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Advice From Guys Who Have Went Thru A Divorce (1 Viewer)

Honest question, with no kids why even bother filing divorce? Why not just walk away and go. If you've been married 24 years you must be nearing 50 so getting married again is not a high priority i would imagine?

Stall it out as long as possible.
Being married for 24 years (and yes, I am getting close to 50) is the primary reason I don't want to just walk away. I would not consider getting married again.
That's what I thought.... before I went to China.
Okay, final O/U was set at 26 posts, so those of you who had the over send me a PM with paypal addy.
My local had it at 26.5 and the hook scared me off :kicksrock:
 
Never been through a divorce, but do divorce law. General advice I'd give is that the process is slow, painful, and usually both sides walk away unhappy. I'd certainly recommend consulting with a divorce attorney in your jurisdiction now to get some specifics on the legalities of your specific situation. But bear in mind most divorces aren't smooth, even between two reasonable people with few assets.
All true. Although I just settled one today that I swear was going to go down the road of ugly with a capital Barbara Streisand. Sometimes at the brink people get smart. :shrug:

 
Honest question, with no kids why even bother filing divorce? Why not just walk away and go. If you've been married 24 years you must be nearing 50 so getting married again is not a high priority i would imagine?

Stall it out as long as possible.
Being married for 24 years (and yes, I am getting close to 50) is the primary reason I don't want to just walk away. I would not consider getting married again.
That's what I thought.... before I went to China.
Okay, final O/U was set at 26 posts, so those of you who had the over send me a PM with paypal addy.
My local had it at 26.5 and the hook scared me off :kicksrock:
Ok, ok.... if he just wouldn't have mentioned "never get married again", I probably wouldn't have said anything. Because I thought the exact same thing, once upon a time. Just goes to show... you don't know what you don't know.

On the peking ferry I was feeling merry

Sailing on my way back here

I fell in love with a slit eyed lady

By the light of an eastern moon

Shangai lil never used the pill

She claimed that it just ain't natural

She took me up on deck and bit my neck

Oh people I was glad I found her

Oh yeah I was glad I found her

I firmly believe that I didn't need anyone but me

I sincerely thought I was so complete

Look how wrong you can be

The women I've known I wouldn't let tie my shoe

They wouldn't give you the time of day

But the slit eyed lady knocked me off my feet

God I was glad I found her

And if they had the words I could tell to you

To help you on the way down the road

I couldn't quote you no dickens, Shelley or Keats

Cause it's all been said before

Make the best out of the bad just laugh it off

You didn't have to come here anyway

So remember, every picture tells a story don't it
 
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Honest question, with no kids why even bother filing divorce? Why not just walk away and go. If you've been married 24 years you must be nearing 50 so getting married again is not a high priority i would imagine?

Stall it out as long as possible.
Being married for 24 years (and yes, I am getting close to 50) is the primary reason I don't want to just walk away. I would not consider getting married again.
That's what I thought.... before I went to China.
Okay, final O/U was set at 26 posts, so those of you who had the over send me a PM with paypal addy.
My local had it at 26.5 and the hook scared me off :kicksrock:
Ok, ok.... if he just wouldn't have mentioned "never get married again", I probably wouldn't have said anything. Because I thought the exact same thing, once upon a time. Just goes to show... you don't know what you don't know.

It's the fact that you have to work China in every time. Frankly, a more accurate statement (I hope) would have been "That's what I thought ... before I met my second wife."

 
Never been through a divorce, but do divorce law. General advice I'd give is that the process is slow, painful, and usually both sides walk away unhappy. I'd certainly recommend consulting with a divorce attorney in your jurisdiction now to get some specifics on the legalities of your specific situation. But bear in mind most divorces aren't smooth, even between two reasonable people with few assets.
Horrible advice. They're still on speaking terms and have NO kids.

They could simply figure out a living situation and file the paperwork with the courts themselves.

The only issue I see is they've been married for 24 years so I'm assuming there is a house involved. If so, again, work that out between the two of you BEFORE involving the lawyers.
Exactly. Give her the house, the best car, all the furniture, all the contents except his clothes, and toiletries. He can even pay off the remainder of the note so the house is free and clear, he just wants his retirement accounts intact.

