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At least it's a fresh, new alias and doesn't come with a whole bunch of baggage.Well...here I am. Reduced to alias handouts like a tweaker digging through a dumpster for scraps.
Thanks Obama.
At least it's a fresh, new alias and doesn't come with a whole bunch of baggage.Well...here I am. Reduced to alias handouts like a tweaker digging through a dumpster for scraps.
Thanks Obama.
You'll be fine.Well...here I am. Reduced to alias handouts like a tweaker digging through a dumpster for scraps.
Thanks Obama.
wait here 15 minutes.At least it's a fresh, new alias and doesn't come with a whole bunch of baggage.
:(Last call. I'll be in Morristown NJ (50 min train to Penn Station) through Friday and Bopston Mon and Tue if anyone want to find a hole we can corn in.
On the bright side, my onlyu nephew and only hope to carry on the family name/legacy is getting married.
On the bummer side, my only sister has just been diagnosed Stage 3 with Uterine? cancer and starts chemo Monday.
At least I get a few days break from my dying, demented (not being mean, I am a good son who sees them all the time and supplements their Assisted Memory Care as needed}. Its just where they are and its so so so draining. Mom keeps falling. Broke her arm earlier this month and has a huge black eye. Fortunately no memory of it, but she's so old and weak and pitiful. Its so sad.
Did I mention I've been drinking tonight?
My brother went home last night after a week in the hospital. He has some lifestyle changes to make, but I am hopeful that we can channel his innate stubbornness in a positive direction.:(
Any update from you guys on kevbrother or RAIDERSfamilycluster?
Don't kill yourself. That would be too ironicOh hey, my update: you know how I am doing ten mountains in ten days to raise money for suicide prevention? Turns out this is really ####### difficult. Like, my friends who are much bigger badasses are saying, "Yeah, I saw that and wondered what you were thinking." It's hard to hike/climb one every day. And then there's the driving. Not quite typical day Sunday: got up at 4 am, drove 2.5 hours, hiked for 8 hours, drove for 2.5 hours home, wanted to die. It's completely exhausting.
Halfway through!![]()
FIL was admitted to the hospital last night. just booked the wife on a flight today:(
Any update from you guys on kevbrother or RAIDERSfamilycluster?
hopefully, he doesn't die. if he's lucid, lawyers will be procured. and whatever he wants to do, will be recorded by said lawyer. Sorry to get back to you so late. Hope your F-I-L pulls through. Hope one of the two guys I recommended can help out in the meantime.FIL was admitted to the hospital last night. just booked the wife on a flight todayhopefully, he doesn't die. if he's lucid, lawyers will be procured. and whatever he wants to do, will be recorded by said lawyer.
do you know any lawyers in greensboro, nc? i already texted IB, but it's an old number.
gonna be a rough week.
@Idiot Boxer eta: yo, IB! you around?
Thx budIdiot Boxer said:Sorry to get back to you so late. Hope your F-I-L pulls through. Hope one of the two guys I recommended can help out in the meantime.
Good news. Hopefully those needed changes are made. I dread the day that I'm faced with them.My brother went home last night after a week in the hospital. He has some lifestyle changes to make, but I am hopeful that we can channel his innate stubbornness in a positive direction.
Good luck to the FIL and Mrs Raiders, but it sounds like you might need the most of it while picking up the home slack.FIL is in ICU. wife has flown across the country to be with him. Sane brother is currently flying from Maui. Had a non sensical conversation with oldest, addict brother today. Mumbled something about a hematoma and took credit for saving his dad. First time I’ve spoken with him in 2 years. Just mind boggling.
The hardest part is my wife’s emotional pain. She and her dad are really close. It kills me to see and hear her, in so much emotional distress, with no real way to make it better. I really hope her dad pulls through. It’s gonna be rough when he goes
Also! Not sure what goes in my kids lunch. Might just show up at school with pizza. For that matter, I’m not 100% sure of when school starts. She has something called zero period this year. Good times.![]()
what kind of lawyer? purpose?FIL was admitted to the hospital last night. just booked the wife on a flight todayhopefully, he doesn't die. if he's lucid, lawyers will be procured. and whatever he wants to do, will be recorded by said lawyer.
do you know any lawyers in greensboro, nc? i already texted IB, but it's an old number.
gonna be a rough week.
