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? Delight has been sick for two weeks with major stomach problems (diarrhea and vomiting). I've been telling her the whole time that she needed to go to the doctor, that after 1-2 days that could be serious. She wrote to me this afternoon that she was sick again but still refusing to go to the doctor. And now just an hour ago she wrote telling me that she's in the hospital. Of course they asked her why she waited 11 days to come, they want to admit her, evaluate her, etc. They're hydrating her intravenously and gave her something for her stomach. She (they?) think she has an infection but I don't know if they've given her anything for that.
. I'm not sure there are enough emojis or exactly which ones I'm feeling today. She understood and was very sweet and tried to make me feel better, saying that it was just an inconvenience and we'll see each other another time, and that I made the best decision I could.
. And so far that's what this one is, nothing seems to be going right. ![[icon]](/data/avatars/m/5/5167.jpg?1660313464){kind=avatar}
Have you ever had much luck just meeting women out and about? I LOVE travelling solo. Go grab a beer somewhere with some action. Chat with folks. Wander the city. Go for some hikes.Well, I can't seem to get anything right this trip. I decided to cancel everything since I didn't know what was going on with Delight and I didn't want to cause her any more stress. Originally I thought I'd still go and if I ended up by myself then so be it. But in the end I cancelled the airbnb (and ate 80% of the reservation) and changed the ticket (I called the airline and they basically told me if I didn't use it I'd lose the money so I had to re-book something). I actually ended up making two changes to the ticket and added another 75% to the original cost. I'm taking a 4-day weekend over Memorial Day anyway and had been thinking about going to Barranquilla where the chicas actually seem to want to see me, so I changed the ticket to do that.
Delight got home from the hospital at 2am, then woke up this morning (feeling better, of course) thinking she was going to see me and surprised/disappointed that I'd cancelled.
I don't know what the right decision was. The whole thing had me on tilt yesterday and I just couldn't think clearly. I guess I should have stuck with the original plan and risked ending up by myself. Because here I am now in Bogota with nothing to do and by myself anyway, lonely and depressed. Some trips go amazingly (I remember coming to Bogota for a week and going out with 8 different girls) and others are
Ok, I guess I feel a little better now getting all that out. I wasn't even sure I was going to get out of bed today. I guess the good news is that I've still got 5 more weeks to salvage this thing. If I can just come up with something to do today. Maybe I'll head down to Candelaria (the historic center) and walk around or something, or try to find some good food somewhere. *sigh*
Good to see you back in the thread, GB!
Hang in there! Every week can’t be a real life Boogie Nights!!! Just think…..you could be 47, married, with two kids, scraping by an existence in the Midwest……hypothetically……Well, I can't seem to get anything right this trip. I decided to cancel everything since I didn't know what was going on with Delight and I didn't want to cause her any more stress. Originally I thought I'd still go and if I ended up by myself then so be it. But in the end I cancelled the airbnb (and ate 80% of the reservation) and changed the ticket (I called the airline and they basically told me if I didn't use it I'd lose the money so I had to re-book something). I actually ended up making two changes to the ticket and added another 75% to the original cost. I'm taking a 4-day weekend over Memorial Day anyway and had been thinking about going to Barranquilla where the chicas actually seem to want to see me, so I changed the ticket to do that.
Delight got home from the hospital at 2am, then woke up this morning (feeling better, of course) thinking she was going to see me and surprised/disappointed that I'd cancelled.
I don't know what the right decision was. The whole thing had me on tilt yesterday and I just couldn't think clearly. I guess I should have stuck with the original plan and risked ending up by myself. Because here I am now in Bogota with nothing to do and by myself anyway, lonely and depressed. Some trips go amazingly (I remember coming to Bogota for a week and going out with 8 different girls) and others are
Ok, I guess I feel a little better now getting all that out. I wasn't even sure I was going to get out of bed today. I guess the good news is that I've still got 5 more weeks to salvage this thing. If I can just come up with something to do today. Maybe I'll head down to Candelaria (the historic center) and walk around or something, or try to find some good food somewhere. *sigh*
. Reminded me of the days when I felt more famous here lol. Then she told me about some problems she's been having with her boyfriend and that she wasn't sure if they were going to stay together.
. She's a lot of fun.
Just figure low to mid 60's during the day. If the sun is out it will feel warmer, if it's overcast or raining it will feel colder. You should totally bring them. Bogota has lots of cool things to see.
. Totally don't know what the deal is, I promise I was never over the top or badgering her or anything, so who knows. Whatever.
and when I get there it's on. I also mentioned it to Martha and she said she'd like to see me too. So I guess we'll see how it all goes. That leaves out Mary, who I really have the hots for, but she didn't seem all that interested when I was there the last time, only seeing me the one time.
