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Wrongly Done Moderation - Music Star Draft Of Passed Musicians - Buddy Holly RIP (1 Viewer)

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Shutting down the rock star draft was wrongly done moderation. I pay for the bandwidth here, and that was just a bad decision. No longer.  @Joe Bryant, those people in the draft were more than respectful, and trying to make the best out of a bad and mortal situation. I don't care if I get banned, this was poor judgment.  
Seriously why would that be shut down? It was a tribute to deceased musical artists - nothing sinister about it. One of the truly dumbest things I've ever seen. What is the thought process. The Monty Python sketch pushed it over the edge? Wow, just wow.

 
If some of you were making the jokes Joe mentioned, you have those posters to blame.  That is why we can't have good things.

 
Tom Petty not dead yet jokes are not going to fly. Find another board for it. 
except that's really not what happened at all.

Tom Petty was a HUGE part of my life. His death affected me way more than a virtual strangers death should and nothing in there was offensive. Maybe you need to reexamine your thought process. With all due respect, that was the most bizarre decision I have ever seen. Bad job.

 
We've never done the deadpool stuff or anything where a person dying is a plus. We're not going to have any thread where Tom Petty being the "steal" of the draft or a "value" pick as he died during the draft. I didn't delete it so you guys can copy over the stuff you want to another website or platform. But it's not going to be here. Sorry. 
Link to anyone saying this?

Just reread the dead thread. Unless the post was deleted, I didn't see anyone calling the TP pick a "steal" or a "value" pick. 

 
We've never done the deadpool stuff or anything where a person dying is a plus. We're not going to have any thread where Tom Petty being the "steal" of the draft or a "value" pick as he died during the draft. I didn't delete it so you guys can copy over the stuff you want to another website or platform. But it's not going to be here. Sorry. 
I'll go back and re-read. I recall people even questioning their own posts around Petty as they made them.

Doesn't discount 15 music loving people have spent weeks participating in a very friendly and mutually respectful manner about artists- yes, dead artists- in a very respectful way. 

If dead people are now out of discussion, history is in trouble. Please rethink this.
here are all the posts referencing Petty. I don't see any "steal of the draft" or "value pick" comments, so if that's part of your reasoning- please reconsider.

I bolded the three posts I could see as even remotely offensive... chop those if you want. otherwise it's people mourning with respect. plus- the people that toed the line were aware they were toe-ing the line and retreated back over. you should be wanting and respecting this kind of self-moderation from the people populating your site, not punishing them.  but if this some kind of referendum about discussing or drafting dead people who we respect and love (or at least feel that way about their craft)... any discussion of greatest of all time is now officially banned. every mention of deceased sports star, actor, president, musician... should be banned. have fun with that.

Tom Petty vocal song tbd (original post had been deleted by the time I saw it quoted here)

He's off life support - but has he been announced dead yet?  Pretty brutal - loved the guy.

I also want him as my song writer.
Tom Petty vocal song tbd

Oh man you are one cold hearted sob

:thumbup: great pick  (this poster wasn't participating in the draft, fwiw... and should be banned for not rating my Joe Strummer pick)


He's honoring him




Tom Petty isn't actually dead yet fwiw.


Maybe next we can do a draft of musicians you wish had died.  For example, couldn't we have lost the guy from Smash Mouth instead of Tom Petty? (wishing death is not cool. that scott norwood is one evil but funny guy.


In retrospect, I probably should have made the start of the draft the cutoff for eligibility.  But I didn't so the Petty pick will stand eventually I guess.

I'm feeling bummed about TP and the state of the world in general today.  I'll pick my 9th rounder tomorrow.


We were talking about this, Eephus. It's not a fun day; it's downright awful.


 Folk singer Tom Paley died over the weekend at the age of 89.  If I was a musician named Tom P###y, I'd be hiding under my bed right now.


He's off life support - but has he been announced dead yet? 

Not yet as of 6:09 EDT / 3:09 PDT.


Tom Petty isn't actually dead yet fwiw.

So is it like he's on the Patriots and is "doubtful"? (makes light of petty's situation by comparing it to the NFL. appropriate, given the site but a little over the line for me. a little, and not anything I personally would bat an eye at.


I read he's not dead and they retracted some earlier statements.


Am I bad if whenever I read that I think of this? (link to monty python) (he's asking out loud if he's bad- he understands it's approaching the line. I don't see a problem with this regardless- other than I was thinking the link led to miracle max- but obviously you do)


I am rescinding my Petty pick. Or petty pick depending on your POV.

I was auditioning third vocalist choices on YouTube when I heard the news and it felt like s punch in the guy. A split second later I was like, wait a minute I'm in this draft looking for a vocalist.

