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I wouldn't be surprised if we see de Blasio in one of these live shots marching with the protest.How is de Blasio going to handle this growing NYC issue
I wouldn't be surprised if we see de Blasio in one of these live shots marching with the protest.How is de Blasio going to handle this growing NYC issue
Whole thing reeks of a "hey you want to walk on this charge, play ball"Tweet from Jayne Miller on Baltimore's NBC station: BPD Commissioner Anthony Batts on 4/23 told us second prisoner in police van said Freddie Gray was "mostly quiet".
I will be too. Doesn't make sense.I will be fascinated to learn how a shackled man crushed his own voice box.
In the meantime it looks like another day of orderly protests and no riots in Baltimore. I know that must be terribly disappointing to some of this thread's most frequent posters. Hang in there. Maybe tomorrow!
I will be too. Doesn't make sense.I will be fascinated to learn how a shackled man crushed his own voice box.
In the meantime it looks like another day of orderly protests and no riots in Baltimore. I know that must be terribly disappointing to some of this thread's most frequent posters. Hang in there. Maybe tomorrow!
In the meantime, enjoy the empty ballpark and the mounting law enforcement bills due to the orderly protests.
 Why would anyone enjoy those things?I will be too. Doesn't make sense.I will be fascinated to learn how a shackled man crushed his own voice box.
In the meantime it looks like another day of orderly protests and no riots in Baltimore. I know that must be terribly disappointing to some of this thread's most frequent posters. Hang in there. Maybe tomorrow!
In the meantime, enjoy the empty ballpark and the mounting law enforcement bills due to the orderly protests.
He made eye contact with the police.https://www.google.com/#q=gray+made+eye+contact+with+the+policeSaintsInDome2006 said:Can someone please recount for me what led to Gray's arrest? What did he do, exactly that led the cops to bust him? Thanks.
- Also as for the alleged wild behavior in the van, given his history with distribution anyone see any chance for toxicology results in the autopsy explaining this? And perhaps that is the holdup? Just asking.
I heard they are awaiting toxicology reportsSaintsInDome2006 said:Can someone please recount for me what led to Gray's arrest? What did he do, exactly that led the cops to bust him? Thanks.
- Also as for the alleged wild behavior in the van, given his history with distribution anyone see any chance for toxicology results in the autopsy explaining this? And perhaps that is the holdup? Just asking.
Because the drug war made cops lazy and less competent?How do you reward cops? Two ways: promotion and cash. That's what rewards a cop. If you want to pay overtime pay for having police fill the jails with loitering arrests or simple drug possession or failure to yield, if you want to spend your municipal treasure rewarding that, well the cop who's going to court seven or eight days a month—and court is always overtime pay—you're going to damn near double your salary every month. On the other hand, the guy who actually goes to his post and investigates who's burglarizing the homes, at the end of the month maybe he's made one arrest. It may be the right arrest and one that makes his post safer, but he's going to court one day and he's out in two hours. So you fail to reward the cop who actually does police work. But worse, it's time to make new sergeants or lieutenants, and so you look at the computer and say: Who's doing the most work? And they say, man, this guy had 80 arrests last month, and this other guy's only got one. Who do you think gets made sergeant? And then who trains the next generation of cops in how not to do police work?
Not necessarily. He could have been somewhat hurt prior to going into the van, and then gotten really hurt during the ride (how so is the question). One doesn't totally refute the other.The_Man said:Just as an FYI, one of the cops involved in transport came out 6 days ago saying he thought any injuries occurred before Grey went in the van. So that contradicts what Passenger 2 is now saying. Everyone involved is obviously going to say whatever advances their own agenda
Yeah, people trying to have their voice heard are actually wasting their time trying to earn brownie points that won't and don't matter, and it's pretty dumb. Thanks for this perspective, person who maintained a barely-used alias on an internet message board for five years and then pulled it out to post this obvious fishing trip.carverlee said:The white people joining these marches are the dumbest people on the streets. Their intentions are noble but they're just adding to the numbers and too naive to realize that the brownie points they are trying to earn won't and don't matter.
