Friends wife missing since Friday night (1 Viewer)

[RokNRole]

also correct he doesn't really sounds like a friend and you probably have no idea on what is going on with the family since you don't really know him.

Hope she is OK though

I don't know anything about the wife or the family. The majority of the information I do have is from his FB posts.

 

[JoeSteeler]

a/s/l?

 

[RokNRole]

Sometimes people just need to find themselves.

How long married and how old is she?

No idea. He is at most a year younger than me and she appears to be around our age from the photos of her on his profile.

 

[RokNRole]

Not to be mean, but you are being extremely naive about the power of kids to keep people faithful. 

I just always assumed this was unlikely for a woman with children to just take off.

 

[RokNRole]

These days everyone pretty much has a personal location device on them.  Law enforcement should be able to determine foul play pretty quickly.

But can they just track a phone any time they want? Or are asked to

 

[Ditka Butkus]

If they didn't have kids then I would assume she's with another guy but what kind of woman would allow her children and entire family to think she might be dead for several days?

cheating shameless kind....which is the best case scenario for all involved...if not this it only gets worse...

 

[RokNRole]

You sure seem to have a lot of interest in this and are asking a lot of questions about a friend you barely know anymore.

Hey Rok, where were you Friday night?

I'm interested because we were very tight in HS.

And I kinda feel bad I didn't do a better job staying in touch the last few years. He seems to have not changed since HS so I can't imagine he has many other friends. He was one of the few people more socially awkward than I was.

 

[ClownCausedChaos2]

That broad is long gone and throat deep on a new dong.

 

[Jayrod]

My first instinct is she hooked up with a random guy and wasn't in any shape to come home and deal with it yet.

 

[RokNRole]

A text from the wife saying she stayed with a friend and her sister/friends saying that she didn't go home with any of them tells me she has intentionally disappeared. Whether that is because she found someone else, or just because she wants to leave him, who knows, but it certainly seems intentional.

And yeah, that stuff happens even with 4 kids. 

Who knows, maybe this dude has been abusing her and she finally got away. Although it would seem more likely that she would leave with the kids if that were the case.

It's definitely be interesting to see what the police have said to him. Because if they have talked to the sister and friends and she intentionally disappeared, I would think that they would have told the police.

He's the type of dude you would think it more likely his wife would abuse him rather than the other way around. He's a weird guy but not in a million years could I imagine him hurting anyone.

 

[Jobber]

Random guy from the bar is my guess. She's afraid to come home all stretched out and soaked in DNA.

 

[RokNRole]

well I would say most moms with 4 kids also don't go out and get hammered and sleep over their friends house either...

I doubt he wears the pants in that relationship.....just from knowing him. I wouldn't surprised if this is the only woman he has slept with.

 

[belljr]

Seems fake

 

[Quez]

But can they just track a phone any time they want? Or are asked to

Yeah, if you turn the gps off they will still have a general location based on the towers.  They can piece the metadata together later, or monitor in real time if they want.  In a situation like this they would quickly determine where she "went offline".

 

[fantasycurse42]

WTF is it to you? Someone you haven't spoken with in 15 years, a wife/kids you don't know and haven't met, and about 2k miles from where you are located.

I don't understand your purpose with this thread. It is kinda like "look at me," but there isn't anything to be seen here. A random woman (who you don't know) walked out on her husband (who you haven't seen in over a decade) and kids (who you also don't know) - she sounds like a piece of garbage and that is about all there is to it. 

 

[RokNRole]

Can size?

She's a large woman if that matters.

 

[Nick Vermeil]

I don't understand your purpose with this thread. It is kinda like "look at me," but there isn't anything to be seen here. 

Never used that that one before. 

 

[Limp Ditka]

She's a large woman if that matters.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MnV7TE25YBY

 

[RokNRole]

WTF is it to you? Someone you haven't spoken with in 15 years, a wife/kids you don't know and haven't met, and about 2k miles from where you are located.

I don't understand your purpose with this thread. It is kinda like "look at me," but there isn't anything to be seen here. A random woman (who you don't know) walked out on her husband (who you haven't seen in over a decade) and kids (who you also don't know) - she sounds like a piece of garbage and that is about all there is to it. 

We were tight in HS. Even if we weren't it's normal to be concerned about him and his kids. I still consider him a friend and if he needed someone to talk to I would be there for him whether it's been 15 years or 50

Richard

 

[fantasycurse42]

We were tight in HS. Even if we weren't it's normal to be concerned about him and his kids. I still consider him a friend and if he needed someone to talk to I would be there for him whether it's been 15 years or 50

Richard

Odds I'll give you:

7-1 you weren't at your "friends" wedding

15-1 this is all made up

 

[Jayrod]

Odds I'll give you:

7-1 you weren't at your "friends" wedding

15-1 this is all made up

Good luck with your life.  You're going to need it.

