Maybe we're all just not understanding each other,
@timschochet
If someone goes says or does something racist, sexist, homophobic, etc--It should be called out, and they should be held accountable. I don't think the answer is always "let's fire them," but often in those cases it's justified. No one is calling THAT cancel culture.
I think most cases where people want to cancel someone is in the grey zone. Like Rowling. The internet thinks the ONLY acceptable comment is "Trans people are whatever they say they are and I agree with them."
And then you've got the "Let's see what we can find on your social media page from 5 years ago."
Rachel from the Bachelor being the most recent example. She should be called out. She should acknowledge the hurt and problems her actions cause. She should apologize and learn from it, and let's move forward.
Chris tries to explain that she was a young dumb and that's not who she is, and we should hear her out--well obviously he's defending racism and he's a racist, and he needs to be off tv.
That's cancel culture. That's what problematic.
Contrary to your accusations, I'm not mad that I can't beat women. I'm not upset black people can sit in the front of the bus.
Hope that clears it up, bud.