Serious question. As a middle aged white guy, what can I do to make things better? Over my lifetime, I've seen the call for more African American police officers. That has happened. I've seen the call for more African American police chiefs, mayors, governors. That's been done. I heard the call for more jobs, more education, more opportunity for African Americans. But, if you don't apply, don't study and don't have the self motivation to go after opportunity to make your life better, what can I do to help?Yeah, people trying to have their voice heard are actually wasting their time trying to earn brownie points that won't and don't matter, and it's pretty dumb. Thanks for this perspective, person who maintained a barely-used alias on an internet message board for five years and then pulled it out to post this obvious fishing trip.carverlee said:The white people joining these marches are the dumbest people on the streets. Their intentions are noble but they're just adding to the numbers and too naive to realize that the brownie points they are trying to earn won't and don't matter.
I would start by finding a better place to gather advice. A football message board full of sanctimonious know-it-alls, bigots and instigators probably isn't your best bet for actual insight.Serious question. As a middle aged white guy, what can I do to make things better? Over my lifetime, I've seen the call for more African American police officers. That has happened. I've seen the call for more African American police chiefs, mayors, governors. That's been done. I heard the call for more jobs, more education, more opportunity for African Americans. But, if you don't apply, don't study and don't have the self motivation to go after opportunity to make your life better, what can I do to help?I don't think anyone deserves to die at the hands of another person, (sans capital punishment) regardless of race or religion. As a middle aged white guy, in flyover country, how do I effect the police forces across the country? I try to raise my kids to do the right things, but I can't raise everyone's kids.Yeah, people trying to have their voice heard are actually wasting their time trying to earn brownie points that won't and don't matter, and it's pretty dumb. Thanks for this perspective, person who maintained a barely-used alias on an internet message board for five years and then pulled it out to post this obvious fishing trip.carverlee said:The white people joining these marches are the dumbest people on the streets. Their intentions are noble but they're just adding to the numbers and too naive to realize that the brownie points they are trying to earn won't and don't matter.
Fair enough. But, hope springs eternal. There are some intelligent people on this board, with diverse backgrounds. It may take some filtering, but there can be good info.I would start by finding a better place to gather advice. A football message board full of sanctimonious know-it-alls, bigots and instigators probably isn't your best bet for actual insight.Serious question. As a middle aged white guy, what can I do to make things better? Over my lifetime, I've seen the call for more African American police officers. That has happened. I've seen the call for more African American police chiefs, mayors, governors. That's been done. I heard the call for more jobs, more education, more opportunity for African Americans. But, if you don't apply, don't study and don't have the self motivation to go after opportunity to make your life better, what can I do to help?I don't think anyone deserves to die at the hands of another person, (sans capital punishment) regardless of race or religion. As a middle aged white guy, in flyover country, how do I effect the police forces across the country? I try to raise my kids to do the right things, but I can't raise everyone's kids.Yeah, people trying to have their voice heard are actually wasting their time trying to earn brownie points that won't and don't matter, and it's pretty dumb. Thanks for this perspective, person who maintained a barely-used alias on an internet message board for five years and then pulled it out to post this obvious fishing trip.carverlee said:The white people joining these marches are the dumbest people on the streets. Their intentions are noble but they're just adding to the numbers and too naive to realize that the brownie points they are trying to earn won't and don't matter.
Why was there a rush to protest/riot in the first place? The officers could still be charged and people were willing to burn their neighborhood down for what? The mere chance that the report may be true just highlights how silly the kneejerk reaction is/was.So if the report is true about Gray trying to intentionally injure himself does this change anything for anyone?
http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/prisoner-in-van-said-freddie-gray-was-banging-against-the-walls-during-ride/2015/04/29/56d7da10-eec6-11e4-8666-a1d756d0218e_story.html
Rush to judgement is always a dangerous game so I will just wait for all the facts to come out before throwing anybody under the bus.I know that may sound crazy but that's how I roll.
