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Wife is creeped out by preschool principal... (1 Viewer)

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Our four-year-old daughter is in preschool at a local private church school. It is a large Lutheran Church that also has preschool through eighth grade. There are maybe 400 kids total in all grade levels so it is a relatively small private school. Our children do not go to the school beyond preschool but rather go to the public school.

My wife informed me this morning that she would prefer if I dropped our daughter off at preschool in the morning before work. She said that the principal, who is always downstairs in the morning greeting students, is really creeping her out. I have met him before and he is kind of a weird dude but as a guy I'm usually not very creeped out by other guys.

He's A 50 something white dude who has been in education most of his life. He has a somewhat soft personality, meaning that he is very smiley, gives children complements and remembers their names, and is generally projecting himself to be a very happy nice guy. I guess some people have assumed that he may be gay, but he is married and has a couple grown kids. I don't know why that matters but I'm just trying to paint the picture. He definitely comes across as trying very hard to be happy and positive and smiley. It does feel very forced and creep some people out.

My wife is honestly a 7.5 to 8 on the scale of thirtysomething moms. She is very beautiful in the face and has a really nice body. Of all the moms who dropped kids off in the morning she is definitely top shelf. She informed me that the principal makes it a point to talk to her every time, put his hand on her shoulder when talking to her occasionally, and when she leaves he goes to the front door to pretend like he is opening the door for somebody else but often times there's nobody going through the door. She feels that he basically stares at her as she walks out to the car.

There are a few other things he does that creep her out and she swears that he is always staring at her and looking at her and trying to talk to her. I have met the guy and he is nice enough, but he definitely does have a personality where his kindness and happiness comes off as a little creepy. He is probably harmless and I am not concerned about him doing anything to my wife, but if I start dropping the kids off I'm sure he's going to question me because if it's true that he likes to look at my wife then he's going to be very disappointed when I replace her as my daughter's chauffeur.

 
Is said principal himself married?

I'd drop the children off, give the wife a break for a week, she will appreciate it. If dummy asks questions, well that's weird in itself, don't you think?

Suss out the situation when you drop off the children, hang out by the car or off to the side and see if you can catch him doing any part-time ogling.

 
How often does your wife wear yoga pants and sports bras when dropping off your daughter? There is a lot of that at my daughters school this time of year. It is fun... I mean fun.

ETA: no, I meant creepy.

 
Our four-year-old daughter is in preschool at a local private church school. It is a large Lutheran Church that also has preschool through eighth grade. There are maybe 400 kids total in all grade levels so it is a relatively small private school. Our children do not go to the school beyond preschool but rather go to the public school.

My wife informed me this morning that she would prefer if I dropped our daughter off at preschool in the morning before work. She said that the principal, who is always downstairs in the morning greeting students, is really creeping her out. I have met him before and he is kind of a weird dude but as a guy I'm usually not very creeped out by other guys.

He's A 50 something white dude who has been in education most of his life. He has a somewhat soft personality, meaning that he is very smiley, gives children complements and remembers their names, and is generally projecting himself to be a very happy nice guy. I guess some people have assumed that he may be gay, but he is married and has a couple grown kids. I don't know why that matters but I'm just trying to paint the picture. He definitely comes across as trying very hard to be happy and positive and smiley. It does feel very forced and creep some people out.

My wife is honestly a 7.5 to 8 on the scale of thirtysomething moms. She is very beautiful in the face and has a really nice body. Of all the moms who dropped kids off in the morning she is definitely top shelf. She informed me that the principal makes it a point to talk to her every time, put his hand on her shoulder when talking to her occasionally, and when she leaves he goes to the front door to pretend like he is opening the door for somebody else but often times there's nobody going through the door. She feels that he basically stares at her as she walks out to the car.