Under not circumstance is he to discuss the wedding photos. Its a trap. Whether he wants them, cares not at all, or would like them burned there is no right answer. There is only conflict while the lawyer's meter's are running.
However, the porn photos are non-negotiable. You get to keep those as a guarantee of good behavior in any future negotiations. And, as is true with any intercontinental ballistic threat, you don't ever use them. To use them is to lose them.

 
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Honest question, with no kids why even bother filing divorce? Why not just walk away and go. If you've been married 24 years you must be nearing 50 so getting married again is not a high priority i would imagine?

Stall it out as long as possible.
Being married for 24 years (and yes, I am getting close to 50) is the primary reason I don't want to just walk away. I would not consider getting married again.
That's what I thought.... before I went to China.
Okay, final O/U was set at 26 posts, so those of you who had the over send me a PM with paypal addy.
My local had it at 26.5 and the hook scared me off :kicksrock:
Ok, ok.... if he just wouldn't have mentioned "never get married again", I probably wouldn't have said anything. Because I thought the exact same thing, once upon a time. Just goes to show... you don't know what you don't know.

On the peking ferry I was feeling merry

Sailing on my way back here

I fell in love with a slit eyed lady

By the light of an eastern moon

Shangai lil never used the pill

She claimed that it just ain't natural

She took me up on deck and bit my neck

Oh people I was glad I found her

Oh yeah I was glad I found her

I firmly believe that I didn't need anyone but me

I sincerely thought I was so complete

Look how wrong you can be

The women I've known I wouldn't let tie my shoe

They wouldn't give you the time of day

But the slit eyed lady knocked me off my feet

God I was glad I found her

And if they had the words I could tell to you

To help you on the way down the road

I couldn't quote you no dickens, Shelley or Keats

Cause it's all been said before

Make the best out of the bad just laugh it off

You didn't have to come here anyway

So remember, every picture tells a story don't it
Does she like Chik-fil-a?

 
Honest question, with no kids why even bother filing divorce? Why not just walk away and go. If you've been married 24 years you must be nearing 50 so getting married again is not a high priority i would imagine?

Stall it out as long as possible.
Being married for 24 years (and yes, I am getting close to 50) is the primary reason I don't want to just walk away. I would not consider getting married again.
That's what I thought.... before I went to China.
Okay, final O/U was set at 26 posts, so those of you who had the over send me a PM with paypal addy.
My local had it at 26.5 and the hook scared me off :kicksrock:
Ok, ok.... if he just wouldn't have mentioned "never get married again", I probably wouldn't have said anything. Because I thought the exact same thing, once upon a time. Just goes to show... you don't know what you don't know.

It's the fact that you have to work China in every time. Frankly, a more accurate statement (I hope) would have been "That's what I thought ... before I met my second wife."
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.

 
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
I hope she murders you in your sleep.

 
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
I hope she murders you in your sleep.
She's had plenty of opportunities. And lots of life insurance naming her as the beneficiary. I seem to be worth more alive than dead. Not sure why... if I were her, I'd kill me, too.

 
Honest question, with no kids why even bother filing divorce? Why not just walk away and go. If you've been married 24 years you must be nearing 50 so getting married again is not a high priority i would imagine?

Stall it out as long as possible.
Being married for 24 years (and yes, I am getting close to 50) is the primary reason I don't want to just walk away. I would not consider getting married again.
That's what I thought.... before I went to China.
Okay, final O/U was set at 26 posts, so those of you who had the over send me a PM with paypal addy.
My local had it at 26.5 and the hook scared me off :kicksrock:
Ok, ok.... if he just wouldn't have mentioned "never get married again", I probably wouldn't have said anything. Because I thought the exact same thing, once upon a time. Just goes to show... you don't know what you don't know.

It's the fact that you have to work China in every time. Frankly, a more accurate statement (I hope) would have been "That's what I thought ... before I met my second wife."
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
That's terrific but completely irrelevant to the OP's question.

PS I don't hope for your murder.

 
Your insurance policy would not allow her to benefit from participating in your murder.

I don't openly wish for your murder by her, but would appreciate the poetry of it.