Silly?Why was there a rush to protest/riot in the first place? The officers could still be charged and people were willing to burn their neighborhood down for what? The mere chance that the report may be true just highlights how silly the kneejerk reaction is/was.So if the report is true about Gray trying to intentionally injure himself does this change anything for anyone?
http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/prisoner-in-van-said-freddie-gray-was-banging-against-the-walls-during-ride/2015/04/29/56d7da10-eec6-11e4-8666-a1d756d0218e_story.html
Rush to judgement is always a dangerous game so I will just wait for all the facts to come out before throwing anybody under the bus.I know that may sound crazy but that's how I roll.
yep, that's it. all the protests are merely silly knee-jerk responses to a single, isolated event.Why was there a rush to protest/riot in the first place? The officers could still be charged and people were willing to burn their neighborhood down for what? The mere chance that the report may be true just highlights how silly the kneejerk reaction is/was.So if the report is true about Gray trying to intentionally injure himself does this change anything for anyone?
http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/prisoner-in-van-said-freddie-gray-was-banging-against-the-walls-during-ride/2015/04/29/56d7da10-eec6-11e4-8666-a1d756d0218e_story.html
Rush to judgement is always a dangerous game so I will just wait for all the facts to come out before throwing anybody under the bus.I know that may sound crazy but that's how I roll.
  mind blown.So where do you go? Your obviously here for a reason.I would start by finding a better place to gather advice. A football message board full of sanctimonious know-it-alls, bigots and instigators probably isn't your best bet for actual insight.Serious question. As a middle aged white guy, what can I do to make things better? Over my lifetime, I've seen the call for more African American police officers. That has happened. I've seen the call for more African American police chiefs, mayors, governors. That's been done. I heard the call for more jobs, more education, more opportunity for African Americans. But, if you don't apply, don't study and don't have the self motivation to go after opportunity to make your life better, what can I do to help?I don't think anyone deserves to die at the hands of another person, (sans capital punishment) regardless of race or religion. As a middle aged white guy, in flyover country, how do I effect the police forces across the country? I try to raise my kids to do the right things, but I can't raise everyone's kids.Yeah, people trying to have their voice heard are actually wasting their time trying to earn brownie points that won't and don't matter, and it's pretty dumb. Thanks for this perspective, person who maintained a barely-used alias on an internet message board for five years and then pulled it out to post this obvious fishing trip.carverlee said:The white people joining these marches are the dumbest people on the streets. Their intentions are noble but they're just adding to the numbers and too naive to realize that the brownie points they are trying to earn won't and don't matter.
Very reasonable question. Last night, HIllary Clinton gave a very thoughtful and nuanced speech about this subject which included a few specific proposals that might help. I posted the transcript in the Clinton thread. You want to help? Vote for her and for politicians who think like her. That's my serious answer.Serious question. As a middle aged white guy, what can I do to make things better? Over my lifetime, I've seen the call for more African American police officers. That has happened. I've seen the call for more African American police chiefs, mayors, governors. That's been done. I heard the call for more jobs, more education, more opportunity for African Americans. But, if you don't apply, don't study and don't have the self motivation to go after opportunity to make your life better, what can I do to help?I don't think anyone deserves to die at the hands of another person, (sans capital punishment) regardless of race or religion. As a middle aged white guy, in flyover country, how do I effect the police forces across the country? I try to raise my kids to do the right things, but I can't raise everyone's kids.Yeah, people trying to have their voice heard are actually wasting their time trying to earn brownie points that won't and don't matter, and it's pretty dumb. Thanks for this perspective, person who maintained a barely-used alias on an internet message board for five years and then pulled it out to post this obvious fishing trip.carverlee said:The white people joining these marches are the dumbest people on the streets. Their intentions are noble but they're just adding to the numbers and too naive to realize that the brownie points they are trying to earn won't and don't matter.
Yesterday I wrote a long post about the problem of saying that these issues are rooted in "lack of self-motivation" or however you want to put it, so that would be my response to the bolded. But that's just my own thoughts, and I'm just one idiot on a message board, so that's not really worth much.Serious question. As a middle aged white guy, what can I do to make things better? Over my lifetime, I've seen the call for more African American police officers. That has happened. I've seen the call for more African American police chiefs, mayors, governors. That's been done. I heard the call for more jobs, more education, more opportunity for African Americans. But, if you don't apply, don't study and don't have the self motivation to go after opportunity to make your life better, what can I do to help?Yeah, people trying to have their voice heard are actually wasting their time trying to earn brownie points that won't and don't matter, and it's pretty dumb. Thanks for this perspective, person who maintained a barely-used alias on an internet message board for five years and then pulled it out to post this obvious fishing trip.carverlee said:The white people joining these marches are the dumbest people on the streets. Their intentions are noble but they're just adding to the numbers and too naive to realize that the brownie points they are trying to earn won't and don't matter.
