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FFA Moderation Thoughts - What Do You Think? (1 Viewer)

How would you like to see the FFA moderated?

  • More heavily moderated than it is now with time outs given much more frequently for unexcellent beha

    Votes: 42 11.4%
  • A little more moderated than it is now with time outs given a little more frequently for unexcellent

    Votes: 73 19.8%
  • Keep it like it is now

    Votes: 119 32.3%
  • A little less moderated than it is now with time outs given a little less frequently for unexcellent

    Votes: 63 17.1%
  • A lot less moderated than it is now with time outs given much less frequently for unexcellent behavi

    Votes: 71 19.3%

  • Total voters
    368
Sure, but what I'm saying is there's a huge difference between being told a post is delusional or stupid and being told that you are delusional or stupid. The former is inevitable on a message board no matter the subject and shouldn't be a big deal.  The latter, while also inevitable, is IMO over the line.  And it's an easy line to draw- and enforce- without getting into the business of censoring inoffensive topics.
I don't think the line is as clear as you are suggesting.  Because pizzagate wasn't some sort of close judgment call in my eyes.  Neither is supporting Trump.  You may not want to admit it, but your view of pizzagate believers and Trump supporters isn't segregated to a single post.  You think less of them.  So do I.  They can tell.

 
To solve the politics issue I would consider a debate.   Kinda something similar to the Lincoln Douglass debates. Only with.....

 
Good morning. I think I have the solution. You'll notice that the Trump and social security thread has not been shut down. Also, for most of the Obama years, we did not have one all inclusive Obama thread. (We did in the last year- "Obama's the Worst"- and that thread got pretty ugly. 

The answer therefore is to have several threads about President Trump, but each one dealing with a specific issue. This should ensure that only those who want to discuss that issue will post in the thread. Sure there is still bound to be some rudeness and ugliness, but it should be kept at a minimum if we're fortunate. 

Im going to try this out now by starting a thread about Trump and Obamacare. 
tim, you can be funny as hell. That made me LOL. 

I'm old school. No smilies.  

 
I don't think the line is as clear as you are suggesting.  Because pizzagate wasn't some sort of close judgment call in my eyes.  Neither is supporting Trump.  You may not want to admit it, but your view of pizzagate believers and Trump supporters isn't segregated to a single post.  You think less of them.  So do I.  They can tell.
Of course, but that doesn't make the line less clear from a practical standpoint (and IMO from the perspective of what is or isn't cool to post).  I'm sure are plenty of people here who maybe think less of me because of what I post, but very few (can count on one hand) who actually post about my personal attributes rather than the substance of the posts.  As long as they don't do the former, I don't mind the latter.  I wouldn't post here if I did.  

No system is perfect, but that seems like a relatively easy line to draw and enforce.  

 
So reading through this thread I think the mods must really be sick of of the political threads because of the reporting of posts within them.  Someone remind me again why adult men are reporting other adult men on a fantasy football forum?  I actually just thought it was shtick that people reported each other here, I guess it isn't. 
Might have something to do with adult men constantly trolling and insulting people. And Joe and Maurile (among others) have made it clear that they want us to use the report button rather than respond in kind to a personal attack, an insult or constant trolling. If you have ever been on an unmoderated forum, you can see that is the best way to go IMO.

 
Of course, but that doesn't make the line less clear from a practical standpoint (and IMO from the perspective of what is or isn't cool to post).  I'm sure are plenty of people here who maybe think less of me because of what I post, but very few (can count on one hand) who actually post about my personal attributes rather than the substance of the posts.  As long as they don't do the former, I don't mind the latter.  I wouldn't post here if I did.  

No system is perfect, but that seems like a relatively easy line to draw and enforce.  
Isn't that what David Dodds was saying, though? That it got personal in the Trump thread, and that was the reason for the banning. 

I don't want to speak for anybody or form an incorrect opinion, but he explicitly stated at the end of the thread that that was why he banned it. 

