timschochet
Footballguy
OK now of course everyone here is free to read and comment, but I'm really looking for atheist parents like myself to respond. If you are a religious Christian you might actually take offense to what I write here, which is not intended. I offer that warning in advance:
I was raised a non religious Jew, and have been an atheist since I was a teenager. My wife was raised a Lutheran, still believes, but doesn't like going to church. We have always told our two daughters they are free to believe what they like. We've celebrated Jewish and Christian holidays, taken them to their grandfathers church on Christmas and Easter. They've never shown any inclination to pursue this further- until now with my younger daughter.
It began when her best friend invited her to a Wednesday Bible study at her non demoninational church. My daughter went and loved it- they played games, ate sweets, prepared gifts for poor people. So she wanted to go again. And again. Now she's going every week. This last week she announced to us that she has found Jesus. She's giving us Bible quotations (her friend gave her a Bible app for her phone). This all happened very quickly.
There's been no attempt to convert the rest of us. But I'm pretty sure that's coming. I've always been an open minded guy but I have to admit this worries me. I don't know whether to leave it alone and hope it goes away. The church seems to be one of these really religious ones. I don't want my daughter coming to believe that I am bound for hell, and I'm pretty sure they are going to teach her that. So far it's only Wednesday night; she hasn't asked to go Sunday yet but I'm fairly sure that's coming. On the other hand she's a sweet 13 year old, has lots of friends, does well in school (8th grade) no complaints there.
Should I leave this alone? Let it run its course? Or actively try to stop it?
I was raised a non religious Jew, and have been an atheist since I was a teenager. My wife was raised a Lutheran, still believes, but doesn't like going to church. We have always told our two daughters they are free to believe what they like. We've celebrated Jewish and Christian holidays, taken them to their grandfathers church on Christmas and Easter. They've never shown any inclination to pursue this further- until now with my younger daughter.
It began when her best friend invited her to a Wednesday Bible study at her non demoninational church. My daughter went and loved it- they played games, ate sweets, prepared gifts for poor people. So she wanted to go again. And again. Now she's going every week. This last week she announced to us that she has found Jesus. She's giving us Bible quotations (her friend gave her a Bible app for her phone). This all happened very quickly.
There's been no attempt to convert the rest of us. But I'm pretty sure that's coming. I've always been an open minded guy but I have to admit this worries me. I don't know whether to leave it alone and hope it goes away. The church seems to be one of these really religious ones. I don't want my daughter coming to believe that I am bound for hell, and I'm pretty sure they are going to teach her that. So far it's only Wednesday night; she hasn't asked to go Sunday yet but I'm fairly sure that's coming. On the other hand she's a sweet 13 year old, has lots of friends, does well in school (8th grade) no complaints there.
Should I leave this alone? Let it run its course? Or actively try to stop it?