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Found this in my wife's chat log (1 Viewer)

Crimson Hawk said:
This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly. Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat. Also, we have 3 kids. As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand. There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat. Think what you will of me. Thanks for listening.
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Can you PM me your Yahoo ID?
 
Foosball God said:
Crimson Hawk said:
This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly. Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat. Also, we have 3 kids. As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand. There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat. Think what you will of me. Thanks for listening.
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Hey baby, want to go to Aruba?
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Crimson Hawk said:
This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly. Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat. Also, we have 3 kids. As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand. There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat. Think what you will of me. Thanks for listening.
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why do you insist on having the chat logs turned off?
 
Crimson Hawk said:
Am I overreacting? Keep in mind this was only part of the conversation all typed while I was in the room with the kids.
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I went through a very similar situation back about 10 years ago.I ended up becomming friends with this couple (they had 2 kids) that chatted. They invited us (me and my live in GF at the time) to go boating with them. I had met the wife at a "chat party" a few months before, but I went to meet her sister, so she and I saw each other but didn't talk. before we ended up going boating with them, the wife from the couple and I ended up talking about sex online. We end up going boating with them and the wife is just giving me all these naughty looks and whatnot. So nothing happens that day. A few days later, she drives down from where she lives (about an hour away) to give me a BJ in a parking lot behind the mall near where I worked. I ended up lying one night and said I was going golfing. The wife ended up saying she was going to a friends house, so she went there alone and I went up to meet her. Her friend let us use her bedroom and well you know what we did. anyway, try to make a long story short. I ended up having like a 3 month affair with her and the husband ended up finding out. Things didn't end well. He threatend me, but nothing ever came of it. They ended up staying together and I ended up leaving my GF like a year later, because she wouldn't let me live it down. This was my 1st escapade with a married woman I met online, but it was not my last. I was single for a few years and you would not believe the # of married lonely women that sit home and watch the kids while daddy is at work. You wouldn't believe how easy it is for a married wife/husband to cheat because of the internet without their spouse ever finding out. I guess you have to use common sense. If it seems like things are that bad and you're worried about it. Your instincts are probably right :(
 
Crimson Hawk said:
This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly.

Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat.

Also, we have 3 kids.

As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.

And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.

But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand.

There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.

I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat.

Think what you will of me.

Thanks for listening.
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This is a next level :( trip! :lmao:
 
Linus Scrimmage said:
Crimson Hawk said:
Am I overreacting? Keep in mind this was only part of the conversation all typed while I was in the room with the kids.
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I went through a very similar situation back about 10 years ago.I ended up becomming friends with this couple (they had 2 kids) that chatted. They invited us (me and my live in GF at the time) to go boating with them. I had met the wife at a "chat party" a few months before, but I went to meet her sister, so she and I saw each other but didn't talk. before we ended up going boating with them, the wife from the couple and I ended up talking about sex online. We end up going boating with them and the wife is just giving me all these naughty looks and whatnot. So nothing happens that day. A few days later, she drives down from where she lives (about an hour away) to give me a BJ in a parking lot behind the mall near where I worked. I ended up lying one night and said I was going golfing. The wife ended up saying she was going to a friends house, so she went there alone and I went up to meet her. Her friend let us use her bedroom and well you know what we did. anyway, try to make a long story short. I ended up having like a 3 month affair with her and the husband ended up finding out. Things didn't end well. He threatend me, but nothing ever came of it. They ended up staying together and I ended up leaving my GF like a year later, because she wouldn't let me live it down. This was my 1st escapade with a married woman I met online, but it was not my last. I was single for a few years and you would not believe the # of married lonely women that sit home and watch the kids while daddy is at work. You wouldn't believe how easy it is for a married wife/husband to cheat because of the internet without their spouse ever finding out. I guess you have to use common sense. If it seems like things are that bad and you're worried about it. Your instincts are probably right :angry:
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This may be fun, but it's got to be pretty dangerous. It seems like every week you hear about some nut job husband killing his whole family.
 
