How about realize our ancestors raped them.
So unproductive
I will start by saying I am not white or Native American but have significant ancestry from three countries that were colonized by European powers.
And it always irritates me when people in those countries (including friends and family) incessantly grumble and complain about how those European countries are to blame for every current issue in the country. I love those countries and their people, but they have been independent for 50+ years now. Their issues are in large part (if not full part) their own doing, yet many people's (not all) fixation with the distant past and having someone to blame prevents them from diagnosing issues, rooting out corruption in their own people, seeing how their own policies/politicians have failed them and taking steps to solutions that can change the present for many in their country.
I can't/don't speak for all Native Americans and I am sure there are some who may disagree.
But seeing a modern twenty something year old Brit/Portuguese unironically personally beg my forgiveness for something someone long, long ago the same nationality as their ancestors did maybe to my ancestors and/or people who look like my ancestors or agitate to take down a statue of King George/Empress Victoria/Churchill/Rudyard Kipling/Vasco de Gama/Francis Xavier/etc would just make me think they are a self righteous, self hating jackass--perhaps a well intentioned one but still
Obviously colonialism was wrong on many different levels, as were treatment of Native Americans and slavery/segregation--atrocious episodes of our past that lasted too long
Not denying that in the slightest
But people whose great-ancestors looked like those who did them (even more relevant in the US's case: your average white guy could easily be a descendant of an Irish immigrant from the 1850s who spent the rest of his life in NY and never even saw a slave or Native American) personally apologizing to people who haven't suffered them is NOT solving racism or frankly even helping those communities
For Native Americans in particular: there are so many issues affecting their communities and people that can actually be helped in the now and present: opioid crisis (also affects a lot of non Native Americans), lack of jobs/economic growth on reservations, etc that action towards would help a lot more people now than apologies, taking down statues or changing names.
Not to say there isn't a place for the past: places like the Trail of Tears, Sand Creek and Wounded Knee should always be preserved as they are and curriculums should encompass the lights and shadows of the past to educate fully
But ultimately remembrance of the past should not be so much to threaten reconciliation and action on what can actually be changed today. Imagine if FDR had refused to help/work with the UK out of a 150+ year grudge for colonialism, 1812, burning down the White House, instead of recognized the imminent threat to people now/work needed to be done and what could be controlled
And honestly no group on Earth has its hands clean (mine included). Take a look at a map of tribes in North America for each century going back to the 1600s and you will find many no longer there and replaced by others: some were wiped off by Europeans/settlers, some by settlers and many others by other tribes. Same thing can be seen looking at ethnic groups in Africa/Asia
This fact DOES NOT in any way minimize the inhumanity, atrociousness and injustice of our past and slavery/treatment of Natives/colonialism--not in the slightest
Just the unproductiveness of fixating on a past that can't be changed and grouping people with their ancestors in order to do so
For the Redskins name: it will be changed and--though I never felt strongly about it--it seems to me like the way to go at this point (please don't come for my Tomahawk Chop at Arrowhead next though), but it doesn't change the past and quite frankly it doesn't help the present (no one truly "becomes" a racist because of the Redskins name/logo)
That present can only be helped through action from living in the present rather than the past
Hope I didn't offend--if anyone is offended, please point out what it was and I will gladly apologize. Not my intent in the slightest, nor was this intended to even a little political (I don't step into that arena!)