Update: Intermittent fasting has to be the best thing I've done to strip weight without changing a lot of what I eat and drink. And after a while you kind of enjoy not being so FULL all the time. It's not for everyone but my wife was doing so well and I wanted to support her in any way I could so I joined with her and also I wanted to see if what she was doing was actually unhealthy, wouldn't want her hurting herself.
She has lost quite a bit in a fairly short period of time, I'll say she has been at it maybe 6 weeks, 8 weeks. If I had to guess she's lost maybe 20 pounds over that stretch where she usually is lucky to lose 1 lb a week or less when she is on WW as an example.
I have found my way below the target I had set a while back...but I want to say that I enjoyed just maintaining what I lost while others regained after things started opening again. I'm ready to hole up and go hermit all over again, it did me a lot of good and got me to not just focus on myself but how to position myself to where I can be helpful to other people. Some of my Tennis mates have taken me aside and asked me to help them lose weight...1st thing I tell them "The Courts are not your gym" and it likely is what and when you are eating. All of them confess to eating large amounts of food well past supper time and that's a recipe for disaster in my book.
I am more focused on waist size than actual weight, I'm about a 34 inch waist now, 6-3 so that's good but I'd like to see if I can somehow find the elusive 32 which would be really lean and my wife has asked me not to get so thin people start handing me food.
I'm not where I would truly like to be mentally, however I am getting a lot of comments when I go out in public like the Tennis Courts where my new knick name of late is "Skinny" which I prefer Spin Doctor when I am playing Tennis
The mental thing is where I am going to end up eventually, not sure how I can navigate that yet but I see a direct relation to food and emotions or feelings, when I am depressed I usually want to eat something terrible and that makes it worse.
Read this Book: The Obesity Code, it's eye opening and fairly easy to read, maybe a week if you read slow. Talks about a lot of bad habits we all have, fasting, etc...