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'Homer J Simpson said:
'Sconch said:
'Homer J Simpson said:
'Disco Stu said:
Wait a second... didn't Bentley buy a ####### school bus??
Wait, people can just buy a school bus? OMG, I'm gonna have to work up a whole new routine. :pickle:
:lmao: oh crapFirst image that popped into my head
They'll just get on my friggin' bus!!! I won't even have to do anything!!!
How are ya, Brian? Morning, Lisa. Good to see ya, Tommy! Hey good morning, Kyle! Nice new backpack! Watch your step now, Joseph...
 
So I drive Mr. krista out of the house by turning on The Bachelorette, but not before we had this conversation:MK4: "You're the smartest person I know; how can you possibly watch this?"Me: "But you watch all kinds of crappy movies?!?!"MK4: "Yeah, but this show doesn't even have a single zombie or exorcism in it."
Me = owned.
 
'Homer J Simpson said:
'Sconch said:
'Homer J Simpson said:
'Disco Stu said:
Wait a second... didn't Bentley buy a ####### school bus??
Wait, people can just buy a school bus? OMG, I'm gonna have to work up a whole new routine. :pickle:
:lmao: oh crapFirst image that popped into my head
They'll just get on my friggin' bus!!! I won't even have to do anything!!!
How are ya, Brian? Morning, Lisa. Good to see ya, Tommy! Hey good morning, Kyle! Nice new backpack! Watch your step now, Joseph...
jfc :lmao:
 
'Bob Sacamano said:
I suspect he's carrying a bag full of leeches and intends to sell my plasma on the open market. But he'll be shocked to discover I'm undead and will treat his brains like a single bag of fruit snacks sitting in the middle of an unsupervised pre-school class.
 
Very exciting. I just got this message on FB from "Adolphus Schweizer7"

Subject: hiya

hello Jack. you appear good.

message me at awesomegirl777@hotmail.com for my personal personalized images

Not only does Adolphus have a picture of a hot chick in his/her profile as well as what would appear to be a girl's email but s/he is offering to send me personal personalized messages.

 
Very exciting. I just got this message on FB from "Adolphus Schweizer7"

Subject: hiya

hello Jack. you appear good.

message me at awesomegirl777@hotmail.com for my personal personalized images

Not only does Adolphus have a picture of a hot chick in his/her profile as well as what would appear to be a girl's email but s/he is offering to send me personal personalized messages.
:can't-lose:
 
'Aaron Rudnicki said:
'General Malaise said:
'St. Louis Bob said:
'General Malaise said:
Amos Lee: Worth my time or uber pony tail feely?
Clueless to what this means.
Ditto this....wha?
I think he means he had no idea what or who an Amos Lee is. Same here.
What about all the threesome talk? He lost me.
WTF, you got me on ignore or something?I was kind of loaded and typing from my phone.

1. After dinner with Mrs. SLB we stopped at my GB's for some conversation and cocktails.

2. We've been GB's since we were 8, he's been with a lot of women (hundreds?) over his life time. He's never been married. He is now engaged to a woman with two kids, 12 & 15 that are now living with him.

3. While the 4 of us were casually sipping wine, I kept making jokes about him leaving so I could rail his fiance and Mrs. SLB at the same time. His fiance said exclaimed they haven't had sex in a month and welcomed my advances. I almost fell out of my chair.

I really don't what to think but he probably shouldn't have bought her such a big ring.

 
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'Aaron Rudnicki said:
'General Malaise said:
'St. Louis Bob said:
'General Malaise said:
Amos Lee: Worth my time or uber pony tail feely?
Clueless to what this means.
Ditto this....wha?
I think he means he had no idea what or who an Amos Lee is. Same here.
What about all the threesome talk? He lost me.
WTF, you got me on ignore or something?I was kind of loaded and typing from my phone.