 

[Smack Tripper]

Is she hot?

 

[fantasycurse42]

Good luck with your life.  You're going to need it.

didnt you post a "goodbye thread" about joining a monestary not to long ago?

Or was it to go revive your NBA comeback?

 

[RokNRole]

Is she hot?

I don't want to speak poorly about someone who may be dead.....but no.

For him though I was happy to hear he found someone. Very odd guy. I would have thought he would never find someone.

 

[Dr Oadi]

"Err.... is.  I'm sure she's still alive."

In his basement. 

 

[RokNRole]

didnt you post a "goodbye thread" about joining a monestary not to long ago?

Or was it to go revive your NBA comeback?

We are all anxiously awaiting your goodbye thread

 

[Dr Oadi]

I'm interested because we were very tight in HS.

And I kinda feel bad I didn't do a better job staying in touch the last few years. He seems to have not changed since HS so I can't imagine he has many other friends. He was one of the few people more socially awkward than I was.

I don't want to speak poorly about someone who may be dead.....but no.

For him though I was happy to hear he found someone. Very odd guy. I would have thought he would never find someone.

Yep. The husband did it. 

 

[fantasycurse42]

We are all anxiously awaiting your goodbye thread

You are by far the most disliked poster on this board, this includes all of the political nuts, HTH. 

Good luck to your friend.

 

[RokNRole]

Yep. The husband did it. 

No way. He was home with the kids 

 

[Caesar]

Was?

as far as being part of my conversaton, its all past tense.  Haven't talked in years. 

 

[Caesar]

Shouldn't this be your avatar?

http://www.samplesmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/free-dog-food-sample-from-cesar.jpg

  I knew I should have spelled it the greek way.

 

[KCitons]

So she was out with her friends until they left the bar separately. She either hooked up with a guy and left him, or she hooked up with a guy and the husband found out. (And killed her)

Stranger things have happened. Just turn on the news.

 

[northern exposure]

We were tight in HS. Even if we weren't it's normal to be concerned about him and his kids. I still consider him a friend and if he needed someone to talk to I would be there for him whether it's been 15 years or 50

Richard

Of course it is normal to be concerned about him, his kids and his wife for that matter. I have never met any of these people and I hope that somehow it all ends up being no big deal with everybody happy and healthy.

What is unusual is starting a thread about it on a message board when you have very little information about the situation and then asking strangers if it is alright for you to ask him questions to get more information from him. Acknowledge the tragedy of the situation, tell him you hope it all works out and then leave him alone. I'm sure he has enough people trying to pry information out of him, he doesn't need you adding to his stress and anxiety.

 

[McGarnicle]

You are by far the most disliked poster on this board, this includes all of the political nuts, HTH. 

Good luck to your friend.

 

 

[badmojo1006]

Odds I'll give you:

7-1 you weren't at your "friends" wedding

15-1 this is all made up

Somebody's got their tighty-whiteys in a bunch

 

[El Floppo]

Of course it is normal to be concerned about him, his kids and his wife for that matter. I have never met any of these people and I hope that somehow it all ends up being no big deal with everybody happy and healthy.

What is unusual is starting a thread about it on a message board when you have very little information about the situation and then asking strangers if it is alright for you to ask him questions to get more information from him. Acknowledge the tragedy of the situation, tell him you hope it all works out and then leave him alone. I'm sure he has enough people trying to pry information out of him, he doesn't need you adding to his stress and anxiety.

I hear what you're saying... not sure what the rest of us posters are supposed to do here, whether the thread is legit or not- advise whether he should talk to the friend? (ftr- I side on RnR being legit... and if not, a brilliantly constructed and consistent/committed enough fabrication that I applaud it).

that said- this is a crazy circumstance, to have such a connection to a missing person's case... that I can understand wanting to share. we're all interested enough to post in here, other than the people who just want to crap on RnR.

so  ... don't pester your friend, RnR- especially if he's updating FB with info. let him know you're there to talk or help any time he needs and leave it at that.

 

[Gustavo Fring]

Hopefully you figure this all out soon, it would be a shame if you missed Wrestlemania.  

 

[RokNRole]

Of course it is normal to be concerned about him, his kids and his wife for that matter. I have never met any of these people and I hope that somehow it all ends up being no big deal with everybody happy and healthy.

What is unusual is starting a thread about it on a message board when you have very little information about the situation and then asking strangers if it is alright for you to ask him questions to get more information from him. Acknowledge the tragedy of the situation, tell him you hope it all works out and then leave him alone. I'm sure he has enough people trying to pry information out of him, he doesn't need you adding to his stress and anxiety.

I didn't ask if it was ok to ask him for more info. I stated I don't think it's a good idea to pry right now. Once again you fail at reading comprehension.

 

[Limp Ditka]

Hopefully you figure this all out soon, it would be a shame if you missed Wrestlemania.  