I don't think anyone deserves to die at the hands of another person, (sans capital punishment) regardless of race or religion. As a middle aged white guy, in flyover country, how do I effect the police forces across the country? I try to raise my kids to do the right things, but I can't raise everyone's kids.
Yeah, if the cops get charged and convicted what do the protests end up being about? Due process is a good thing, right?Silly?Why was there a rush to protest/riot in the first place? The officers could still be charged and people were willing to burn their neighborhood down for what? The mere chance that the report may be true just highlights how silly the kneejerk reaction is/was.So if the report is true about Gray trying to intentionally injure himself does this change anything for anyone?
http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/prisoner-in-van-said-freddie-gray-was-banging-against-the-walls-during-ride/2015/04/29/56d7da10-eec6-11e4-8666-a1d756d0218e_story.html
Rush to judgement is always a dangerous game so I will just wait for all the facts to come out before throwing anybody under the bus.I know that may sound crazy but that's how I roll.
It is. But if this were an isolated incident there would be no protests.Yeah, if the cops get charged and convicted what do the protests end up being about? Due process is a good thing, right?Silly?Why was there a rush to protest/riot in the first place? The officers could still be charged and people were willing to burn their neighborhood down for what? The mere chance that the report may be true just highlights how silly the kneejerk reaction is/was.So if the report is true about Gray trying to intentionally injure himself does this change anything for anyone?
http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/prisoner-in-van-said-freddie-gray-was-banging-against-the-walls-during-ride/2015/04/29/56d7da10-eec6-11e4-8666-a1d756d0218e_story.html
Rush to judgement is always a dangerous game so I will just wait for all the facts to come out before throwing anybody under the bus.I know that may sound crazy but that's how I roll.
I've read about half of the long article. Have it bookmarked and need to finish it. Thanks for posting it.Yesterday I wrote a long post about the problem of saying that these issues are rooted in "lack of self-motivation" or however you want to put it, so that would be my response to the bolded. But that's just my own thoughts, and I'm just one idiot on a message board, so that's not really worth much.
But I also recommended a very long and well-written article by someone much much smarter and much much more informed on these issues than me. It offers a lot of historical perspective about problems faced by blacks in America. I'd say the one thing everyone can and should do is be aware of those problems, which are mostly unique to blacks and are far more recent (or even current) than most people believe. Obviously there's not much we can do as individuals, but I think awareness is a good start. The fewer people we have making statements like "slavery ended 150 years ago, it's not an excuse any more" or "Jews and Irish people also faced poverty and discrimination when they came to America and they overcame it," the better. A lot of people think those things to varying degrees. I used to be one of them. But the more you read, the more ignorant those things seem. The first step to addressing any problem is understanding it.
We still don't even know what happened.It is. But if this were an isolated incident there would be no protests.Yeah, if the cops get charged and convicted what do the protests end up being about? Due process is a good thing, right?Silly?Why was there a rush to protest/riot in the first place? The officers could still be charged and people were willing to burn their neighborhood down for what? The mere chance that the report may be true just highlights how silly the kneejerk reaction is/was.So if the report is true about Gray trying to intentionally injure himself does this change anything for anyone?
http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/prisoner-in-van-said-freddie-gray-was-banging-against-the-walls-during-ride/2015/04/29/56d7da10-eec6-11e4-8666-a1d756d0218e_story.html
Rush to judgement is always a dangerous game so I will just wait for all the facts to come out before throwing anybody under the bus.I know that may sound crazy but that's how I roll.