1. After dinner with Mrs. SLB we stopped at my GB's for some conversation and cocktails.

2. We've been GB's since we were 8, he's been with a lot of women (hundreds?) over his life time. He's never been married. He is now engaged to a woman with two kids, 12 & 15 that are now living with him.

3. While the 4 of us were casually sipping wine, I kept making jokes about him leaving so I could rail his fiance and Mrs. SLB at the same time. His fiance said exclaimed they haven't had sex in a month and welcomed my advances. I almost fell out of my chair.

I really don't what to think but he probably shouldn't have bought her such a big ring.
Does her name rhyme with Festiney?
 
'Aaron Rudnicki said:
'General Malaise said:
'St. Louis Bob said:
'General Malaise said:
Amos Lee: Worth my time or uber pony tail feely?
Clueless to what this means.
Ditto this....wha?
I think he means he had no idea what or who an Amos Lee is. Same here.
What about all the threesome talk? He lost me.
WTF, you got me on ignore or something?I was kind of loaded and typing from my phone.

1. After dinner with Mrs. SLB we stopped at my GB's for some conversation and cocktails.

2. We've been GB's since we were 8, he's been with a lot of women (hundreds?) over his life time. He's never been married. He is now engaged to a woman with two kids, 12 & 15 that are now living with him.

3. While the 4 of us were casually sipping wine, I kept making jokes about him leaving so I could rail his fiance and Mrs. SLB at the same time. His fiance said exclaimed they haven't had sex in a month and welcomed my advances. I almost fell out of my chair.

I really don't what to think but he probably shouldn't have bought her such a big ring.
Does her name rhyme with Festiney?
No but it should. :lmao: He'll be 41 this October and got this crazy idea that he would like to have kids. She agreed, they got engaged, she has second thoughts.

What kills me is his previous girlfriend was cute, funny, liked to drink, has a good job, owns a house and has never been married or had kids. She's also 33. He dumped her because she wanted to get married. :mellow: I have to admit I considered making a play and kicking Mrs. SLB.

 
'Aaron Rudnicki said:
'General Malaise said:
'St. Louis Bob said:
'General Malaise said:
Amos Lee: Worth my time or uber pony tail feely?
Clueless to what this means.
Ditto this....wha?
I think he means he had no idea what or who an Amos Lee is. Same here.
What about all the threesome talk? He lost me.
WTF, you got me on ignore or something?I was kind of loaded and typing from my phone.

1. After dinner with Mrs. SLB we stopped at my GB's for some conversation and cocktails.

2. We've been GB's since we were 8, he's been with a lot of women (hundreds?) over his life time. He's never been married. He is now engaged to a woman with two kids, 12 & 15 that are now living with him.

3. While the 4 of us were casually sipping wine, I kept making jokes about him leaving so I could rail his fiance and Mrs. SLB at the same time. His fiance said exclaimed they haven't had sex in a month and welcomed my advances. I almost fell out of my chair.

I really don't what to think but he probably shouldn't have bought her such a big ring.
Does her name rhyme with Festiney?
No but it should. :lmao: He'll be 41 this October and got this crazy idea that he would like to have kids. She agreed, they got engaged, she has second thoughts.

What kills me is his previous girlfriend was cute, funny, liked to drink, has a good job, owns a house and has never been married or had kids. She's also 33. He dumped her because she wanted to get married. :mellow: I have to admit I considered making a play and kicking Mrs. SLB.
You mean for sport?
 
Life can be odd.

Background: 2.5 - 3 years ago, I interviewed for a Director level position that really interested me (in the beer industry :beer:). I didn't get it as I didn't have quite enough directly relevant experience.

I ended up with the job for the company that I had to close down last summer. When I was in the process of shutting that business down, I emailed the President of the beer company and asked how their new hire was working out, that I'd gained some more direct experience and would be interested in chatting again if things worked out that way. I never heard back.

Just last week, I was surfing around and decided to look them up again and see if they still had the same Director (they did). Just a random thing. I made no contact nor did I do it via Linked In where they could see who was looking at their profiles.

