KC, do you speed; (or distracted driving) have you ever? I could make an argument that speeding (or DD) contributes to more accidents and fatalities than drunk driving, especially if you could ever break apart a "drunk driving while speeding" accident statistic; should speeding and other reckless driving acts carry the two-strikes and "you are out" (w/ jail) penalties. You do realize that the vast majority of drunk driving episodes result in absolutely no incidence. What difference is there to a dead person, if the person who hit them was sober or drunk? Have you ever thought what other problems draconian laws present to the people who enforce them? Could you see a person possibly getting into a high-speed-chase, because of fear of their punishment, for a typically mundane DUI charge? You are also aware that your State also handles the alcohol distributed to stores rather closely; why would they deliver to bars or restaurants, especially ones with no public transportation or cab service? Why have BAC anyway; it is an almost impossible line to "feel" for a person to make a decision and there are so many factor that go into it, that "counting drinks" is next to worthless. I drive frequently late at night (usually in the bewitching hours of 1am-4am), I do not need to see anymore drunks on the road but the ratio of drunks I see, to accidents I see, is great. I also think that FIL's problem is his; stop trying to pretend that it exists because there isn't some magical law to prevent him from hurting himself, or that everyone else is just like him. Your FIL probably would drink himself to death, if it wasn't for the State extending his life by locking him up. Being simplistic and acting the simpleton, are not the same thing but they frequently go hand-in-hand. If there was some "magic law" that prevented drunk driving, I am sure everyone would support it, but laws that are written as preventative measures generally are misguided.
I'm sure this will be met with the "holier than though" responses. No, I don't speed. I just took the family on a 3500 mile trip and didn't speed. Again, not trying to show anyone up, but I understand what you are saying about speeding be a cause of accidents. Therefor I choose not to. Did I do it for all the other drivers? No, I did it because I had my entire family in the car. I will say driving through parts of Maryland, Virginia and NY, people do drive like idiots and need to think about other people.You are correct that speed is a factor in a lot of accidents. To answer your question about the two strikes rule for speeders. Yes, throw the book at them the second time as well. I honestly believe that our laws coddle people and allow them to continue to make mistakes. This country lives by the motto "It's easier to say I'm sorry, than it is to ask for permission" This carries over to following rules that are in place to benefit everyone in society. I see it as being nothing but selfish.
I fully understand that my state benefits from liquor sold to stores. I also understand that there is a lot of money pumped into the economy through things like liquor, cigarettes and gasoline. This is part of the problem. With liquor and cigarettes, they are willing to sacrifice a certain number of peoples lives for the revenue. Nearly every state has adopted some smoking laws to protect non smokers from second hand smoke. If smoking is so bad, why not ban cigarettes completely? Because of the loss of revenue. While the smoking ban protects non smokers, the drunk driving laws do little to protect the non drunk drivers. (the gasoline argument is for another thread)
As far as understanding how your body reacts to X amount of alcohol, I have a simple solution. Stick to Zero. I get the feeling that people are upset about this thread because it infringes on their right to be irresponsible and drink as much as they want. Again, I am going to get the riot act and the holier than though statements. But, my wife and I are going out tonight. I will be driving and I am not going to drink. Not even one. Why? Because one beer can lead to two and then you start to lose your ability to think rationally. We are going out with my wife's friends, so I will let her drink this time. Most people don't want to, or can't make responsible decisions like this.
Looking back, this thread should have been split into two. One being, how to deal with my FIL alcohol abuse problem and another on the selfishness of people towards their fellow man. See, I'm not perfect. I made a mistake.