Papa Georgio
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I recently had a girl I have become friends with tell me about something that happened to her about 5 years ago.
She met a guy that would come into where she worked. They exchanged numbers and after talking back and forth some she would hang out with him after work. Typical good night kiss that progressed to a little more over time. One night has asked her over to his house for some dinner and drinks and she accepts. After dinner they start to watch a movie and as you expect they start fooling around. He asks her to go to the bedroom and she says I don't think that's a good idea right now. He then picks her up and carries her into the bedroom. She admits that she thought it was a turn on that he did that and gets a little caught up in the moment. He undresses her but as he is getting undressed she snaps out of it or however you want to put it. She is laying on the bed at this point and starts to raise up. As she does this, he some what forcefully pushes her back down on the bed. She puts her hands on his chest to push him away and he smashes her arms against her and begins to have sex with her. Her arms are pinned on her chest in-between the 2 of them. She never said don't or stop, said at this point she was afraid to. She said the sex was very rough and felt wrong. She also said all she wanted was for him to finish so it would be over. She told me she just went some where else in her mind as well.
She honestly didn't paint it as a forced situation, and just talked about it being one of the worst nights of her life, biggest regret...etc. I was the one that said that it sounded like date rape. She just replied with "kinda".
One last note I tried to look this guy up and can find no trace of him. I find it very odd that I can't.
I recently had a girl I have become friends with tell me about something that happened to her about 5 years ago.
She met a guy that would come into where she worked. They exchanged numbers and after talking back and forth some she would hang out with him after work. Typical good night kiss that progressed to a little more over time. One night has asked her over to his house for some dinner and drinks and she accepts. After dinner they start to watch a movie and as you expect they start fooling around. He asks her to go to the bedroom and she says I don't think that's a good idea right now. He then picks her up and carries her into the bedroom. She admits that she thought it was a turn on that he did that and gets a little caught up in the moment. He undresses her but as he is getting undressed she snaps out of it or however you want to put it. She is laying on the bed at this point and starts to raise up. As she does this, he some what forcefully pushes her back down on the bed. She puts her hands on his chest to push him away and he smashes her arms against her and begins to have sex with her. Her arms are pinned on her chest in-between the 2 of them. She never said don't or stop, said at this point she was afraid to. She said the sex was very rough and felt wrong. She also said all she wanted was for him to finish so it would be over. She told me she just went some where else in her mind as well.
She honestly didn't paint it as a forced situation, and just talked about it being one of the worst nights of her life, biggest regret...etc. I was the one that said that it sounded like date rape. She just replied with "kinda".
One last note I tried to look this guy up and can find no trace of him. I find it very odd that I can't.