Just today, I got an email from the President with just one line - "Still interested?" Given my additional experience and contacts I've made in my new job here in Seattle, I think this job is pretty much mine if I want it.

Pros:

Director level

Good salary (better straight salary than I make now, kind of)

Interesting business

Back in Denver, where I still own a house

Cons:

Would be sacrificing a very large stock award and likely future large stock awards by leaving current job early.

Would burn some bridges with my current Fortune 100 (soon Fortune 50) company

Back in Denver after we've made the move here

If this was a year from now or 9 months ago, it would be perfect. Now, not so much. :kicksrock:

 
Life can be odd.Background: 2.5 - 3 years ago, I interviewed for a Director level position that really interested me (in the beer industry :beer:). I didn't get it as I didn't have quite enough directly relevant experience.I ended up with the job for the company that I had to close down last summer. When I was in the process of shutting that business down, I emailed the President of the beer company and asked how their new hire was working out, that I'd gained some more direct experience and would be interested in chatting again if things worked out that way. I never heard back.Just last week, I was surfing around and decided to look them up again and see if they still had the same Director (they did). Just a random thing. I made no contact nor did I do it via Linked In where they could see who was looking at their profiles.Just today, I got an email from the President with just one line - "Still interested?" Given my additional experience and contacts I've made in my new job here in Seattle, I think this job is pretty much mine if I want it. Pros:Director levelGood salary (better straight salary than I make now, kind of)Interesting businessBack in Denver, where I still own a houseCons:Would be sacrificing a very large stock award and likely future large stock awards by leaving current job early.Would burn some bridges with my current Fortune 100 (soon Fortune 50) companyBack in Denver after we've made the move hereIf this was a year from now or 9 months ago, it would be perfect. Now, not so much. :kicksrock:
Figure out which position and location would make you and your family happiest long-term and make your decision based on that. Money will come and go. Making long-term decisions based on short-term reasoning is a losing game. I get what you're saying, but if it would be a good idea a year from now, it's tough to believe it's a bad idea now.
 
Almost forgot: Which city is more likely to let you off the hook for shooting a guy with a crowbar in the face? That's apparently an important factor these days.

 
Life can be odd.Background: 2.5 - 3 years ago, I interviewed for a Director level position that really interested me (in the beer industry :beer:). I didn't get it as I didn't have quite enough directly relevant experience.I ended up with the job for the company that I had to close down last summer. When I was in the process of shutting that business down, I emailed the President of the beer company and asked how their new hire was working out, that I'd gained some more direct experience and would be interested in chatting again if things worked out that way. I never heard back.Just last week, I was surfing around and decided to look them up again and see if they still had the same Director (they did). Just a random thing. I made no contact nor did I do it via Linked In where they could see who was looking at their profiles.Just today, I got an email from the President with just one line - "Still interested?" Given my additional experience and contacts I've made in my new job here in Seattle, I think this job is pretty much mine if I want it. Pros:Director levelGood salary (better straight salary than I make now, kind of)Interesting businessBack in Denver, where I still own a houseCons:Would be sacrificing a very large stock award and likely future large stock awards by leaving current job early.Would burn some bridges with my current Fortune 100 (soon Fortune 50) companyBack in Denver after we've made the move hereIf this was a year from now or 9 months ago, it would be perfect. Now, not so much. :kicksrock:
Figure out which position and location would make you and your family happiest long-term and make your decision based on that. Money will come and go. Making long-term decisions based on short-term reasoning is a losing game. I get what you're saying, but if it would be a good idea a year from now, it's tough to believe it's a bad idea now.
Phil Donahue?
You mean for sport?
Somebody needs to.
Is she depressed? They have a cure for that now.
Mrs. SLB or my GB's fiance?
 
Never really did get around to finishing The Wedding Diaries as I tend to excel at starting tasks without ever finishing them, but I also struggled trying to capture everything that happened on the big day. It just seemed too cumbersome to tackle and I never could get a good start.

