One of the problems in this thread seems to be that people are reluctant to start doing the types of things that would help create the healing and moving forward of others. You see those on the left arguing that it would be showing some form of acceptance to the behavior of the past four years (or longer). That we shouldn't, we cannot look past what some of this has meant. On the right we get "yeah, sure now that your are on top you want...". But maybe that really misses the point.
This isn't a religious thread and its been a while since I have seen one of those but when we had them I have often labeled myself a "love thy neighbor" christian. The "c" is lower case for a reason. That is even though I believe in a bunch of other stuff that is Christianity at the end of the day what really matters is that I believe that living a life of "love thy neighbor" is what we are intended to do. That even if I one day no longer believed in any of the rest of the stuff I would still believe in this. Basically living a selfless life. While I don't always have the courage to live my life this way, to trust what I am claiming to know I think being selfless is selfishly the path to happiness.
In context of this thread maybe we should do the kinds of things that may or may not help others heal and move forward, even those that we may have reason to resent or dislike or disrespect or whatever simply because it will help us to heal and move forward. I kind of think that calling it "forgiving and forgetting" is going to be taken as another example of condescension of those being forgiven so that is probably counterproductive to do "publicly". But to quietly forgive others of their sins and doing the best to forget what we think is "evil" about them is probably a good idea for our own self being. (Besides some of the best people in the world to know and have your back would fall in the "basket of deplorables" for one reason or another.)
So maybe it isn't time to try to heal and move forward a nation, but maybe it is time to try and heal and move forward myself. I can't really drag anyone else along, but maybe it won't really matter. And maybe this time if enough people do what is best for themselves that we slowly do what is best for the nation. We can slowly heal and move forward as a nation by being selfless for purely selfish reasons. But if not maybe I can just be happier.
As noted earlier this is easy for me to say, I believe it. It is harder though to have the courage to actually live it.