 
Never been through a divorce, but do divorce law. General advice I'd give is that the process is slow, painful, and usually both sides walk away unhappy. I'd certainly recommend consulting with a divorce attorney in your jurisdiction now to get some specifics on the legalities of your specific situation. But bear in mind most divorces aren't smooth, even between two reasonable people with few assets.
Horrible advice. They're still on speaking terms and have NO kids.

They could simply figure out a living situation and file the paperwork with the courts themselves.

The only issue I see is they've been married for 24 years so I'm assuming there is a house involved. If so, again, work that out between the two of you BEFORE involving the lawyers.
:goodposting:
Apparently some of you don''t know what "consult" means.

A lot of lawyers will give you about an hour of their time for a consult fee (200ish or so). I think they are incredibly beneficial to people because it would allow them to basically get a crash course of the law as it applies to their facts. Also, a lawyer can be very objective in advice and analysis and oftentimes talk people out of legal action.

In this guy's case, given that the length of his marriage raised at least two potential issues (spousal maintenance and asset division), he's far better served paying a lawyer in his jurisdiction a consult fee to than he would listening to people on a messageboard for free.

 
Your insurance policy would not allow her to benefit from participating in your murder.

I don't openly wish for your murder by her, but would appreciate the poetry of it.
Wouldn't that be a haiku?

Or would that just be if he had married a Japanese woman?

 
Your insurance policy would not allow her to benefit from participating in your murder.

I don't openly wish for your murder by her, but would appreciate the poetry of it.
Haven't you watched Training Day? "There's what you know, and there's what you can prove". Or something like that.

 
Never been through a divorce, but do divorce law. General advice I'd give is that the process is slow, painful, and usually both sides walk away unhappy. I'd certainly recommend consulting with a divorce attorney in your jurisdiction now to get some specifics on the legalities of your specific situation. But bear in mind most divorces aren't smooth, even between two reasonable people with few assets.
Horrible advice. They're still on speaking terms and have NO kids.

They could simply figure out a living situation and file the paperwork with the courts themselves.

The only issue I see is they've been married for 24 years so I'm assuming there is a house involved. If so, again, work that out between the two of you BEFORE involving the lawyers.
:goodposting:
Apparently some of you don''t know what "consult" means.

A lot of lawyers will give you about an hour of their time for a consult fee (200ish or so). I think they are incredibly beneficial to people because it would allow them to basically get a crash course of the law as it applies to their facts. Also, a lawyer can be very objective in advice and analysis and oftentimes talk people out of legal action.

In this guy's case, given that the length of his marriage raised at least two potential issues (spousal maintenance and asset division), he's far better served paying a lawyer in his jurisdiction a consult fee to than he would listening to people on a messageboard for free.
Apparently some of you don't read / understand the thread title.

 
Never been through a divorce, but do divorce law. General advice I'd give is that the process is slow, painful, and usually both sides walk away unhappy. I'd certainly recommend consulting with a divorce attorney in your jurisdiction now to get some specifics on the legalities of your specific situation. But bear in mind most divorces aren't smooth, even between two reasonable people with few assets.
Horrible advice. They're still on speaking terms and have NO kids.

They could simply figure out a living situation and file the paperwork with the courts themselves.

The only issue I see is they've been married for 24 years so I'm assuming there is a house involved. If so, again, work that out between the two of you BEFORE involving the lawyers.
:goodposting:
Apparently some of you don''t know what "consult" means.

A lot of lawyers will give you about an hour of their time for a consult fee (200ish or so). I think they are incredibly beneficial to people because it would allow them to basically get a crash course of the law as it applies to their facts. Also, a lawyer can be very objective in advice and analysis and oftentimes talk people out of legal action.

In this guy's case, given that the length of his marriage raised at least two potential issues (spousal maintenance and asset division), he's far better served paying a lawyer in his jurisdiction a consult fee to than he would listening to people on a messageboard for free.
Apparently some of you don't read / understand the thread title.
Makes sense. Certainly wouldn't want a foot surgeon commenting in a thread about foot surgery because he's never personally had foot surgery.

 
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
Desperate people do desperate things. You can't bag a decent, sane western wife, and she couldn't hack eastern life so she latched on any white man that would take her.

