jvdesigns2002
Footballguy
I didn't vote because none of the options are truly reflective of what I feel with the information given. I do think that I would make a mental note about somebody (man or a woman) if they cheated on their partner in general. A promise is a promise and a commitment is a commitment--so if somebody breaks one---that is something that I personally make a note of. However--wiith that said--I think it's impossible to make general claims over a very ambiguous hypothetical that is lacking a major amount of information.
For example--a friend of a friend of mine has a brother that lives in North Carolina. His wife suffered a pretty massive stroke a few years back and is wheelchair bound. The man loves her to death--literally has hired help to assist her while he is at work and when he gets home--he takes the reigns himself and helps her and handles household duties. The dude literally works his butt off at work and comes home--and works and loves her as much as he can. He truly loves her and has and would never consider divorcing her. Unfortunately--due to her paraplegic condition--they are extremely limited when it comes to the ability to be intimate. He is in his mid 30's and of course has a normal/healthy sexual appetite. She understands that he loves her to death and she understands that she is physically unable and restricted from fulfilling all of his sexual desires/needs. Because of that--she and him apparently have an agreement that she is okay with him having relations with another woman (as long as its done in a safe/protected manner--and that the other woman is fully aware that he is married and and the situation). Apparently there is a woman that he has engaged in these relations for a couple of years--and everybody is okay and happy. By definition--I guess that could be cheating--or it could be considered an "open relationship". Regardless---my point is this:--without knowing all of the details---it is hard to make generalizations. Many people that don't know the details of this story could see it is as : "look at this doosh bag--cheating on his paraplegic wife for years"--when in reality--this guy absolutely loves his wife to the utmost extent.
For example--a friend of a friend of mine has a brother that lives in North Carolina. His wife suffered a pretty massive stroke a few years back and is wheelchair bound. The man loves her to death--literally has hired help to assist her while he is at work and when he gets home--he takes the reigns himself and helps her and handles household duties. The dude literally works his butt off at work and comes home--and works and loves her as much as he can. He truly loves her and has and would never consider divorcing her. Unfortunately--due to her paraplegic condition--they are extremely limited when it comes to the ability to be intimate. He is in his mid 30's and of course has a normal/healthy sexual appetite. She understands that he loves her to death and she understands that she is physically unable and restricted from fulfilling all of his sexual desires/needs. Because of that--she and him apparently have an agreement that she is okay with him having relations with another woman (as long as its done in a safe/protected manner--and that the other woman is fully aware that he is married and and the situation). Apparently there is a woman that he has engaged in these relations for a couple of years--and everybody is okay and happy. By definition--I guess that could be cheating--or it could be considered an "open relationship". Regardless---my point is this:--without knowing all of the details---it is hard to make generalizations. Many people that don't know the details of this story could see it is as : "look at this doosh bag--cheating on his paraplegic wife for years"--when in reality--this guy absolutely loves his wife to the utmost extent.