There are a few other things he does that creep her out and she swears that he is always staring at her and looking at her and trying to talk to her. I have met the guy and he is nice enough, but he definitely does have a personality where his kindness and happiness comes off as a little creepy. He is probably harmless and I am not concerned about him doing anything to my wife, but if I start dropping the kids off I'm sure he's going to question me because if it's true that he likes to look at my wife then he's going to be very disappointed when I replace her as my daughter's chauffeur.
LOOK AT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MY WIFE IS HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We get it dude, no need for all of the rigmarole. :rolleyes:

 
So what's your question? The dude checks out your wife. If she's hot like you say, it's going to happen. Deal with it.

Now go tell her to make you a sandwich cut in a way so it looks like a freshly fallen oak leaf.

 
Is said principal himself married?
:yes:

He's A 50 something white dude who has been in education most of his life. He has a somewhat soft personality, meaning that he is very smiley, gives children complements and remembers their names, and is generally projecting himself to be a very happy nice guy. I guess some people have assumed that he may be gay, but he is married and has a couple grown kids.
 
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So what's your question? The dude checks out your wife. If she's hot like you say, it's going to happen. Deal with it.

Now go tell her to make you a sandwich cut in a way so it looks like a freshly fallen oak leaf.
This.
Yep. And I have no problem believing that a guy in the position of this principal might not want to be there in the morning from time to time and might have to force a good face and happy banter. The nerve.

 
Our four-year-old daughter is in preschool at a local private church school....

I have met him before and he is kind of a weird dude...

I guess some people have assumed that he may be gay...
From my experience there's often a fine line between religious, weird, or gay, and you can't always tell what's going on there.

 
lol, wife is really hot but isn't used to/can't handle some dude who wants to get chummy.

Is she afraid he's going to lure her into some empty room during the madhouse that pickup likely is? More likely is she's making a point to let you know that some other dude finds her attractive. The next move is yours.

 
Tough one...not sure how to deal with this, but I will say that if she performs oral on him just once, but it's really bad, he probably won't pursue it any further.

 
Tough one...not sure how to deal with this, but I will say that if she performs oral on him just once, but it's really bad, he probably won't pursue it any further.
oh that reminds me. How is your new principal job at that small religious school going?

 
I thought this was going to be about her being worried about how he acts with and/or looks at the children. That would be a real issue.

This just sounds more annoying than anything else.

 
Tough one...not sure how to deal with this, but I will say that if she performs oral on him just once, but it's really bad, he probably won't pursue it any further.
I agree.. it is one way to handle it. He should also tell his wife to grab the guy's junk and look him in the eye. Maybe she can tell if he is gay or not. If he is, she is overreacting. If not, she could try to thwart further interaction by a bad performance on her knees, as you've pointed out. If he is still interested may she could take a dump on his desk or something.

 
:lmao:

I guess the question is do I tell mrs that 'Yea he's checking you out and he's harmless.' or 'I'll drop her off so you don't have to deal with him.'

 
The fact that she feels too uncomfortable to do drop-off, but is fine leaving your daughter there all day is a big red flag.

You either aren't giving her enough attention or she is trying to pass you the drop-off duties. It has nothing to do with the principal.

 
Why would any top of the shelf type woman be creeped out by a guy staring at her? If she is even 1/2 of what you say she is, she gets looked at in detail every single day in her life.

 
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Tough one...not sure how to deal with this, but I will say that if she performs oral on him just once, but it's really bad, he probably won't pursue it any further.
I agree.. it is one way to handle it. He should also tell his wife to grab the guy's junk and look him in the eye. Maybe she can tell if he is gay or not. If he is, she is overreacting. If not, she could try to thwart further interaction by a bad performance on her knees, as you've pointed out. If he is still interested may she could take a dump on his desk or something.
All good advice here.

 
The fact that she feels too uncomfortable to do drop-off, but is fine leaving your daughter there all day is a big red flag.

You either aren't giving her enough attention or she is trying to pass you the drop-off duties. It has nothing to do with the principal.
:goodposting:

Start hiding money.