But I'd like to write about the past weekend, which marked our one year anniversary, because as I sit here on Tuesday morning, I'm still smiling and feel like reliving it instead of working. It'll be long and drawn out and probably not very interesting, but I'm going to recap it all the same.

So, I'll preface this by saying that May was a pretty rough month for us, with crushing news that my wife's managerial job was being pulled from her hitting us just a few days before she suffered a miscarriage. Needless to say, there were many nights in the month of May that were full of tears, sorrow and doubts. I pride myself on making other people feel better and laugh, but for about a week and a half, I felt nothing but helpless and powerless to make my wife happy and it sucked. It was a very stressful time, though I know our problems pale in comparison to people living in Tornado Ally or families with severe illnesses or financial burdens that are sinking them.

Despite knowing that our anniversary was looming, I hadn't planned anything in advance because...well, because I procrastinate like a college sophomore and didn't really know what kind of mood we would be in to celebrate. But at the last minute, and armed with the knowledge that my ex-wife offered to take the boys all weekend, including Monday night, I decided to act. I wanted to get out of town, go somewhere, clear the head, make my wife laugh again. I thought about wine country and the coast, but hotels were expensive and rooms were scarce. And then it hit me - let's go to Seattle! :excited: I pulled up Priceline, threw in a bid of $109 for a 4-star hotel in downtown Seattle and as luck would have it, my bid was accepted and plans were put into motion.

We departed Sunday morning, stopping first at Salty's for 10:45am brunch, one of the best in the city and with great views of the Columbia River. My parents gave us a $100 gift card here for Xmas and I was waiting for the perfect time to use it. This was it. Upon greeting us with a "Happy Anniversary", the hostess sat us upstairs at a corner table, with a great view over the river. We ordered bottomless mimosas from the uber gay waiter and then headed back downstairs to attack the food options. I hit the omelet station first, going with bacon, ham, three cheeses, jalapenos, salsa and added to that about 20 peel 'n' eat shrimps and some crawfish. Wife came back with crispy French toast, a plate full of crab legs and an omlet as well. Round 1 was sensational and I furiously devoured the shrimp fast enough to elicit a "Hey Forrest, the ocean just called and they are running out of shrimp" from my lovely wife. Perfect. :thumbup: After that, I hit the bacon, sausage, carving station, salmon and potatoes. She came back with 6 or 7 HUGE strawberries covered in chocolate from their flowing chocolate fountain. It was an orgy of a feast and the mimosas flowed like the river below us. All told, we probably lasted a full hour there before waving the flag and surrendering like the French. I turned down a final round of mimosas, settled up with Serge and we headed north to Seattle.

Armed with fresh coffee, a full belly and plenty of great tunes, we made the 3 hour drive in about 2 hours and 35 minutes. Our first stop was Novelty Hill/Januick Winery, where we met up with my old buddy Petty and his wife Lauren. Novelty Hill has a great tasting room - very modern looking with sleek architecture and really good wines. They also have a well maintained bocce ball court, which was our main purpose for going here first. We decided to play boys vs. girls and had a great time catching up and tossing balls. In fact, we had so much fun that we drew the attention of 3 Silver Haired foxes who decided to sit near the court and heckle us as we played. One of the gals had a hunched back and moved around like Marty Feldman in Young Frankenstein. She took an immediate liking to me and didn't seem to care that my wife was right next to me. Finally, the cougars' husbands came outside and told their wives to leave us alone, but not before I could give Hunchie a link to Gadzook's facebook page.

After a rousing game where the men dominated the women, we took the party up the road to another tasting room and enjoyed some nice red blends from Brian Carter. From there, we made plans for the night which included meeting up at the hotel bar at 7pm and partying up on Capitol Hill. The wife and I then drove to our hotel and checked in at the Renaissance Downtown. I told the guy who checked us in that it was our anniversary and he upgraded us to a corner suite on the 9th floor. Total score! This room was awesome. Great views, lots of windows, big old bed and just a complete steal for $109.