Anyway, no hard feeling ilor objections from me nor do I really sense any coming my way. But it seems like the right thing to do 


Am I bad if whenever I read that I think of this?

i did too :bag: during this afternoon's confusion  (the bag emoticon should tip you off that this poster likewise feels bad about it)

 
This wasn't a correct decision, and won't make sense. That's why I posted it. Anyone that wants to write me can write me at rockaction71@gmail.com. I'm not feeling up to this board these days. 

 
lame...

It's sad if Joe actually believes that anyone considering people dying is a plus. 
because we were all after the tremendous prize money that comes with winning that draft.

I think I can speak for everyone in that draft, that we HATE that we lost all of those talented people. No one was "happy" they got to draft Tom Petty. 

 
pompous, kneejerk decision that disrespects patrons far more than they were disrespecting anyone else. i wish the powers that be had had the business sense to turn thousands of people checking in daily on their site into a revenue stream so we'd have some leverage, but we don't. the passive-aggressive "dont let the door hit ya" is next i'm sure for people who've given much of their lives & cares and tens of thousands of contributions to this place. proud of you -

 
pompous, kneejerk decision that disrespects patrons far more than they were disrespecting anyone else. i wish the powers that be had had the business sense to turn thousands of people checking in daily on their site into a revenue stream so we'd have some leverage, but we don't. the passive-aggressive "dont let the door hit ya" is next i'm sure for people who've given much of their lives & cares and tens of thousands of contributions to this place. proud of you -
That's why I care. 

 
pompous, kneejerk decision that disrespects patrons far more than they were disrespecting anyone else. i wish the powers that be had had the business sense to turn thousands of people checking in daily on their site into a revenue stream so we'd have some leverage, but we don't. the passive-aggressive "dont let the door hit ya" is next i'm sure for people who've given much of their lives & cares and tens of thousands of contributions to this place. proud of you -
Maybe they can make it a paid forum, like thehuddle did.

 
Seriously?! Wtf man.

With the bs and nastiness that so frequently happens in here, THAT warranted removal? A bunch of the more mild mannered folk enjoying themselves over a music draft? Because the musicians chosen were people who have died, died? 

Mods, Joe Bryant... I'd honestly like an explanation as nothing I saw in there was remotely offensive. Is death offensive?
pretty sure it was the arguing about drafting Tom Petty the moment he died, then undied yesterday after a bunch of people got shot in Vegas and the board folks have been on edge.

i would say drafting tom petty yesterday was the hammer

 
pretty sure it was the arguing about drafting Tom Petty the moment he died, then undied yesterday after a bunch of people got shot in Vegas and the board folks have been on edge.

i would say drafting tom petty yesterday was the hammer
that's obvious and they were uncomfortable moments in an awkwardness of time. but anyone who really cared about value would look at the names on the 750 posts in the thread and read the page after page of content doing great honor to the heros of our pasts and done no more than caution the offenders, myself among them

 
pompous, kneejerk decision that disrespects patrons far more than they were disrespecting anyone else. i wish the powers that be had had the business sense to turn thousands of people checking in daily on their site into a revenue stream so we'd have some leverage, but we don't. the passive-aggressive "dont let the door hit ya" is next i'm sure for people who've given much of their lives & cares and tens of thousands of contributions to this place. proud of you -
I'm sorry to hear you think that. We'll just have to disagree. We've never tried to "leverage" the boards into a revenue stream. It's more a thing of how we've tried to operate our company and not as much not having the "business sense" to turn the boards into a "revenue stream". For passive aggressive "don't let the door hit ya", I hope it doesn't come to that. We have tried to be pretty clear that we're not for everyone. We get that some people won't like how we do do things. That's life. But with half a million voices all with an opinion, if we did what everyone wanted, nothing would get done. Again, that's life. I fully get not everyone will agree with all we do. 

 
what i would have done is give a warning and delete some posts 
This would have been sufficient, especially given the tenor of the thread. Massive overreaction on Joe's part here. This isn't even consistent with the usual pattern of inconsistency.

Everyone was raw yesterday for many reasons. I think that should have been taken into account.

 
that's obvious and they were uncomfortable moments in an awkwardness of time. but anyone who really cared about value would look at the names on the 750 posts in the thread and read the page after page of content doing great honor to the heros of our pasts and done no more than caution the offenders, myself among them


this. 

it was truly an honor for me to rave about Thunders and Link and Roy and Brown and Jonesy and Kristy, etc ... and would've had a fond gimmick nod to Dee Dee King (nee Ramone) had we trucked on  :D

was also informative, as always, gleaning gems and perspective from the other drafters via their eclectic selections, and their comments on my roster ... the knowledge and passion for these artists and their work is/was  profoundly legit. 

was a blast, ladies and gents  :thumbup:

ETA:had to include 'ladies' for Mrs. R and Krista ✌

 
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I'm sorry to hear you think that. We'll just have to disagree. We've never tried to "leverage" the boards into a revenue stream. It's more a thing of how we've tried to operate our company and not as much not having the "business sense" to turn the boards into a "revenue stream". For passive aggressive "don't let the door hit ya", I hope it doesn't come to that. We have tried to be pretty clear that we're not for everyone. We get that some people won't like how we do do things. That's life. But with half a million voices all with an opinion, if we did what everyone wanted, nothing would get done. Again, that's life. I fully get not everyone will agree with all we do. 
Would you at least be willing to offer an explanation as to why you took the action that you did?

