The Commish
Footballguy
You'd think.....when they were putting it up, I said immediately that it wasn't close, but they claimed it was because it was still wet. I needed to let it dry. Well, we did and it lightened a little bit, but not enough.white washing the brick is fine. it's a known, established look- won't hurt you.
do you know why you guys are so off with the mortar color? bricks are tough- you can even use the exact same brand/color/model brick, but because the others have been aging/weathering the new ones will look off. usually easier to replace when there's a range of color tones in the existing. but mortar color should be a bit easier to get right.