So these protesters, the ones burning the town down, what step are they on in this process of understanding the problem? It amazes me who has to be accountable and who doesn't.Yesterday I wrote a long post about the problem of saying that these issues are rooted in "lack of self-motivation" or however you want to put it, so that would be my response to the bolded. But that's just my own thoughts, and I'm just one idiot on a message board, so that's not really worth much.Serious question. As a middle aged white guy, what can I do to make things better? Over my lifetime, I've seen the call for more African American police officers. That has happened. I've seen the call for more African American police chiefs, mayors, governors. That's been done. I heard the call for more jobs, more education, more opportunity for African Americans. But, if you don't apply, don't study and don't have the self motivation to go after opportunity to make your life better, what can I do to help?I don't think anyone deserves to die at the hands of another person, (sans capital punishment) regardless of race or religion. As a middle aged white guy, in flyover country, how do I effect the police forces across the country? I try to raise my kids to do the right things, but I can't raise everyone's kids.Yeah, people trying to have their voice heard are actually wasting their time trying to earn brownie points that won't and don't matter, and it's pretty dumb. Thanks for this perspective, person who maintained a barely-used alias on an internet message board for five years and then pulled it out to post this obvious fishing trip.carverlee said:The white people joining these marches are the dumbest people on the streets. Their intentions are noble but they're just adding to the numbers and too naive to realize that the brownie points they are trying to earn won't and don't matter.
But I also recommended a very long and well-written article by someone much much smarter and much much more informed on these issues than me. It offers a lot of historical perspective about problems faced by blacks in America. I'd say the one thing everyone can and should do is be aware of those problems, which are mostly unique to blacks and are far more recent (or even current) than most people believe. Obviously there's not much we can do as individuals, but I think awareness is a good start. The fewer people we have making statements like "slavery ended 150 years ago, it's not an excuse any more" or "Jews and Irish people also faced poverty and discrimination when they came to America and they overcame it," the better. A lot of people think those things to varying degrees. I used to be one of them. But the more you read, the more ignorant those things seem. The first step to addressing any problem is understanding it.
So let's just jump ahead and say the report is true(which I still have a hard time thinking it is),what does this say now?It is. But if this were an isolated incident there would be no protests.Yeah, if the cops get charged and convicted what do the protests end up being about? Due process is a good thing, right?Silly?Why was there a rush to protest/riot in the first place? The officers could still be charged and people were willing to burn their neighborhood down for what? The mere chance that the report may be true just highlights how silly the kneejerk reaction is/was.So if the report is true about Gray trying to intentionally injure himself does this change anything for anyone?
http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/crime/prisoner-in-van-said-freddie-gray-was-banging-against-the-walls-during-ride/2015/04/29/56d7da10-eec6-11e4-8666-a1d756d0218e_story.html
Rush to judgement is always a dangerous game so I will just wait for all the facts to come out before throwing anybody under the bus.I know that may sound crazy but that's how I roll.
I guess I have two thoughts. One is the same as yours, that to the extent it establishes anything it identifies a symptom, not a problem.Tobias, I know posts between you and I were a bit heated yesterday, and near the end of the day posts from everyone were coming in fast and you may have missed one that I wrote. I'm honestly interested in your response and thoughts. It was post #1780 discussing top selling NFL jerseys. Likely more a symptom of a problem rather than main issue, but I hope you can see where I was going with it.
Maybe a bit, but I wanted to find a list from a few years ago with players who now have a little bit of history in the league. Sure Manziel isn't on the list, but we don't yet know his full NFL story - for all we know rehab will work and he'll be a better person for it. I did honestly think Big Ben would be on the list, but he wasn't. I was just going off of most popular list of that year.I guess I have two thoughts. One is the same as yours, that to the extent it establishes anything it identifies a symptom, not a problem.Tobias, I know posts between you and I were a bit heated yesterday, and near the end of the day posts from everyone were coming in fast and you may have missed one that I wrote. I'm honestly interested in your response and thoughts. It was post #1780 discussing top selling NFL jerseys. Likely more a symptom of a problem rather than main issue, but I hope you can see where I was going with it.
The second is that your summaries of the players' characters are pretty unfair. Starting with #1- you didn't even do a summary for him, but if you had it would be hard to draft one that IDs flaws in his personal/family life. He's married to his college sweetheart with a kid on the way and clearly values family. You didn't mention that Peyton Manning has faced sexual assault allegations. You seemed to give brownie points to Brady for also having children in marriage but didn't extend the same courtesy to, say, Victor Cruz for marrying the mother of his child. You mentioned all of Brees' charitable work and involvement in the community but didn't do the same for any of the black players, even though all of them do things like that to varying degrees. you also conveniently chose a list that excludes such popular players as Ben Roethlisberger (#24 in the year you chose) and Johnny Manziel (#7 last year).