Perfect couple. :thumbup:

 
Going to see a lawyer to assess my options is probably a good idea. I just feel like doing those type of things is preparing for a separation and admitting defeat when in fact there is a good chance that we can work our situation out.

As I said before my wife makes (and has made) more money than I have for a long period of time. No infidelity involved; no kids; just 24 years of good and bad times.

And as weird as it may seem - asking for advice on this board has been very beneficial.

 
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
Desperate people do desperate things. You can't bag a decent, sane western wife, and she couldn't hack eastern life so she latched on any white man that would take her.

Perfect couple. :thumbup:
What a dum-dum making all sorts of assumptions. And you know what assume means... Make an ### of u and me.
 
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
Desperate people do desperate things. You can't bag a decent, sane western wife, and she couldn't hack eastern life so she latched on any white man that would take her.

Perfect couple. :thumbup:
What a dum-dum making all sorts of assumptions. And you know what assume means... Make an ### of u and me.
The only weak ### here is you. You can't handle western women, so you went elsewhere.

When you married your current wife, was she over or under 30?

 
Going to see a lawyer to assess my options is probably a good idea. I just feel like doing those type of things is preparing for a separation and admitting defeat when in fact there is a good chance that we can work our situation out.
You said in your OP that you were doubtful you'd stay together. So you need to ask yourself which is it. If you have doubts, think of going to a lawyer as merely a means of obtaining information. Just because you consult with a divorce lawyer doesn't mean you must get divorced.

 
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
Desperate people do desperate things. You can't bag a decent, sane western wife, and she couldn't hack eastern life so she latched on any white man that would take her.

Perfect couple. :thumbup:
What a dum-dum making all sorts of assumptions. And you know what assume means... Make an ### of u and me.
The only weak ### here is you. You can't handle western women, so you went elsewhere.

When you married your current wife, was she over or under 30?
Please check back when you've been there, done that, rook.
 
Never been through a divorce, but do divorce law. General advice I'd give is that the process is slow, painful, and usually both sides walk away unhappy. I'd certainly recommend consulting with a divorce attorney in your jurisdiction now to get some specifics on the legalities of your specific situation. But bear in mind most divorces aren't smooth, even between two reasonable people with few assets.
Horrible advice. They're still on speaking terms and have NO kids.

They could simply figure out a living situation and file the paperwork with the courts themselves.

The only issue I see is they've been married for 24 years so I'm assuming there is a house involved. If so, again, work that out between the two of you BEFORE involving the lawyers.
:goodposting:
Apparently some of you don''t know what "consult" means.

A lot of lawyers will give you about an hour of their time for a consult fee (200ish or so). I think they are incredibly beneficial to people because it would allow them to basically get a crash course of the law as it applies to their facts. Also, a lawyer can be very objective in advice and analysis and oftentimes talk people out of legal action.

In this guy's case, given that the length of his marriage raised at least two potential issues (spousal maintenance and asset division), he's far better served paying a lawyer in his jurisdiction a consult fee to than he would listening to people on a messageboard for free.
Apparently some of you don't read / understand the thread title.
Makes sense. Certainly wouldn't want a foot surgeon commenting in a thread about foot surgery because he's never personally had foot surgery.
Well played Wozie.

 
Honest question, with no kids why even bother filing divorce? Why not just walk away and go. If you've been married 24 years you must be nearing 50 so getting married again is not a high priority i would imagine?

Stall it out as long as possible.
Being married for 24 years (and yes, I am getting close to 50) is the primary reason I don't want to just walk away. I would not consider getting married again.
That's what I thought.... before I went to China.
Okay, final O/U was set at 26 posts, so those of you who had the over send me a PM with paypal addy.
My local had it at 26.5 and the hook scared me off :kicksrock:
Ok, ok.... if he just wouldn't have mentioned "never get married again", I probably wouldn't have said anything. Because I thought the exact same thing, once upon a time. Just goes to show... you don't know what you don't know.

It's the fact that you have to work China in every time. Frankly, a more accurate statement (I hope) would have been "That's what I thought ... before I met my second wife."
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
That's terrific but completely irrelevant to the OP's question.

PS I don't hope for your murder.
Wuss.