As I said earlier - Tom Petty's death hit me as hard as it hit any of his fans. I'm still quite upset - but I was not turned off by him being drafted or the Monty Python link (which I think was a response to the line "he's not dead yet" and not a shot at TP at all).

I realize what people find offensive is subjective - but I really don't get this action.

 
I'm sorry to hear you think that. We'll just have to disagree. We've never tried to "leverage" the boards into a revenue stream. It's more a thing of how we've tried to operate our company and not as much not having the "business sense" to turn the boards into a "revenue stream". For passive aggressive "don't let the door hit ya", I hope it doesn't come to that. We have tried to be pretty clear that we're not for everyone. We get that some people won't like how we do do things. That's life. But with half a million voices all with an opinion, if we did what everyone wanted, nothing would get done. Again, that's life. I fully get not everyone will agree with all we do. 
you did it to a thread full of respectful people, who self-moderated the offensive posts when things got a little over the line. again- you should be looking for that kind of behavior (the self-moderation), not punishing it.

thoughtlessly kneejerk draconian decision on your part. and you can fix this... with a little thought and consideration. 

 
Let's do this.

It's been a rough couple of days for people. I know emotions are high. Mine included. Posters making "not dead yet" Monty Python posts for Tom Petty yesterday is so far beyond what I want this board to be. Especially yesterday.

Let's take a 1 month break on the Dead Rock Star thread and we can revisit this November 1. Somone shoot me a PM November 1 to remind me with the link to this thread and we'll discuss.  I'm going to bow out of this now and we can revisit November 1. 

 
Let's do this.

It's been a rough couple of days for people. I know emotions are high. Mine included. Posters making "not dead yet" Monty Python posts for Tom Petty yesterday is so far beyond what I want this board to be. Especially yesterday.

Let's take a 1 month break on the Dead Rock Star thread and we can revisit this November 1. Somone shoot me a PM November 1 to remind me with the link to this thread and we'll discuss.  I'm going to bow out of this now and we can revisit November 1. 
:thumbup:

And this is perfect as it will give us time for a Scarf draft that Floppo has been wanting to do.

1.1  SOD

 
Let's do this.

It's been a rough couple of days for people. I know emotions are high. Mine included. Posters making "not dead yet" Monty Python posts for Tom Petty yesterday is so far beyond what I want this board to be. Especially yesterday.
See a very reasonable interpretation of that was the Monty Python link was in response to a post that said "he's not dead yet" - meaning that triggered the response. It really had nothing to do with TP himself.

When the radio plays a block of Tom Petty (or Bowie or Prince) songs in response to an artists death is that morbid? Would you change the station?

 
See a very reasonable interpretation of that was the Monty Python link was in response to a post that said "he's not dead yet" - meaning that triggered the response. It really had nothing to do with TP himself.

When the radio plays a block of Tom Petty (or Bowie or Prince) songs in response to an artists death is that morbid? Would you change the station?
sounds like he's done. 

the whole thing reminds me of how my 6yo and her friends would mete out justice in preschool... as 3 or 4yos. I don't like what you said. :confused: Oh yeah- well, I'll just rip up your drawing.  justice.

 
Let's do this.

It's been a rough couple of days for people. I know emotions are high. Mine included. Posters making "not dead yet" Monty Python posts for Tom Petty yesterday is so far beyond what I want this board to be. Especially yesterday.
See a very reasonable interpretation of that was the Monty Python link was in response to a post that said "he's not dead yet" - meaning that triggered the response. It really had nothing to do with TP himself.

When the radio plays a block of Tom Petty (or Bowie or Prince) songs in response to an artists death is that morbid? Would you change the station?
One of the things that is bothering me is I sent an apologetic note to Joe as quickly as I could last night after I noticed the thread was blocked (I had issues with my internet, but it was fairly quick) and he has read this thread, but not my note. I posted above requesting he look at it, and he hasn't.