QUEZILLA said:
Linus Scrimmage said:
Crimson Hawk said:
Am I overreacting? Keep in mind this was only part of the conversation all typed while I was in the room with the kids.
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I went through a very similar situation back about 10 years ago.I ended up becomming friends with this couple (they had 2 kids) that chatted. They invited us (me and my live in GF at the time) to go boating with them. I had met the wife at a "chat party" a few months before, but I went to meet her sister, so she and I saw each other but didn't talk. before we ended up going boating with them, the wife from the couple and I ended up talking about sex online. We end up going boating with them and the wife is just giving me all these naughty looks and whatnot. So nothing happens that day. A few days later, she drives down from where she lives (about an hour away) to give me a BJ in a parking lot behind the mall near where I worked. I ended up lying one night and said I was going golfing. The wife ended up saying she was going to a friends house, so she went there alone and I went up to meet her. Her friend let us use her bedroom and well you know what we did. anyway, try to make a long story short. I ended up having like a 3 month affair with her and the husband ended up finding out. Things didn't end well. He threatend me, but nothing ever came of it. They ended up staying together and I ended up leaving my GF like a year later, because she wouldn't let me live it down. This was my 1st escapade with a married woman I met online, but it was not my last. I was single for a few years and you would not believe the # of married lonely women that sit home and watch the kids while daddy is at work. You wouldn't believe how easy it is for a married wife/husband to cheat because of the internet without their spouse ever finding out. I guess you have to use common sense. If it seems like things are that bad and you're worried about it. Your instincts are probably right :angry:
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This may be fun, but it's got to be pretty dangerous. It seems like every week you hear about some nut job husband killing his whole family.
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Last time I did anything like it was around 2002. I starting chatting April 1995 (I was 22) on prodigy chat and I was pretty addicted till around 2002. No one made me stop, I just got to the point where it wasn't fun anymore. Many, many people have told me I should write a book about my many excursions that happened because of chat. It was fun, for sure. I was very immature and selfish and I hurt a lot of people along the way . if I had to do it all over again I would change a lot. One of the funniest things I can tell you about the whole experience. My very 1st ever chat name was BManilow22.
 
(HULK) said:
Crimson Hawk said:
This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly.

Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat.

Also, we have 3 kids.

As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.

And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.

But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand.

There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.

I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat.

Think what you will of me.

Thanks for listening.
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This is a next level :thumbup: trip! :pickle:
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:wall: I'm still shuked about this sentence though. Emotional cheating is still cheating.

 
I still want to know what the server and Guild name is. All the chicks in my guild are either married or guys.

 
:goodposting:

If I read something like that from my future wife it'd kill me. Good luck man. That's not innocent - although internet chat is kinda hazy and open to fantasy or whatever because it's easy to hide behind a screen and you aren't "directly" talking to someone. Still though, while slightly mitigated, I'd still be incredibly hurt and pissed off.

ETA: Ok, just read the later stuff. Don't toy with my emotions like that, #######!

 
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I don't think this is fishing. If it were fishing, CH would have taken the time to make an alias for "Mrs. CH."

Unless, of course, he is already 2 steps ahead of me. . . .

 
Crimson Hawk said:
To give you all a little more background.We met these people playing WoW. I had played for a year and had got my wife started a few months ago.We were all playing in the same guild and liked to goof around a lot in chat. I work with several guild members. Not long after she started playing she buys a web cam and starts chatting it up in Yahoo. When she started talking about fantasy of being with someone else I got suspicious. I started turning on chat archiving. She would come behind me and turn it off.Well one day she forgot to turn it off.To be honest I had an brush with infidelity shortly after my wife point blank told me she wouldn't mind if I slept with someone else as long as she didn't find out. I did ask a co-worker out but nothing ever came of it. I felt pretty bad about and realized what I could be losing by acting that way. I told my wife about it. She wasn't very upset. I guess I know why now.To make matters worse this guy is a 5'5" 30-something balding nerd that until recently lived in his mom's basement.When we talk about it spins things around to talk about what a bad husband I have been.I told her I would leave her if she went. This place is a couple of states away.I know we have had our hard times in 17 years but I never thought it would come to this.
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jeebus h chisto :thumbup: a
 
If this is real, and if she keeps turning off the chat logger... you need to install a key logger. Plenty of free ones out there. :football:

 
Zow said:
:thumbup:

If I read something like that from my future wife it'd kill me. Good luck man. That's not innocent - although internet chat is kinda hazy and open to fantasy or whatever because it's easy to hide behind a screen and you aren't "directly" talking to someone. Still though, while slightly mitigated, I'd still be incredibly hurt and pissed off.

ETA: Ok, just read the later stuff. Don't toy with my emotions like that, #######!
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Let it go Woz. I don't think there is room on your emotional plate for the trauma of a cheating fantasy wife too.
 
Crimson Hawk said:
This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly. Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat. Also, we have 3 kids. As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand. There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat. Think what you will of me. Thanks for listening.
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OMG OMG OMG:bag:how YOU doin...
 
Is this phenomenon strictly limited to the World of Warcraft or do people use other online games as dating mediums?

Also, is this something dating websites should seek to incorporate?

Join Match.com! and get one free month of World of Warcraft! Take our personality test and we'll place you in the guild with others most like you!

 
Kendall said:
Is this phenomenon strictly limited to the World of Warcraft or do people use other online games as dating mediums?
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I had no idea you were looking. Do you have plans Friday night? I could find a third person and you could choose between the two of us.
 
Kendall said:
Also, is this something dating websites should seek to incorporate? Join Match.com! and get one free month of World of Warcraft! Take our personality test and we'll place you in the guild with others most like you!
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After I stopped laughing I began to think this might not be such a bad idea.
 
Crimson Hawk said:
This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly. Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat. Also, we have 3 kids. As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand. There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat. Think what you will of me. Thanks for listening.
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For the sake of argument, let's say the cam recorded all activities. Would there be additional evidence that is even more damning than the chat logs?
 
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