So was what they were doing in Striking Vipers considered gay? I mean the fact that the one friend said that it just wasn't the same with other people and the fact that he was screwing the guy every session makes me think he definitely is. It gets more complicated with the married friend, however. But just for the record, if that technology existed, I'd definitely be getting it on with virtual fighting game hotties.
I viewed that as being the point (which was hammered home when they both kissed IRL and felt nothing) As BB said earlier, is the VR world an actual reflection of the real world you?
I think it's a good question and it's one that strikes home for me for two reasons. First, I've experienced it personally. This board should be well aware of that as, like a dozen years ago, I acted like a selfish, whiny idiot. I can assure you that, while that online version of me may have been a small
part of me, had anybody met me in real life they would have realized quickly that my "normal" personality was, well, normal and I was using the board as an outlet for emotions resulting from a breakup. To a lesser degree, and I'm willing to bet I am not at all unique in this, I've watched and enjoyed some pornographic acts/scene/scenarios that I would have declined actively engaging in or even wanting to engage in IRL.
Second, in my profession I work with individuals who have engaged in online acts that are charged as very serious crimes with the punishments being equal to (or even some times greater than) the punishments the person would be facing if he actually engaged in the act in real life even though there's no evidence that the person has even attempted to engage in those acts. While I certainly do not condone these online activities and agree they should be criminalized, I find it difficult to not at least have some compassion for these individuals because the crimes are often committed at like 2 AM online in one's basement where a person may "act" in a way inconsistent with his overall makeup.
Returning to the motif at end in Striking Vipers, the VR question is compounded I think we sexual fluidity. In that sense, I think the episode reaffirms the idea that we are all not 100% heterosexual and that there's a vast area of grayness between being straight and gay. As such, to finally answer your question in bold, no - I do not think what they were doing should be considered "gay" by definition.