I accept that on average the white players on that particular list are probably better "role models" than the non-white people- mostly because of Lewis, the rest seem like decent guys. But you definitely cherry-picked here.
Great question, and one that well intentioned white people everywhere have been asking for years. My answer? Get out of the way. The key systemic issues have largely been resolved over the last 60 years. In my opinion the issues now are cultural in nature, and most of those need to be solved from within the black community. Like Jason Riley says to Librals, "Stop Helping Us".Serious question. As a middle aged white guy, what can I do to make things better? Over my lifetime, I've seen the call for more African American police officers. That has happened. I've seen the call for more African American police chiefs, mayors, governors. That's been done. I heard the call for more jobs, more education, more opportunity for African Americans. But, if you don't apply, don't study and don't have the self motivation to go after opportunity to make your life better, what can I do to help?I don't think anyone deserves to die at the hands of another person, (sans capital punishment) regardless of race or religion. As a middle aged white guy, in flyover country, how do I effect the police forces across the country? I try to raise my kids to do the right things, but I can't raise everyone's kids.Yeah, people trying to have their voice heard are actually wasting their time trying to earn brownie points that won't and don't matter, and it's pretty dumb. Thanks for this perspective, person who maintained a barely-used alias on an internet message board for five years and then pulled it out to post this obvious fishing trip.carverlee said:The white people joining these marches are the dumbest people on the streets. Their intentions are noble but they're just adding to the numbers and too naive to realize that the brownie points they are trying to earn won't and don't matter.
Correct, they are not the same. Brady had a child out of wedlock and left the mother. Cruz did it and married the mother.Maybe a bit, but I wanted to find a list from a few years ago with players who now have a little bit of history in the league. Sure Manziel isn't on the list, but we don't yet know his full NFL story - for all we know rehab will work and he'll be a better person for it. I did honestly think Big Ben would be on the list, but he wasn't. I was just going off of most popular list of that year.I guess I have two thoughts. One is the same as yours, that to the extent it establishes anything it identifies a symptom, not a problem.Tobias, I know posts between you and I were a bit heated yesterday, and near the end of the day posts from everyone were coming in fast and you may have missed one that I wrote. I'm honestly interested in your response and thoughts. It was post #1780 discussing top selling NFL jerseys. Likely more a symptom of a problem rather than main issue, but I hope you can see where I was going with it.
The second is that your summaries of the players' characters are pretty unfair. Starting with #1- you didn't even do a summary for him, but if you had it would be hard to draft one that IDs flaws in his personal/family life. He's married to his college sweetheart with a kid on the way and clearly values family. You didn't mention that Peyton Manning has faced sexual assault allegations. You seemed to give brownie points to Brady for also having children in marriage but didn't extend the same courtesy to, say, Victor Cruz for marrying the mother of his child. You mentioned all of Brees' charitable work and involvement in the community but didn't do the same for any of the black players, even though all of them do things like that to varying degrees. you also conveniently chose a list that excludes such popular players as Ben Roethlisberger (#24 in the year you chose) and Johnny Manziel (#7 last year).
I accept that on average the white players on that particular list are probably better "role models" than the non-white people- mostly because of Lewis, the rest seem like decent guys. But you definitely cherry-picked here.
Brady having children in marriage isn't the same as Cruz who married the mother of his child after the child was born. Those aren't the same things. We're having a conversation about having children out of wedlock, Cruz did just that. Brees' charity involvement can't really be rivaled by just about anyone in the league - white, black, or anything else.
Again, it's just an example of the role models available in today's society and who the younger generation has to look up to. Also, I left any synopsis of RG3 out as I didn't want my fandom to seep through - I'm a huge Skins fan but would really like RG3 to just shut up and play ball and stop worrying about his marketing image.