Now, I can count on one hand the number of sexy times we've had since the end of March due to a number of circumstances and the last few weeks have been absolutely out for lovemaking for reasons I'll spare you, but on Sunday, I gave my wife the best 49 seconds of loving she has ever had at the Renaissance Inn in downtown Seattle on the 9th floor on a Sunday. Although if you ever stay there, I'd avoid the hand towels for removing make-up or shaving gel. :unsure:

We met the other couple at the hotel bar, threw down a quick drink and walked up the hill to a bowling alley where again, the boys squared off against the gals. We dusted them in the first game, then went couple vs. couple in the second and lost badly. My lady usually carries my sorry butt in bolwing, but she couldn't roll straight. I'm guessing the lay-off from booze plus the long day of drinking plus leg-shaking love making at the hands of a pro must have adversely affected her game. We got destroyed, even though I bowled a blistering 120. :chestbump:. After that, we had dinner and more drinks at a nearby Mexican joint and the night was full of laughs and good times. Despite the fact that we were maybe a 10 minute walk back to the hotel, we flagged down a cab and paid him $5 to drive us back. A nice long deep sleep followed and it felt great.

I had the great idea of opening up all the curtains on all the windows to enjoy the skyline at night. This of course backfired when the sun began cooking us at 5:30am. At 7am, I bounced up and began handicapping the horse races at Emerald Downs. She slept in until almost 10am. We got ready and strolled down to the Farmer's Market on Pike Street and had a late breakfast with bloody marry's. Seattle is one steep hill after another and getting around on foot can be tough...especially if you are in flip flops like the two of us were. But we were having too much fun to complain and decided to take the party over to Alki Beach and walk up and down the boardwalk there. She'd never seen that area of Seattle and it's probably one of my favorite neighborhoods in the country. Just a little slice of SoCal in the Pacific Northwest. Love it. Had a tropical drink at Bambooza's, sat outside and people watched, then made our way to Emerald Downs for some horse racing. We had to park about a mile and a half away from the track, but we walked it and had a great time laughing at the colorful characters bustling around the area. Nothing like a horse track to bring out the crazies.

Well, I'd like to say this was a profitable day at the track, but it wasn't. The horses just weren't kind to us and we went away losers. Walked all the way back to the car and realized we had probably walked over 5 miles total on the day....all in flip flops. Not one complaint by her. What a gal. I stopped off for coffee on the way home and drained it. About 3/4 of the way back to Portland I realized I had to take a leak. I figured I'd just hold it. I've always been a great pee holder. I used to think I could outlast anybody. I learned the hard way that I cannot do that anymore. The pressure was building and I began to frantically look for an exit. It was still way to light out to stop on the highway and cops were ALL OVER I-5 yesterday. I suddenly realized I wasn't going to make it if I didn't pull over somewhere, so I took the very next exit and drove around looking for a gas station or a fast food joint...anything with a toilet. There was nothing. And sadly, the dam was breaking. I finally found a junk yard with a gated off entry and pulled the car into the front of it. I threw open the door, went down on two knees and just let it fly. I was hoping the car would shield me from traffic that was zooming along this auxiliary road. But I was wide out in the open and this was one of those long pees that just wasn't going to stop. I must have peed for 2 minutes at least, all in front of my wife who was laughing hysterically. I ended up peeing all over my leg too. What an embarrassment. What a cool guy I am. At least now I know I can't hold my pees as long as I used to. My control apparatus no longer functions like it did when I was a younger man. Hard lesson to learn.