And I also want to take an opportunity to say I agree with fatguyinalittlecoat in that some attacks probably feel personal to the recipient. I know I've felt in on this board. We'd be lacking in our test of what is human if at times we didn't feel personally attacked by being called various things (all of which I think I can safely say I've been called here).

 
:shrug: If the guy moderating the thread thinks the redhead thing is plausible, then your approach is going to feel like an attack to him. 
I think you forget we just elected a president who said anything PC is out the door. Feel free to openly mock and attack anyone you like...except for the ironicly thin skinned president elect himself and his similarly easily offended acolytes.

 
Might have something to do with adult men constantly trolling and insulting people. And Joe and Maurile (among others) have made it clear that they want us to use the report button rather than respond in kind to a personal attack, an insult or constant trolling. If you have ever been on an unmoderated forum, you can see that is the best way to go IMO.
You better report Tim for making another tread about Trump after Dodds stated not to do that.

 
Did David Dodds at any time clearly and explicitly say there are to be no more political threads? If so I missed that. 
Well, maybe not stated that explicitly, but the implication was there were to be no more political threads for the time being. For instance, Rockaction was apologetic in (I think) the George Clooney Nespreso thread saying something to the effect of "If this an inappropriate topic, mods please delete".

 
Of course, but that doesn't make the line less clear from a practical standpoint (and IMO from the perspective of what is or isn't cool to post).  I'm sure are plenty of people here who maybe think less of me because of what I post, but very few (can count on one hand) who actually post about my personal attributes rather than the substance of the posts.  As long as they don't do the former, I don't mind the latter.  I wouldn't post here if I did.  

No system is perfect, but that seems like a relatively easy line to draw and enforce.  
Sometimes I say stupid things, because I didn't have complete information, or because I didn't think about an issue enough, or I just spaced or something.  When somebody calls out that I said something stupid, it doesn't bother me, because these sorts of mistakes are normal and not particularly concerning.

But I don't think pizzagate belief or Trump support is like that.  They aren't just casual mistakes.  Saying that these things are stupid goes directly to the poster's identity.

 
I think you forget we just elected a president who said anything PC is out the door. Feel free to openly mock and attack anyone you like...except for the ironicly thin skinned president elect himself and his similarly easily offended acolytes.
I haven't forgotten anything.  I'm trying to consider things from other vantage points.

 
Look at the political bickering in a thread about moderation that started because of the bickering in political threads.

Look at the narcissists and compulsive arguers complaining about smiley faces and likes and reported posts and unfair bannings.

Look at people arguing the same political issue that started the thread deletions.

Look at tim saying the answer is to create more politics threads.

A tiger doesn't change its stripes. These guys are incapable of adult behavior. Move them out of here 

 
Well, maybe not stated that explicitly, but the implication was there were to be no more political threads for the time being. For instance, Rockaction was apologetic in (I think) the George Clooney Nespreso thread saying something to the effect of "If this an inappropriate topic, mods please delete".
No he didn't. He said there were to be no "catch-all" Trump threads. Which means no Official Donald Trump thread, etc. He never aid anything about specific issue political threads regarding Trump, and he did not remove the Social Security one. So Whole I hate to disappoint my buddy Hell Toupee, I didn't break the rules. 

 
I haven't forgotten anything.  I'm trying to consider things from other vantage points.
Not directed at you...I think it's too bad that some bright posters act so arrogantly and condescending to people with opposing views...if you prove your point with facts that should be good enough (and I admit I have learned some stuff from posters who I disagree with on many topics)...just move on instead of acting like the arrogant hard guy behind the comfort of your keyboard...maybe it's my age but I find that attitude to be so soft...

 
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No he didn't. He said there were to be no "catch-all" Trump threads. Which means no Official Donald Trump thread, etc. He never aid anything about specific issue political threads regarding Trump, and he did not remove the Social Security one. So Whole I hate to disappoint my buddy Hell Toupee, I didn't break the rules. 
Famous last words...