@Idiot Boxer eta: yo, IB! you around?
to establish a last will and testament, that essentially leaves everything to the grandchildren and not much to his children. only sane brother and my family have the grandchildren. at least that was the FIL's wish as of a few days ago. we just want to do whatever he wants to do and don't care, one way or the other where the assets end up. we just want the FIL's wishes carried out.what kind of lawyer? purpose?
so, probate? FIL in hospital, is he lucid? can he sign his name?to establish a last will and testament, that essentially leaves everything to the grandchildren and not much to his children. only sane brother and my family have the grandchildren. at least that was the FIL's wish as of a few days ago. we just want to do whatever he wants to do and don't care, one way or the other where the assets end up. we just want the FIL's wishes carried out.
he's at moses cone. i'm unsure of his lucidity or his ability to sign. i have yet to have an actual conversation with my wife. it's only been texts so far. sane brother landed an hour or so ago. thanks for the help chem!so, probate? FIL in hospital, is he lucid? can he sign his name?
I can get you an attorney contact likely, but I've been in your boat regarding lucidity. I am a NC notary and you should be aware of the following;he's at moses cone. i'm unsure of his lucidity or his ability to sign. i have yet to have an actual conversation with my wife. it's only been texts so far. sane brother landed an hour or so ago. thanks for the help chem!
thank you very much. i'll let you know if i need a lawyer contact. IB got me two names to work with. i forget, where are you in NC? and jim tan rocks!I can get you an attorney contact likely, but I've been in your boat regarding lucidity. I am a NC notary and you should be aware of the following;
(e) If a principal is physically unable to sign or make a mark on a record presented for
notarization, that principal may designate another person as his or her designee, who shall
be a disinterested party, to sign on the principal’s behalf pursuant to the following
procedure:
(1) The principal directs the designee to sign the record in the presence of the notary
and two witnesses unaffected by the record;
(2) The designee signs the principal’s name in the presence of the principal, the
notary, and the two witnesses;
(3) Both witnesses sign their own names to the record near the principal’s signature;
(4) The notary writes below the principal’s signature: “Signature affixed by designee
in the presence of (names and addresses of principal and witnesses)”; and
(5) The notary notarizes the signature through an acknowledgment, oath or
affirmation, jurat, or verification or proof.
I’ve been drinking all day, just didn’t have anything interesting to post27 hours since the last entry in here. This is why I have to come to the bar and drunkpost.
The sacrifices you make for us.......27 hours since the last entry in here. This is why I have to come to the bar and drunkpost.
pasta sauce should always include carrotsI’ve been drinking all day, just didn’t have anything interesting to post
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down for a good food argument though
they're sweet, they're phallic, they have a good crunchAlso carrots probably my least favorite food, although I can tolerate them in a soup or in gardineria. Raw carrots though, Gtfo
The horrible carrot taste?they're sweet, they're phallic, they have a good crunch
what's not to like?
well, take the gloves off why don't yaThe horrible carrot taste?
theyre the raisins of the vegetable world IMO
I like a good Brussels sproutsI like carrots, but I like 'em raw better than cooked.
No - the scourge of the vegetable world is a damned brussel sprout. They are Satan's balls.
Sheesh - test1cles is filtered here?
He's at home, still on oxygen. Watched some football with him on Thursday.The sacrifices you make for us.......![]()
How's kevbro doing?
Dead to me.No - the scourge of the vegetable world is a damned brussel sprout. They are Satan's balls.
Would you consider that a sandwich?Speaking of food, had egg salad on a hot dog bun for lunch today. Sure, it was a desperation move, but also delicious.
Go on...Speaking of food, had egg salad on a hot dog bun for lunch today. Sure, it was a desperation move, but also delicious.