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Need advice here.

My son will be going into his 4th year of cub scouts next year. It's called Webelos. I guess they are in that for 4th and 5th grade. This summer there is a camp for kids that age, it is 4 days/3 nights. Parents do not go, but some of the scout leaders will be there. Boys stay two to a tent, no adult.

Our den leader is encouraging all the boys to go, because it's supposed to be a lot of fun for the boys and they have opportunity to earn a bunch of their requirements.

My son has a lot of anxiety about this. About being scared, being homesick, afraid the other boys would see him get upset if he is homesick, etc. We don't want to push him, told him he'll have other opportunities, etc. On the hand, I don't want him to miss the opportunity and have a lot of regret afterwards, especially if the rest of the boys in his den are going.
I had a lot of issues with this kind of thing for a couple of years when I was about 10, 11 or so. I was very worried about overnights for school and youth activity field trips without my parents around, and looking back, I'm not sure exactly why. Eventually I just got past it, but it sort of came at my own speed and my parents (who were, and still are, beyond terrific) never pushed me.

I know I would be very reluctant to force an overnight, especially for a few days, before my kid was really ready. Can he earn the badges without going on the trip?
I'm sure he can earn everything without going, it's not mandatory. I don't want to push him at all, I just think it would be good for him to build some confidence.
Totally understand. For what it's worth, when I got over my issues it was really sudden, on one trip that was maybe three nights long. I was all crazy scared on Friday night and then by Saturday afternoon, I didn't want the thing to end.
Has he slept over anywhere before? If not, maybe the first time for him shouldn't be multiple nights and not close to home, given his anxiety.

 
Tell your kid he can't go. Have your kid do some sleepovers between now and this summer, maybe let them sleep outdoors or go camping together to build up his confidence before he goes. If he likes it, let him ask you if he can go. If he doesn't like it, he can tell his friends that his parents wouldn't let him go.

 
Tell your kid he can't go. Have your kid do some sleepovers between now and this summer, maybe let them sleep outdoors or go camping together to build up his confidence before he goes. If he likes it, let him ask you if he can go. If he doesn't like it, he can tell his friends that his parents wouldn't let him go.
 
BTW, I forgot to thank whoever the tool was who posted YouTube link to the B-52's Rock Lobster yesterday. I clicked it within earshot of my six-year old and he fell in love with the song, requesting repeated play.

So as a consequence I've had one of the more meaningless songs ever written stuck in my head all day.
:bowtie:

 
Parents do not go, but some of the scout leaders will be there.

Our den leader is encouraging all the boys to go,
:oldunsure:
Figured I'd get some of these responses. Guy is a friend of ours, not stereotypical creepy scout guy.
Hint: They never are. That's how they do it.
"Oh, yeah! That guy always weirded me out. Honestly, I'm shocked it took this long to find out he was playin' Lambeau with the little ones. I figured he'd be on the news a decade or so ago. I called the cops three times myself."

 
I'm late on the camp chat and I realize that myself and my family is/are a bit of an anomaly in this regard but I did my first overnight camp the summer after the summer after 2nd grade - 10 days - and don't recall being anxious or homesick at all. Did a 1 week overnight soccer camp the next year and a scout camp the year after. All good times and part of growing up in my own head.

 
Parents do not go, but some of the scout leaders will be there.

Our den leader is encouraging all the boys to go,
:oldunsure:
Figured I'd get some of these responses. Guy is a friend of ours, not stereotypical creepy scout guy.
Hint: They never are. That's how they do it.
"Oh, yeah! That guy always weirded me out. Honestly, I'm shocked it took this long to find out he was playin' Lambeau with the little ones. I figured he'd be on the news a decade or so ago. I called the cops three times myself."
I know not this reference.

 
Parents do not go, but some of the scout leaders will be there.

Our den leader is encouraging all the boys to go,
:oldunsure:
Figured I'd get some of these responses. Guy is a friend of ours, not stereotypical creepy scout guy.
Hint: They never are. That's how they do it.
"Oh, yeah! That guy always weirded me out. Honestly, I'm shocked it took this long to find out he was playin' Lambeau with the little ones. I figured he'd be on the news a decade or so ago. I called the cops three times myself."
I know not this reference.
I think he's saying that all Packer fans are kid-touchers.

I have no problem with this statement.

 
Parents do not go, but some of the scout leaders will be there.

Our den leader is encouraging all the boys to go,
:oldunsure:
Figured I'd get some of these responses. Guy is a friend of ours, not stereotypical creepy scout guy.
Hint: They never are. That's how they do it.
"Oh, yeah! That guy always weirded me out. Honestly, I'm shocked it took this long to find out he was playin' Lambeau with the little ones. I figured he'd be on the news a decade or so ago. I called the cops three times myself."
I know not this reference.
http://forums.footballguys.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=357465&page=2#entry7561726

 
Parents do not go, but some of the scout leaders will be there.

Our den leader is encouraging all the boys to go,
:oldunsure:
Figured I'd get some of these responses. Guy is a friend of ours, not stereotypical creepy scout guy.
Hint: They never are. That's how they do it.
"Oh, yeah! That guy always weirded me out. Honestly, I'm shocked it took this long to find out he was playin' Lambeau with the little ones. I figured he'd be on the news a decade or so ago. I called the cops three times myself."
I know not this reference.
I think he's saying that all Packer fans are kid-touchers.

I have no problem with this statement.
I would NEVER say that all Bears fans have a kielbasa lodged in their left anterior descending artery.

 
One of our attorneys has an out of office message that says he won't be returning to the office until July.

News to the rest of us, particularly since he has a trial in June.

 
One of our attorneys has an out of office message that says he won't be returning to the office until July.

News to the rest of us, particularly since he has a trial in June.
The time would match the FMLA 12 week limit. Could be a sudden personal thing that came up and they just haven't filtered it around yet.

 

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