 
I'm sorry to hear you think that. We'll just have to disagree. We've never tried to "leverage" the boards into a revenue stream. It's more a thing of how we've tried to operate our company and not as much not having the "business sense" to turn the boards into a "revenue stream". For passive aggressive "don't let the door hit ya", I hope it doesn't come to that. We have tried to be pretty clear that we're not for everyone. We get that some people won't like how we do do things. That's life. But with half a million voices all with an opinion, if we did what everyone wanted, nothing would get done. Again, that's life. I fully get not everyone will agree with all we do. 
That's the key - FFA will always be "some people" to you because you can't cash out on us. After almost two decades, the FFA is a community of people who've given aid & comfort & advice & encouragement & friendship & sarcasm & actual material aid to members in need, sometimes abject need with no other place to turn. Like it or not, you have a personal, if not professional, responsibility for the monster you've created in the name of personal gain, and seasonal manifestos, capricious acts and greater concern for occasional miscreance than consistent quality are more hindrance than help. We cant reassemble this community anywhere else (it's been tried before in other forums) so you have us at your mercy. But your shrugging attitude toward chasing "volunteers" away, though it's literally your business, says a lot about you that you'd be very glad not to hear others say.

 
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Since you've been here so long, I figured you knew Joe's last name doesn't have an 8 in it
:goodposting:  

no wonder I never got the secret handshake and real draft dominator. this explains why I keep getting ridiculed by the FBG rate-my-team app after using the jokey-draft dominator you guys send me. 

 
One of the things that is bothering me is I sent an apologetic note to Joe as quickly as I could last night after I noticed the thread was blocked (I had issues with my internet, but it was fairly quick) and he has read this thread, but not my note. I posted above requesting he look at it, and he hasn't.
Honestly when I read  "he's not dead yet" - the first thing I thought of was Monty Python as well.

You have NOTHING to apologize for imo (but it says a lot about you that you are still willing to). This is clearly some one misinterpreting the context of a post.

 
One of the things that is bothering me is I sent an apologetic note to Joe as quickly as I could last night after I noticed the thread was blocked (I had issues with my internet, but it was fairly quick) and he has read this thread, but not my note. I posted above requesting he look at it, and he hasn't.
Maybe you sent it to that Joe 8ryant character.

 
As for November 1st, I don't see what that's going to do. I agree that it's Joe's site. What Joe says goes. But I'd hoped for something different. I've invested a lot in the FFA, like wikkid said, and had my life affected by it. It doesn't seem right -- I wish I were more eloquent -- about what this means. It certainly means a sole proprietor can determine the shape and nature of what I discuss. I'm not sure I'm willing to cede that sort of power to anybody, however just. 

I'm just thinking about my time here -- it was well spent, but perhaps unwise.  

 
Joe Bryant said:
Let's do this.

It's been a rough couple of days for people. I know emotions are high. Mine included. Posters making "not dead yet" Monty Python posts for Tom Petty yesterday is so far beyond what I want this board to be. Especially yesterday.

Let's take a 1 month break on the Dead Rock Star thread and we can revisit this November 1. Somone shoot me a PM November 1 to remind me with the link to this thread and we'll discuss.  I'm going to bow out of this now and we can revisit November 1. 
Joe, in recognition and appreciation for the FBG community you've hosted over the years ... may I respectfully offer an alternative?

That particular draft thread is not sacrosanct. As the latter contents therein have been found offensive, that thread can go away. Those involved in the draft itself, however, are invested in the selections and discussions generated by the picks themselves.

Would you be amenable, therefore, to a second thread that would strictly (a) allow for the completion of the draft, and (b) allow for the discussion of musicians and songs drafted? At the same time, those drafting will commit earnestly to avoiding jest at the expense of the deceased.

So far as I'm aware, the closed draft thread was not populated with FFA troublemakers with multiple bannings. Rather, it seems that the drafters were among the forums' most positively productive members -- folks who care far more to share knowledge and experience than to denigrate the knowledge and experience of others.

Accordingly, might it be reasonable that the drafters, as board members in excellent standing, have earned the trust necessary to start a second thread?

Thank you in advance for your consideration, Joe. The replies you're getting in this thread are not baseless frustration, but disappointment based on affection and esteem for the community hosted here. And you've made that possible.

 
Joe Bryant said:
Let's do this.

It's been a rough couple of days for people. I know emotions are high. Mine included. Posters making "not dead yet" Monty Python posts for Tom Petty yesterday is so far beyond what I want this board to be. Especially yesterday.

Let's take a 1 month break on the Dead Rock Star thread and we can revisit this November 1. Somone shoot me a PM November 1 to remind me with the link to this thread and we'll discuss.  I'm going to bow out of this now and we can revisit November 1. 
There are not mean spirited people in the music draft. You misinterpreted that Monty Python comment, but that has been pointed out to you more than once. The whole draft is honoring deceased artists that have left huge imprints on music's landscape. Drafters were building there ultimate bands of these great artists that have left us, but their music lives on. You locked out a bunch of music lovers, and you should know that a music lover feels the loss of Tom Petty. Let em play.

 
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