 
Half the time she's in professional attire for work the other half yoga pants and a tshirt or zip-up light jacket.

 
Our four-year-old daughter is in preschool at a local private church school. It is a large Lutheran Church that also has preschool through eighth grade. There are maybe 400 kids total in all grade levels so it is a relatively small private school. Our children do not go to the school beyond preschool but rather go to the public school.

My wife informed me this morning that she would prefer if I dropped our daughter off at preschool in the morning before work. She said that the principal, who is always downstairs in the morning greeting students, is really creeping her out. I have met him before and he is kind of a weird dude but as a guy I'm usually not very creeped out by other guys.

He's A 50 something white dude who has been in education most of his life. He has a somewhat soft personality, meaning that he is very smiley, gives children complements and remembers their names, and is generally projecting himself to be a very happy nice guy. I guess some people have assumed that he may be gay, but he is married and has a couple grown kids. I don't know why that matters but I'm just trying to paint the picture. He definitely comes across as trying very hard to be happy and positive and smiley. It does feel very forced and creep some people out.

My wife is honestly a 7.5 to 8 on the scale of thirtysomething moms. She is very beautiful in the face and has a really nice body. Of all the moms who dropped kids off in the morning she is definitely top shelf. She informed me that the principal makes it a point to talk to her every time, put his hand on her shoulder when talking to her occasionally, and when she leaves he goes to the front door to pretend like he is opening the door for somebody else but often times there's nobody going through the door. She feels that he basically stares at her as she walks out to the car.

There are a few other things he does that creep her out and she swears that he is always staring at her and looking at her and trying to talk to her. I have met the guy and he is nice enough, but he definitely does have a personality where his kindness and happiness comes off as a little creepy. He is probably harmless and I am not concerned about him doing anything to my wife, but if I start dropping the kids off I'm sure he's going to question me because if it's true that he likes to look at my wife then he's going to be very disappointed when I replace her as my daughter's chauffeur.
Message me with a :blackdot: and I will let FFA know if this is accurate. Best send one where she is only partially dressed (since you mention the body being nice).

 
We have more intel. There was a shake up at the preschool. They cut costs and the main preschool teacher left. Everyone really liked her. So the principal is trying to be more visible and connect with the parents.

Apparently he's invited several of the moms to coffee as a group to get feedback. My wife couldn't go but a couple moms did. They weren't all that comfortable with it. Said they felt like it was more of a social chat and had little to do with the school.

 
We have more intel. There was a shake up at the preschool. They cut costs and the main preschool teacher left. Everyone really liked her. So the principal is trying to be more visible and connect with the parents.

Apparently he's invited several of the moms to coffee as a group to get feedback. My wife couldn't go but a couple moms did. They weren't all that comfortable with it. Said they felt like it was more of a social chat and had little to do with the school.
How were the other mom's? Any keepers?

 
We have more intel. There was a shake up at the preschool. They cut costs and the main preschool teacher left. Everyone really liked her. So the principal is trying to be more visible and connect with the parents.

Apparently he's invited several of the moms to coffee as a group to get feedback. My wife couldn't go but a couple moms did. They weren't all that comfortable with it. Said they felt like it was more of a social chat and had little to do with the school.
Coffee as a group is code for sex orgy, right?

 
We have more intel. There was a shake up at the preschool. They cut costs and the main preschool teacher left. Everyone really liked her. So the principal is trying to be more visible and connect with the parents.

Apparently he's invited several of the moms to coffee as a group to get feedback. My wife couldn't go but a couple moms did. They weren't all that comfortable with it. Said they felt like it was more of a social chat and had little to do with the school.
How were the other mom's? Any keepers?
He did invite mostly the cute ones.
 
I would check out your wife too if she truly is a 7.5-8. I would not try to hide it either. Chicks dig the attention from guys that look like me.

 
No offense but your wife sounds like a #####. If she really is an attractive lady then she would be used to this behavior. Bless you for putting up with that ####.

 

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