when the shoulder
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