 
Might have something to do with adult men constantly trolling and insulting people. And Joe and Maurile (among others) have made it clear that they want us to use the report button rather than respond in kind to a personal attack, an insult or constant trolling. If you have ever been on an unmoderated forum, you can see that is the best way to go IMO.
Maybe but that approach sounds like frontier justice and is subjective in nature.  Do you call 911 when someone cuts you off in a parking lot?  This seems like what is happening.  :2cents:  

 
No he didn't. He said there were to be no "catch-all" Trump threads. Which means no Official Donald Trump thread, etc. He never aid anything about specific issue political threads regarding Trump, and he did not remove the Social Security one. So Whole I hate to disappoint my buddy Hell Toupee, I didn't break the rules. 
You just said you had no idea what he wrote about no more political threads. Now you are acting like an expert about it? Your ego is out of control.

 
David Dodds, I would like some clarification please. Several people here seem to think you want no more political threads whatsoever and you will begin banning people who break that rule. I took you to mean that you want no "catch-all" threads, specifically about Trump, but you would allow threads about Trump regarding specific issues, which is why you didn't lock the Social Security thread. 

I won't post anymore in the new thread I started until I get a clear answer on this. Thank you. 

 
No he didn't. He said there were to be no "catch-all" Trump threads. Which means no Official Donald Trump thread, etc. He never aid anything about specific issue political threads regarding Trump, and he did not remove the Social Security one. So Whole I hate to disappoint my buddy Hell Toupee, I didn't break the rules. 
Tim I like you and despite some of my postings I'd hate to see you go .Sure you're a blowhard but you seem like a decent guy. 

:cry:  If only it were  :cstu: instead

 
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I think:

Posters: grow the hell up. If you say people supporting politician A are all :insert insult here:, then the supporters here of the politician know who you are talking about. Calling Trump supporters deplorable is what cost her the election, and what should get a time-out and post deletion. "I wasn't attacking you, just politician X supporters in general" is a cop-out.

Mods: You are as big a part of the problem as the problem posters. When you are moderating, check your emotions and your politics at the door. People are allowed to have opinions different from yours and you need to enforce equally. Most of you have been around this site for more than ten years and I know you're grown up men. Start acting like it, or ask Joe to get someone else to moderate. Ban people and delete posts, not entire threads.

Owners: you bear a big part of the responsibility too. Joe, you have given time-outs without understanding the context of the post, and when other posters point it out, you need to reconsider.  David, get your emotions under control. Seriously. Both of you: the only restrictions you have put on this board is that we be excellent to each other. Not to politicians, or sports figures, but to each other. Get rid of those posters who are not, on both sides of the spectrum. Publish a more detailed set of guidelines and enforce them fairly and without prejudice (political or otherwise - that isn't happening right now IMO)

Everybody: just grow up and be men - or women - or whatever gender you consider yourself (so as not to offend the LGBTQ crowd on the board).

 
Maybe but that approach sounds like frontier justice and is subjective in nature.  Do you call 911 when someone cuts you off in a parking lot?  This seems like what is happening.  :2cents:  
No, taking the matter into one's own hands and responding in kind is a form of vigilante, frontier justice. This is akin to letting those in charge of enforcing the law or in this case, the moderation of this forum do their job. And, no, I don't call 911 if someone cuts me off in a parking lot, but I would if they then shot at me or rammed their car into mine. 

 
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David Dodds, I would like some clarification please. Several people here seem to think you want no more political threads whatsoever and you will begin banning people who break that rule. I took you to mean that you want no "catch-all" threads, specifically about Trump, but you would allow threads about Trump regarding specific issues, which is why you didn't lock the Social Security thread. 

I won't post anymore in the new thread I started until I get a clear answer on this. Thank you. 
Dodds doesn't read the FFA anywhere close to how much you read it. Odds are he won't even see this post. And there's a good chance he hasn't even seen the political threads that still exist. What grabs his attention is posts that have been reported. If someone reports a post in your new political threads or in the political threads that still exist, it will get his attention. Expect it to be locked and people banned as a result. 