Anyhow, I know this was long and not all that interesting, but it was nice to have a weekend where we just laughed and goofed off and didn't feel stressed out or sad. Just felt like sharing instead of working. One year in to this marraige and all I can hope for is many many more....with her. Not anybody else(s). :unsure:

 
Life can be odd.Background: 2.5 - 3 years ago, I interviewed for a Director level position that really interested me (in the beer industry :beer:). I didn't get it as I didn't have quite enough directly relevant experience.I ended up with the job for the company that I had to close down last summer. When I was in the process of shutting that business down, I emailed the President of the beer company and asked how their new hire was working out, that I'd gained some more direct experience and would be interested in chatting again if things worked out that way. I never heard back.Just last week, I was surfing around and decided to look them up again and see if they still had the same Director (they did). Just a random thing. I made no contact nor did I do it via Linked In where they could see who was looking at their profiles.Just today, I got an email from the President with just one line - "Still interested?" Given my additional experience and contacts I've made in my new job here in Seattle, I think this job is pretty much mine if I want it. Pros:Director levelGood salary (better straight salary than I make now, kind of)Interesting businessBack in Denver, where I still own a houseCons:Would be sacrificing a very large stock award and likely future large stock awards by leaving current job early.Would burn some bridges with my current Fortune 100 (soon Fortune 50) companyBack in Denver after we've made the move hereIf this was a year from now or 9 months ago, it would be perfect. Now, not so much. :kicksrock:
Figure out which position and location would make you and your family happiest long-term and make your decision based on that. Money will come and go. Making long-term decisions based on short-term reasoning is a losing game. I get what you're saying, but if it would be a good idea a year from now, it's tough to believe it's a bad idea now.
Phil Donahue?
Bob Sacamano. Rush Chair. Damn glad to meet you.
 
Life can be odd.Background: 2.5 - 3 years ago, I interviewed for a Director level position that really interested me (in the beer industry :beer:). I didn't get it as I didn't have quite enough directly relevant experience.I ended up with the job for the company that I had to close down last summer. When I was in the process of shutting that business down, I emailed the President of the beer company and asked how their new hire was working out, that I'd gained some more direct experience and would be interested in chatting again if things worked out that way. I never heard back.Just last week, I was surfing around and decided to look them up again and see if they still had the same Director (they did). Just a random thing. I made no contact nor did I do it via Linked In where they could see who was looking at their profiles.Just today, I got an email from the President with just one line - "Still interested?" Given my additional experience and contacts I've made in my new job here in Seattle, I think this job is pretty much mine if I want it. Pros:Director levelGood salary (better straight salary than I make now, kind of)Interesting businessBack in Denver, where I still own a houseCons:Would be sacrificing a very large stock award and likely future large stock awards by leaving current job early.Would burn some bridges with my current Fortune 100 (soon Fortune 50) companyBack in Denver after we've made the move hereIf this was a year from now or 9 months ago, it would be perfect. Now, not so much. :kicksrock:
One is going to make you happy now. The other might make you happy at some point down the road. Seems pretty easy to me.
 
Is the Salty's down there owned by the same people as Salty's on Alki? They do the big fancy brunches as well.

I also wish I had taken my kid over to Alki yesterday so I could've seen a pasty looking dude and maybe approached you by asking if you were GM from the internet

 
Life can be odd.Background: 2.5 - 3 years ago, I interviewed for a Director level position that really interested me (in the beer industry :beer:). I didn't get it as I didn't have quite enough directly relevant experience.I ended up with the job for the company that I had to close down last summer. When I was in the process of shutting that business down, I emailed the President of the beer company and asked how their new hire was working out, that I'd gained some more direct experience and would be interested in chatting again if things worked out that way. I never heard back.Just last week, I was surfing around and decided to look them up again and see if they still had the same Director (they did). Just a random thing. I made no contact nor did I do it via Linked In where they could see who was looking at their profiles.Just today, I got an email from the President with just one line - "Still interested?" Given my additional experience and contacts I've made in my new job here in Seattle, I think this job is pretty much mine if I want it. Pros:Director levelGood salary (better straight salary than I make now, kind of)Interesting businessBack in Denver, where I still own a houseCons:Would be sacrificing a very large stock award and likely future large stock awards by leaving current job early.Would burn some bridges with my current Fortune 100 (soon Fortune 50) companyBack in Denver after we've made the move hereIf this was a year from now or 9 months ago, it would be perfect. Now, not so much. :kicksrock:
One is going to make you happy now. The other might make you happy at some point down the road. Seems pretty easy to me.
True enough. The down the road one also probably has more future potential in general. The main problem is that leaving this company now will damage not only my reputation with one of the fastest growing big companies in the world, but could damage my career in general should I be viewed as a job hopper with a new job being my 4th in 2.5 years (largely out of my control).Also, we like Seattle a lot, my MIL just moved up here to be closer to her grandkids and there are some great resources here for my son (slow to develop communication skills at 2+ for those of you with incomplete notebooks). I'm certainly not un-happy presently.
 
