It actually kinda scares me that people can look at this case...see all the evidence and STILL feel like those celebrity tweets.
Damn...I really wonder if I were black or a celebrity...would I see this completely differently? Would I honestly be able to look past the evidence and feel so confident in thinking that Zimmerman should've been found guilty?
I mean, geez...even Tim (the most white-guilt ridden, liberal minded person on this board) was able to say that he'd find Zim not guilty.
There's some serious detachment and division in our nation and it's really concerning.
I remember when the OJ verdict came in...the manager of our department jumped up and cheered...actually did a little dance and clapped as loudly as he could throughout the department. Yes...he was black...most of us stood there looking at him with a quizzical look of "What the hell?"
Any "division" in this country is because of whites.
Are you forgetting slavery, Jim Crow, KKK, etc?
It was actually white people who came up with the concept of "race."
I don't know about that last statement...hell, the slaves that were brought to America were...yep, slaves in their homeland being sold to the Europeans and Americans for the most part.
I don't disregard your statement though...however, how does most of white America vote for Obama, for two terms...if it's all about race with the white folks?
Hell, there's division WITHIN the black community. How on Earth can the black community work with other races if they can't even work with their own? There's so much damned division...actually calling guys out on whether or not they're black enough (GHill, Bryant Gumble, Wayne Brady and on and on and on)...you've got Crips and Bloods...East Coast vs West Coast rappers (are you kidding me...can you imagine East Coast vs West Coast Country Singers?) look at Chicago and tell me how on Earth are you going to work some of this stuff out with other races when there's so much divide there.
And I'm obviously not saying across the board...nothing in general terms here...just that there appears to be a prevailing attitude within the black community as a whole...and for that, I blame the leadership. I have absolute faith that if MLK were still alive or at least lived another 20 years or so...things would be so much better in the black community (not that there hasn't been tremendous strides...just saying we'd probably be light years ahead by now).
You better believe. The concept of "race" is a social construct. Think about it, there's no biological basis for race. It's all social.
I completely agree, the black community has a TON of issues. But let's not act like we (blacks) were given a fair fight.
Vietnam, The Crack Epidemic, Welfare dependence all happened after the Civil Rights Act of 1964. Let's not forget the endless profiling of black males.
Regardless of the issues of the black community, we still have to rely on the justice system. A justice system that has failed us too many times.
Actually...I have to thank you for continuing the conversation...seriously, I was expecting someone to come back blasting and drive this discussion right into the muck.
I don't disagree...I came from a pretty poor upbringing...in my neighborhood of poverty, I was one of the less fortunate among my peers. I fully understand having one foot stuck in mud and the other on solid ground. However, it takes a change of scenery, focus and mindset to get up out of that hole. And that's where the leadership in the black community is failing.
I'll tell you what the problem is coming from the white side of things...most conservatives have the mindset of, "regardless of your upbringing, environment, etc...you are responsible for yourself. You have no one else to blame or depend upon but yourself. If you fail, it's on you."
However, it's easy to take that tack when you don't have a weight on you from birth. But again, you're not going to change a conservative to think anything other than "do for yourself"...and that's regardless of race.
You'e absolutely right about mindset.
A large portion of the black community suffers from what I like to call "generational curses," meaning basically it's hard to overcome certain obstacles that you were born into. For example, my younger cousin just had a baby and she's 15. Guess what? Her mother had her at age 14. You know what else? Her grandmother had her mother at age 16. Get my point? It's extremely difficult to break the cycle when it's been in place for so long. 7 out 10 black children are born out of wedlock. That's a huge issue, right? Well it's not an issue unless the individual thinks it's an issue. And a lot of people see nothing wrong with OOW births. And that's where the issue lies: an entire race of people who celebrate mediocrity and look down on change. Some blacks love the world "sellout" when somebody doesn't live up to stereotypes. I've been accused of "talking white" and being a "preppy college boy" but I don't give a damn. I'm going to make something of myself. I wish more blacks had my mindset.
Exactly...the black community needs another MLK...and they should be tossing Sharpton and Jackson out on their ear.
But it's easier to point fingers at others and say "woa is me"...blame someone else...
I think things are changing for the better (obviously with a black president as an ultimate example) but there's some SERIOUS issues that need to be taken to task. A lot of the issues seems to be from the degradation of the family unit within the black community. Exalting movies and songs that call their mom's and sisters "biitches and hoes" and "we don't love 'em though" (I don't mean that literally...they're not calling their own mom or sister that...I'm saying as a race). Not that black women don't have some fault here as well...they're adapting to the mindset and end up pregnant too young and alone with no husband...only baby daddy's and it's a usually a joke or fully accepted to call someone a damn baby daddy...what the hell? That is ridamndiculous...he's not a baby daddy...he's a damned deadbeat that needs to take his @zz home, take care of his kids and provide for them and show them what it's like to be a father.
I grew up without a father...never met him...I'm no saint and FAR from being a perfect dad...but a lot can be said for "just showing up". Be there, be present and try...damn...as long as you're trying, who can fault you?
But we all have friends like this...dude's who are not taking care of their responsibilities. Guys with multiple women, babies in different houses...and not providing money or time enough for any of them. When your focus is not on your family...then how can the family survive or flourish? You're looking for those strange exceptions to the rule at this point...cause the broken family unit has that extra weight we both have talked about earlier...now add in it being a black, broken family and you've now got even more weight from jumpstreet. But back to my point...we all have these friends and do any of us say anything...or do we accept it? Do we ever call them out on this nonsense? I do...cause again, it's something that's a little bit closer to my heart...and if you don't listen...you don't "try"...then I'll probably just let you go as a friend. I know that sounds jacked up but damned if I need that in my life.
It's all about who you choose to surround yourself with...who do you run with...where's your mindset...what are your interests...etc?
People talking about Vick going to jail for those dogs lately...trying to make it seem unfair. Are you serious? The guy ran with idiots and decided to stay in the lift...even though he was a millionaire (same with Hernandez...although, we have to wait for all the facts of this case to come down)...and what happened? Vick went to jail...said he was sorry and is back to making millions. I'd think he got off pretty lucky. Lucky that his ability and status allowed him to come back and make those dollars. I commend him.
But back to my point above...you've got guys having kids and not treating their women right...and it's not only accepted...it's exalted within the black community. Look at the top artists...from top to bottom there's a lot of questionable guys with serious character issues.
I commend you for doing all you can to succeed...regardless of your upbringing, social status, environment...we need a lot more of that (black, white, whatever) and a lot less acceptance of "thug life".