 
I haven't forgotten anything.  I'm trying to consider things from other vantage points.
Good for you. I need to do a better job with that as well. I freely admit that i'm still shuked that we elected Trump and am having a really difficult time understanding how anyone thinks this is a good thing for the future of our country. The wait and see approach is also difficult given the train wreck of picks he has made for his cabinet. I will endeavour to sit back and watch a bit as things unfold and try to do a better job in policing my own excellence towards others posters and if political threads are still allowed will attempt to focus my arguments towards the issues and not the messengers.

 
Dodds doesn't read the FFA anywhere close to how much you read it. Odds are he won't even see this post. And there's a good chance he hasn't even seen the political threads that still exist. What grabs his attention is posts that have been reported. If someone reports a post in your new political threads or in the political threads that still exist, it will get his attention. Expect it to be locked and people banned as a result. 
Maybe Tim should report his own post so Dodds sees it.

 
The FFA used to be like a great party in a 20 room mansion. No matter which room you were in the guests were fun and the conversation was humorous and enjoyable. Then all at once most of the great party guests went into one room and shut the door. Around this time a new guest arrived and butted into every discussion telling anyone who would listen, over and over, his opinion on the subject being discussed. It didn't matter what room you went in, there he was dominating the conversation and telling you why your opinion was wrong and his was right. Even worse he gave rise to lousy party guests by engaging them as thoroughly as he would the good guests. He couldn't decipher the difference between a good guest and a bad one, a terrible conversation and an interesting one. Suddenly those lousy guests and the new party guest were all that you could hear at the party. Some guests began to leave the party realizing it wasn't the enjoyable experience it was earlier in the evening. On their way out they put their ear up to that closed door where all the of the fun people were trying to figure out why they were in there. Defeated, the guests left never to return. "It was a great party for a while," they said. "Strange how it went south so quickly." Now it's 3AM and the remaining guests are mostly in this one room trying to figure out how to get the party going again. Willie says, "How about we open the door to the room with the fun people and ask them to come out and join the party? When they do we can all tell that one guy it's time for him to leave. Once that happens we can turn the music back on and party like we did earlier in the evening. Maybe some of the good people who left will hear that the party is hopping again and they'll return." The other guests look at him and think for a moment. Sure, the old man seems pretty stoned but what he just said makes a whole lot of sense.

 
And it's an easy line to draw- and enforce- without getting into the business of censoring inoffensive topics.
Because people can't tell you think they're stupid unless you call them stupid?  I can count on one hand the people here who come to a conversation with no axe to grind rather come looking to read into whatever others say to fit a narrative they've already determined to be true.  That's not productive and it's not genuine.  It's also not something that can be controlled by others.  Only the individual using the approach can change their behavior.

My :2cents:  

 
Maybe but that approach sounds like frontier justice and is subjective in nature.  Do you call 911 when someone cuts you off in a parking lot?  This seems like what is happening.  :2cents:  
No, taking the matter into one's own hands and responding in kind is a form of vigilante, frontier justice. This is  akin to letting those in charge of enforcing the law or in this case, the moderation of this forum do their job. And, no, but I don't call 911 if someone cuts me off in a parking lot, but I would if they then shot at me or rammed their car into mine. 
Isn't that what the report button is doing though?  People are just expressing their thoughts and as long as they aren't threatening you, it seems like a waste of time.  I don't know since I doubt I've ever been reported and I've never reported anyone here or anywhere else, but I just can't really understand why people do it.  Because the owners want it?  Wouldn't they say that to protect their business model, as a courtesy?  I can't imagine them logging in and seeing 50 reports about someone saying someone was stupid or whatever in a political thread.  Plus the whole crying wolf thing comes into play also, seems like a vicious cycle.  I mean does anyone who report people think it actually helps in any way?  Seems counterproductive in every way instead of just simply ignoring it since it's the internet and all. 