True enough. The down the road one also probably has more future potential in general. The main problem is that leaving this company now will damage not only my reputation with one of the fastest growing big companies in the world, but could damage my career in general should I be viewed as a job hopper with a new job being my 4th in 2.5 years (largely out of my control).Also, we like Seattle a lot, my MIL just moved up here to be closer to her grandkids and there are some great resources here for my son (slow to develop communication skills at 2+ for those of you with incomplete notebooks). I'm certainly not un-happy presently.
If you get another interview in the future you can explain the reasoning for the job hops. People should understand. If you get an interview in the near future, well...yeah, you're a job hopper.The MIL is something to consider. Would she move back to Denver?
 
Life can be odd.Background: 2.5 - 3 years ago, I interviewed for a Director level position that really interested me (in the beer industry :beer:). I didn't get it as I didn't have quite enough directly relevant experience.I ended up with the job for the company that I had to close down last summer. When I was in the process of shutting that business down, I emailed the President of the beer company and asked how their new hire was working out, that I'd gained some more direct experience and would be interested in chatting again if things worked out that way. I never heard back.Just last week, I was surfing around and decided to look them up again and see if they still had the same Director (they did). Just a random thing. I made no contact nor did I do it via Linked In where they could see who was looking at their profiles.Just today, I got an email from the President with just one line - "Still interested?" Given my additional experience and contacts I've made in my new job here in Seattle, I think this job is pretty much mine if I want it. Pros:Director levelGood salary (better straight salary than I make now, kind of)Interesting businessBack in Denver, where I still own a houseCons:Would be sacrificing a very large stock award and likely future large stock awards by leaving current job early.Would burn some bridges with my current Fortune 100 (soon Fortune 50) companyBack in Denver after we've made the move hereIf this was a year from now or 9 months ago, it would be perfect. Now, not so much. :kicksrock:
One is going to make you happy now. The other might make you happy at some point down the road. Seems pretty easy to me.
True enough. The down the road one also probably has more future potential in general. The main problem is that leaving this company now will damage not only my reputation with one of the fastest growing big companies in the world, but could damage my career in general should I be viewed as a job hopper with a new job being my 4th in 2.5 years (largely out of my control).Also, we like Seattle a lot, my MIL just moved up here to be closer to her grandkids and there are some great resources here for my son (slow to develop communication skills at 2+ for those of you with incomplete notebooks). I'm certainly not un-happy presently.
If you decide to stick with what you've got, I'd think a very heartfelt, "Dear Mr. President, I appreciate the opportunity, but since we last corresponded, I've made a commitment to another employer that I feel I have to honor, etc," would be in order. If you've got Marilyn Monroe boobs to flaunt, that probably wouldn't hurt. At which position do you think you'd be more successful? Happier? If you stick with the next one long-term, you don't have to worry about the past job hopping.
 