 
Going to see a lawyer to assess my options is probably a good idea. I just feel like doing those type of things is preparing for a separation and admitting defeat when in fact there is a good chance that we can work our situation out.

As I said before my wife makes (and has made) more money than I have for a long period of time. No infidelity involved; no kids; just 24 years of good and bad times.

And as weird as it may seem - asking for advice on this board has been very beneficial.
Well, there's a first time for everything...

 
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
Desperate people do desperate things. You can't bag a decent, sane western wife, and she couldn't hack eastern life so she latched on any white man that would take her.

Perfect couple. :thumbup:
What a dum-dum making all sorts of assumptions. And you know what assume means... Make an ### of u and me.
The only weak ### here is you. You can't handle western women, so you went elsewhere.

When you married your current wife, was she over or under 30?
Please check back when you've been there, done that, rook.
No answer then? Did you get a fresh Chinese chick, or did you get an old reject?

BTW - I'm married to an executive wife that out earns me (an probably you) and manages a $15 million budget. I was a stay at home dad that managed all the money and set us up pretty well with her earnings. I teach, I tutor, and I have acquired and sold a few properties.

You know what I did today? I drove my son and his girlfriend back to college...with a friend of mine and boat in tow. We caught nearly a dozen fish in two hours after after dropping the kids off. We came home, set up our tree stands for deer season.

Picked my daughter up after band, fixed chicken stir fry, and started enjoying beer.

Wife came home an hour ago, enjoyed dinner, and will join me watching football tonight...at least the first half.

Did you have fun at work today?

 
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I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
Desperate people do desperate things. You can't bag a decent, sane western wife, and she couldn't hack eastern life so she latched on any white man that would take her.

Perfect couple. :thumbup:
What a dum-dum making all sorts of assumptions. And you know what assume means... Make an ### of u and me.
The only weak ### here is you. You can't handle western women, so you went elsewhere.

When you married your current wife, was she over or under 30?
Please check back when you've been there, done that, rook.
No answer then? Did you get a fresh Chinese chick, or did you get an old reject?
Her husband, a police officer (detective level) was killed in a car accident in 2003. Feel better?
 
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
Desperate people do desperate things. You can't bag a decent, sane western wife, and she couldn't hack eastern life so she latched on any white man that would take her.

Perfect couple. :thumbup:
I think there are decent women in China, Japan, Europe and even here. If Johnnycakes found happiness there, great for him! :shrug:

 
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
Desperate people do desperate things. You can't bag a decent, sane western wife, and she couldn't hack eastern life so she latched on any white man that would take her.

Perfect couple. :thumbup:
What a dum-dum making all sorts of assumptions. And you know what assume means... Make an ### of u and me.
The only weak ### here is you. You can't handle western women, so you went elsewhere.

When you married your current wife, was she over or under 30?
Please check back when you've been there, done that, rook.
No answer then? Did you get a fresh Chinese chick, or did you get an old reject?

BTW - I'm married to an executive wife that out earns me (an probably you) and manages a $15 million budget. I was a stay at home dad that managed all the money and set us up pretty well with her earnings. I teach, I tutor, and I have acquired and sold a few properties.

You know what I did today? I drove my son and his girlfriend back to college...with a friend of mine and boat in tow. We caught nearly a dozen fish in two hours after after dropping the kids off. We came home, set up our tree stands for deer season.

Picked my daughter up after band, fixed chicken stir fry, and started enjoying beer.

Wife came home an hour ago, enjoyed dinner, and will join me watching football tonight...at least the first half.

Did you have fun at work today?
How do you feel about Peyton Manning's fumble for a safety last week not resulting in lost fumble?

 
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
Desperate people do desperate things. You can't bag a decent, sane western wife, and she couldn't hack eastern life so she latched on any white man that would take her.

Perfect couple. :thumbup:
What a dum-dum making all sorts of assumptions. And you know what assume means... Make an ### of u and me.
The only weak ### here is you. You can't handle western women, so you went elsewhere.

When you married your current wife, was she over or under 30?
Please check back when you've been there, done that, rook.
No answer then? Did you get a fresh Chinese chick, or did you get an old reject?
Her husband, a police officer (detective level) was killed in a car accident in 2003. Feel better?
was she older than 30?

Just answer the question.

