17seconds said:
Those of you who are giving sound, reasonable advice are forgetting he's only 18mos divorced.
Enjoy 2 and 3 as much as you can and if 1 is around 6mos to a year from now then eventually land there, but no need to make a decision now.
This.
This guy shouldn't ever be looking for a relationship again.
If I got divorced I'd never get in another relationship... ever... frankly I probably wouldn't date much either.... probably not bang either... really i'd love to just be left alone
It sounds like you're in a wonderful marriage.
the marriage is fine, it's me that's dysfunctional.. see many guys get married and they miss the opportunity to bang other chicks.
The only thing I miss about being single is alone time... i just want time to read my magazines, play video games, goto the casino, watch the Bourne Identity for the 33rd time, and/or stare at the wall without being asked what I want for dinner or how this new skirt looks.