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Good stuff, GB. Glad to hear things are on the upswing. Though I am greatly disturbed by the drinking and driving in your story. :mellow:
Lack of taxiis brought a tear to my eye.
All my cash was gone for the night, so I had to ask each cab driver if they took visa. The cab ride came to $5 total. :lmao: I was sitting in the front as I like to do and when I opened my wallet to get my debit card, he saw a bunch of Canadian currency in there and said "What's that" and I told him Canadian cash and he said he took that and would prefer it. So I gave him a $10 Canadian and I think both of us felt like they got a good deal. :unsure:
 
GM, thanks so much for sharing. I kind of pieced together what was happening with you based on your posting in this thread that one night. Meant to send a PM but selfishly got caught up in my own stuff around then (except for posting on your FB page on my wedding night :bag: ). Glad to hear that you and your wife seem to be on the mend.

You made the weekend sound amazing. I have only been to the Pacific NW one time, and that was at the tail end of a cross country road trip with three of my guy friends. We camped out at each stop and tried to eat Taco Bell for every meal. You can imagine the state of our car as we flew through Kansas like Pigpen on rollerskates. By the time we reached Portland, my body's defense mechanisms were in full effect and I was only taking in about 15% oxygen - thereby not really able to enjoy the area.

Were it not for what has become a debilitating fear of flying, I would book a couple of tickets to Seattle and do almost everything you mentioned. I used to fly weekly for work, and while it's always been a fear, I got used to it somehow. I even used to take one trip per year to a country or countries I had yet to visit. Now that I don't fly as often, it has become an actual hindrance. I tried my damnedest to convince Mr. YSR that we should road trip from Acapulco to Jacksonville after our three flights there.

If any of you has suggestions on flying fears, it would be appreciated. I have a sincere interest in travel but am petrified by the idea of flight.

But thanks, again, for recounting your wonderful weekend. Really happy for you.

 
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I used to fly weekly for work, and while it's always been a fear, I got used to it somehow.
So what happened that it's debilitating now? Seems like most people who have an intense fear never get to this stage, but you've already basically conquered it once already.
 
On my way to a mixer thing for people in the bridal business. But this isn't for the association that is run by the total jaggle that I want to throat punch so it could be decent. That being said if there isn't free food and booze I'm going to dung on the floor in protest.

 
I used to fly weekly for work, and while it's always been a fear, I got used to it somehow.
So what happened that it's debilitating now? Seems like most people who have an intense fear never get to this stage, but you've already basically conquered it once already.
From a neoro-pathway perspective it is very easy to mindlessly get used to something but you haven't rerouted your neural pathways so its still very likely that any phobia will come rushing back to you at some point. You have to do things mindfully to change things for the better.
 
I used to fly weekly for work, and while it's always been a fear, I got used to it somehow.
So what happened that it's debilitating now? Seems like most people who have an intense fear never get to this stage, but you've already basically conquered it once already.
From a neoro-pathway perspective it is very easy to mindlessly get used to something but you haven't rerouted your neural pathways so its still very likely that any phobia will come rushing back to you at some point. You have to do things mindfully to change things for the better.
Look at this freaking guy.
 
I used to fly weekly for work, and while it's always been a fear, I got used to it somehow.
So what happened that it's debilitating now? Seems like most people who have an intense fear never get to this stage, but you've already basically conquered it once already.
From a neoro-pathway perspective it is very easy to mindlessly get used to something but you haven't rerouted your neural pathways so its still very likely that any phobia will come rushing back to you at some point. You have to do things mindfully to change things for the better.
Look at this freaking guy.
:lmao:
 
Glad for you GM. Sounds like a great weekend, other than pissing yourself in full view of your bride and most of Centralia. :D

 
I used to fly weekly for work, and while it's always been a fear, I got used to it somehow.
So what happened that it's debilitating now? Seems like most people who have an intense fear never get to this stage, but you've already basically conquered it once already.
From a neoro-pathway perspective it is very easy to mindlessly get used to something but you haven't rerouted your neural pathways so its still very likely that any phobia will come rushing back to you at some point. You have to do things mindfully to change things for the better.
Look at this freaking guy.
I think he said "cut the blue wire."
 
sorry to hear about the bad month GM. Done the miscarriage thing before, and I know how bad it sucks. Glad things look like they're on the way up :thumbup:

 

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