 
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I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
Desperate people do desperate things. You can't bag a decent, sane western wife, and she couldn't hack eastern life so she latched on any white man that would take her.

Perfect couple. :thumbup:
What a dum-dum making all sorts of assumptions. And you know what assume means... Make an ### of u and me.
The only weak ### here is you. You can't handle western women, so you went elsewhere.

When you married your current wife, was she over or under 30?
Please check back when you've been there, done that, rook.
No answer then? Did you get a fresh Chinese chick, or did you get an old reject?

BTW - I'm married to an executive wife that out earns me (an probably you) and manages a $15 million budget. I was a stay at home dad that managed all the money and set us up pretty well with her earnings. I teach, I tutor, and I have acquired and sold a few properties.

You know what I did today? I drove my son and his girlfriend back to college...with a friend of mine and boat in tow. We caught nearly a dozen fish in two hours after after dropping the kids off. We came home, set up our tree stands for deer season.

Picked my daughter up after band, fixed chicken stir fry, and started enjoying beer.

Wife came home an hour ago, enjoyed dinner, and will join me watching football tonight...at least the first half.

Did you have fun at work today?
So you're bragging about being supported by a woman? There's nothing wrong with a man enjoying any type of flavor of woman that floats his boat, nor going to a job and earning a living. Keep on keeping on JC!

 
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So how many and what kind of dots is everyone getting from the Western women vs. the Chinese ones? And when they say love you long time, just how long do they mean?

 
I do have considerable business dealings in China, yes. As for the second comment... no way you're going to find any woman this excellent in America. And probably not in Eastern Europe, Japan, and definitely not in Korea. Chinese women, otoh, very open to American men. And, it seems their primary goal in life is to keep their husband happy. That makes for a win-win type situation for many American men.
Desperate people do desperate things. You can't bag a decent, sane western wife, and she couldn't hack eastern life so she latched on any white man that would take her.

Perfect couple. :thumbup:
What a dum-dum making all sorts of assumptions. And you know what assume means... Make an ### of u and me.
The only weak ### here is you. You can't handle western women, so you went elsewhere.

When you married your current wife, was she over or under 30?
Please check back when you've been there, done that, rook.
No answer then? Did you get a fresh Chinese chick, or did you get an old reject?

BTW - I'm married to an executive wife that out earns me (an probably you) and manages a $15 million budget. I was a stay at home dad that managed all the money and set us up pretty well with her earnings. I teach, I tutor, and I have acquired and sold a few properties.

You know what I did today? I drove my son and his girlfriend back to college...with a friend of mine and boat in tow. We caught nearly a dozen fish in two hours after after dropping the kids off. We came home, set up our tree stands for deer season.

Picked my daughter up after band, fixed chicken stir fry, and started enjoying beer.

Wife came home an hour ago, enjoyed dinner, and will join me watching football tonight...at least the first half.

Did you have fun at work today?
So you're bragging about being supported by a woman? There's nothing wrong with a man enjoying any type of flavor of woman that floats his boat, nor going to a job and earning a living. Keep on keeping on JC!
No, I'm bragging how to run a family, which includes a powerful western woman. As opposed to a weak ### man that poaches from a third world culture to achieve a subservient wife.

On the front end of my marriage I paid for the house, I fixed it up, I created the value. Since then, Ive created other value in properties and raised great kids. And my wife is a great driver.

 
:lmao: :lmao: This pissing contest is awesomeness. The real question is which ##### would win a mud wrestling contest. My money is on the Western #####!

 
:lmao: :lmao: This pissing contest is awesomeness. The real question is which ##### would win a mud wrestling contest. My money is on the Western #####!
:lmao: :lmao: This pissing contest is awesomeness. The real question is which ##### would win a mud wrestling contest. My money is on the Western #####!
The Mrs and I attend the same dojo that offers different training. She likes tae kwan do, and i prefer judo.

She can throw a huge punch.

 
The moral of my story goes something like, "if you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans." So the OP doesn't plan to get married again. Neither did I. That's all I was saying. Life happens. I wasn't insulting anyone.

 
btw, I'm under subpoena for today and tomorrow for sure... possibly for Thursday, so I'm out of here for a few days. Maybe checking in at night.

 

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