 
Because people can't tell you think they're stupid unless you call them stupid?  I can count on one hand the people here who come to a conversation with no axe to grind rather come looking to read into whatever others say to fit a narrative they've already determined to be true.  That's not productive and it's not genuine.  It's also not something that can be controlled by others.  Only the individual using the approach can change their behavior.

My :2cents:  
My mind has been changed in discussion groups a lot. It doesn't seem like it, but it has been. 

For example, my position on one of the deepest hot topics that will go unnamed has been changed by an internet forum and a simple question posed to me. 

This might be true in petty circumstances with petty people, but I don't consider myself petty. 

This board has also changed my mind in innumerate ways, ones that can't be fully expressed. I'd hate to lose that. 

 
This thread looks exactly like most political threads. Same people, same arguing, same whining. 

The only difference is there's no polical topic.

That's all the proof you need that these guys will never stop whining and arguing.

You can't make them stop. You can't ban them, they keep coming back. 

Move them. It's the only way.

 
This thread looks exactly like most political threads. Same people, same arguing, same whining. 

The only difference is there's no polical topic.

That's all the proof you need that these guys will never stop whining and arguing.

You can't make them stop. You can't ban them, they keep coming back. 

Move them. It's the only way.
You're making me feel like an unwanted Syrian refugee.

 
Isn't that what the report button is doing though?  People are just expressing their thoughts and as long as they aren't threatening you, it seems like a waste of time.  I don't know since I doubt I've ever been reported and I've never reported anyone here or anywhere else, but I just can't really understand why people do it.  Because the owners want it?  Wouldn't they say that to protect their business model, as a courtesy?  I can't imagine them logging in and seeing 50 reports about someone saying someone was stupid or whatever in a political thread.  Plus the whole crying wolf thing comes into play also, seems like a vicious cycle.  I mean does anyone who report people think it actually helps in any way?  Seems counterproductive in every way instead of just simply ignoring it since it's the internet and all. 
I think giving the LHUCKS of the forum a temporary or permanent ban does increase the quality of the threads, both in the short term and the long term. And looking at the popularity of unmoderated versus moderated forums and social media, this is what most people seem to prefer. And who wants to try to have serious discussion on an issue where after every post someone is trolling or insulting you? And these people don't go away - for instance Tim has had several stalkers who followed him from thread to thread for months and it didn't stop until the mods finally stepped in and banned them (although these people quite often resurface under a different alias).  

 
You're making me feel like an unwanted Syrian refugee.
I wasn't talking specifically about you, but maybe I should have been. Maximum efficiency here. Simultaneously whining, bringing politics into a non political post, implicitly arguing with my point and making this personal about yourself. Impressive.

 
I think giving the LHUCKS of the forum a temporary or permanent ban does increase the quality of the threads, both in the short term and the long term. And looking at the popularity of unmoderated versus moderated forums and social media, this is what most people seem to prefer. And who wants to try to have serious discussion on an issue where after every post someone is trolling or insulting you? And these people don't go away - for instance Tim has had several stalkers who followed him from thread to thread for months and it didn't stop until the mods finally stepped in and banned them (although these people quite often resurface under a different alias).  
:lmao:

this guy. You report , stalk, troll & badger 

 
Look at the political bickering in a thread about moderation that started because of the bickering in political threads.

Look at the narcissists and compulsive arguers complaining about smiley faces and likes and reported posts and unfair bannings.

Look at people arguing the same political issue that started the thread deletions.

Look at tim saying the answer is to create more politics threads.

A tiger doesn't change its stripes. These guys are incapable of adult behavior. Move them out of here 
Look at your young men fighting
Look at your women crying
Look at your young men dying
The way they've always done before
 
Look at the hate we're breeding
Look at the fear we're feeding
Look at the lives we're leading
The way we've always done before
 
Look at the shoes you're filling
Look at the blood we're spilling
Look at the world we're killing
The way we've always done before
 
Look in the doubt we've wallowed
Look at the leaders we've followed
Look at the lies we've swallowed
And I don't want to hear no more
 

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