Very reasonable question.Last night, HIllary Clinton gave a very thoughtful and nuanced speech about this subject which included a few specific proposals that might help. I posted the transcript in the Clinton thread. You want to help? Vote for her and for politicians who think like her. That's my serious answer.Serious question. As a middle aged white guy, what can I do to make things better? Over my lifetime, I've seen the call for more African American police officers. That has happened. I've seen the call for more African American police chiefs, mayors, governors. That's been done. I heard the call for more jobs, more education, more opportunity for African Americans. But, if you don't apply, don't study and don't have the self motivation to go after opportunity to make your life better, what can I do to help?I don't think anyone deserves to die at the hands of another person, (sans capital punishment) regardless of race or religion. As a middle aged white guy, in flyover country, how do I effect the police forces across the country? I try to raise my kids to do the right things, but I can't raise everyone's kids.
 Then had two kids in wedlock. You're doing the same thing.Correct, they are not the same. Brady had a child out of wedlock and left the mother. Cruz did it and married the mother.
This is a pretty solid example of cherry-picking.
Get advice from this guy. He gets it.Very reasonable question.Last night, HIllary Clinton gave a very thoughtful and nuanced speech about this subject which included a few specific proposals that might help. I posted the transcript in the Clinton thread. You want to help? Vote for her and for politicians who think like her. That's my serious answer.Serious question. As a middle aged white guy, what can I do to make things better? Over my lifetime, I've seen the call for more African American police officers. That has happened. I've seen the call for more African American police chiefs, mayors, governors. That's been done. I heard the call for more jobs, more education, more opportunity for African Americans. But, if you don't apply, don't study and don't have the self motivation to go after opportunity to make your life better, what can I do to help?
I don't think anyone deserves to die at the hands of another person, (sans capital punishment) regardless of race or religion. As a middle aged white guy, in flyover country, how do I effect the police forces across the country? I try to raise my kids to do the right things, but I can't raise everyone's kids.JFC.
The teachers unions have blocked voucher programs and kept public schools in Baltimore ####ty.Cameras on policeman is a no brainer to me.
Drastically improving K-12 educational opportunity for the poor is also a no brainer to me.
Free birth control is a no brainer to me. (cost is significantly less than the alternative)]
Vote for candidates that support these idea IMHO.
don't get me started on teachers unions...The teachers unions have blocked voucher programs and kept public schools in Baltimore ####ty.Cameras on policeman is a no brainer to me.
Drastically improving K-12 educational opportunity for the poor is also a no brainer to me.
Free birth control is a no brainer to me. (cost is significantly less than the alternative)]
Vote for candidates that support these idea IMHO.
Get advice from this guy. He gets it.Very reasonable question.Last night, HIllary Clinton gave a very thoughtful and nuanced speech about this subject which included a few specific proposals that might help. I posted the transcript in the Clinton thread. You want to help? Vote for her and for politicians who think like her. That's my serious answer.Serious question. As a middle aged white guy, what can I do to make things better? Over my lifetime, I've seen the call for more African American police officers. That has happened. I've seen the call for more African American police chiefs, mayors, governors. That's been done. I heard the call for more jobs, more education, more opportunity for African Americans. But, if you don't apply, don't study and don't have the self motivation to go after opportunity to make your life better, what can I do to help?
I don't think anyone deserves to die at the hands of another person, (sans capital punishment) regardless of race or religion. As a middle aged white guy, in flyover country, how do I effect the police forces across the country? I try to raise my kids to do the right things, but I can't raise everyone's kids.JFC.
Free vasectomies with a free $100 cash bonus?Free birth control is a no brainer to me. (cost is significantly less than the alternative)
I realize this is a joke, but pretty much every form should be made available free of charge...the benefits significantly outweigh the costs and now that our society is more secularized I think there would be broad based support for the program...wouldn't even notice the cost in the Federal budget.Free vasectomies with a free $100 cash bonus?Free birth control is a no brainer to me. (cost is significantly less than the alternative)
I don't think it is a joke, but I strongly disagree that there would be broad based support.I realize this is a joke, but pretty much every form should be made available free of charge...the benefits significantly outweigh the costs and now that our society is more secularized I think there would be broad based support for the program...wouldn't even notice the cost in the Federal budget.Free vasectomies with a free $100 cash bonus?Free birth control is a no brainer to me. (cost is significantly less than the alternative)
It would be interesting to see where America stands in 2015. In 1985 there wouldn't be chance.I don't think it is a joke, but I strongly disagree that there would be broad based support.I realize this is a joke, but pretty much every form should be made available free of charge...the benefits significantly outweigh the costs and now that our society is more secularized I think there would be broad based support for the program...wouldn't even notice the cost in the Federal budget.Free vasectomies with a free $100 cash bonus?Free birth control is a no brainer to me. (cost is significantly less than the alternative)
Your list basically came down to "Drew Brees is a great guy, Ray Lewis is a POS, and Cam Newton stole a laptop in college." I'm not sure there's any lesson to glean from that.Then had two kids in wedlock. You're doing the same thing.Correct, they are not the same. Brady had a child out of wedlock and left the mother. Cruz did it and married the mother.