 

[northern exposure]

I hear what you're saying... not sure what the rest of us posters are supposed to do here, whether the thread is legit or not- advise whether he should talk to the friend? (ftr- I side on RnR being legit... and if not, a brilliantly constructed and consistent/committed enough fabrication that I applaud it).

that said- this is a crazy circumstance, to have such a connection to a missing person's case... that I can understand wanting to share. we're all interested enough to post in here, other than the people who just want to crap on RnR.

so  ... don't pester your friend, RnR- especially if he's updating FB with info. let him know you're there to talk or help any time he needs and leave it at that.

But, it isn't really much of a connection when you can't answer simple questions like: how old is the wife? how long have they been married? etc.

To me this isn't much different than seeing a story about the situation on the news. Except in that case it would be a matter of public record and more details would be provided to the public as they were discovered. I could see sharing the story in that case.

 

[El Floppo]

But, it isn't really much of a connection when you can't answer simple questions like: how old is the wife? how long have they been married? etc.

To me this isn't much different than seeing a story about the situation on the news. Except in that case it would be a matter of public record and more details would be provided to the public as they were discovered. I could see sharing the story in that case.

based on what he's filled in since the OP, this is one of his better friends from growing up that he lost touch with and recently reconnected. I've got people like that- and if I heard this kind of story from one of them, I'd be involved (emotionally and otherwise) and supportive regardless of whether I knew the wife's name or what she looked like.

but note that I also didn't write "such a close connection"... left off the close intentionally. 

 

[Zegras11]

I didn't ask if it was ok to ask him for more info. I stated I don't think it's a good idea to pry right now. Once again you fail at reading comprehension.

Mine didn't fail.   You edited your post.

Luckily some one quoted it on page 1.

 

Old friend from HS I got back in touch with via FB. Hung out one time a few years ago and only spoke regularly for a few months after that. Saw him blowing up FB looking for info so I messaged him to confirm if it was for real. He only exchanged a handful of messages with me over the last few hours. I'm certainly not a high priority on his list of people to speak to right now.

Is it reasonable for me to ask further questions?

 

[northern exposure]

I didn't ask if it was ok to ask him for more info. I stated I don't think it's a good idea to pry right now. Once again you fail at reading comprehension.

And once again you just fail at everything. Do you remember posting this 12 hours ago? It is right here in the thread. Post #16 I believe.

"Old friend from HS I got back in touch with via FB. Hung out one time a few years ago and only spoke regularly for a few months after that. Saw him blowing up FB looking for info so I messaged him to confirm if it was for real. He only exchanged a handful of messages with me over the last few hours. I'm certainly not a high priority on his list of people to speak to right now.

Is it reasonable for me to ask further questions?"

I even bolded it, so you can see it better. Next time, don't be so quick to jump to the insults. It is interesting that you would question what he was posting was real.

 

[RokNRole]

I hear what you're saying... not sure what the rest of us posters are supposed to do here, whether the thread is legit or not- advise whether he should talk to the friend? (ftr- I side on RnR being legit... and if not, a brilliantly constructed and consistent/committed enough fabrication that I applaud it).

that said- this is a crazy circumstance, to have such a connection to a missing person's case... that I can understand wanting to share. we're all interested enough to post in here, other than the people who just want to crap on RnR.

so  ... don't pester your friend, RnR- especially if he's updating FB with info. let him know you're there to talk or help any time he needs and leave it at that.

I basically just let him know I'm available if he needs to talk. I don't expect he will need to talk to me. Never know.

 

[RokNRole]

Mine didn't fail.   You edited your post.

Luckily some one quoted it on page 1.

 

Old friend from HS I got back in touch with via FB. Hung out one time a few years ago and only spoke regularly for a few months after that. Saw him blowing up FB looking for info so I messaged him to confirm if it was for real. He only exchanged a handful of messages with me over the last few hours. I'm certainly not a high priority on his list of people to speak to right now.

Is it reasonable for me to ask further questions?

Forgot about that

 

[Zegras11]

Forgot about that

 You edited it out like 12 hours ago on purpose.

 

[northern exposure]

 You edited it out like 12 hours ago on purpose.

HARD DELETE! HARD DELETE!

 

[RokNRole]

Old friend from HS I got back in touch with via FB. Hung out one time a few years ago and only spoke regularly for a few months after that. Saw him blowing up FB looking for info so I messaged him to confirm if it was for real. He only exchanged a handful of messages with me over the last few hours. I'm certainly not a high priority on his list of people to speak to right now.

Is it reasonable for me to ask further questions?

Getzlaf

i didn't edit it out. You are thinking of the original post. I edited a typo on it

 

[RokNRole]

HARD DELETE! HARD DELETE!

Both wrong. See post above this

 

[RokNRole]

I won't be responding to the fools and trolls any longer. Their behavior is very innapropriate given the nature of this thread.