. Too bad she wasn't 20 years younger and quite a few pounds lighter. . I remember once asking a Puerto Rican guy I used to work with if guys were supposed to get erections in those circumstances, and he just laughed at me. I mean, they have to, right? And certainly the girls feel it, right? I still don't get it or know the answer lol.Sorry for your pain. I’m sure we all have deep empathy for you having to face these dilemmas.We ended up in the reggaeton section of the club. I don't care how long I've been coming down here, how long I may keep getting to do this or even live here, I will never, ever, ever get used to the reggaeton thing. It always gives me the creeps or willies or something. I really don't know how to describe it. It just makes me uncomfortable to watch girls dance like that with random people, especially (like in Sara's case) when they have boyfriends. Sara didn't do anything too crazy, except with this gay guy who was really getting a bit wild. She grabbed some girl to dance with me and the girl started doing her thing on me. I've been around long enough to know that it's somehow basically meaningless to these girls (thanks for rubbing your hard #### up against my a$$, have a good night) so I didn't get too worked up. But then I made the mistake after it went on for a while of thinking to myself that she maybe seemed kind of into it. At that point I was glad that I actually did have a phone in my pocket
Depends how old she is. You might need to ask her for her daughter's friend's numbers.tatiana at my work is from bogota. should i get some numbers for you?
OMG, now this story was hot! The young floozies may be better looking but that chunky maid was asking for a spanking. The least you could have done is give her a tip.In the afternoon the cleaning lady came. Not as good a value as the one in Barranquilla, it cost me $17.50 and she was only here about 3 hours. But she was a nice lady and did a good job. I talked to her a good bit, she was 43, divorced like 15 years, 2 kids. She asked me how old I was and guessed 35 (you guys know I only bring this up when it's in my favor). She said she hadn't had anything formal since she separated but that now that her kids were older she was feeling a little more lonely, that it would be nice to have someone call her to say hello or invite her for a coffee... then she said well, to have sex.
she's young enough. i'll ask her about collagenDez89 said:
. I asked what that was about and she basically said she’s on anti-depressants and seeing a psychiatrist because she doesn’t know what to do with her life. Not too out of the ordinary. Man, I forgot how much she talks. We pulled up a movie on Netflix and watched it, then once it was over we started making out, yadda yadda yadda . Geez, only took me three weeks . Then we went and picked up some food, watched another movie and a half then went to bed. The next day she couldn’t stay long because she had a few things to do before leaving town, but she took care of her oral exams before taking off 
. Man she talks a lot.
. She asked what I was going to do today and I said I didn’t have plans yet, what are we going to do? She never responded. 
. Umm, let me think… yes, come on over. So she comes over and does just that, but in the end she wants more and . . I said let’s go up to the food court and sit somewhere and have some ice cream or lemonade or something (there’s no alcohol served on election day). So we go up there, I get them all $5 specialty milkshakes, and we’re sitting there silent or looking at phones. This whole time I’ve been trying to ask something here or there or say something that might interest someone, and nothing. Finally they start talking about classes (they’re all studying together to be flight attendants) and boys or something and that gets the conversation going. But basically it becomes the three of them talking and I’m left out except for an occasional comment. When you get three people talking Spanish I just can’t follow, so I just sort of faded off and watched the hot girls walk by. After a while I started feeling a little sick, like hot, and I just wanted to figure out how to leave. The place was finally winding down and they were ready to go so we started walking. The two friends went to the bathroom and left me with Martha. I told her to come spend the night at my place. She smiled but said that the girls were staying at her place for the night. I said well how about a besito then and went in for a kiss. She backed up and said what are you doing and looked around. I said they’re not back yet and tried again. She backed up and said why? I said why not? She said because we’re not anything, we’re friends. I said I know that but you remember last time, right? She said we haven’t talked much since then so I haven’t really thought about things in that way, I’m not into the little/daddy fetish anymore, blah blah blah. Then she says well I’m not saying that it won’t happen sometime because I think you’re guapo but we’re just friends. About that time the girls come walking up, we walk outside, I call them a car, then walk home. What a waste of time.
. Haven't heard anything from her since. The only thing he finds is some sort of plastic tag, when the flight attendance appears to blow off as nothing. We take off and get to Bogota with no issues. . I didn't bother replying. . Was maybe going to see 20-year old Hilary when I got back, but holy cow what a hassle and runaround with her. We couldn't decide on where to go or meet, she wanted me to pick her up and wouldn't compromise. Kind of red flaggish for the extranjero dating scene even though I don't think there were bad intentions. In the end we both got tired and lost interest.
She didn't offer to fix me up with a supplier? :(tatiana just laughed when i said you needed some collagen.
She did suggest that we get together again Sunday or Monday, so we'll see.
. I said no and she guessed 30? 34? I asked how old was the oldest guy she's dated and she said 33. I told her it was time to try someone older and she laughed and guessed 40. I just nodded and she went on about how I look younger. 
. That didn't really give me a warm and fuzzy and I just said that doesn't sound like fun and you could have hung out with me (you know, kind of like she said she would). No reply.
. She said you wanna go and I said yep and we walked back into the mall. I asked her what she wanted to do and she said the mall was good for shopping but not much else to do there, so I said you want to go back to the apartment and watch a movie? Sure. .
. We met up at the same time and same place, 6pm at Unicentro. Walked around a bit, she checked out some makeup places, then we found a place to eat. After that I stopped to pick up a couple of things and we came back to the apartment. Turned on the NBA Finals and watched that for two minutes, yadda yadda yadda . Man, she is sexy .
but that seems to be a bit of a red flag for foreigners in Bogota for a girl to suggest coming straight to your place on a first date. This is the same chica I wrote about a couple of weeks ago:So we'll see what happens with her.
. So just going to have to see how I can work her in these last two weeks.
