Can I get a definition of "acceptance" please? I'm going to extend Jenner every courtesy that I would to anyone else. I'm going to offer no preferential treatment one way or the other. In that way I am accepting. But if you want me to call Jenner a woman..well..sorry, can't do it. In my opinion he's a man with something out of the ordinary going on in his brain. It happens. It's not evil, it's not angelic, it's just outside of the norm. Right now it seems that it takes some plastic surgery and whatnot for him to achieve inner peace. Perhaps one day medical science will have less drastic solutions, but until that day comes let him live. So I guess the latter portion of this post makes me unaccepting..?
I don't think Jenner is insulted by you calling Jenner a man. It's certainly a justified label biologically. And nothing about it reflects an attitude of unacceptance.
But things like "freak", "serious psychological issues", and other derogatory labels aren't justified, and are nothing but expressions of ones negativity towards Jenner, or the transgenders those words are being directed at. They are clearly word choices of people who do NOT accept transgenders.
I hear you man. But I think people in this thread are getting too sensitive about words. I get that "freak" can have negative connotations even though it can also used to simply describe something out of the ordinary. So out of respect I try to avoid using the word. Let's say you get your way and the word freak is no longer used, and is instead replaced with abnormal, out of the ordinary, or something to that affect. We can agree that transgenderism is not usual, yes? My point is, how long until the new term becomes perceived as hateful due to a certain amount of overzealousness from those determined to stamp out hate, real or perceived? I will try very hard not throw out terms like freak, if you can also try not to throw around terms like hate or bigot so easily. Does that seem fair?And that last statement isn't intended to single you out in the least. I'm trying to be broad (giggles) with that point.
All I care about now is what is causing transgender kids to kill themselves. If certain words contribute to that today, then I'll fight to against them being used.
You are completely right that in the future words that are not derogatory today can become derogatory over time. When that happens then we should do something about that when it happens. Today, calling them "abnormal" I think is okay. That may change in the future.
If people would just change their negative attitudes, then words wouldn't become the projection of the negative attitudes. The issue of words becoming negative isn't a result of the words themselves. It's because the people who use words can be #######s.