This is a pretty solid example of cherry-picking.
Again, I think we're getting bogged down in the details and maybe missing the bigger picture - roll models. Take me personally, and likely yourself if I were to guess, and likely most of the posters here - who is your biggest role mode? My answer would be my father, no question. If I were to ask myself as a child who my favorite spots figures were I would have likely said Cal Ripken (Baltimore was my "local team" before the Nats), Ken Griffey Jr. (really only because I really wanted his Upper Deck rookie card), various Redskins players from their SB teams - but none held a candle to my own father. He kept me out of trouble (for the most part), showed me what it's like to be a good member of society, motivated/forced me to finish college, and has shown me how to be a great father (which I will become for the first time in August, at age 34 with a wife of 3 years). Maybe if the father isn't around, then the next line of potential role models come up - be it from sports, music, Hollywood actors, politicians, other public figures, whoever. I picked NFL players for an example here as this is a fantasy football website.
For right or wrong, children will look to role models they can relate to - and often do so within their own race. Remember in another thread you asking me about what could be causing the high out of wedlock birthrates, lower graduation levels, higher crime rates, and other such things in some cultures and my answer was they are causing themselves? This is what I mean.
Did you read the speech?Very reasonable question.Last night, HIllary Clinton gave a very thoughtful and nuanced speech about this subject which included a few specific proposals that might help. I posted the transcript in the Clinton thread. You want to help? Vote for her and for politicians who think like her. That's my serious answer.Serious question. As a middle aged white guy, what can I do to make things better? Over my lifetime, I've seen the call for more African American police officers. That has happened. I've seen the call for more African American police chiefs, mayors, governors. That's been done. I heard the call for more jobs, more education, more opportunity for African Americans. But, if you don't apply, don't study and don't have the self motivation to go after opportunity to make your life better, what can I do to help?
I don't think anyone deserves to die at the hands of another person, (sans capital punishment) regardless of race or religion. As a middle aged white guy, in flyover country, how do I effect the police forces across the country? I try to raise my kids to do the right things, but I can't raise everyone's kids.JFC.
Couldnt disagree more with this.Great question, and one that well intentioned white people everywhere have been asking for years. My answer? Get out of the way. The key systemic issues have largely been resolved over the last 60 years. In my opinion the issues now are cultural in nature, and most of those need to be solved from within the black community. Like Jason Riley says to Librals, "Stop Helping Us".Serious question. As a middle aged white guy, what can I do to make things better? Over my lifetime, I've seen the call for more African American police officers. That has happened. I've seen the call for more African American police chiefs, mayors, governors. That's been done. I heard the call for more jobs, more education, more opportunity for African Americans. But, if you don't apply, don't study and don't have the self motivation to go after opportunity to make your life better, what can I do to help?I don't think anyone deserves to die at the hands of another person, (sans capital punishment) regardless of race or religion. As a middle aged white guy, in flyover country, how do I effect the police forces across the country? I try to raise my kids to do the right things, but I can't raise everyone's kids.Yeah, people trying to have their voice heard are actually wasting their time trying to earn brownie points that won't and don't matter, and it's pretty dumb. Thanks for this perspective, person who maintained a barely-used alias on an internet message board for five years and then pulled it out to post this obvious fishing trip.carverlee said:The white people joining these marches are the dumbest people on the streets. Their intentions are noble but they're just adding to the numbers and too naive to realize that the brownie points they are trying to earn won't and don't matter.